Women you want equality? You got it. : Sherri Sheppard hit with massive child support bill.

[manofmorehouse]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

So u not taking money from your baby momma but u taking it from your real mom by still living at home. And somehow in your head this is more manly?? Lmao!!!! You're right! That's much better....

 

[HafBayked]

@manofmorehouse .....chill ma nigga put the guns away lmao

i just stopped responding to this shit

 

[Stiff]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

So u not taking money from your baby momma but u taking it from your real mom by still living at home. And somehow in your head this is more manly?? Lmao!!!! You're right! That's much better....

If I had said I was freeloading you'd be more accurate but nevertheless you pretty much proved my point

 

[Kwan Dai]

Lol @"Kwan Dai" has no argument so u resort to trying to rag on my Alma mater?? Lmao!!! U couldn't even @ me lol but I need to grow a pair?? Lmao homotional niggas that didn't have the GPA to get into Morehouse typically go for the gay angle while ignoring the fact we're literally surrounded by beautiful women while also excelling scholastically. Only insecure niggas would even bring up what gay niggas are doing. What higher learning institute did u matriculate from again? ?

I'm with you family. I would raise my child and whatever the mom felt like she wanted to contribute would be totally fine.



We aren't discussing otherwise. We are strictly discussing finances. So, if you are a bum nigga and cannot FULLY provide for your child then sure, have at it. Collect what you can. Just like woman do.But for those of us men who actually take pride in not acting and doing as women do, Mom can keep her money and contribute how she sees fit.

Posted long before your emotional. I am every women post.

But you go right ahead with the I am victim so, everyone should be a victim too mentality.

I don't to the online I went here, make this, work here thing. It matters not but sense you want rock all out in the open take that L while shopping for your next handbag.

 

[Kwan Dai]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

You can sugar coat it. Some men just don't have any shame. No integrity or honor. I can't respect a man going to such lengths.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Meh my dad didn't ask for child support. I asked why he said he said "Let her live life idgaf"..... still have no idea what that meant.

 

[NoCompetition]

Lol @"Kwan Dai" has no argument so u resort to trying to rag on my Alma mater?? Lmao!!! U couldn't even @ me lol but I need to grow a pair?? Lmao homotional niggas that didn't have the GPA to get into Morehouse typically go for the gay angle while ignoring the fact we're literally surrounded by beautiful women while also excelling scholastically. Only insecure niggas would even bring up what gay niggas are doing. What higher learning institute did u matriculate from again? ?

When you doin something positive with your life like goin to a HBCU if people go outta their way to hate, that tells you all you need to know about them. Dont stop and that makes em sicker.

And to each their own but obviously in this case dude dont mind gettin them checks from her thats what matters.

 

[MsSouthern]

As she should

And any one saying they wouldn't accept support is not thinking about what's best for their child

If you don't want the money then put it in a college fund ....

 

[Kwan Dai]

As she should

And any one saying they wouldn't accept support is not thinking about what's best for their child

If you don't want the money then put it in a college fund ....

How? If you can provide for all of your child's needs and wants.

Why would that money have to go to dad when, mom could just as easily put the money away?

 

[J.J._Evans]

She should actually be paying more than what she's paying..........

 

[MsSouthern]

As she should

And any one saying they wouldn't accept support is not thinking about what's best for their child

If you don't want the money then put it in a college fund ....

How? If you can provide for all of your child's needs and wants.

Why would that money have to go to dad when, mom could just as easily put the money away?

She should already be doing that on her own

You can't predict the future .., how do you know 100% you can provide every single want and need? Life happens

A child needs love and support from from both parents on all levels

 

[Allah_U_Akbar]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

Ahhhh.. O.K.

At least you're capable of giving a reasonable, mature response without making outlandish, goofy analogies like that other dude.

Props.

I say men and women should be treated equally under the law; that other dude thinks that means men wanna be women (WTF???)

I say women should provide financial support for their children; that other dude accuses men of chasing women for their money ( WTF???)

I'll just assume he's a troll and treat him accordingly.

 

[Kwan Dai]

As she should

And any one saying they wouldn't accept support is not thinking about what's best for their child

If you don't want the money then put it in a college fund ....

How? If you can provide for all of your child's needs and wants.

Why would that money have to go to dad when, mom could just as easily put the money away?

She should already be doing that on her own

You can't predict the future .., how do you know 100% you can provide every single want and need? Life happens

A child needs love and support from from both parents on all levels

I agree. Mom should be doing that. The discussion centered around actually taking the mother to court to pay up. And that's where I would draw the line.

I agree life does happen and if, something happened to where we had to make an adjustment that would be a life lesson we all would have to live and learn from.

I agree a child needs support. In this case, we are speaking strictly financial. And in my opinion any man worth his weight isn't dragging a woman into court talking about your honor " we are hurting, and we need a check to make ends meet".

 

[MsSouthern]

If she is not doing it in her own then she didn't leave much choice to how things turned out

Just curious .... Do you have kids ?

 

[Kwan Dai]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

Ahhhh.. O.K.

At least you're capable of giving a reasonable, mature response without making outlandish, goofy analogies like that other dude.

Props.

I say men and women should be treated equally under the law; that other dude thinks that means men wanna be women (WTF???)

