blackrain;5681495 said:
Noodles McGrowcious;5680865 said:
blackrain;5680455 said:
Noodles McGrowcious;5678459 said:
bruh. personally i dont give a shit if the next Individual has a kid or not. But i DO think its silly to think otherwise.
Becuz the REALITY IS, most if u niggaz aint travelin overseas opening charities, u probably dont even donate to tha Salvation Army (thats funny right?). U aint inspiring others, U dont travel the world, the furthest u've probably ever been is to Jamaica or the Bahammas.
I'll be honest. I'd rather have A loyal woman who ages quickly, a bad ass disrespectful seed (or seeds), with us surving off of the SNAP program to make ends meet. Than be 51 with NO family (becuz ur folks WILL grow apart from you, believe that), no mortgage, endless frequent flyer miles with Nowhere to go, and a brand new Dime Piece who's nastier than the last chick.
I know u probably wont understand this now, but always being the "3rd Wheel" is just as bad as being the homie with Genital Warts at a House Party with your homies. Everybody is on 1 page and youre on another page entirely by yourself.
I'm not holding my breath or expecting to be the next Multi-Millionaire/Billionaire so I'm not gonna gas myself up like I cant be touched or sct like I'm the only person with a dream and a hustle.
If you think ultimately family will grow apart why you so intent on telling others they should have one? Like you truly think if one of your kids didn't get married or have kids that their siblings would just be like "Fuck them" and never speak to them? If you think that you passing on a messed up mentality
Thats not wat im saying and i dont even know how u got to that conclusion.
Im sorry but life is too unpredictable for me. So i appreciate a little bit of security and convienence. Coming home to a Golden Retriever isnt my idea of a companion or a void filler
Best real life scenario i can offer yall is my sister. Bitch got a Bachelors in Science or whatever and became a Veternarian like she literally always said she would.
She's such a professional and beast at her job they offered her a Promotion from a Government Facility in the DMV to the LEAD position at a facility in Northern Texas. She ran that entire facility practically all by herself.
Whole time she's been dealing with the same guy off and on for 10-11 years who already had a daighter of his own.
Long story short she ended up quitting her Career (making bank), living with her homegirls and her two dogs and literally going out 3 outta every 4 weekends a month just to settle down with this nigga and open up her own Restaurant (by herself). Now theyre both talking about Marrage and Kids. She'll be 30 this year and he'll be 35
*forgot to mention theyve been doing the long distance thing for a while now. if u consider "On & Off" still being long distance*
I mean, it sounds like to me that "new age Independent woman" shit got old. It looks like to me that being Single at 30 with a house full of chicks, pet animals, and red wine isnt the life.
So if i have a "poor man's view" on things Im definitely not getting these ideas from Poor People.
And if u cant have kids then i apologize to u Haute. Im not about that life wen it comes to making fun of ppl with certain issues
Than be 51 with NO family (becuz ur folks WILL grow apart from you, believe that),
I got that idea because you actually said it. You making alot of assumptions about people's lives w/o knowing shit about them talking about somebody always being a third wheel, or being lonely. There's nothing that says for certain not being married and/or having kids means you're going to grow old and lonely but you are blatantly saying that
bruh stop being so antagonizing. Noone is going to wanna hang around some old ass 50-something year old couple with no kids of their own UNLESS yall r footing the bill for something (like a Cruise or a BBQ).
Other than that ppl are gonna be too busy living their own lives (with Family) as they see fit becuz you dont exactly benefit them in anyway since you dont really relate to them in anyway.
U c it all of the time i bet. Certain family members have money and everybody in the family calls them "white" but the second they throw an extravaganza everybody is there laughing with them or busting their balls like they werent just talking badly about them behind their backs 30 seconds before they pulled up to the spot.
What reality do u niggaz live in? There aint a dream in the world big enough to sell me to wanna give up the opportunity to create atleast ONE seed (regardless of how me and the mother work out).
Im an optomistic nigga (almost foolish by heart), i like to maintain a positive outlook on things and approach everybody with respect (even tho u can kill that in literally seconds if u come at me the wrong way). And to add to me being an optomistic nigga, my optomistic ass lives in a fact based world. And the divirce rate in America is at or close to 50%.
So with that in mind, like i said. There's not enough (European) materialistic possessions in the world for me to not drop a seed over. Even if it goes bad i can say that i still did it and hopefully if something were to ever go wrong between me and seed(s) (which i pray doesnt), i'll always have time to fix it. Whereas a wife i wont always have that opportunity (whether if its all on Me or Her or both).
Some of u niggaz iz really goin hard for Gay Marrage aint u. First its fuck bitches get money yolo and Single Life forever becuz Niggaz/Bitchez aint shit. Now yall talkin about not ever having kids like its supposed to be the new Enlightened thing to do.
Just admit it, some of yall really dont want anything to do with the opposite sex, theyre just Eye Candy. What u really want is someone with the same private parts u got. Keep it real niggaz, becuz Im not sold on this fool's gold idea of being Single Forever with No Children just partying and chilling with my homies all day.