What's worse being raped? or being falsely accused of rape?

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Both are bad but being raped has to edge out being accused of rape.

but what if being accused of rape leads to you getting raped?

Obviously being accused of rape is worse. I mean, you could potentially end up in jail where you could get raped.

You can't even make this shit up

 

[Dupac]

Both are bad but being raped has to edge out being accused of rape.

but what if being accused of rape leads to you getting raped?

Obviously being accused of rape is worse. I mean, you could potentially end up in jail where you could get raped.

You can't even make this shit up

lol, ob is legit heated at my thread... lol...

are we not here to talk about stuff?

is this not an interesting topic?

 

[StillFaggyAF]

Rape is physical. Accusation is verbal.

retaliation can absolutely be physical,

and if you're raped in prison for a crime you didn't commit, because niggaz love raping rapist....that's physical as well....

there are many consequences that need to go into consideration here../.

Okay rape is always physical is retaliation always physical? Are men always raped in jail after they've been falsely accused of rape?

nothing is absolute.....

but you're suggesting the possibility of violence not happening completely trumps the validity of argument?

that's basically saying it's only cheating if you get caught.....if no one ever catches consequences there's no crime....

and for your own argument, you're even suggesting that if a rape isn't reported then it's the same thing as it never happeneing

I don't see where I suggested that but ok. Most women who get raped don't report it. So accusation is worse than seeing your attacker free. maybe even knowing them maybe seeing them all the time when you walk down the fucking street or in family and nothing ever happens to them. That's a different kind of torture but whatever y'all compare.

really... so if a chick who i mutually had sex with told people i raped her, and nothing came from it, and i still gotta look at this chick everyday thinking about that time when she literally just had my life in the palms of her hands...and i just got lucky ....and i'm supposed to be cool about it???

like i could have potentially lost EVERYTHING, all because of some bullshit.....

or what if we never even had sex.....how bout that....say some random chick at my church tells everyone i raped her, and nothing major came from it, yea no jail time, nobody whooping my ass...

but my god trying to explain that shit to my wife, my family....and trying to just shake that shit off...i'm supposed to be like.. o well, ain't shit really come from it i'm good......

I don't see how that church example is in any way worse than being raped

you don't see how trying to explain something like that in front of your family would be life altering?

because once that accusation is placed out there, people have to wonder if you did it or not.....

having to explain yourself under those kind of circumstances could be disastrous......not everybody is super cool under pressure.....

while their may be no legal ramifications, relationships can be forever destroyed....i've in my life gotten severely upset for even being accused of lying about small shit......small shit.....i hate being called a liar.....

being called a rapist? nigga i can almost promise someone is getting punched in the face.....in the church....

"brother,...uh....sister jenking over there is implying that you might have uh, forced yourself on her teenage daugher"

"nigga....you gonna come at me on some bullshit like this? in front of my wife and child nigga?"

Would u rather that or being raped tho?

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Both is rape in my opinion

This shit hilarious. Rape is so bad that the only word fitting enough to describe something as awful as getting falsely accused is.... Rape.

I'm bout to go make a thread in the Reason.

Which Diss Song is More Etherous? Ether or Back to Back??

 

[Dupac]

Both is rape in my opinion

This shit hilarious. Rape is so bad that the only word fitting enough to describe something as awful as getting falsely accused is.... Rape.

I'm bout to go make a thread in the Reason.

Which Diss Song is More Etherous? Ether or Back to Back??

ether

 

[_Lefty]

The only way that this argument has any validity is if the falsely accused does real time behind it, or is physically punished to the point where the injuries are life changing.

A judge telling you you're about to do 12 calendars for no reason is the only other soul scorching act that could jump with actually being raped.

Just an accusation though? Get the fuck outta here, it ain't close.

 

[jono]

This shit is in no way the same. Being accused of rape is not much different than being accused of any crime falsely. There is no equivalence to rape.

naw bruh, niggaz ain't gonna wish death on you for stealing a car.....

if people think you're a child molester, or think you're a rapist,......the worse comes outta people....

Niggas ain't wishing death on rapists either. A molester...yeah but rapists get all kinds of benefit of the doubt.

Stop this shit.

 

[LPast]

Spin-off: Would you rather be raped or accused of rape?

I wonder if people change their stance...

 

[Dupac]

Rape is physical. Accusation is verbal.

retaliation can absolutely be physical,

and if you're raped in prison for a crime you didn't commit, because niggaz love raping rapist....that's physical as well....

there are many consequences that need to go into consideration here../.

