The rising counterculture of being an adult without kids.

[blackrain]

1) So, you're saying that having friends your own age is loser shit, yet hanging out with a five-year-old all day is winning? OK, then.....

we all got friends but you really got time to burn like that? if i got free time i'd prefer to be around for my kid that's just being a loving parent. sorry but you're behind the curve if you really got time when you're 30 to live like you're 20.



who gives a fuck about yall's generation falling behind in the adult world though when you all just making it more easy for my seed to get ahead. keep having no kids because you're too lazy or can't afford them (Darwinism in effect) or have them be neglected dumbass kids because you was rather out with the homies trying to stay young forever. its all good you're just helping me build that generational wealth

2) Who the fuck watches TMNT past age 10?

lol folks on the IC, to starthttp://community.allhiphop.com/discussion/493159/the-new-tmnt-nickolodeon#latest

Or maybe w/o kids they have more free time you having kids doesn't allow you have allowing them to do more thing, have more income to spend on shit for themselves. This superiority "I got kids and you don't" shit is funny as fuck though and revealing that yeah, some folks really do have kids as nothing more than a boost to their own ego. Not because they actually want to love, care, and raise a human being. Just on some "Yeah, look what I did" shit when pointing to their kid

 

[rooster_cogburn]

Niggas killin me catching feelings cuz some ppl dont want kids. Its like yall tryin hard as shit to convince mufuckas to reproduce. I personally dont see the benefit of having kids. This is just IMO , but, they needy, annoying, mischievous, and just a str8 $$ black hole. When I wake up @ 3am, its cause I gotta piss, not feed. If im @ the playground, its cause im walking my dog in the park, and the homie aint buggin me to push him on the swings, or build a sand castle. I can roll up when i want, or have my dudes come by and have a smoke out. Maybe ill feel different oneday, but not now. We enjoying our lives too much to tie it down with kids.

K.I.N.G. say fuck your kid:

 

[LPast]

Raise your hand if your parents planned to have you....

 

[T. Sanford]

Im the youngest of four & the only one that don't have any kids. One of the only amongst my friends who don't have any kids & I seen how they have to adapt to the parent life. One of my home boys be cussing at his kids. Im like "bruh I understand whooping them with a belt but you ain't gotta cuss at a 9 year old".

I have too many goals to accomplish & too many area codes to explore to even be thinking about crafting a sequel.

I remember I use to work this job & mostly everybody was on child support. Niggas use to talk about how many boppers or had bad their boppers was but every pay day child support took 80% of their check. Nowadays it seem like most people use their kids for advertisement "I bought my lil boy them new J's, imma good mom", "My son is Polo down, #ProudMom#", "tru religion on my son everyday #ProudSingleMom#.

I hate when they say "Single life, don't have anyone for my own so I'll go cuddle with my child".

 

[blackrain]

Raise your hand if your parents planned to have you....

*Raises hand...my parents been together and married since 79 though.

 

[rooster_cogburn]

*hand raised*

Whats crazy is when my mom was my age, I was already in 1st grade.

 

[taeboo]

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it always makes me chuckle how it's only poor people who put having kids at the top of their priority list.

notice that rich people never even think about it. they'd never say it's what youre meant to do. they're too busy being successful and living it up. They have higher goals.

wanting to have kids and thinking it's an achievement is pure poor folk mentality. i guess some people just have no ambition in their lives.

You can't be serious...Marriage and children have been used as tools to gain power and wealth for centuries among the very rich.

 

[LPast]

Their are a lot of factors to

....

it always makes me chuckle how it's only poor people who put having kids at the top of their priority list.

notice that rich people never even think about it. they'd never say it's what youre meant to do. they're too busy being successful and living it up. They have higher goals.

wanting to have kids and thinking it's an achievement is pure poor folk mentality. i guess some people just have no ambition in their lives.

You can't be serious...Marriage and children have been used as tools to gain power and wealth for centuries among the very rich.

.........

Which wealthy people do you see without heirs?

Wealthy people seem to accomplish their goals...

 

[black caesar]

Their are a lot of factors to

....

it always makes me chuckle how it's only poor people who put having kids at the top of their priority list.

notice that rich people never even think about it. they'd never say it's what youre meant to do. they're too busy being successful and living it up. They have higher goals.

wanting to have kids and thinking it's an achievement is pure poor folk mentality. i guess some people just have no ambition in their lives.

You can't be serious...Marriage and children have been used as tools to gain power and wealth for centuries among the very rich.

.........

Which wealthy people do you see without heirs?

Wealthy people seem to accomplish their goals...

