The rising counterculture of being an adult without kids.

[ohhhla]

You social conditioning muthafucka keep junctioning your beliefs on others.

I don't want kids because reproducing mediocre or subpar kids is a retarded concept.

Like I'm not the tallest, strongest, fastest, smartest and etc

Wtf do I need to procrete for?

 

[rip.dilla]

Interesting thread . .

It takes probably an average of five minutes to bust a nut (raw) in a woman's vagina. The very easy part.

However, the 'events' that follow that whole process of pro-creation is where a whole lot of problems and failures facing humanity lie . . The 'hard' part

I was 10 years old when my parents seperated. I was thee first out of 4. So the last was just five years old when they broke up.

The effects of bringing a child into this world that you as a person are not 100% sure you can raise properly and care for is far reaching.

I don't have a child of my own yet, but like some here have said, its finding a person who will bear my child with a mind process that is not dictated to or constrained by social, peer or family pressure and who's able to think on her own terms about parenthood . .

Right here in Britain these past few days, there's been shock and uproar over a man (obviously a cracka) who burnt SIX of his biological kids alive in his home over social security benefits. He's serving life currently.

The bearing and rearing of a human being from infant to adulthood isn't something to be taken lightly at all.

Before you even begin the process of having 'unprotected' sex, married or not, think 20 years ahead before you bust that nut . .

 

[2stepz_ahead]

20 years before you bust is a stretch.

i think too many people are putting too much on other shit honestly.

i have to find the right person i have to have enough money, i have to be at the right place in my career. those are excuses.

yall looking at pookie who fukk any chick raw an had 10 kids he dont take care of as a measuring stick? yall looking at project moms as a measuring stick. maybe even looking at how you grew up as a measuring stick. but it made you who you are. take that shit an tweak it and dont bitch about it.

ok ...your parents separated and it must have been hard. but dont get it twisted...i sometimes aint sure im raise my kids right but i am doing what i know how to do and what i think is right. as a parent sometimes you will wonder if you are doing the right thing. thats a part of life. i wonder if i doing the right thing all the time. doesnt mean i dont know what im doing but i like to continue to ask myself questions so i can make the right decision with all the information i have acquired over time.

i think having the thought that kids are hardwork is a thought you let happen in your own minds...and that will shape how you look at kids when you have them because you are already looking at it with negative intentions. thats why niggas outchea not caring for they seeds...because its hard. chicks out here mad because its hard.

All i can say is this, anything that has meaning to you comes with hard work. whether it be a car, house, kid or career. it will be hard work unless you are half-assed and live youe life like that.

being in your early 20's, you shouldnt really be thinking about kidsor settling down an should be having fun....but at some point life happens. sometimes its a turning point that you cant control.

but no one is forcing anyone to have kids...im just saying think about your reasoning. i think some of yall are making yourself believe that shit.

i can at least respect the selfish nigga, saying hes selfish. at least its not bullshit thats blamed on something else.

 

[powerman 5000]

I had no idea it was a "counterculture" I just called it doing what I wanted to do. Ya'll worrying too much about what other people think, as usual.

Per wiki:

Counterculture (also written counter-culture) - a subculture whose values and norms of behavior deviate from those of mainstream society, often in opposition to mainstream cultural mores.

A countercultural movement expresses the ethos, aspirations, and dreams of a specific population during a well-defined era. When oppositional forces reach critical mass, countercultures can trigger dramatic cultural changes.

I think by definition alone, this qualifies.

Never said it was or it wasn't and honestly don't care if it is. Whoever wants kids can have them, whoever doesn't want them, doesn't have to have them. Seems pretty simple and straight forward.

 

[DOC H0LL!DAY]

might be fun now but when you get old your gonna wish you had kids and grand kids and maybe even a hubby still around. it aint for everyone but when you do decide to go that route just make sure it's what you really wanna do.

 

[blackrain]

like i said...i can understand someone not being ready...but most people arent ready. you never ready like you think you would be.

i can understand being selfish, but after a certain age...dont say its because you selfish. thats a young mans excuse.

So what of someone in their late 30's or 40's who has their shit together...great career doesn't try to be the old person in the club and generally lives a good life simply decided having kids wasn't for them because they don't want to dedicate their life to raising someone? You seem to be trying to attach not wanting kids with being immature or scared of responsibility. Not wanting something is very different from being afraid or too immature to handle it

 

[DOC H0LL!DAY]

Its an abundance of Titagraphs in this bytch. Im out chief.

Gif you go wit this post. Thanks in advance.

 

[LPast]

Half of the people in this thread who don't want kids right now will probably end up having some.

Most of the 'counter-culture' has already been pegged to know less of how they want their lives to be structured.

They just put it all together in a later stage in life.

Everyone should wait until they are ready and decided.

 

[twatgetta]

Lots of positives :

1. NO Drama

2. NO Naggin bitch to worry u constantly about shit

3. ALL money is your money

4. You can leave for the clubs at 11pm and not come home until 11am if you wanted to.

5. You can bring a different bitch home every night if you had that Power

6. You can walk around the house nekkid if you wanted to.

7. You can make her walk around the house nekkid if you wnted to.

8. You can kick a bitch out with no back talk.

9. You can sleep in without being disturbed.

10. You can have 2 btiches over at once if you wanted to.

just for starters....

