What's worse being raped? or being falsely accused of rape?

[Westie]

A nigga who I'm guessing has never been raped just told me I can't comment on the thread about being raped

You fucking kidding me?

 

[Dupac]

U CANT COMPARE THE TWO...

you can compare anything,

it's a debate....they both are about rape... so we're having a discussion

You really can't compare this. They are both definitely violations of your life. One is a violation of the most personal intimate level though, and I'm sure most men can't relate to having your body physically being forced inside of. As I'm sure as women most of us can't relate to having a false rape charge against you. One's a lot more likely to happen than the other though.

so you can compare them

Okay the way you feel about yourself vs. The way other people feel about you? Which one would you rather feel better about?

i would feel better about how i feel about myself... but if someone chooses to hurt me as a result, that immediate danger takes precedence over any feelings i may have..

i don't give a shit how i feel about myself if someone is coming after me with a gun off of a lie

 

[Westie]

Btw @BOSSExcellence that was a specific question I do know history, I know how it's gone and I have already said it is fucked up and I didn't even say one is worse than the other I said they can't be compared. You are the one comparing and saying one you haven't experienced isn't as bad as the other one.

 

[CapitalB]

A nigga who I'm guessing has never been raped just told me I can't comment on the thread about being raped

You fucking kidding me?

a "rape VERSUS bein accused of rape" thread..

ur obviously bias..

speak all u want in an ACTUAL rape AND RAPE ONLY THREAD..

 

[Rasta.]

Lol the usual suspects

I'm mad now and I definitely asked for this. Appropriate.

I don't know why do this to yourself hon lol

 

[BangEm_Bart]

Depends if it was by the same sex or opposite. I could let a chick raping me slide.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

Niggas serious with this?

An accusation is worse than an act now

 

[Westie]

U CANT COMPARE THE TWO...

you can compare anything,

it's a debate....they both are about rape... so we're having a discussion

You really can't compare this. They are both definitely violations of your life. One is a violation of the most personal intimate level though, and I'm sure most men can't relate to having your body physically being forced inside of. As I'm sure as women most of us can't relate to having a false rape charge against you. One's a lot more likely to happen than the other though.

so you can compare them

Okay the way you feel about yourself vs. The way other people feel about you? Which one would you rather feel better about?

i would feel better about how i feel about myself... but if someone chooses to hurt me as a result, that immediate danger takes precedence over any feelings i may have..

i don't give a shit how i feel about myself if someone is coming after me with a gun off of a lie

But you are saying as long as you didn't get physically violated you would rather pick the option where you aren't fucked up inside. Like I said rape is a physical violation every time. Not every man who gets falsely accused of raping a woman gets his ass beat.

 

[Jabu_Rule]

i cant call it....

being raped would be giving up all power and you are forced to bend to someones will and they control you , your body for their own sick desires until they are done.

being accused falsely.. you are living with someones lie and forced to defend yourself against something you didnt do and people wont believe you because why would someone lie like that. it can grow to your family and they can be affected too and carry that burden as well. you would literally have to relocate otherwise it will always be in the back of your mind that someone is whispering. you'd be afraid to trust people and visa versa. an thats if you didnt get put in a cell because of this.

It's worked like that on the flip side too. This girl i messed with said she was raped when she was a kid. Dude snuck in the bathroom while she was taking a shower. He was a family friend. Even though he ran for the hills, her family still didn't believe her and said she wanted it. Same with my moms and my sister. My Great grandmother can't make accusations because she was raped and killed. Sometimes females are denied no matter what. For men, it's even worse, because no man wants to admit that it happened to him (especially if it went down in prison).

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Maybe accused cuz you get sent to jail and raped and you didn't even do nothing.

 

[Jabu_Rule]

You need a third option though bruh.

 

[Westie]

A nigga who I'm guessing has never been raped just told me I can't comment on the thread about being raped

You fucking kidding me?

a "rape VERSUS bein accused of rape" thread..

ur obviously bias..

speak all u want in an ACTUAL rape AND RAPE ONLY THREAD..

