Pros / Cons About Marriage

[AZTG]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

 

[AZTG]

CON:

- no more pussy variety

- freedom to do things you want to decreases: it's a group decision now

- Spontaneity decreases...specially if kids are involved: everything has to be planned carefully

PRO:

- married men live longer and are healthier, both mentally and physically than single men...by a huge factor:

@ the bolded.

Not true. I'm divorced. Any married woman will let her husband keep a mistress. You do things with your mistress that you wouldn't do with your wife.

Having said that, if you marry the wrong woman it won't work. It just won't.

As far as getting divorced and her getting half, if she was cooking your meals, doing your laundry and taking care of the kids she deserves half.

@5grand strikes again. drop game bruh. how?

 

[blue_london]

cons- if she has unhappy. single friends

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[texas409]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

true.....could have been seeing or hearing about how much fun the single life is or how people don't have to live by rules an how they givern themselves. get to smash anyone... keep your own money...yadda yadda

those type people never keep it all the way 100. but then say married people don't keep it 100.

all that after a seemly nice life? not that she was unhappy... but she dint believe in it.

that sound like a new nigga or feeling left out.

 

[AZTG]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

I mean any marriage can end, regardless of right it was.

To me the idea is to try to limit risk. Life is all about risk management, marriage aint different.

Another thing people should do is wait till they are at a minimum 28+ to marry. At that point a person knows if they are marriage material or not.

Some people are just not marriage material.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

I mean any marriage can end, regardless of right it was.

To me the idea is to try to limit risk. Life is all about risk management, marriage aint different.

Another thing people should do is wait till they are at a minimum 28+ to marry. At that point a person knows if they are marriage material or not.

Some people are just not marriage material.

crazy how many women think they are

 

[AZTG]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

I mean any marriage can end, regardless of right it was.

To me the idea is to try to limit risk. Life is all about risk management, marriage aint different.

Another thing people should do is wait till they are at a minimum 28+ to marry. At that point a person knows if they are marriage material or not.

Some people are just not marriage material.

crazy how many women think they are

It takes two to tango.

Plenty of men think they marriage material too.

Then you see situations where both partners are marriage material, but one of the two arent parent material.

Im neither one man. Maybe one day, but as of now, no marriage for me, and definetely no kids.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

I mean any marriage can end, regardless of right it was.

To me the idea is to try to limit risk. Life is all about risk management, marriage aint different.

Another thing people should do is wait till they are at a minimum 28+ to marry. At that point a person knows if they are marriage material or not.

Some people are just not marriage material.

crazy how many women think they are

It takes two to tango.

Plenty of men think they marriage material too.

Then you see situations where both partners are marriage material, but one of the two arent parent material.

Im neither one man. Maybe one day, but as of now, no marriage for me, and definetely no kids.

I'm not sure dudes think they are marraige material....more like a catch cuz they think they thorough.

 

[LordZuko]

I'm getting married in two months and be with my lady for 6 years.

Can't wait. We on the same page and got the same goals.

I know he cons but also know the pros.

Yea it's cool now. Once you say "i do" and sign that contact. She owns your whole ass and then some.

 

[7figz]

Pros ?

In-house pussy sex partner.

In-house cook person to share household duties.

Not living in sin - if you're the religious type.

 

[playmaker88]

If you are lookin at it form that angle then one of these things maybe true

You aint ready

You are getting married for the wrong reasons

Your/your partner aint shit..

 

[7figz]

Cons ?

Having to split anything purchased during the marriage 50/50 no matter who purchased it and with whose money (in the event of divorce).

Having to pay spousal support / alimony.

Getting tired of the same sex partner.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I don't see how marriage does anything different in child rearing. Obviously single parent homes yes but if the couple stayed together but were never married I don't think it has any bearing on how the kids turn out. And since the gov here said its common law after like a year? I really don't see the point. Except* maybe to have a big fancy expensive party.

 

[LordZuko]

Most niggas think a marriage is going smooth till it ain't. Ya bitch will know months in advance she about to divorce you.

She'll be making preparations seeing lawyers coaching the kids. Letting her friends know. Everybody will know but you.

When will you know? At the job, some random nigga walks up to your desk, "hey you so n so?" you, quizzical than a mothafuck, but cautious ready to throw hands. Yea that's me.

"Nigga you been served"

You look at the papers it say you can't go back to the crib. You call your wife she don't answer. You go to the house anyway there's either a sheriff there already or she changed the locks. Kids at grandma's.

You gotta call the homey see if you can crash on his couch. You go to the store pick up a six pack. You get in line "PAYMENT DECLINED" that bitch either cleaned out y'all joint bank account or got an injunction put on that bitch. Either way you broke.

Y'all think it's a game if you want.

 

[AZTG]

Im sure one reason my ex called off our wedding and engagement was cause I told her we could have the wedding, and everyone could think differently, but im not signing no papers.

Haha, at first she was cool with it, but as it got closer it started to bother her a lot.

 

[spit_fiya]

i mean, past the pros and cons, first people should realize marriage aint for everybody.

marriage, just like anything else, has to be done right.

you got a good job and a 401k, and you marrying a bitch that doesnt even work? you done fucked up from the get go.

marry someone on your level. you a professional making x amount of dollars? marry a chick who is a proffesional and makes money in the same range.

marry someone who believes the same thing you do, you religious? make sure she is too. you family oriented? make sure she is too.

whatever your level of maturity is, make sure the person you are marrying is there too. you more mature then her and yall both bout to get married? you fucking up.

you cant find the person to meet this criteria? well fuck it, wait till you do. who the fuck gets married just to get married?

follow these simple rules and there is a high chance your marriage will be one that works out.

Real facts right here. My homie had the perfect marriage on paper they both make good bread have 2 beautiful lil ones and wife came home one day and said she doesn't believe in marriage anymore SMH blew my mind how that could happen cause they got along great. Point is I believe the mental maturity was off with one of them

She said she doesnt believe in marriage but I bet she believes in spousal support.

 

[Trollio]

Most niggas think a marriage is going smooth till it ain't. Ya bitch will know months in advance she about to divorce you.

She'll be making preparations seeing lawyers coaching the kids. Letting her friends know. Everybody will know but you.

When will you know? At the job, some random nigga walks up to your desk, "hey you so n so?" you, quizzical than a mothafuck, but cautious ready to throw hands. Yea that's me.

"Nigga you been served"

You look at the papers it say you can't go back to the crib. You call your wife she don't answer. You go to the house anyway there's either a sheriff there already or she changed the locks. Kids at grandma's.

You gotta call the homey see if you can crash on his couch. You go to the store pick up a six pack. You get in line "PAYMENT DECLINED" that bitch either cleaned out y'all joint bank account or got an injunction put on that bitch. Either way you broke.

Y'all think it's a game if you want.

Lol damn nigga

 

[deadeye]

Bad for a woman good for a man

It's actually the other way around.

 

[deadeye]

Pro:???

Con: a bitch can divorce you for no reason kick you out your own home, deny you access to your kids, move her new bf or gf into the crib that you're still paying for, and you have to pay alimony and child support while paying for rent ina one bdrm or studio apt.

True.

Back in the day marriage favored men..........now it favors women.

No-Fault divorce changed the game.