Folks With Step Kids Get Ova Here / AM I RIGHT OR WRONG

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IAmDopeSmoke;7369171 said:
CONFLICT;7369117 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7369042 said:
CONFLICT;7368833 said:
How old r u bruh

22

Wtf is wrong with you kid where is your father?

Oh he been told me leave that girl I just been stringing it along cause I really like fcking her hell y'all folks really didn't read my O/P right I SAID I WAS LEAVING HER...BUT I ASKED WAS I WRONG FOR LEAVING?....Big Difference not my fault y'all didn't see the forest through the trees

Just stick around, keep fucking her and you'll get bored and leave her for the same reason you fighting with now.

#destiny
 
KingSimba;7369188 said:
It seems like your intentions are good, and I'm sure you are a good dude nh. You are young bro. You are still maturing and I'm sure you are still getting to know your self completely and what you want in life. Your first mistake was having sex with her. I know me even saying that will bring about some negative reactions, but I don't care. Having sex complictes things and clouds judgment. She may be cool so far and seem better than any woman you have met, but its only been two months bro....

And you already are contemplating staying with her and taking care of TWO children that aren't even yours....come on man....use your brain. Like @Black_Samson‌ said you are pussy whipped. I've been there before and made decisions that I can look back on and say I was blinded by the sex without a doubt. You barely know this woman bro! Be honest with yourself.

I'm not gonna tell you anything others already haven't. And she may be a good person deep down that has just made some bad decisions that led to two children. My thing is, what happened between her and the father of the baby she is pregnant with? Why aren't they together? Why isn't she still with the father of her oldest child? There are some flags that need investigation on your part. Not all situations are the same and she might have been dealing with two dead beats. But idk... Whatever you do bro do not sign the birth certificate. You may need to sit down and talk with some elders if you have any to do so. I hope you make the right decision and the fact you are willing to stick with her is commendable....but be sure that's what you really want....because there ain't nmop turning back FAM....

MECCA1000;7369199 said:
Did you tell her you only want two kids? She already hit your quota .....

Why did she break up with the last two dudes? Does she have a job? Is she getting CS from daddy # 1 and is she planning on getting CS from daddy # 2?

Are you ready to be in the middle of both the daddies coming back to see their kids ..... this can get complicated like her trying to explain how she got pregnant while using a condom ......

OK

1) idk why she broke up with the 1st one all I know is his a heavy drug user

2) the 2nd guy is a drug dealer and he already has a ole lady he got kids by and staying with and when she told him she pregnant he said its my baby so he pinning it on me

She in the process of getting custody from the 1st one but he on child support anyway only sending $60 a month so basically both are dead beats and no she doesn't have a job but she wants to go to the military and just to make this clear she lives in the trap just last week 12 niggas got arrested on her block.....now she does really love me I don't doubt that but I can tell just by reading her she's a bit naive and done got dogged by a few niggas before hell even her grandma told me that....when I first meet her I was thinking smash and dip but the pussy was good so I went back and then I started to get to know her and her Lil girl and some how I ended up dating her and in my current situation even tho her grandma told me from the jump use a condom with her cause she fertile as hell
 
Black_Samson;7369230 said:
KingSimba;7369188 said:
It seems like your intentions are good, and I'm sure you are a good dude nh. You are young bro. You are still maturing and I'm sure you are still getting to know your self completely and what you want in life. Your first mistake was having sex with her. I know me even saying that will bring about some negative reactions, but I don't care. Having sex complictes things and clouds judgment. She may be cool so far and seem better than any woman you have met, but its only been two months bro....

And you already are contemplating staying with her and taking care of TWO children that aren't even yours....come on man....use your brain. Like @Black_Samson‌ said you are pussy whipped. I've been there before and made decisions that I can look back on and say I was blinded by the sex without a doubt. You barely know this woman bro! Be honest with yourself.

I'm not gonna tell you anything others already haven't. And she may be a good person deep down that has just made some bad decisions that led to two children. My thing is, what happened between her and the father of the baby she is pregnant with? Why aren't they together? Why isn't she still with the father of her oldest child? There are some flags that need investigation on your part. Not all situations are the same and she might have been dealing with two dead beats. But idk... Whatever you do bro do not sign the birth certificate. You may need to sit down and talk with some elders if you have any to do so. I hope you make the right decision and the fact you are willing to stick with her is commendable....but be sure that's what you really want....because there ain't nmop turning back FAM....