Okay rape is always physical is retaliation always physical? Are men always raped in jail after they've been falsely accused of rape?

nothing is absolute.....

but you're suggesting the possibility of violence not happening completely trumps the validity of argument?

that's basically saying it's only cheating if you get caught.....if no one ever catches consequences there's no crime....

and for your own argument, you're even suggesting that if a rape isn't reported then it's the same thing as it never happeneing

I don't see where I suggested that but ok. Most women who get raped don't report it. So accusation is worse than seeing your attacker free. maybe even knowing them maybe seeing them all the time when you walk down the fucking street or in family and nothing ever happens to them. That's a different kind of torture but whatever y'all compare.

really... so if a chick who i mutually had sex with told people i raped her, and nothing came from it, and i still gotta look at this chick everyday thinking about that time when she literally just had my life in the palms of her hands...and i just got lucky ....and i'm supposed to be cool about it???

like i could have potentially lost EVERYTHING, all because of some bullshit.....

or what if we never even had sex.....how bout that....say some random chick at my church tells everyone i raped her, and nothing major came from it, yea no jail time, nobody whooping my ass...

but my god trying to explain that shit to my wife, my family....and trying to just shake that shit off...i'm supposed to be like.. o well, ain't shit really come from it i'm good......

I don't see how that church example is in any way worse than being raped

you don't see how trying to explain something like that in front of your family would be life altering?

because once that accusation is placed out there, people have to wonder if you did it or not.....

having to explain yourself under those kind of circumstances could be disastrous......not everybody is super cool under pressure.....

while their may be no legal ramifications, relationships can be forever destroyed....i've in my life gotten severely upset for even being accused of lying about small shit......small shit.....i hate being called a liar.....

being called a rapist? nigga i can almost promise someone is getting punched in the face.....in the church....

"brother,...uh....sister jenking over there is implying that you might have uh, forced yourself on her teenage daugher"

"nigga....you gonna come at me on some bullshit like this? in front of my wife and child nigga?"

Would u rather that or being raped tho?

trick question....there's different factors because of me being a hetrosexual male...

under no circumstances would i want to be sodomized......but as a young child i was taken advantage by a older woman..you can call it molestation or rape......but it had a lasting effect over me, and i experienced a lot of sexual anxiety up until my early 20's...i eventually was able to get over it, but i never forgot it, and it does make me over protective about who i leave my son alone with....

and even as an adult if i was drugged by a woman and not coherent but taken advantage of sexually (think denzel in ricochet) i'd be pissed.....i'd feel violated.....but that would not be worse than being accused of raped...

however as a man...a hetro man... nothing is worse than being raped in the ass...nothing....however it needs to be said that that is not the only kid of rape i can experience....

 

[Dupac]

This shit is in no way the same. Being accused of rape is not much different than being accused of any crime falsely. There is no equivalence to rape.

naw bruh, niggaz ain't gonna wish death on you for stealing a car.....

if people think you're a child molester, or think you're a rapist,......the worse comes outta people....

Niggas ain't wishing death on rapists either. A molester...yeah but rapists get all kinds of benefit of the doubt.

Stop this shit.

are you serious right now?

c'mon brother...if your grown sister, wife, or another adult you cared about and were protective said they were raped...you ain't out for blood?

 

[Beta]

I know a girl that got raped more than once...

She cool..

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Ehh kind of a pointless discussion. No one in here is really trying to consider both sides. People are just picking the most likely option to happen to and then running with that.

Both options are being treated way too lightly in here.

 

[konceptjones]

The only way that this argument has any validity is if the falsely accused does real time behind it, or is physically punished to the point where the injuries are life changing.

A judge telling you you're about to do 12 calendars for no reason is the only other soul scorching act that could jump with actually being raped.

Just an accusation though? Get the fuck outta here, it ain't close.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/article/21016808/false-rape-claims-devastating-say-wrongly-accused
http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...ns_why_must_be_pretend_they_never_happen.html
http://metro.co.uk/2016/03/08/rocks...mpact-of-wrongful-accusation-of-rape-5739448/
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/son-12-how-can-rapist-7639672
http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/yes-false-accusations-destroy-lives/article/2557145

here's some reading material. What you're saying and the way the real world works ain't in alignment.

 

[_Lefty]

Spin-off: Would you rather be raped or accused of rape?

I wonder if people change their stance...

That's the perspective I'm speaking from. Like I said, the only thing that could even live in that same neighborhood is if the falsely accused got real time behind it. Accusations can't stand up to real action.

That's like sayin rumors can stand up to facts. It just can't.

 

[rip.dilla]

Being falsely accused is worse. Being raped is an event that happened in your life but it doesn't have to define your life.

Falsely accused you can lose your life. Your job money time associations and friends and a stigma that follows you forever if you get convicted.

Long term being falsely accused has further reaching effects.

I don't know if anyone here has seen this film. .. it's a Scandinavian film that deals with false accusations made by a female child against an adult male that she knows within a small community

Without giving away spoilers the after effects of what the man has to go through both physically, mentally and psychologically is heart wrenching

I don't think any of the options in the poll are less excruciating than the other though. They both affect people's dignity and lives...

 

[gns]

Man i left this thread on the first page and left wtf happened

 

[_Lefty]

The only way that this argument has any validity is if the falsely accused does real time behind it, or is physically punished to the point where the injuries are life changing.

