Is There Anyway To Avoid Child Support

[TayGettem]

She doesn't think, move or act like a adult at all b.

 

[yellowtapesport]

You just throwin yourself to the wolves young nigga smh

 

[MsSouthern]

My end goal is to just see my son. I work 12hrs a day M to F so obviously full custody is a no go. She doesn't work so clearly she has more free time so im the financial provider for my kid besides her grandparents. So Pampers, wipes, clothes...etc is all me. All she gotta do is watch him. We had a verbal agreements i get him every two weeks and can come see him when ever i want. But since she started dating this new guy she been actin funny. She took our child to this man's house for a whole week without consulting me and wouldnt answer her phone so i couldnt even get in contact with her or my child and wouldnt gemme a address. Now she talkin bout her and her new nigga moving to Florida and taking my son......i just want to see my son but its lookin like going to court the only way to do that which means CS and i don't want that. Cuz why pay her 300 to 400 a month to see my child when i already buy him everything he need and want anyway. Thats jst giving her free money to do watever with

wait so you don't to be the primary parent .....just not pay her support ????

Smh

And why does she have to ask permission to take your child somewhere ??? Unless the person is a threat to your child you will lose that battle

Without a court order you don't have any rights

In THAT situation? Shorty taking his kid to some new niggas house...who he hasn't met with yet...for an entire week...and refuse to give him the address?

Yeah, aight. To put it lightly, I'ma have a problem with that too.

But you have a good relationship with your kid's mom.

He doesn't. In fact refers to her as a bird amongst other things. Hella disrespectful on his part.

So out of respect.... ya she should introduce them so he feels comfortable ....but she's not breaking any laws by not

The bolded is irrelevant, based on exactly what you mentioned...respect. You don't do shit like that in general just out of RESPECT for the other parent. It don't really matter if they get along or not. Family members don't always get along. But there should be a basic level of respect that's always adhered to no matter what. From both sides. Period.

It should be but in reality with feelings and emotions and kids and money.....it's not

I'm not saying either of them should be disrespectful ....I just know that getting along or not getting along with the other parent makes a difference in raising your child

 

[TayGettem]

You just throwin yourself to the wolves young nigga smh

Ay i honestly look on the bright side her leaving i didn't really lose shit.

I got my health

Got a better bitch with a job and hustle abt herself

Im not on CS (yet)

I got my money

I got my sanity

An i still got to fck her multiple times when her bf got locked up (he out now)

All in all i did fine im jst annoyed with her tryin to distance me from my son like he dont already call me daddy and shit

 

[yellowtapesport]

All that is great @"TayGettem " and I was with you till you dropped the xtra info bout your BM...now it all seem like a lose/lose situation and looking for the easy way out of those situations aint always the best way. And thats from experience, not just no cliche bullshit..

 

[mryounggun]

Random: It's wild how easy it is tell tell niggas ages by their posts.

 

[SneakDZA]

I ain't reading all this shit but I hope somebody already said use a goddamn condom or pull the fuck out already.

 

[SneakDZA]

Also, abortion. Plan B. Abstinence.

There are tons of ways to avoid paying child support. Somebody find me a way to avoid paying taxes.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

gotta make sure you in this to win.

cant be part timing it.

you just wasnt dealt those card bruh.

everybody aint @mryounggun i still hate that niggas guts for having such an understand bm. this some bullshit

Hate ya own guts, nigga. Lol. I be tryna tell y'all niggas. I didn't just slip and fall into a partner who ain't a piece of shit. I orchestrated it that way. Before ANYTHING else, niggas need to ask themselves this before having a baby with a woman:

'Is this a GOOD PERSON?'.

It ain't that difficult.

yea...we gon fight nigga.

ole it aint difficult ass nigga

maybe you lucked up.

how about that shit?

niggas dont want to be thankful, they wanna act like they got it together.

It's a bit of both, admittedly. But only like 25% luck, at most nigga. How about THAT?!?

why cant you let a nigga have the last word so it can appear i won?

you selfish

 

[2stepz_ahead]

My end goal is to just see my son. I work 12hrs a day M to F so obviously full custody is a no go. She doesn't work so clearly she has more free time so im the financial provider for my kid besides her grandparents. So Pampers, wipes, clothes...etc is all me. All she gotta do is watch him. We had a verbal agreements i get him every two weeks and can come see him when ever i want. But since she started dating this new guy she been actin funny. She took our child to this man's house for a whole week without consulting me and wouldnt answer her phone so i couldnt even get in contact with her or my child and wouldnt gemme a address. Now she talkin bout her and her new nigga moving to Florida and taking my son......i just want to see my son but its lookin like going to court the only way to do that which means CS and i don't want that. Cuz why pay her 300 to 400 a month to see my child when i already buy him everything he need and want anyway. Thats jst giving her free money to do watever with

wait so you don't to be the primary parent .....just not pay her support ????

