thru thick and thin .....but could you still stay after

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kzzl;7422208 said:
I wouldn't leave, but the OP doesn't do that kind of situation justice. Sex and conversation are no where near the only things you could lose. That shit is heavy.

It's all love and understanding them first few weeks. But after that 6th month and hundredth changing of the shit bag hanging from the hole in they stomach at 3am, anybody might flake. Not to mention the financial burden, the strain on the relationship, kids being involved, that abomination from hell they call a medical bill. Changing your entire life around their handicap. The depression. And you're fucked if you don't have any support from other people as well.

Shit, people get divorced over less everyday.

It's cold blooded, but I'd understand if a person left. Some just ain't built like that. Plus it's for the better, when they start doing it for the wrong reasons that resentment sets in. That hate can be a blinding and powerful thing. Shit could have you lashing in any kind of way.

It's stressful as fuck takin care or someone who can't take care of themselves. There are stories of parents who have handicapped children cracking under the pressure. Most people just are not built for it and cannot handle it, or handle it for very long.

I understand that, which is why I HOPE I can find one who can. As far as myself I'm not sure I could but damn if I'm not willin to try for awhile.
 
I was so blessed to get a good woman, so I already know I would be by her side regardless of the situation.

Our marriage is rooted deeper than simply sex and physical attraction.

When you can love a person holistically it makes it a little easier if a person loses function of something they once had.

 
kzzl;7422208 said:
I wouldn't leave, but the OP doesn't do that kind of situation justice. Sex and conversation are no where near the only things you could lose. That shit is heavy.

It's all love and understanding them first few weeks. But after that 6th month and hundredth changing of the shit bag hanging from the hole in they stomach at 3am, anybody might flake. Not to mention the financial burden, the strain on the relationship, kids being involved, that abomination from hell they call a medical bill. Changing your entire life around their handicap. The depression. And you're fucked if you don't have any support from other people as well.

Shit, people get divorced over less everyday.

It's cold blooded, but I'd understand if a person left. Some just ain't built like that. Plus it's for the better, when they start doing it for the wrong reasons that resentment sets in. That hate can be a blinding and powerful thing. Shit could have you lashing in any kind of way.

so basically, the vows you took don't mean a thing when the situation causes YOU stress and hardship....

sound selfish to me. But do you fam....
 
DWO;7422209 said:
no loyalty chi....rofl
Fuck the dumb shit you nigga's kicking, makes me see who really post with they wife over they shoulder.

No sex, no long conversations, she mentally and physically gone.....gone bruh.....gone. I can't do it

These nignogs can't stay outta Illpix now and they wife happy and healthy, I'm supposed to believe they gonna give a 110% to a vegetable? FOH

@Kzzl said it best

 
Chicity;7422311 said:
DWO;7422209 said:
no loyalty chi....rofl
Fuck the dumb shit you nigga's kicking, makes me see who really post with they wife over they shoulder.

No sex, no long conversations, she mentally and physically gone.....gone bruh.....gone. I can't do it

These nignogs can't stay outta Illpix now and they wife happy and healthy, I'm supposed to believe they gonna give a 110% to a vegetable? FOH

@Kzzl said it best

aye bruh, i'm down for the cause

 
that shit tough...my wife's brother got into a bad accident in March and is paralyzed from his belly button on down. Him and his wife were already beefing and on the verge of breaking up and just had a baby in November of 2013

Shit is a lot of work. He can't feel when he has to piss or shit. she has to wipe his ass. Dude don't have any will power and is still depressed and complains about everything. Nigga acted a fool with the medical staff at the rehab to the point they were like nigga you gotta go. And he's 6'5 300+. Gotta use a lift to get him outta the bed and into the wheelchair. Then when he got home the wheelchair doesn't fit through all of the doors in the house. Fellas at the church built them a ramp. She still hanging in there but she recently asked him about can she have permission to smash off some other dude b/c she wants to have sex. Before and after the accident tho he treats her like shit. Talks down to her. Ran her other son off and some more shit. And I didn't even bring up all the finanacial issues, and once his job cut off his insurance and shit.

 
DWO;7422334 said:
Chicity;7422311 said:
DWO;7422209 said:
no loyalty chi....rofl
Fuck the dumb shit you nigga's kicking, makes me see who really post with they wife over they shoulder.

