2stepz_ahead;9533942 said:
AZTG;9533921 said:
One thing is the fact that poor people arent poor because they are dumb, people are usually making dumb decisions because they are poor.
Let me explain and I can only use myself as a example. My come up was quick and unexpected. Now what I mean is I was always hustling to come up, but at one point I fell on hard times and it looked like my come up was far away, and then a move here and a move there and next thing I know im in a very good situation. I say that to bring this into perspective.
Now, im not as rich as some of the high rollers here but I went from broke working for $8 an hour to upper middle class making 100k+ over night.
Once that happened, my perspective of money and money management changed. I know think of things and consider view points I never had before. When I was broke, I always knew I was gonna make it. But, my mind state was always like I cant wait to cop that E Class or 5 series.
Once I started making more money then I ever had and more then anyone I personally knew was making, I started thinking like yo forget the 50k car cause as soon as I get the 50k car ima want the 100k car and the money I spent on the 50k car gonna be burned. So instead of copping that 5 i started thinking of a safety net, and then let me invest into here, and then start an IRA. Before it was always I cant wait to go back to the hood driving the E class and flex on the whole neighborhood. Good thing I aint do that cause its some real wolves in Paterson (shout out!)
Its like that Nas line, "by the time you can afford it, the car aint important"
I say all that to say that its hard to learn about financial literacy when you have no finances. Hard to think about how to make money work for me and hard to think ahead when im barely getting by check to check.
GOAt shit an congrats.
now...let me ask you....if someone had been in your ear while you was on the come up or even left knowledge to you when you was broke.....do you think any of it would have stuck or do you think you had to have a hard fall from grace before you listen....
i honestly think id someone talked to you before ...you might not have made certain mistakes...but you may have still made others cause no one is perfect.
keep getting it bruh
Thanks bruh. I appreciate it.
Ima keep it real with you and again I can only use me as an example and this might only be me.
I was always down to listen but its a difference between listening and understanding. Its hard to understand something you never touch. My situation wasnt like I had momey, lost it, and had to remake it. I come from a poor family. Until the last few years, I was poor. So if you woulda came to me and talked to about being smart with my finances it woulda been like describing color to the blind. Like i woulda listened and been interested but it would not make total sense to me cause all my energy woulda been spent on planning what to do with the next check and all the places that money had to go just to keep me current.
Its kinda like when you young and single and see a dude having women trouble. You look at him begging his girl to stay and you dont understand. You think like man imagine me begging any girl to stay! Ill kick that bitch to the curb asap! And then, you fall in love for the first time, fuck up, and you find yourself like baby please dont go! It was hard to understand why dude was begging his girl to stay and you thought he was weak for beging her not to leave him until you felt them emotions.
Financial responsibility is kinda the same. Its hard to tell a person that only has $100 left after paying bills to save that $100. Especially when the number is so small. He gonna look at you like man I have to save for 7 months just to have enough for 1 rent payment? Fuck that i rather spend on weed.
Much easier to save when you can throw 4k in savings every months and you see the money stack.
So what im trying to say is that the issue isnt that people are dumb or dont wanna listen. Its kinda like me coming to earth from mars and describing mars to you. You gonna be like bruh shut the fuck up cause its a whole different world you never got to experience.
Now, having poor people actually know how to manage money will be extremely beneficial. Especially if you could educate a whole subset of people. But how you go about getting them to listen to and follow that advice is the answer I dont have. And again, it aint cause people are dumb its just hard to sit and listen about a world that is completly different then mine.