Smh

And why does she have to ask permission to take your child somewhere ??? Unless the person is a threat to your child you will lose that battle

Without a court order you don't have any rights

Ay im not tryin to take our kid from her. She a ain't shit cheatin mf for sure but she a good mom. I just aint liking how she tryin to distance me from my kid. If it comes to it ill hit da courts i jst dont wanna do CS

smdh

bruh.....you just cancelled all shit out with this post.

how is she a good mom if you dont see your child and she got her child around another man you dont know and the nigga aint even trynna make it a point to be a man an meet you if she acting a fool.

you want all the good shit with none of the work....thats the bottomline. money is stopping you from seeing your kid.

money

your need to question your priorities as a man

 

[2stepz_ahead]

My end goal is to just see my son. I work 12hrs a day M to F so obviously full custody is a no go. She doesn't work so clearly she has more free time so im the financial provider for my kid besides her grandparents. So Pampers, wipes, clothes...etc is all me. All she gotta do is watch him. We had a verbal agreements i get him every two weeks and can come see him when ever i want. But since she started dating this new guy she been actin funny. She took our child to this man's house for a whole week without consulting me and wouldnt answer her phone so i couldnt even get in contact with her or my child and wouldnt gemme a address. Now she talkin bout her and her new nigga moving to Florida and taking my son......i just want to see my son but its lookin like going to court the only way to do that which means CS and i don't want that. Cuz why pay her 300 to 400 a month to see my child when i already buy him everything he need and want anyway. Thats jst giving her free money to do watever with

wait so you don't to be the primary parent .....just not pay her support ????

Smh

And why does she have to ask permission to take your child somewhere ??? Unless the person is a threat to your child you will lose that battle

Without a court order you don't have any rights

Ay im not tryin to take our kid from her. She a ain't shit cheatin mf for sure but she a good mom. I just aint liking how she tryin to distance me from my kid. If it comes to it ill hit da courts i jst dont wanna do CS

She doesn't think, move or act like a adult at all b.

case and point

 

[2stepz_ahead]

You just throwin yourself to the wolves young nigga smh

Ay i honestly look on the bright side her leaving i didn't really lose shit.

I got my health

Got a better bitch with a job and hustle abt herself

Im not on CS (yet)

I got my money

I got my sanity

An i still got to fck her multiple times when her bf got locked up (he out now)

All in all i did fine im jst annoyed with her tryin to distance me from my son like he dont already call me daddy and shit

but you aint got your kid....so what does anything else matter?

 

[aneed123]

I already signed his birth certificate. I was there when she pushed him out. He's two now ik he's mine cuz she started messing around in like dec of last yr. My issue is i have no legal claim to him without a dna test but i get one i still get out on CS. Why should i have to pay this bird 300 to 400 just for the privilege to see my son who i helped create when im already taking care of him all cuz she wanna keep him from me df. The system rigged to fck me over

nigga if u dont swab dat babies mouth or steal some hair and get tested... u behind the 8 ball cuz u wanna be nice fuck her feelings

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I already signed his birth certificate. I was there when she pushed him out. He's two now ik he's mine cuz she started messing around in like dec of last yr. My issue is i have no legal claim to him without a dna test but i get one i still get out on CS. Why should i have to pay this bird 300 to 400 just for the privilege to see my son who i helped create when im already taking care of him all cuz she wanna keep him from me df. The system rigged to fck me over

nigga if u dont swab dat babies mouth or steal some hair and get tested... u behind the 8 ball cuz u wanna be nice fuck her feelings

i dont think he wants to be nice....not sure what it is....

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

u gotta wife the bm. only way outta the shit without killin her

 

[2stepz_ahead]

u gotta wife the bm. only way outta the shit without killin her

an give a crazy chick access to everything?

then you might still end up having to kill her.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

an how do we know he will even have to pay $300-400.

that shit is determined when you get to court an they see your check and your expenses

 

[MsSouthern]

an how do we know he will even have to pay $300-400.

that shit is determined when you get to court an they see your check and your expenses

Most states just base it off your income

20% for one child in Texas

 

[2stepz_ahead]

thats crazy.....

maybe i will just be thankful for now

 

[KamPushMe]

Why do you niggas have kids in the first place??

Lack of parental guidance