Pros / Cons About Marriage

[Shuffington]

I wonder how millennials will handle marriage because I swear, these millennials at the job can't even handle the day to day volatility of work.

 

[Shuffington]

PRO:

- married men live longer and are healthier, both mentally and physically than single men...by a huge factor:

Ima need this broken out by race because Black Man life expectancy is 65 yrs of age... if you're lucky

 

[LordZuko]

Lot of niggas that are married now are only in that position because their wife settled.

Either she was getting up there in age, got kids she comfortable you playing daddy to, or her biological clock ticking. So she figure you are the best she can do, at that moment.

Marriage is nothing but status for females. It legitimizes them in the eyes of other females, at least in regular communities. Black families a whole other trip.

Divorce is the same way. Status. Bitch got the home alimony and cs. She can sit around all day chase young dick and go to Yoga.

A bitch is always looking to better deal your ass. Never forget that. If she see something better she think she can get your ass is gon.

Bitches initiate divorce 70% of the time. They don't go that route unless they already have a new nigga lined up.

Think it's a game. These hoes silly but they diabolical at the same time.

 

[blackgod813]

@ILLBOT. Ban @LordZuko from this we dont need this type of negativity in are life damn dog

 

[aneed123]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

 

[atribecalledgabi]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

 

[aneed123]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Naw but stuff like women mostly are the ones the end relationships... women settling ...women havin that back up plan... them taking all ur shit and older married men telling younger men not to marry or they wouldn't if they could 're do it..all are true

 

[atribecalledgabi]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Naw but stuff like women mostly are the ones the end relationships... women settling ...women havin that back up plan... them taking all ur shit and older married men telling younger men not to marry or they wouldn't if they could 're do it..all are true

But all that is predicated on the notion of women being out to get you...

 

[dallas' 4 eva]

My parents been married 34 years and they actually love each other, I'm so glad I don't know what a broken home looks like so I can't relate to y'alls stories. You just gotta find the right one bruh, think with your big head fuck what your dick says.

Oh yeah I just got engaged on Friday.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

@2stepz_ahead ...Be honest fam and ya post was dope, cosigned U. Any1 else can answer too. Do U open ALL the way up tho with ya wife? Not necessarily keeping secrets but share it all since it is till death do you both part. I'd still feel it as a " Boyfriend / Girlfriend" relationship with kids, house and responsibilities therefore be open and honest still but I'd say fully open with her about 60% only.

are you asking if she knows everything about me?

nah...nobody does but me.

as I am sure I dint know everything about her.

it takes a lifetime to know...some things just never come up..until they come up.

I can say I open up to her with 90-95% of everything. I take care of most things in our life.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Ayo which one a yall married with reservations in your heart and which one of yall ddnt see the red flags? Lets talk about it

the divorced people

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Lot of niggas that are married now are only in that position because their wife settled.

Either she was getting up there in age, got kids she comfortable you playing daddy to, or her biological clock ticking. So she figure you are the best she can do, at that moment.

Marriage is nothing but status for females. It legitimizes them in the eyes of other females, at least in regular communities. Black families a whole other trip.

Divorce is the same way. Status. Bitch got the home alimony and cs. She can sit around all day chase young dick and go to Yoga.

A bitch is always looking to better deal your ass. Never forget that. If she see something better she think she can get your ass is gon.

Bitches initiate divorce 70% of the time. They don't go that route unless they already have a new nigga lined up.

Think it's a game. These hoes silly but they diabolical at the same time.

i agree but also disagree.

I am a person who reads between lines.

you have to ask the right questions to know where your shit is going.

most dudes don't care to ask. I think alot if women don't keep it real with another woman about what marraige is or how to keep it together. an then they set up game by telling other chicks it's been "infidelity" in the past so that's why they cheating or cheated. I always call out that bullshit. they trying to not look selfish but try to look like they have a right.

an losing your job will tell you everything you need to know.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Naw but stuff like women mostly are the ones the end relationships... women settling ...women havin that back up plan... them taking all ur shit and older married men telling younger men not to marry or they wouldn't if they could 're do it..all are true

But all that is predicated on the notion of women being out to get you...

80% mostly likely are.

 

[playmaker88]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Naw but stuff like women mostly are the ones the end relationships... women settling ...women havin that back up plan... them taking all ur shit and older married men telling younger men not to marry or they wouldn't if they could 're do it..all are true

But all that is predicated on the notion of women being out to get you...

80% mostly likely are.

but the things is most of those niggas are out to get the girls that are out out to get them.. maybe not in the same way but the end result is getting got....because you played a game.. then when the game got too real.. and niggas dont wanna play no more..

 

[2stepz_ahead]

gloomy as it sounds zuko saying a lot of blunt truths

"Every woman is out to get you" is true?

Naw but stuff like women mostly are the ones the end relationships... women settling ...women havin that back up plan... them taking all ur shit and older married men telling younger men not to marry or they wouldn't if they could 're do it..all are true

But all that is predicated on the notion of women being out to get you...

80% mostly likely are.

but the things is most of those niggas are out to get the girls that are out out to get them.. maybe not in the same way but the end result is getting got....because you played a game.. then when the game got too real.. and niggas dont wanna play no more..

an that's why niggas dint want to commit to the game...

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

Its not for everybody. Fact.

 

[rickmogul]

@2stepz_ahead ....Yeah, that's what I was asking and u addressed it. That last part" About losing ya gig" is the Ghetto Gospel right there. I hope fellow bruhs on here NEVER experience this one. Might hurt a man's pride when he finds out he's been played the whole time and wifey bounces or belittles you when you need her the most. Layoff threats at an old gig and you would hear the Whites and azn's say " My wife is gonna leave me." straight face and serious as ever. I get it now. Soak it up young brehs. Only place game is " Told and not Sold.". Stay up.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

@2stepz_ahead ....Yeah, that's what I was asking and u addressed it. That last part" About losing ya gig" is the Ghetto Gospel right there. I hope fellow bruhs on here NEVER experience this one. Might hurt a man's pride when he finds out he's been played the whole time and wifey bounces or belittles you when you need her the most. Layoff threats at an old gig and you would hear the Whites and azn's say " My wife is gonna leave me." straight face and serious as ever. I get it now. Soak it up young brehs. Only place game is " Told and not Sold.". Stay up.

said part is....alot of chicks don't care of the reason why....

if a nigga don't wanna work an aint shit is the same as a nigga who lost his job but actively looking for work.

integrity and character mean nothing. you must find a chick who takes these words with weight.

an if she has a decent father who keeps the mom from looking outta control...you might be good. I seen chicks with dads but the mother constantly takes his balls.

 

[Shuffington]

Pro:

After a long day of dealing with assholes at the work place, you come home to a nurturing wife and a delicious home cooked meal featuring your favorite foods.... She even made dessert too.. How about that?

Cons:

After a long struggle day at work dealing with assholes, you're headed home finally to relax! and before you get into your car, the wife calls you asking you to pick up some bullsh*t ingredients at the grocery store for a disgusting vegan dish that she wants to prepare.

Upon arriving at home with all the wrong ingredients she proceeds to yell at you for the first 22 minutes of your arrival and guilts you into leaving back out to go get the correct ingredients at the store.

meanwhile, she's been home all day doing absolutely nothing but looking for new sh*t to buy off of Amazon and deciding whether she should reply to the plethora of thirsty emails from random dudes she shares a message board forum with.

 

[numbaz...80's baby]

Pros: There is no pros. It's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend can't besides give permission to let you die in a hospital. Not really a pro but that's all I got.

Cons: Not enough time in the day

I believe in marriage. I just don't believe in the man-made laws of a divorce.