Folks With Step Kids Get Ova Here / AM I RIGHT OR WRONG

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PlutoBlack;7368938 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7368729 said:
zombie;7368719 said:
you are wrong for even contemplating staying with this girl, don't be an idiot run as fast as you can

thats what im saying i aint gonna flex i like love her she gets me we can talk for hrs and chill just be cool but she tripping i told her straight up either u gettin a abortion or im gone cant take care of two kids that aint mine g

look, this is YO life. Live it is as YOU see fit.

I have observed that the fullest and happiest lives are led by people who defy convention and don't worry about what the next person thinks.

see this is the thing... one and a half months is a little early to learn the nuances of a budding relationship. even in the most ideal situation, it's too soon to know if you're really in it to win it.

give it time. I believe that all things are possible and that like attracts like.

think about that and let that sink in.

See that's what I'm thinking but then again ion want to look like a chump for staying but am I wrong for leaving just cause I'm worried abt what other people think
 
Black_Samson;7369040 said:
Where the fuck is Growing Pains when you need it?

Nigga look based on your decision making abilities in terms of women im going to go head and say you had a deadbeat mother.

Nobody is that gotdamn in need of personal company inless their childhood was full of absentee parents.

Stop repeating history.

Stop trying to save bitches.

Stop taking on charity cases.

Stop needing someone in your gotdamn space.

Get to know and love yourself so youll stop making stupid assed life choices like this shit here.

See now this also make since bru its just idk if I've found the one because she gets me and she was pregnant before we met so I can't really hold her at fault is just DAMN am I really ready to help raise two kids bru is our love really worth all that or is it just list playing a trick on us I wanna see how this plays out cause we only dated for a month and a half and she makes me happy but the shit that's coming with it is telling me gtfo

 
Westie;7368739 said:
How didn't she know she got nutted in a month before you nutted in her?

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She says they wore a condom and me and here we're using condoms till I found out she pregnant then I was like fck it she can't gt pregnant now anyway might as well hit raw
 
IAmDopeSmoke;7369035 said:
mryounggun;7368763 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;521364 said:
ok ok ok i been gone for a few days been dealing with some crazy shit imma give ya the run down

1) my girlfriend found out she pregnant

2) its not my baby

3) she wanna keep it

ok well long story short im dating a girl with a 1yr old child im playing step dad/father figure. i love my girl and my step daughter. we been dating for a month and a half. well imma cut to the chase my gf period was late last month so i bought the test guess what SHE PREGNANT YEEESSS IMMA BE A FATHER RIGHT NAAAAAA DOESNT WORK LIKE THAT we go to the doc get a ultra sound turns out shes TWO MONTHS PREGNANT smh ya ya shocker right. well turns out the guy she was dating before me ended up getting her pregnant and she didnt know it hell i didnt either cause she's one of those (non showing types) and takes some type of pills so sometimes her period comes on late. so now we have a problem ur dating me but pregnant with another guys kid. An thanks to her brain dead momma (who had 5 kids including my gf) shes gonna keep the baby because her family doesnt believe in abortion im like MAAAAANNNNN FCK THAT SHIT EITHER U ABORT THE BABY OR IM OUT THIS BITCH for one om already taken care of your daughter i knew about her before we started dating i signed up for that. i didnt sign up for a surprise baby ya dig. the fuck i look like taken care of two kids that aint mine? i dont mind having 1 step child but two is a noooooo go. on top of that my gf still wants to have my child cause we always talked abt having a baby together but damn ma i didnt want 3 kids just 2 also your 1st babydaddy already dont want shit to do with yalls daughter thats why i stepped up cause i care abt you and her now u pregnant by another nigga which makes babydaddy number 2 and im suppose to be the 3rd and be there for all 3 naaaaa ion like that shit at all. then what makes it worse and a shock to me the nigga she pregnant by now lives RIGHT UP THE FCKIN STREET BRUUUUUU HELL NAH THATS A SUPER VIOLATION G. im ready to dip but i do love her and my step daughter alot but is love enough to swallow this pill is the real question? hell if she'd just have the fckin abortion we could go bck to normal hell it maybe selfish of me but hell its selfish of her to keep it how tf u gonna say u love me and want me to stay when u having another guys kid while u with me bitch u trippin hard.

AM I RIGHT OR WRONG TO ASK HER TO ABORT THE CHILD FOR THE SAKE OF OUR RELATIONSHIP OR NAH

Stopped reading after the bolded. Please look in the mirror and shoot the first thing you see.

Also...I'm calling Duck Tales.

Dude I'm 22 she's 21 I admit I fall in love easy and believe it or not some things in this world can't be defined between right and wrong. Sure guy code says gtfo my brain is saying gtfo but my heart honestly wants to stay with her so ya I'm some what confused so sue me.

