Fellas: If you were dating a chick...

[Bussy_Getta]

lmao why blaz the only one makin sense in here?

 

[MsSouthern]

I do stuff with my sons mom and my son we dont fuck ..

Has that ever created an issue with someone you were dating/or a gf

no no issues because any women i date knows my son comes first and if he wants to have a family day every so often well thats what we will do... it's not a regular thing but we do it.

if it's family day why not include the woman you are in a relationship with ?

unless you haven't introduced her to your child yet ....

 

[John_Blazini]

so the kids doesn't feel bad???

So you think it's a healthy thing to put on a front. Why not be honest about it? You are only setting the child up for a bunch of confusion if you lie about things

Parents can do things seperatly and still raise a happy child.

it doesnt have to be a front to do things as a family... especially if your child is young like mine. I would never seriously date a bitch that petty to get mad over that... that would be grounds for dismissal

 

[The Prodigalson]

lol @ yall thinkin two people at the same place at the same time means they faking a relationship

lmao why blaz the only one makin sense in here?

Obviously y'all share the same view point.

 

[MsSouthern]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

 

[BlackThor356]

I bet you were hoping they would get back together though.

i always hoped my parents got back together, whether they were yelling at each otha or not. but my parents were very clear to me that they werent, and i accepted it.

but in no way was my parents being in the same place with me and my lil bro a bad thing.

and smh @ yall talkin bout"bring the new bitch to ur family outings." if anything THATS disrespectful!! u and ur BM or BD have a connection 4EVA whether u like it or not. im sorry yall got crummy BM and BD's but that beefin not talkin shit aint whats up.....

 

[John_Blazini]

I do stuff with my sons mom and my son we dont fuck ..

Has that ever created an issue with someone you were dating/or a gf

no no issues because any women i date knows my son comes first and if he wants to have a family day every so often well thats what we will do... it's not a regular thing but we do it.

if it's family day why not include the woman you are in a relationship with ?

unless you haven't introduced her to your child yet ....

well for me no i haven't and my son is too young for all that he has met her guy but he doesnt quite get their relationship not to mention what if it's not long term.. kids get attached... but as his father if he wants to spend time with his mother and I i will always be there.. if i find someone worthy of being included in our family time then we will work on that.

 

[BlackThor356]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

no but my pops was. and if his chick had a problem wit that, then she culd suck my dick

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

I got a homeboy who going thru this exact same SHIT....he be leaving his current wife to go hang with his ex wife n kids....I feel he totally foul for it

 

[BlackThor356]

lol @ it either being beefing and not talking or going on "united" family outings.

So there's no happy medium?

if u and ur BD cant do things together with YALL seed, then theres beef... sorry mama

 

[MsSouthern]

bringing a new bitch ??? I'm talking about a person you are in a relationship not some ho you fucked

My son's dad has a woman he's been with for 5 years. I wouldn't leave her out and only invite my son's dad .... that's rude and disrespectful

 

[BlackThor356]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

I got a homeboy who going thru this exact same SHIT....he be leaving his current wife to go hang with his ex wife n kids....I feel he totally foul for it

if he's being deceitful in any way, then he is foul. like if he fuckin his BM, or not tellin his current g/f what he doin.

 

[.American Loo]

I got a homeboy who going thru this exact same SHIT....he be leaving his current wife to go hang with his ex wife n kids....I feel he totally foul for it[/quote]

that's kinda f*cked up.

 

[John_Blazini]

If she or I are not serious with someone... they dont meet the kid..... so they dont participate in family things... how is that disrespectful?

 

[MsSouthern]

@blazini

well that makes more sense if you are not serious with anyone.

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

I got a homeboy who going thru this exact same SHIT....he be leaving his current wife to go hang with his ex wife n kids....I feel he totally foul for it

if he's being deceitful in any way, then he is foul. like if he fuckin his BM, or not tellin his current g/f what he doin.

Naw he foul cuz he let his ex wife bring her new NIGGA n dnt be a man, stand up, n bring his current wife n child....it ain't like she a random hoe, this his wife n she just had his son...ain't no excuses for that shit

 

[The Prodigalson]

If she or I are not serious with someone... they dont meet the kid..... so they dont participate in family things... how is that disrespectful?

It's not if you're not serious. There will be times you and the baby's mother will be with the child alone. But what happens when your current relationship evolve into something more? By all means I know my kids come first to make them happy, but what about your self happiness?

 

[MsSouthern]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

I got a homeboy who going thru this exact same SHIT....he be leaving his current wife to go hang with his ex wife n kids....I feel he totally foul for it

I couldn't imagine dealing with that

 

[BlackThor356]

bringing a new bitch ??? I'm talking about a person you are in a relationship not some ho you fucked

My son's dad has a woman he's been with for 5 years. I wouldn't leave her out and only invite my son's dad .... that's rude and disrespectful

if thats how u feel then cool, do u. but i dont feel that u HAVE TO do that or ur being disrespectful in some way. now if u calling ur BD over the crib lae at night and shit like that then cool, i see why ur BD's chick wuld be upset and shyt. but simple shit like a movie shouldnt be raisin no suspicions.

remember they aint together anymore for a reason

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

@BlackThor356

was your mom in another relationship at that time?

I get along with my son's dad and he and his family are inculded in various things that have to do with our son. But I wouldn't leave out my man no matter what we were doing.

that's disrespectful

I got a homeboy who going thru this exact same SHIT....he be leaving his current wife to go hang with his ex wife n kids....I feel he totally foul for it

I couldn't imagine dealing with that

What fucks me up is he think the SHIT ok....smh