D. Morgan;c-9696853 said:
Crude_;c-9696806 said:
gns;c-9696762 said:
D. Morgan;c-9696641 said:
This bitch story makes no fucking sense.
Any black man that knows this about her and still dates her would be a fucking fool.
Yea i dont date sistas that have dated whiteboys in the past
You sound just like those White men who say they will not fool with a White woman whose been with Black men. Obviously it's your prerogative who you decide to share your body with but I believe it's narrow minded when they say it just like I believe it's just as narrow minded when you say it.
I parallel that to a Black guy saying they won't deal with a Black woman because she has White in her ancestry and everyone knows these little fair skinned hazel eyed sistas are probably mixed with something. Even looking at great Black women in our history Nikki Giovanni, Rosa Parks, etc.
Judging from how they look they are likely to have some White in their ancestry.
That's a horrible parallel.
I also have the same stance as @gns when it comes to that.
Cutting a black woman for whatever reason from your dating pool ain't the same as cutting her off from wanting to see her do good just as a fellow black person.
I disagree but to each his own.
If all she dated is White guys thats one thing and speaks to a much larger problem that I would want to stay away from with that said, let's just assume there is a White guy in her past that she dated or was in a relationship with I would not automatically dismiss the female just because of that.
I say that especially if the Black woman was intelligent, articulate, attractive, and cognizant of the Black plight (I'm sure that seems like an oxymoron to you seeing as though she was with a White man).
I'm weary of all White people, but I do believe there are some decent ones out there although I tend to believe the larger majority are either bigots or apathetic to bigotry which is a problem, but I'd be foolish and no better than them to make that generalization about ALL of them.
Given that fact I wouldn't automatically write off a Black woman whose dealt with a White man in her past.