So you've been raped and accused of rape then?

 

[Dupac]

Rape is physical. Accusation is verbal.

retaliation can absolutely be physical,

and if you're raped in prison for a crime you didn't commit, because niggaz love raping rapist....that's physical as well....

there are many consequences that need to go into consideration here../.

Okay rape is always physical is retaliation always physical? Are men always raped in jail after they've been falsely accused of rape?

nothing is absolute.....

but you're suggesting the possibility of violence not happening completely trumps the validity of argument?

that's basically saying it's only cheating if you get caught.....if no one ever catches consequences there's no crime....

and for your own argument, you're even suggesting that if a rape isn't reported then it's the same thing as it never happeneing

 

[StillFaggyAF]

U can't take back a rape

 

[CapitalB]

A nigga who I'm guessing has never been raped just told me I can't comment on the thread about being raped

You fucking kidding me?

a "rape VERSUS bein accused of rape" thread..

ur obviously bias..

speak all u want in an ACTUAL rape AND RAPE ONLY THREAD..

So you've been raped and accused of rape then?

no but iv had both happen to people close to me..

and iv seen the RAMIFICATIONS..

 

[CapitalB]

U can't take back a rape

u cant take back a conviction either..

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

also there's this.....

if someone raped a loved one of yours...you're going to immediately wish the most unspeakable punishment on that person possible....thoughts and hatred will spawn from a place that you didnt even know existed.. if that persons was stabbed and their entrails were stretched out and they were tortured to within an inch of their life and then left there to suffer till their hearts gave out... if they're a rapist....most people will green light that shit....

now if that person is innocent...and you already either wished or even acted on that hatred.....you cannot take that shit back,,,,

now you gotta live with that shit that you know was inside you that you may never have even thought considered before....and have to think about what that says about you and the kind of person you are....

shit gets deep bruh.....to the point where i asked my self the question is accusation really worse?

You aint SHIT! Yall see what this nigga Du did? He opened the thread talkin bout "I give rape the slight edge," but what if you got the death penalty? What if your family hated you? What if you got banned from all public libraries? What if your mom had to put up her house for sale to post your bail and ended up at a homeless shelter where she was... raped. It's almost like being falsely accused of rape can cause rape.

Du aint shit.

 

[Westie]

A nigga who I'm guessing has never been raped just told me I can't comment on the thread about being raped

You fucking kidding me?

a "rape VERSUS bein accused of rape" thread..

ur obviously bias..

speak all u want in an ACTUAL rape AND RAPE ONLY THREAD..

So you've been raped and accused of rape then?

no but iv had both happen to people close to me..

and iv seen the RAMIFICATIONS..

You've seen actual ramifications from somebody's life because you can see that. You can see someone getting affected by outside influences. Like I said I'm not even comparing the two I don't think they're comprable they're both fucked up equally fucked up though I don't know? I have a right to an opinion just like you never having been through anything personally.

 

[StillFaggyAF]

id nevwr wish rape on someone..

and i wish a nigga would ATTEMPT to rape me..

but for the sake of argument say he succeeded i have a daughter.. i have a life i built and worked extremely hard for..

u think imma jus give up on life because of that!?

but let a bitch accuse me of rape and im left witout even a choice in the matter..

sorry..

im stickin wit my original choice..

don't ever say that again

 

[_Lefty]

Rape is a death sentence. Flat out. I wouldn't really want to stand over somebody and keep shooting if my son was falsely accused of rape.

If somebody rapes my daughter or son and the police catch him. I'm puttin up his bond money. I gotta see homie myself.

I ain't talkin about gettin inebriated and gettin fucked either, i'm talkin about forcibly violating the victim, especially if it's a young child.

If that's the case, everything is on the table. Everything. Fuck is wrong wit you niggas.