I say women should provide financial support for their children; that other dude accuses men of chasing women for their money ( WTF???)

I'll just assume he's a troll and treat him accordingly.

So, while you sit there assuming.

My initial post was.

"I'm with you family. I would raise my child and whatever the mom felt like she wanted to contribute would be totally fine.

Subsequent post.

We aren't discussing otherwise. We are strictly discussing finances. So, if you are a bum nigga and cannot FULLY provide for your child then sure, have at it. Collect what you can. Just like woman do.But for those of us men who actually take pride in not acting and doing as women do, Mom can keep her money and contribute how she sees fit.

So, if, you are going to post how about you actually deal with what I have typed instead of conjecture?

 

[Kwan Dai]

If she is not doing it in her own then she didn't leave much choice to how things turned out

Just curious .... Do you have kids ?

Yes, I do...

 

[deadeye]

As she should

And any one saying they wouldn't accept support is not thinking about what's best for their child

If you don't want the money then put it in a college fund ....

How? If you can provide for all of your child's needs and wants.

Why would that money have to go to dad when, mom could just as easily put the money away?

She should already be doing that on her own

You can't predict the future .., how do you know 100% you can provide every single want and need? Life happens

A child needs love and support from from both parents on all levels

And in my opinion any man worth his weight isn't dragging a woman into court talking about your honor " we are hurting, and we need a check to make ends meet".

 

[DarcSkies]

This is why I dont give Mothers "extra credit" for being single. Nor do I take their complaints about absent Fathers seriously.

It's easy to cry about having to be "the Mama and the Daddy" when society sees you as the nurturer & when society is set-up to support Mothers/Females and down Fathers (even when they are involved).

This (and the Halle Berry nigga shit) is just further proof that women would do the same shit if the circumstances and social norms allowed it. Today's female is just a wannabe nigga if we being honest.

 

[5th Letter]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

Ahhhh.. O.K.

At least you're capable of giving a reasonable, mature response without making outlandish, goofy analogies like that other dude.

Props.

I say men and women should be treated equally under the law; that other dude thinks that means men wanna be women (WTF???)

I say women should provide financial support for their children; that other dude accuses men of chasing women for their money ( WTF???)

I'll just assume he's a troll and treat him accordingly.

So, while you sit there assuming.

My initial post was.

"I'm with you family. I would raise my child and whatever the mom felt like she wanted to contribute would be totally fine.

Subsequent post.

We aren't discussing otherwise. We are strictly discussing finances. So, if you are a bum nigga and cannot FULLY provide for your child then sure, have at it. Collect what you can. Just like woman do.But for those of us men who actually take pride in not acting and doing as women do, Mom can keep her money and contribute how she sees fit.

So, if, you are going to post how about you actually deal with what I have typed instead of conjecture?

Bruh even you have to admit that the way you worded your post just makes you come off confrontational. Calling men "bums". There are men that need assistance financially to help take care of a child. How does that make a man a "bum"? A bum is someone who abandons their children and could give two fucks about their well being.

 

[Kwan Dai]

Honestly I would feel like a loser if I was receiving child support from my baby momma

@Stiff

Spoiler

lol man look if you get child support checks from your baby momma and that's your thing then do your thing..your child ain't mine to raise and your life ain't mine to live...

but for ME .... i would feel like a loser getting those checks...and dragging a female to court for child support and going through that whole process..that don't mean I think someone else a loser for getting them because that's up to them.

I'm 23 and stay at the crib right now...I know it's hella people that would be like "nah I'd feel like a loser being that old still living at home" . But for me I feel perfectly fine saving the money so I can get something better down the road. Different strokes for different folks. If the shit sits right with you..then by all means get it how you live.

Ahhhh.. O.K.

At least you're capable of giving a reasonable, mature response without making outlandish, goofy analogies like that other dude.

Props.

I say men and women should be treated equally under the law; that other dude thinks that means men wanna be women (WTF???)

I say women should provide financial support for their children; that other dude accuses men of chasing women for their money ( WTF???)

I'll just assume he's a troll and treat him accordingly.

So, while you sit there assuming.

My initial post was.

"I'm with you family. I would raise my child and whatever the mom felt like she wanted to contribute would be totally fine.

Subsequent post.

We aren't discussing otherwise. We are strictly discussing finances. So, if you are a bum nigga and cannot FULLY provide for your child then sure, have at it. Collect what you can. Just like woman do.But for those of us men who actually take pride in not acting and doing as women do, Mom can keep her money and contribute how she sees fit.

So, if, you are going to post how about you actually deal with what I have typed instead of conjecture?

Bruh even you have to admit that the way you worded your post just makes you come off confrontational. Calling men "bums". There are men that need assistance financially to help take care of a child. How does that make a man a "bum"? A bum is someone who abandons their children and could give two fucks about their well being.

Bruh. If, that's how another man read my post. My response is, so what? So on top of begging for a check we now have sugar coat things? Gotcha.

I agree their are men who may need help. However, dragging a women into court to pay you imo isn't the solution to a man's financial shortcomings.

That is your definition of a bum and I agree that can certainly be one of the definitions.

Another could also be dragging the mother of children into court begging for payment.