Sooooooooo.... :-\"
 
Black_Samson;7369120 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7369101 said:
Black_Samson;7369040 said:
Where the fuck is Growing Pains when you need it?

Nigga look based on your decision making abilities in terms of women im going to go head and say you had a deadbeat mother.

Nobody is that gotdamn in need of personal company inless their childhood was full of absentee parents.

Stop repeating history.

Stop trying to save bitches.

Stop taking on charity cases.

Stop needing someone in your gotdamn space.

Get to know and love yourself so youll stop making stupid assed life choices like this shit here.

See now this also make since bru its just idk if I've found the one because she gets me and she was pregnant before we met so I can't really hold her at fault is just DAMN am I really ready to help raise two kids bru is our love really worth all that or is it just list playing a trick on us I wanna see how this plays out cause we only dated for a month and a half and she makes me happy but the shit that's coming with it is telling me gtfo

Nigga you are pussy whipped.

You love having access to pussy.

You love nuttin in a bitch no consequences.

You love the idea of female company.

Could be any ol bitch in her place right now and you'd be in love.

Thats how people like you are.

Get to know yourself.

Go to Italy.

You know the sad part is u right cause I've noticed the only good times I remember with a female is when I'm fckin them I jsy gotta learn to control that shit cause it gets me into a lot of b.s
 
IAmDopeSmoke;7369141 said:
Black_Samson;7369120 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7369101 said:
Black_Samson;7369040 said:
Where the fuck is Growing Pains when you need it?

Nigga look based on your decision making abilities in terms of women im going to go head and say you had a deadbeat mother.

Nobody is that gotdamn in need of personal company inless their childhood was full of absentee parents.

Stop repeating history.

Stop trying to save bitches.

Stop taking on charity cases.

Stop needing someone in your gotdamn space.

Get to know and love yourself so youll stop making stupid assed life choices like this shit here.

See now this also make since bru its just idk if I've found the one because she gets me and she was pregnant before we met so I can't really hold her at fault is just DAMN am I really ready to help raise two kids bru is our love really worth all that or is it just list playing a trick on us I wanna see how this plays out cause we only dated for a month and a half and she makes me happy but the shit that's coming with it is telling me gtfo

Nigga you are pussy whipped.

You love having access to pussy.

You love nuttin in a bitch no consequences.

You love the idea of female company.

Could be any ol bitch in her place right now and you'd be in love.

Thats how people like you are.

Get to know yourself.

Go to Italy.

You know the sad part is u right cause I've noticed the only good times I remember with a female is when I'm fckin them I jsy gotta learn to control that shit cause it gets me into a lot of b.s

...GTFO of there bruh... :-O
 
IAmDopeSmoke;7368732 said:
but im still fcking her been nutting all in that pregnant pussy

Keep doing this until you get tired then bounce, it aint your baby so dont feel bad about it.

 
CONFLICT;7369117 said:
IAmDopeSmoke;7369042 said:
CONFLICT;7368833 said:
How old r u bruh

22

Wtf is wrong with you kid where is your father?

Oh he been told me leave that girl I just been stringing it along cause I really like fcking her hell y'all folks really didn't read my O/P right I SAID I WAS LEAVING HER...BUT I ASKED WAS I WRONG FOR LEAVING?....Big Difference not my fault y'all didn't see the forest through the trees
 
It seems like your intentions are good, and I'm sure you are a good dude nh. You are young bro. You are still maturing and I'm sure you are still getting to know your self completely and what you want in life. Your first mistake was having sex with her. I know me even saying that will bring about some negative reactions, but I don't care. Having sex complictes things and clouds judgment. She may be cool so far and seem better than any woman you have met, but its only been two months bro....

And you already are contemplating staying with her and taking care of TWO children that aren't even yours....come on man....use your brain. Like @Black_Samson‌ said you are pussy whipped. I've been there before and made decisions that I can look back on and say I was blinded by the sex without a doubt. You barely know this woman bro! Be honest with yourself.

I'm not gonna tell you anything others already haven't. And she may be a good person deep down that has just made some bad decisions that led to two children. My thing is, what happened between her and the father of the baby she is pregnant with? Why aren't they together? Why isn't she still with the father of her oldest child? There are some flags that need investigation on your part. Not all situations are the same and she might have been dealing with two dead beats. But idk... Whatever you do bro do not sign the birth certificate. You may need to sit down and talk with some elders if you have any to do so. I hope you make the right decision and the fact you are willing to stick with her is commendable....but be sure that's what you really want....because there ain't nmop turning back FAM....
 
Did you tell her you only want two kids? She already hit your quota .....

Why did she break up with the last two dudes? Does she have a job? Is she getting CS from daddy # 1 and is she planning on getting CS from daddy # 2?

Are you ready to be in the middle of both the daddies coming back to see their kids ..... this can get complicated like her trying to explain how she got pregnant while using a condom ......
 

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