I just wanted to be a dick and quote this wall of text again.

Lol

I got out of control. But this is what I do as far as mentoring so I felt the need to give bruh my two cents.
 
IAmDopeSmoke;7369247 said:
KingSimba;7369188 said:
It seems like your intentions are good, and I'm sure you are a good dude nh. You are young bro. You are still maturing and I'm sure you are still getting to know your self completely and what you want in life. Your first mistake was having sex with her. I know me even saying that will bring about some negative reactions, but I don't care. Having sex complictes things and clouds judgment. She may be cool so far and seem better than any woman you have met, but its only been two months bro....

And you already are contemplating staying with her and taking care of TWO children that aren't even yours....come on man....use your brain. Like @Black_Samson‌ said you are pussy whipped. I've been there before and made decisions that I can look back on and say I was blinded by the sex without a doubt. You barely know this woman bro! Be honest with yourself.

I'm not gonna tell you anything others already haven't. And she may be a good person deep down that has just made some bad decisions that led to two children. My thing is, what happened between her and the father of the baby she is pregnant with? Why aren't they together? Why isn't she still with the father of her oldest child? There are some flags that need investigation on your part. Not all situations are the same and she might have been dealing with two dead beats. But idk... Whatever you do bro do not sign the birth certificate. You may need to sit down and talk with some elders if you have any to do so. I hope you make the right decision and the fact you are willing to stick with her is commendable....but be sure that's what you really want....because there ain't nmop turning back FAM....

MECCA1000;7369199 said:
Did you tell her you only want two kids? She already hit your quota .....

Why did she break up with the last two dudes? Does she have a job? Is she getting CS from daddy # 1 and is she planning on getting CS from daddy # 2?

Are you ready to be in the middle of both the daddies coming back to see their kids ..... this can get complicated like her trying to explain how she got pregnant while using a condom ......

OK

1) idk why she broke up with the 1st one all I know is his a heavy drug user

2) the 2nd guy is a drug dealer and he already has a ole lady he got kids by and staying with and when she told him she pregnant he said its my baby so he pinning it on me

She in the process of getting custody from the 1st one but he on child support anyway only sending $60 a month so basically both are dead beats and no she doesn't have a job but she wants to go to the military and just to make this clear she lives in the trap just last week 12 niggas got arrested on her block.....now she does really love me I don't doubt that but I can tell just by reading her she's a bit naive and done got dogged by a few niggas before hell even her grandma told me that....when I first meet her I was thinking smash and dip but the pussy was good so I went back and then I started to get to know her and her Lil girl and some how I ended up dating her and in my current situation even tho her grandma told me from the jump use a condom with her cause she fertile as hell

Excerpt from the book "10 ways to tell if she's a THOT"
 
Trillfate;7369204 said:
page 3 and still no pics?

she must be ugly....

EDIT: or fat

Or its cause I'm not a complete asshole who post every girl I tlk to pictures on the net plus she don't have a fb so that means I gotta make a photobucket put the pics from my phone on there then copy them to here all from a tablet just so u can visually judge her then either diss her or say ud smash her..naaaa I'll pass on all that hassle bru
 
IAmDopeSmoke;7369247 said:
KingSimba;7369188 said:
It seems like your intentions are good, and I'm sure you are a good dude nh. You are young bro. You are still maturing and I'm sure you are still getting to know your self completely and what you want in life. Your first mistake was having sex with her. I know me even saying that will bring about some negative reactions, but I don't care. Having sex complictes things and clouds judgment. She may be cool so far and seem better than any woman you have met, but its only been two months bro....

And you already are contemplating staying with her and taking care of TWO children that aren't even yours....come on man....use your brain. Like @Black_Samson‌ said you are pussy whipped. I've been there before and made decisions that I can look back on and say I was blinded by the sex without a doubt. You barely know this woman bro! Be honest with yourself.