No sex, no long conversations, she mentally and physically gone.....gone bruh.....gone. I can't do it

These nignogs can't stay outta Illpix now and they wife happy and healthy, I'm supposed to believe they gonna give a 110% to a vegetable? FOH

@Kzzl said it best

aye bruh, i'm down for the cause

You also a Deacon, you supposed to say shit like this
 
lamontbdc;7422339 said:
that shit tough...my wife's brother got into a bad accident in March and is paralyzed from his belly button on down. Him and his wife were already beefing and on the verge of breaking up and just had a baby in November of 2013

Shit is a lot of work. He can't feel when he has to piss or shit. she has to wipe his ass. Dude don't have any will power and is still depressed and complains about everything. Nigga acted a fool with the medical staff at the rehab to the point they were like nigga you gotta go. And he's 6'5 300+. Gotta use a lift to get him outta the bed and into the wheelchair. Then when he got home the wheelchair doesn't fit through all of the doors in the house. Fellas at the church built them a ramp. She still hanging in there but she recently asked him about can she have permission to smash off some other dude b/c she wants to have sex. Before and after the accident tho he treats her like shit. Talks down to her. Ran her other son off and some more shit. And I didn't even bring up all the finanacial issues, and once his job cut off his insurance and shit.

Shieeetttttt fuck that cripple nigga.
 
Yes.

Love isn't about sex, it is about the spiritual connection that you have with that person.

I would never leave anyone that I love for such a vain reason.

When you love someone nothing matters anymore, not the physical shell that protects our soul, because when you love someone that connection out weighs everything else.

 
Chicity;7422311 said:
DWO;7422209 said:
no loyalty chi....rofl
Fuck the dumb shit you nigga's kicking, makes me see who really post with they wife over they shoulder.

No sex, no long conversations, she mentally and physically gone.....gone bruh.....gone. I can't do it

These nignogs can't stay outta Illpix now and they wife happy and healthy, I'm supposed to believe they gonna give a 110% to a vegetable? FOH

@Kzzl said it best

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lamontbdc;7422339 said:
that shit tough...my wife's brother got into a bad accident in March and is paralyzed from his belly button on down. Him and his wife were already beefing and on the verge of breaking up and just had a baby in November of 2013

Shit is a lot of work. He can't feel when he has to piss or shit. she has to wipe his ass. Dude don't have any will power and is still depressed and complains about everything. Nigga acted a fool with the medical staff at the rehab to the point they were like nigga you gotta go. And he's 6'5 300+. Gotta use a lift to get him outta the bed and into the wheelchair. Then when he got home the wheelchair doesn't fit through all of the doors in the house. Fellas at the church built them a ramp. She still hanging in there but she recently asked him about can she have permission to smash off some other dude b/c she wants to have sex. Before and after the accident tho he treats her like shit. Talks down to her. Ran her other son off and some more shit. And I didn't even bring up all the finanacial issues, and once his job cut off his insurance and shit.

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Id roll @peeny_wally around the park, feed her applesauce and blow bubbles in her face....no problem..im loyal
 
lamontbdc;7422339 said:
that shit tough...my wife's brother got into a bad accident in March and is paralyzed from his belly button on down. Him and his wife were already beefing and on the verge of breaking up and just had a baby in November of 2013

Shit is a lot of work. He can't feel when he has to piss or shit. she has to wipe his ass. Dude don't have any will power and is still depressed and complains about everything. Nigga acted a fool with the medical staff at the rehab to the point they were like nigga you gotta go. And he's 6'5 300+. Gotta use a lift to get him outta the bed and into the wheelchair. Then when he got home the wheelchair doesn't fit through all of the doors in the house. Fellas at the church built them a ramp. She still hanging in there but she recently asked him about can she have permission to smash off some other dude b/c she wants to have sex. Before and after the accident tho he treats her like shit. Talks down to her. Ran her other son off and some more shit. And I didn't even bring up all the finanacial issues, and once his job cut off his insurance and shit.

This s@@@ was depression as hell to read. Brotha on the verge of running everybody off, and then offing himself.
 
Chuckpilgrim;7422438 said:
Yes.

Love isn't about sex, it is about the spiritual connection that you have with that person.

I would never leave anyone that I love for such a vain reason.

When you love someone nothing matters anymore, not the physical shell that protects our soul, because when you love someone that connection out weighs everything else.

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Wrong....wrong.....
 

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