Fellas: If you were dating a chick...

[Mr.Audigier216]

I never would make a female with a child my main n I Never really been a jealous man...I would never come BTW a man n his child when he actually tryin to spend time with them, thats weak

 

[damobb2deep]

I never would make a female with a child my main n I Never really been a jealous man...I would never come BTW a man n his child when he actually tryin to spend time with them, thats weak

real talk.....

 

[The Prodigalson]

I never would make a female with a child my main n I Never really been a jealous man...I would never come BTW a man n his child when he actually tryin to spend time with them, thats weak

That's your preference of not dating a chick with a child. No one in here is advocating that the father shouldn't see his child. No person should be preventing a child from seeing his father especially a boyfriend, and if the father stood by and let this happen he is a sucker. What we are talking about is your girl friend going on a date with the father and the child. His only obligation is to that chilkd. Why not let the father and child go by themselves? If he catches feelings over that then obviously he feels some kind of way about his baby mother.

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

I never would make a female with a child my main n I Never really been a jealous man...I would never come BTW a man n his child when he actually tryin to spend time with them, thats weak

That's your preference of not dating a chick with a child. No one in here is advocating that the father shouldn't see his child. No person should be preventing a child from seeing his father especially a boyfriend, and if the father stood by and let this happen he is a sucker. What we are talking about is your girl friend going on a date with the father and the child. His only obligation is to that chilkd. Why not let the father and child go by themselves? If he catches feelings over that then obviously he feels some kind of way about his baby mother.

I agree...if she my girl, she ain't goin on no other dates.....

 

[Bussy_Getta]

jesus jealousy runs yall hearts

 

[Bussy_Getta]

lmao so you gonna chase a nigga around so he dont cheat?!?

 

[Bussy_Getta]

"Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection."

if you think you gonna lose the bitch in some way you jealous no?

 

[BlackThor356]

jesus jealousy runs yall hearts

lol basically. ppl gon do what they gon do

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

"Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection."

if you think you gonna lose the bitch in some way you jealous no?

Not really....its a difference BTW being jealous n sitting by n opening the door for problems

 

[.American Loo]

@Pico not sure if this scenario is an issue of jealousy or establishing borders within a new relationship.

there's really no set laws for dating, you kind of have to determine what is and isn't acceptable within your own situation.

 

[BlackThor356]

have yall considered they prolly go to the movies as a family, so the kid dont feel bad? i think its important that parents keep up the unified front for they seed, and not just when it comes to discipline

 

[Bussy_Getta]

have yall considered they prolly go to the movies as a family, so the kid dont feel bad? i think its important that parents keep up the unified front for they seed, and not just when it comes to discipline

that was my first thought about the shit *shrug*

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

lol...if that's your approach then you don't need to be entering a new relationship.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[BlackThor356]

lol...if that's your approach then you don't need to be entering a new relationship.

so even tho u may not be in any way smashing ur BD, u sayin if yall still do things sometimes as a family, then u shuldnt be in a relationship??

 

[MsSouthern]

so the kids doesn't feel bad???

So you think it's a healthy thing to put on a front. Why not be honest about it? You are only setting the child up for a bunch of confusion if you lie about things

Parents can do things seperatly and still raise a happy child.

 

[The Prodigalson]

have yall considered they prolly go to the movies as a family, so the kid dont feel bad? i think its important that parents keep up the unified front for they seed, and not just when it comes to discipline

A unified front? That's disney shit. If it was to be a stable family why didn't they stay together then? No way I would disrespect my current lady to put on a false front for my kids. You giving them the perception that you are together when in actuality you're not. Parents can get along for the good of the kids without pretending to be a complete family.

 

[John_Blazini]

I do stuff with my sons mom and my son we dont fuck ..

Has that ever created an issue with someone you were dating/or a gf

no no issues because any women i date knows my son comes first and if he wants to have a family day every so often well thats what we will do... it's not a regular thing but we do it.

 

[John_Blazini]

I do stuff with my sons mom and my son we dont fuck ..

Is she in a new relationship?

I'm not saying it's impossible cause I did it with my BD for a minute, but he was only doing it to spend time with me and try to get back in...

Not a good look for someone that is with someone else..it's just not appropriate.

yeah she is dating someone... and she let him know the same shit... we have no drama so it's no prob.

 

[BlackThor356]

so the kids doesn't feel bad???

So you think it's a healthy thing to put on a front. Why not be honest about it? You are only setting the child up for a bunch of confusion if you lie about things

Parents can do things seperatly and still raise a happy child.

a front??? im not sayin u shuld be holding hands, and all curled up wit ur BD all up in the movies. i remember when i was a kid, one time my pops came through to pick us up and we all ended up playing monopoly for a couple hours. i was happy to see my moms and pops in the same place. now i knew they werent gettin back together or no shit, but it still felt good havin my family there.

 

[BlackThor356]

lol @ yall thinkin two people at the same place at the same time means they faking a relationship