mryounggun
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MansaMusa67;6734985 said:mryounggun;6734949 said:MansaMusa67;6734936 said:mryounggun;6734844 said:MansaMusa67;6734833 said:mryounggun;6734808 said:What's the question, fam?
MansaMusa67;6734753 said:desertrain10;6734486 said:MansaMusa67;6733920 said:desertrain10;6733894 said:I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females
Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...
It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate
This is my point...
there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...
Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?
I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that
Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc
Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed
Ok then....answer the question....
Other than personal gratification....what good comes from promiscuous sex?
mryounggun;6734808 said:What's the question, fam?
Sexual satisfaction. Simple.
Either niggas trollin...or tall comprehension off den a bitch lmao got damn...bruh I said except personal gratification....
Or maybe I consider 'personal gratification' and 'sexual satisfaction' two different things. Ever consider that?
Personal gratification = You been trying to smash some random woman for a while and you finally hit
Sexual Satisfaction = Bussin' that nut
Anyway, your question has been answered. Here's my question:
Does there need to be more good that comes from it? Why is that not good enough? Are you implying that sex with a person you are not committed to is wrong because those are the only good things that come from it?
u avoiding the inevitable "no" answer lol.
MansaMusa67;6734819 said:kai;6734752 said:desertrain10;6734704 said:kai;6734498 said:ThirdEyeFive;6734355 said:when did patriarchy die?
because as far as i know women been expected to b more seleccompatibleith their ce the of time.
how is it a fantasy?
just because u see sluts in your hood given respect usually reserved for wholesome ladies doesn't mean the rest of the planet has totally succumb to low expations, faux feminism, and dignified harlotry.
people also don't like to acknowledge that the double standard is really due to biology. you can't undo thousands of years of evolution just cuz you wanna say oh women can/should do everything men do
biologically, sexually promiscuity has a much higher risk than it does reward for women, the opposite is true for men. men are literally biologically driven to mate with as many partners as possible, women aren't and therefore societal expectations bloomed out of these basic biological differences
Now scientist are examining the females of the animal kingdom who have the innate surge to sample many different sperms to find the seed most compatible and the male who could better protect her offspring ...so the outlook on whther or not female promiscuity has any evolutionary benefit is quickly changing
Besides most slut shamers dont do so in the name of science or in name of human survival they do so because they feel as though they are somehow morally superior
my comments were more focused on human evolution
and i agree that people shouldn't be judgmental. my concerns are more about mental and physical health. i think it's rare that a person is promiscuous simply because they like sex. often, especially for women, they are using sex a method to cope with whatever emotional issues they have and that is unhealthy and damaging. and that's not even to talk about stds
this is isn't whole point...not to mention accidental conception which leads unplanned and often times unwanted children...and we know how unwanted children can turn out...
I continue to ask other than personal gratification....what good comes from having promiscuous sex?
The answer is nothing! Since yall dont wanna say it. But it does potentially come with a whole hell of a lot of negative things though...some of which can directly effect both parties involved as well as others...
I posed the question why are people so selfish because continuously having promiscuous sex is a very selfish act indeed. And it honstley is one of those things that is contributing to the moral and societal degradation of our nation. And black people specifically are experiencing the effects harder than anyone else.
This topic is a lot deeper than a lot of people wanna admit.
there u go
So because bad things can potentially happen when a two people do something...that thing is bad. Got it.