Would You Let Your Child Sleepover At Their Friend's House....

[mryounggun]

I didnt say it was gonna turn him gay....i said he might pick up some of their behaviors and mannerisms, acting feminine and shit, being interested in shit i dont approve of, you can normalize any type of behavior if you see it enough

Then nip that in the bud like you would any other behavior. SMH. If you're not concerned about him being gay, then it's just like anything else. If your kid saw his friends dada standing on the porch smoking a cigarette, then came home and one day you say him like with a pen or some shit in his mouth pretending he's smoking, you'd just explain to him that smoking is bad for you and that you shouldn't do it. Then move on, right? Or would you forbid him from ever spending a night at his friends how again?

 

[Kushington]

Yea but only dumb kids are like that, if he (cuz I know this is about a hypothetical son) is your kid you should have the biggest impression on him...His friend's parents should be a complete afterthought...He will only be gay if it's already in him...I guess we got different ideas of flaming..I wasn't talking about Cam and Mitchell gay I was talking about Rupaul gay...

I dont know who cam and mitchell are, but kids arent only influenced by their parents, everything influences children, you cant just say "only dumb kids are like that" because children are inherently dumb until you teach them stuff

 

[MissLeading]

I dont give a fuck

Lol.. This ^^^^^^......

 

[HafBayked]

hell no............not a homophobe....but no....she will discover/witness that another way on her own time

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

I think imma have to Say no to this one

 

[shawnbrown]

hell no............not a homophobe....but no....she will discover/witness that another way on her own time

^^^ homophob post

 

[Hypernova]

This is a reasonable response, but you did say "not the first time i met the parents"

the premise of the thread is that you dont know your kid's friend's parents at all, but you do know theyre gay since you met them before and your kid wants to visit his friend overnight at their house

To be fair, to be fair,if I didn't know my kid's friend's parents at all, I wouldn't let my kid sleep over regardless of sexuality.

 

[Kushington]

Then nip that in the bud like you would any other behavior. SMH. If you're not concerned about him being gay, then it's just like anything else. If your kid saw his friends dada standing on the porch smoking a cigarette, then came home and one day you say him like with a pen or some shit in his mouth pretending he's smoking, you'd just explain to him that smoking is bad for you and that you shouldn't do it. Then move on, right? Or would you forbid him from ever spending a night at his friends how again?

So if your son comes home snappin his fingers and swishing his hips, acting like a girl without actually knowing what hes doing....and since you already said "if somebody is gay theyre gay", are you gonna let that behavior slide? Im not talking about your child being a homosexual, im talking about picking up mannerisms

if a kid hangs around gang members, after awhile he will begin to emulate the gang members, same thing with any type of behavior, its human nature

 

[wmj710]

Id have to know the parents and I don't associate with gays so id have to say no.

 

[CapitalC]

I dont know who cam and mitchell are, but kids arent only influenced by their parents, everything influences children, you cant just say "only dumb kids are like that" because children are inherently dumb until you teach them stuff

Cam and Mitchell are from Modern family...good show...

But I mean my best friend from pre-k to high school was white, like really white they lived on Capitol Hill...

I spent the night over there all the time, barely even thought about his parents, their super-white mannerisms or none of that shit...

It was weird they didn't use wash cloths, but that shit wasnt life-altering....Gay people raise straight kids all the time...

 

[Bussy_Getta]

i dont care about sexuality i just have to get to know them beforehand so i know my child is safe

 

[blackrain]

If I've never met them, no, that's regardless of whether their gay or straight....if I know them and they're good parents, good people, I wouldn't care...as much as straight people raise gay kids you'd think the question would be the opposite

 

[Kushington]

Cam and Mitchell are from Modern family...good show... But I mean my best friend from pre-k to high school was white, like really white they lived on Capitol Hill... I spent the night over there all the time, barely even thought about his parents, their super-white mannerisms or none of that shit... It was weird they didn't use wash cloths, but that shit wasnt life-altering....Gay people raise straight kids all the time...

Racial mannerisms? But arent you from the ghetto, no offense?

i used to sleepover, take trips and go everywhere with my white friends and their families when i was younger, i was on some ultra carefree suburban shit, a darkskin white person lmao.....then my fam moved and i had to go to school with more blacks and hispanics who were from the inner city,but i still lived on the nice side of town.....niggas used to say i was a white boy lmaooo until i started acting ghetto like them...

learned behavior bruh, now im a real nigga lmaoooo, shit is no joke

 

[CapitalC]

Racial mannerisms? But arent you from the ghetto, no offense?

i used to sleepover, take trips and go everywhere with my white friends and their families when i was younger, i was on some ultra carefree suburban shit, a darkskin white person lmao.....then my fam moved and i had to go to school with more blacks and hispanics who were from the inner city,but i still lived on the nice side of town.....niggas used to say i was a white boy lmaooo until i started acting ghetto like them...

learned behavior bruh, now im a real nigga lmaoooo, shit is no joke

Lol you reminded me of some show I seen where dude was like "you're a Mexican, no offense" lol

I mean who adopts mannerisms from their friend's parents? Like if anything he would copy his friend...

 

[Kushington]

Lol you reminded me of some show I seen where dude was like "you're a Mexican, no offense" lol I mean who adopts mannerisms from their friend's parents? Like if anything he would copy his friend...

I just used the friends parents as an example of the environment....but i would generally think the kid of two homos acts way more homo than a kid from a normal family.....but i didnt wanna be mean to the hypothetical kid cause its not his fault some homos adopted him

 

[twinzmom]

I wouldn't, because I dont want my kids to think that its ok.

 

[CapitalC]

I just used the friends parents as an example of the environment....but i would generally think the kid of two homos acts way more homo than a kid from a normal family.....but i didnt wanna be mean to the hypothetical kid cause its not his fault some homos adopted him

I can dig it....But I worked at a private school summer camp and the kids of the gay parents were just like the other kids...

One lil boy had gay parents and he was pretty polite for 8, always please and thank you...but he was the most athletic kid there

 

[Bussy_Getta]

I wouldn't, because I dont want my kids to think that its ok.

with all the shit your kids see in public and tv i highly doubt something like that is gonna affect them negatively

 

[Truerap]

I wouldn't, because I dont want my kids to think that its ok.

You hate gays lol.

Most chicks love gay men.

 

[twinzmom]

You hate gays lol.

Most chicks love gay men.

I dont hate them, I just dont like PDA from them.