 

[politicalthug202]

more people in the hood need to do this,too many motherfuckers having kids they cant afford

foodstamps is not an acceptable way of life,if you dont have 20k in the bank or you like to party dont have kids

 

[taeboo]

more people in the hood need to do this,too many motherfuckers having kids they cant afford

foodstamps is not an acceptable way of life,if you dont have 20k in the bank or you like to party dont have kids

20,000 in the bank???

 

[2stepz_ahead]

might be fun now but when you get old your gonna wish you had kids and grand kids and maybe even a hubby still around. it aint for everyone but when you do decide to go that route just make sure it's what you really wanna do.

this is the basis of my argument.

niggas dont understand how many people i see regretting that shit now. and out of all the regrets the people with the dumb ass reasons regret it the most.

the selfish people are just selfish and thats their personality trait. but when you have dumb reasons , you will regret the shit more.

an being old and lonely with regret on your heart is not a good thing.

 

[7figz]

more people in the hood need to do this,too many motherfuckers having kids they cant afford

foodstamps is not an acceptable way of life,if you dont have 20k in the bank or you like to party dont have kids

20,000 in the bank???

Not enough / too much ?

(I know which one I think it is - just curious though)

 

[2stepz_ahead]

like i said...i can understand someone not being ready...but most people arent ready. you never ready like you think you would be.

i can understand being selfish, but after a certain age...dont say its because you selfish. thats a young mans excuse.

So what of someone in their late 30's or 40's who has their shit together...great career doesn't try to be the old person in the club and generally lives a good life simply decided having kids wasn't for them because they don't want to dedicate their life to raising someone? You seem to be trying to attach not wanting kids with being immature or scared of responsibility. Not wanting something is very different from being afraid or too immature to handle it

you are absolutely right. but keep it 100....most people dont want kids because of what you just stated. they both fall into insecurity. but whos not insecure when it comes to kids they are raising. shit is scary but its also highly rewarding. but then again living life is scary too....

Im not saying everyone should have kids....im not sure where im coming off like that ...but thats far from what im saying.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

more people in the hood need to do this,too many motherfuckers having kids they cant afford

foodstamps is not an acceptable way of life,if you dont have 20k in the bank or you like to party dont have kids

20k? lol..how the hell you come up with that number. its a nice start but amounts mean nothing.

niggas in the hood dont now shit about kids because they dont know shit about life. they cant afford kids because they think them looking nice is a priority. how many kids you know in the hood whos parents always try to keep them in the flyiest shit yet them still in the hood? if more people actually spend time with they kids, that will mean more than any amount of money.

you do know you can be broke and happy, you can be broke and have a stronger structure than someone with money. honestly money is more likely to make you less of a good parent. because now you have to means to pass off the responsibility to someone else like a nanny or get babysitters.

like i said earlier, the more money you have the more you will want for your kid.

 

[taeboo]

more people in the hood need to do this,too many motherfuckers having kids they cant afford

foodstamps is not an acceptable way of life,if you dont have 20k in the bank or you like to party dont have kids

20,000 in the bank???

Not enough / too much ?

(I know which one I think it is - just curious though)

Too much. Why do you need a certain amount of money in the bank to consider to have a kid anyway....

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Lots of positives :

1. NO Drama

2. NO Naggin bitch to worry u constantly about shit

3. ALL money is your money

4. You can leave for the clubs at 11pm and not come home until 11am if you wanted to.

5. You can bring a different bitch home every night if you had that Power

6. You can walk around the house nekkid if you wanted to.

7. You can make her walk around the house nekkid if you wnted to.

8. You can kick a bitch out with no back talk.

9. You can sleep in without being disturbed.

10. You can have 2 btiches over at once if you wanted to.

just for starters....

1. you can get drama from random bitches and bitches that wont let go.

2. we talking kids not marriage. if your a good dad then that shit wont bother you.

3. ok, and at some point you will realize money aint everything.

4. again, sounds like marriage. you can still do that with a kid. just get a sitter.

5. at some point you will grow up and want to settle down. that shit gets old fast but again...get a sitter.

6. an you can with a child. some people teach their kids to love their body and the human body in general. who better to tech them to love their nakkidness than a parent?

7. you got me here.....no clear response...lol

8. what does that have to do with the kid?

9. if you are with the other parent, let them knowi want to sleep in. if not,drop they ass off.

10. refer to 4,5 and maybe sometimes 7 and 8.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

all this talk of money an kids....needs a spin off thread.

 

[NoCompetition]

But yeah, it only makes sense that this is growing in todays world. Nothing to discuss. Everybody aint gon have kids. At increasing numbers. Good for them. Those that have kids, your infringing not the others. Taking tax money, resources, etc. But I aint mad at you. That aint my concern. Too many feelings in here Im out like dude said.

 

[playmaker88]

Nigga said 20k in the bank lol..

I just dont know sometimes..