A judge telling you you're about to do 12 calendars for no reason is the only other soul scorching act that could jump with actually being raped.

Just an accusation though? Get the fuck outta here, it ain't close.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/article/21016808/false-rape-claims-devastating-say-wrongly-accused
http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...ns_why_must_be_pretend_they_never_happen.html
http://metro.co.uk/2016/03/08/rocks...mpact-of-wrongful-accusation-of-rape-5739448/
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/son-12-how-can-rapist-7639672
http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/yes-false-accusations-destroy-lives/article/2557145

here's some reading material. What you're saying and the way the real world works ain't in alignment.

Not reading because i'm not changing my mind. My world don't gotta be like everybody elses. Certain things are just closed discussions with me doc. The only thing that could even it out is real punishment for something you didn't do. Outside of that, an accusation is just that. I can keep it movin off that. But the actual rape, i'm gonna want blood to be shed. Period.

 

[ChillaDaKilla]

never been raped..

but at the end of the day.. or the argument..

its jus sex..

to be falsely accused of it tho and the ramifications of it financially.. socially.. judiciously and professionally is devestating..

iv seen it happen..

all a bitch has to do is yell rape and the witch hunt begins..

C'mon man. If a dude takes your booty right now, you really going to shrug it off and say "It was just sex."

5grand does it all the time

 

[jono]

This shit is in no way the same. Being accused of rape is not much different than being accused of any crime falsely. There is no equivalence to rape.

naw bruh, niggaz ain't gonna wish death on you for stealing a car.....

if people think you're a child molester, or think you're a rapist,......the worse comes outta people....

Niggas ain't wishing death on rapists either. A molester...yeah but rapists get all kinds of benefit of the doubt.

Stop this shit.

are you serious right now?

c'mon brother...if your grown sister, wife, or another adult you cared about and were protective said they were raped...you ain't out for blood?

Im out for blood if you snatch my mamas purse. Thats an irrelevant point.

 

[StillFaggyAF]

Rape is physical. Accusation is verbal.

retaliation can absolutely be physical,

and if you're raped in prison for a crime you didn't commit, because niggaz love raping rapist....that's physical as well....

there are many consequences that need to go into consideration here../.

Okay rape is always physical is retaliation always physical? Are men always raped in jail after they've been falsely accused of rape?

nothing is absolute.....

but you're suggesting the possibility of violence not happening completely trumps the validity of argument?

that's basically saying it's only cheating if you get caught.....if no one ever catches consequences there's no crime....

and for your own argument, you're even suggesting that if a rape isn't reported then it's the same thing as it never happeneing

I don't see where I suggested that but ok. Most women who get raped don't report it. So accusation is worse than seeing your attacker free. maybe even knowing them maybe seeing them all the time when you walk down the fucking street or in family and nothing ever happens to them. That's a different kind of torture but whatever y'all compare.

really... so if a chick who i mutually had sex with told people i raped her, and nothing came from it, and i still gotta look at this chick everyday thinking about that time when she literally just had my life in the palms of her hands...and i just got lucky ....and i'm supposed to be cool about it???

like i could have potentially lost EVERYTHING, all because of some bullshit.....

or what if we never even had sex.....how bout that....say some random chick at my church tells everyone i raped her, and nothing major came from it, yea no jail time, nobody whooping my ass...

but my god trying to explain that shit to my wife, my family....and trying to just shake that shit off...i'm supposed to be like.. o well, ain't shit really come from it i'm good......

I don't see how that church example is in any way worse than being raped

you don't see how trying to explain something like that in front of your family would be life altering?

because once that accusation is placed out there, people have to wonder if you did it or not.....

having to explain yourself under those kind of circumstances could be disastrous......not everybody is super cool under pressure.....

while their may be no legal ramifications, relationships can be forever destroyed....i've in my life gotten severely upset for even being accused of lying about small shit......small shit.....i hate being called a liar.....

being called a rapist? nigga i can almost promise someone is getting punched in the face.....in the church....

"brother,...uh....sister jenking over there is implying that you might have uh, forced yourself on her teenage daugher"

"nigga....you gonna come at me on some bullshit like this? in front of my wife and child nigga?"

Would u rather that or being raped tho?

trick question....there's different factors because of me being a hetrosexual male...

under no circumstances would i want to be sodomized......but as a young child i was taken advantage by a older woman..you can call it molestation or rape......but it had a lasting effect over me, and i experienced a lot of sexual anxiety up until my early 20's...i eventually was able to get over it, but i never forgot it, and it does make me over protective about who i leave my son alone with....

and even as an adult if i was drugged by a woman and not coherent but taken advantage of sexually (think denzel in ricochet) i'd be pissed.....i'd feel violated.....but that would not be worse than being accused of raped...

however as a man...a hetro man... nothing is worse than being raped in the ass...nothing....however it needs to be said that that is not the only kid of rape i can experience....

Explain yourself >>>>nigga raping you