I'm not gonna tell you anything others already haven't. And she may be a good person deep down that has just made some bad decisions that led to two children. My thing is, what happened between her and the father of the baby she is pregnant with? Why aren't they together? Why isn't she still with the father of her oldest child? There are some flags that need investigation on your part. Not all situations are the same and she might have been dealing with two dead beats. But idk... Whatever you do bro do not sign the birth certificate. You may need to sit down and talk with some elders if you have any to do so. I hope you make the right decision and the fact you are willing to stick with her is commendable....but be sure that's what you really want....because there ain't nmop turning back FAM....

MECCA1000;7369199 said:
Did you tell her you only want two kids? She already hit your quota .....

Why did she break up with the last two dudes? Does she have a job? Is she getting CS from daddy # 1 and is she planning on getting CS from daddy # 2?

Are you ready to be in the middle of both the daddies coming back to see their kids ..... this can get complicated like her trying to explain how she got pregnant while using a condom ......

OK

1) idk why she broke up with the 1st one all I know is his a heavy drug user

2) the 2nd guy is a drug dealer and he already has a ole lady he got kids by and staying with and when she told him she pregnant he said its my baby so he pinning it on me[\b]

She in the process of getting custody from the 1st one but he on child support anyway only sending $60 a month so basically both are dead beats and no she doesn't have a job but she wants to go to the military and just to make this clear she lives in the trap just last week 12 niggas got arrested on her block.....now she does really love me I don't doubt that but I can tell just by reading her she's a bit naive and done got dogged by a few niggas before hell even her grandma told me that....when I first meet her I was thinking smash and dip but the pussy was good so I went back and then I started to get to know her and her Lil girl and some how I ended up dating her and in my current situation even tho her grandma told me from the jump use a condom with her cause she fertile as hell


So she was the side chick to a man in a relationship and got pregnant?

You better wake up FAM...
 
FlightKing;7369261 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7369247 said:
KingSimba;7369188 said:
It seems like your intentions are good, and I'm sure you are a good dude nh. You are young bro. You are still maturing and I'm sure you are still getting to know your self completely and what you want in life. Your first mistake was having sex with her. I know me even saying that will bring about some negative reactions, but I don't care. Having sex complictes things and clouds judgment. She may be cool so far and seem better than any woman you have met, but its only been two months bro....

And you already are contemplating staying with her and taking care of TWO children that aren't even yours....come on man....use your brain. Like @Black_Samson‌ said you are pussy whipped. I've been there before and made decisions that I can look back on and say I was blinded by the sex without a doubt. You barely know this woman bro! Be honest with yourself.

I'm not gonna tell you anything others already haven't. And she may be a good person deep down that has just made some bad decisions that led to two children. My thing is, what happened between her and the father of the baby she is pregnant with? Why aren't they together? Why isn't she still with the father of her oldest child? There are some flags that need investigation on your part. Not all situations are the same and she might have been dealing with two dead beats. But idk... Whatever you do bro do not sign the birth certificate. You may need to sit down and talk with some elders if you have any to do so. I hope you make the right decision and the fact you are willing to stick with her is commendable....but be sure that's what you really want....because there ain't nmop turning back FAM....

MECCA1000;7369199 said:
Did you tell her you only want two kids? She already hit your quota .....

Why did she break up with the last two dudes? Does she have a job? Is she getting CS from daddy # 1 and is she planning on getting CS from daddy # 2?

Are you ready to be in the middle of both the daddies coming back to see their kids ..... this can get complicated like her trying to explain how she got pregnant while using a condom ......

OK

1) idk why she broke up with the 1st one all I know is his a heavy drug user

2) the 2nd guy is a drug dealer and he already has a ole lady he got kids by and staying with and when she told him she pregnant he said its my baby so he pinning it on me

She in the process of getting custody from the 1st one but he on child support anyway only sending $60 a month so basically both are dead beats and no she doesn't have a job but she wants to go to the military and just to make this clear she lives in the trap just last week 12 niggas got arrested on her block.....now she does really love me I don't doubt that but I can tell just by reading her she's a bit naive and done got dogged by a few niggas before hell even her grandma told me that....when I first meet her I was thinking smash and dip but the pussy was good so I went back and then I started to get to know her and her Lil girl and some how I ended up dating her and in my current situation even tho her grandma told me from the jump use a condom with her cause she fertile as hell

