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Crude_;c-9696968 said:D. Morgan;c-9696919 said:Crude_;c-9696895 said:You might not agree with it, but it's far from bullshit...
You have no problem dating a mixed girl whose parents were Black and White, but you have an issue dealing with a Black woman whose been with a White man.
Ok I got it.
So you actually comparing a black woman who CHOSE to fuck a white man to that of a child who just so happens to be born mixed race.
How does that make any sense?
One had a choice in who they fucked the other one didn't they were just born because of the choice that someone else made.
This is my last post regarding this.
On one hand you saying you don't fool with White girls but you have no problem CHOOSING to fool with a mixed woman who is technically half White.
So to answer your question no people can't choose what they are born that's not what I'm arguing but you can choose who you decide to deal with, and it seems like a bit of an oxymoron when you see a big problem with messing with a nearly 100% Black woman whose been with as few as even one White guy but you have no problem getting with another woman whose 50% White.
That's backwards logic in my opinion, but you justify it however you like.
playmaker88;c-9696814 said:northside7;c-9696770 said:A whole bunch of color struck light skin and mixed breed people.
This happens the other way as well.
Kwan Dai;c-9697009 said:Crude_;c-9696968 said:D. Morgan;c-9696919 said:Crude_;c-9696895 said:You might not agree with it, but it's far from bullshit...
You have no problem dating a mixed girl whose parents were Black and White, but you have an issue dealing with a Black woman whose been with a White man.
Ok I got it.
So you actually comparing a black woman who CHOSE to fuck a white man to that of a child who just so happens to be born mixed race.
How does that make any sense?
One had a choice in who they fucked the other one didn't they were just born because of the choice that someone else made.
This is my last post regarding this.
On one hand you saying you don't fool with White girls but you have no problem CHOOSING to fool with a mixed woman who is technically half White.
So to answer your question no people can't choose what they are born that's not what I'm arguing but you can choose who you decide to deal with, and it seems like a bit of an oxymoron when you see a big problem with messing with a nearly 100% Black woman whose been with as few as even one White guy but you have no problem getting with another woman whose 50% White.
That's backwards logic in my opinion, but you justify it however you like.
I don't think it's backwards at all. I think your perspective is twisted.
You are centered on genes and ethnicity while I think D. Morgan and myself are centered on ones upbringing and mental. I messed with a Black woman years ago the dated whites, in short she was woat in that she wasn't in touch at all with our history, culture, etc and come to find out most of her family was into dating\marrying whites. Shit was disgusting. Where as I have dated mixed women that never dated whites and identified with their Black history and culture. These types of woman are totally different mentally than sistas who have two Black parents yet choose to date\marry whites. Something is off with them types.
Crude_;c-9696870 said:D. Morgan;c-9696853 said:Crude_;c-9696806 said:gns;c-9696762 said:D. Morgan;c-9696641 said:This bitch story makes no fucking sense.
Any black man that knows this about her and still dates her would be a fucking fool.
Yea i dont date sistas that have dated whiteboys in the past
You sound just like those White men who say they will not fool with a White woman whose been with Black men. Obviously it's your prerogative who you decide to share your body with but I believe it's narrow minded when they say it just like I believe it's just as narrow minded when you say it.
I parallel that to a Black guy saying they won't deal with a Black woman because she has White in her ancestry and everyone knows these little fair skinned hazel eyed sistas are probably mixed with something. Even looking at great Black women in our history Nikki Giovanni, Rosa Parks, etc.
Judging from how they look they are likely to have some White in their ancestry.
That's a horrible parallel.
I also have the same stance as @gns when it comes to that.
Cutting a black woman for whatever reason from your dating pool ain't the same as cutting her off from wanting to see her do good just as a fellow black person.
I disagree but to each his own.
If all she dated is White guys thats one thing and speaks to a much larger problem that I would want to stay away from with that said, let's just assume there is a White guy in her past that she dated or was in a relationship with I would not automatically dismiss the female just because of that.
I say that especially if the Black woman was intelligent, articulate, attractive, and cognizant of the Black plight (I'm sure that seems like an oxymoron to you seeing as though she was with a White man).
I'm weary of all White people, but I do believe there are some decent ones out there although I tend to believe the larger majority are either bigots or apathetic to bigotry which is a problem, but I'd be foolish and no better than them to make that generalization about ALL of them.
Given that fact I wouldn't automatically write off a Black woman whose dealt with a White man in her past.
Undefeatable;c-9696482 said:And on those rare occasions a white boy kissed me in the copy-machine room at our high school, or when a white boy told me over the phone he had a crush on me, the acknowledgement made me feel chosen. It was addictive.
At 18, I was fixated on being attractive to them.
And this here folks is why some sisters are so hung up on that white.
Crude_;c-9696895 said:You might not agree with it, but it's far from bullshit...
You have no problem dating a mixed girl whose parents were Black and White, but you have an issue dealing with a Black woman whose been with a White man.
Ok I got it.
Kai;c-9697148 said:Undefeatable;c-9696482 said:And on those rare occasions a white boy kissed me in the copy-machine room at our high school, or when a white boy told me over the phone he had a crush on me, the acknowledgement made me feel chosen. It was addictive.
At 18, I was fixated on being attractive to them.
And this here folks is why some sisters are so hung up on that white.
i went to an all white high school and none of them hockey hair having translucents were checking for me. i didn't give a fuck tho or turn that shit internal cuz i knew my worth and knew it was something wrong with them, not me. thankfully, i was around plenty of black people from my community (and my family) to know that i wasn't lacking. but trust and believe i saw how some of the black girls i knew in windsor would be falling all over themselves to be found attractive by those white boys. it was pathetic and sad.
this is another reason why you need to be around your own people growing up too. cuz these pale demons will give young people a complex about their worth or attractiveness/desirability. this is why i wanted to go to uni in detroit, cuz the black guys in predominantly white areas are just as bad on the flip side like this woman.
black caesar;c-9696757 said:she shitted on black men her whole life which means some part of her hates her dad.