George Clooney doesn't have kids

 

[CP203]

Raise your hand if your parents planned to have you....

raises hand

and man the older i get the more i understand why my mom had me at 32

 

[taeboo]

Their are a lot of factors to

....

it always makes me chuckle how it's only poor people who put having kids at the top of their priority list.

notice that rich people never even think about it. they'd never say it's what youre meant to do. they're too busy being successful and living it up. They have higher goals.

wanting to have kids and thinking it's an achievement is pure poor folk mentality. i guess some people just have no ambition in their lives.

You can't be serious...Marriage and children have been used as tools to gain power and wealth for centuries among the very rich.

.........

Which wealthy people do you see without heirs?

Wealthy people seem to accomplish their goals...

George Clooney doesn't have kids

I was talking more about old money, but even among entertainers Clooney is the exception and not the rule...

 

[Wild Self]

it always makes me chuckle how it's only poor people who put having kids at the top of their priority list.

notice that rich people never even think about it. they'd never say it's what youre meant to do. they're too busy being successful and living it up. They have higher goals.

wanting to have kids and thinking it's an achievement is pure poor folk mentality. i guess some people just have no ambition in their lives.

having kids for the sake of them is bum mentality. Straight up ignorance to put misery onto people's lives.

 

[Wild Self]

Im the youngest of four & the only one that don't have any kids. One of the only amongst my friends who don't have any kids & I seen how they have to adapt to the parent life. One of my home boys be cussing at his kids. Im like "bruh I understand whooping them with a belt but you ain't gotta cuss at a 9 year old".

I have too many goals to accomplish & too many area codes to explore to even be thinking about crafting a sequel.

I remember I use to work this job & mostly everybody was on child support. Niggas use to talk about how many boppers or had bad their boppers was but every pay day child support took 80% of their check. Nowadays it seem like most people use their kids for advertisement "I bought my lil boy them new J's, imma good mom", "My son is Polo down, #ProudMom#", "tru religion on my son everyday #ProudSingleMom#.

I hate when they say "Single life, don't have anyone for my own so I'll go cuddle with my child".

GODDAMN @ every male at your job paying child support.

 

[Doctopian]

*reads through thread and sees a bunch of should's, ought to's, and feelings being thrown around*

Attempting to speak objectively, none of the things we care about has any purpose or value. Wealth? Legacy? Both are ultimately worthless, so everyone should live their lives as they see fit. Want to adhere to societal norms? Cool. Want to spit in the metaphorical face of those norms? Also cool.

 

[haute]

Raise your hand if your parents planned to have you....

*raises hand*

Your point?

 

[haute]

also reading this thread makes me realize how shallow some of you are, which makes me wonder why you would even want family at this point?

You really think there's only 2 realities? Family or partying

Good grief

Have you ever heard of purpose?

 

[rockets]

also reading this thread makes me realize how shallow some of you are, which makes me wonder why you would even want family at this point?

You really think there's only 2 realities? Family or partying

Good grief

Have you ever heard of purpose?

Chipping in the collection plate on Sundays and telling your nieces and nephews to not stick a fork in an Electrical socket isnt quite a "purpose", but I feel wat youre saying (somewhat)

[b]99% of people on Planet Earth aint gonna be shit in life.[/b] There's no reason to believe you're anyone special unless youre put in a situation where u r and its visible that wat u do helps ppl/really changes things. Thinking otherwise is selfish and unhumble and you'll be sure to find out later on in life (whenever that is) that thinking that is foolish and immature.

Im positive some ppl genuinely dont wanna be tied-down somehow. It still doesnt make them "right" even tho I wouldnt be mad at u for doing wat u do. Being a Doctor saving lives everyday is a great thing and definitely fullfilling. But wat does it really mean to have all of that joy and not share it with anybody and passing it along? You'll always have a replacement so its not they you're Special

I think u need to speak for yourself. I hope you don't share your logic with your children. Now THAT would be tragic.

Why is this an argument? Some want children others don't. Some want to travel the world, open businesses, charities , teach and inspire others, etc. Some want to do all that while having children, others don't want o be bothered. WTF does it matter?

You don't think ur children are going to be shit in life but you still had them, others don't see the point in having "ain't shit kids." Might as well not have them at all. Some people want to give their children the best in life (their opinion) so they wait till they are older. Some people just have children to care for them in old age, some actually just love kids. To each is own.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

No man shouldn't be under any pressure of having kids. It's possible you can bag a hot young 20 year old something under the age of 50.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

I hate when people say if it wasn't for their kids, they wouldn't know what to do with their lives. Lol. They just admitted they're fuck ups before their child was born. You're supposed to have your life together before a child birth, not after.

 

[Ajackson17]

Wack thread.