kzzl;7422208 said:I wouldn't leave, but the OP doesn't do that kind of situation justice. Sex and conversation are no where near the only things you could lose. That shit is heavy.
It's all love and understanding them first few weeks. But after that 6th month and hundredth changing of the shit bag hanging from the hole in they stomach at 3am, anybody might flake. Not to mention the financial burden, the strain on the relationship, kids being involved, that abomination from hell they call a medical bill. Changing your entire life around their handicap. The depression. And you're fucked if you don't have any support from other people as well.
Shit, people get divorced over less everyday.
It's cold blooded, but I'd understand if a person left. Some just ain't built like that. Plus it's for the better, when they start doing it for the wrong reasons that resentment sets in. That hate can be a blinding and powerful thing. Shit could have you lashing in any kind of way.
It's stressful as fuck takin care or someone who can't take care of themselves. There are stories of parents who have handicapped children cracking under the pressure. Most people just are not built for it and cannot handle it, or handle it for very long.
I understand that, which is why I HOPE I can find one who can. As far as myself I'm not sure I could but damn if I'm not willin to try for awhile.