Excerpt from the book "10 ways to tell if she's a THOT"

Bru that's what I was saying to myself but I can't talk since I've dated or fckd a lot of girls with fckd up past and I have a fckd up past and been with enough women that my dick should of fallin off by now so who am I to judge?
 
you signing up for a shit load of problems. This chick seem like she just carry shit with her, like a cloud of doom or some shit. If you stay, don't be surprised if fucked up shit starts happening to you. You got with her under questionable circumstances now this shit? The tone has been set.
 
goldjordan;7369272 said:
Black_Samson;7369040 said:
Where the fuck is Growing Pains when you need it?

Nigga look based on your decision making abilities in terms of women im going to go head and say you had a deadbeat mother.

Nobody is that gotdamn in need of personal company inless their childhood was full of absentee parents.

Stop repeating history.

Stop trying to save bitches.

Stop taking on charity cases.

Stop needing someone in your gotdamn space.

Get to know and love yourself so youll stop making stupid assed life choices like this shit here.

Black_Samson;7369120 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7369101 said:
Black_Samson;7369040 said:
Where the fuck is Growing Pains when you need it?

Nigga look based on your decision making abilities in terms of women im going to go head and say you had a deadbeat mother.

Nobody is that gotdamn in need of personal company inless their childhood was full of absentee parents.

Stop repeating history.

Stop trying to save bitches.

Stop taking on charity cases.

Stop needing someone in your gotdamn space.

Get to know and love yourself so youll stop making stupid assed life choices like this shit here.

See now this also make since bru its just idk if I've found the one because she gets me and she was pregnant before we met so I can't really hold her at fault is just DAMN am I really ready to help raise two kids bru is our love really worth all that or is it just list playing a trick on us I wanna see how this plays out cause we only dated for a month and a half and she makes me happy but the shit that's coming with it is telling me gtfo

Nigga you are pussy whipped.

You love having access to pussy.

You love nuttin in a bitch no consequences.

You love the idea of female company.

Could be any ol bitch in her place right now and you'd be in love.

Thats how people like you are.

Get to know yourself.

Go to Italy.

Black_Samson;7369123 said:
And you better not sign the gotdamn birth certificate!

This nigga becoming niggas father figures my nigga god bless you

Thing is bru I'm fickle I love money and spending my money on two kids that ain't mine ain't the move so imma dip eventually I might string it down to the last quarter of the game but eventually I'll leave cause at the end of the day she's a sweet girl but she's to far gone to save and I can't live that section 8 lifestyle....I won't lie imma feel dead ass wrong for abandoning that child but it is what it is that girl damaged good bru
 
You ain't abandoning shit. You only knew this broad for a few weeks. You shouldn't even know the kid yet. More proof she ain't shit.

You're not wrong for leaving.
 
Her grandma gave you a heads up?! How crazy is that when gramps pull you to the side and be like "Son, you ever heard the term THOT?" ...... did you meet her momma?

Who gonna watch them kids if she go into the military?

there's so many run signs in this story ...... you're gonna get struck by lightning next .....
 
brown321;7369338 said:
You ain't abandoning shit. You only knew this broad for a few weeks. You shouldn't even know the kid yet. More proof she ain't shit.

You're not wrong for leaving.

I know bru sometimes I just wanna sit her down and be like "look ma u cool and all but there's some red flags abt u that make u seem like a thot imma leave u but maybe u can correct your that ways and the next man will stay"
 
MECCA1000;7369351 said:
Her grandma gave you a heads up?! How crazy is that when gramps pull you to the side and be like "Son, you ever heard the term THOT?" ...... did you meet her momma?

Who gonna watch them kids if she go into the military?

there's so many run signs in this story ...... you're gonna get struck by lightning next .....

Ya I met her mom....her moms a ex crack addict with a few missing teeth who takes care of retards for a living smh its kinda hard not to see why this girl is the way she is she doesn't know her dad her mom was a crack head she got took by defacts and sent to leave with her grandma along with her 4 siblings and there a other stuff she ain't told me but ya she's had a fckd up life bru
 

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