Why Are People So Selfish?!?! (the ho thread)

[FourEfil]

"iight well..if you go to a single nigga house right now and you walk in his bathroom and the shit all pink and purple...u still fucking?"

pin drop silence......

i don't know if this relate to the issue at hand or not, but i basically wanna say alotta this logic, and shit about how yal think things should be don't really play out in practice...

women want a stud that's been around.......men want a pure diamond....

You become more attractive when other females see you with a female (a good looking one, not this beauty in the eye beholder). Females are in competition with each other for life (or until your 40+).

 

[Kat]

this shit remind me for some strange reason of a debate/argument we was having at a cookout that got rained in the house one summer....

the chicks won control of the tv for some reason and we were watching one of those hgtv shows where this house had a pink and purple bathroom....and the fellas led by me of course just started clowning on how that was a bitchified bathroom, and no self respecting man would allow that shit....

of course a debate ensued about double standards, homophobia and whole lotta other bullshit.....

then i deaded the shit by saying..

"iight well..if you go to a single nigga house right now and you walk in his bathroom and the shit all pink and purple...u still fucking?"

pin drop silence......

i don't know if this relate to the issue at hand or not, but i basically wanna say alotta this logic, and shit about how yal think things should be don't really play out in practice...

women want a stud that's been around.......men want a pure diamond....

all those other arguments sound good on paper, but in reality, that's not how it works out...

yall want it to be one way......but it's the other way

That's not true though..alot of men SAY they want a 'pure diamond' then they turn her into a CZ cause in all actuality dude is a whore that DOESN'T want a pure diamond nor does he know how to treat one.

BEAM was absolutely correct. If you're the type of dude that's out here fucking recklessly what makes you think you deserve or even truly WANT a virginal woman? For appearances?

I know what type of woman I am and I chose a man accordingly. I wouldn't be with a super conservative dude cause that's not me and I know I'd do him bad.

Dudes lie to themselves and in turn end up fucking up GOOD women that deserve better than anything that whore ass dude can ever offer them.

you meet a guy, you like a guy, you're trying to impress a guy.....

how truthful are you about your sexual past?

I'm pretty honest with mine because like I said, I'm not trying to be with a conservative dude. I know what I want and how I want to be treated and acting like a saint isn't going to do me any favors...but that's not to say I COULDN'T act like a saint and fool a man if I chose to do so.

 

[Dupac]

this shit remind me for some strange reason of a debate/argument we was having at a cookout that got rained in the house one summer....

the chicks won control of the tv for some reason and we were watching one of those hgtv shows where this house had a pink and purple bathroom....and the fellas led by me of course just started clowning on how that was a bitchified bathroom, and no self respecting man would allow that shit....

of course a debate ensued about double standards, homophobia and whole lotta other bullshit.....

then i deaded the shit by saying..

"iight well..if you go to a single nigga house right now and you walk in his bathroom and the shit all pink and purple...u still fucking?"

pin drop silence......

i don't know if this relate to the issue at hand or not, but i basically wanna say alotta this logic, and shit about how yal think things should be don't really play out in practice...

women want a stud that's been around.......men want a pure diamond....

all those other arguments sound good on paper, but in reality, that's not how it works out...

yall want it to be one way......but it's the other way

That's not true though..alot of men SAY they want a 'pure diamond' then they turn her into a CZ cause in all actuality dude is a whore that DOESN'T want a pure diamond nor does he know how to treat one.

BEAM was absolutely correct. If you're the type of dude that's out here fucking recklessly what makes you think you deserve or even truly WANT a virginal woman? For appearances?

I know what type of woman I am and I chose a man accordingly. I wouldn't be with a super conservative dude cause that's not me and I know I'd do him bad.

Dudes lie to themselves and in turn end up fucking up GOOD women that deserve better than anything that whore ass dude can ever offer them.

you meet a guy, you like a guy, you're trying to impress a guy.....

how truthful are you about your sexual past?

I'm pretty honest with mine because like I said, I'm not trying to be with a conservative dude. I know what I want and how I want to be treated and acting like a saint isn't going to do me any favors...but that's not to say I COULDN'T act like a saint and fool a man if I chose to do so.

i understand.....

we ain't judging though, you ain't on trial

 

[desertrain10]

I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females

Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...

It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate

This is my point...

there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...

Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?

I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that

Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc

Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed

 

[StillFaggyAF]

lol these niggas love hoes...and hate them at the same time

yet they wonder why hoes exist

Lol at "Loving" hoes

 

[spiritgod87]

*classic shit* yall ever meet a ho and she says " I was raped", I done probably meet five bitches sayin this same thing, but when I seen u at the house party u was poppin molly and getting loose, hoes make me laugh

 

[Trillaaaaaa]

lol these niggas love hoes...and hate them at the same time

yet they wonder why hoes exist

no one wonders why hoes exist.....hoes are great....

they just not always wifey material... sometimes the shit happens...and it is what it is.... but when it comes to preferences..... most men would prefer wifey to as anti-hoey as possible,

i mean some shit you gotta let slide...... but damn near 10 times outta 10 the most scum bag slut shit you ever did in your life......you not exactly looking to be exclusive with that person

I don't think hoes are wifey material either bruh, I don't know where yall got that idea

At the same time, why should females think men who are considered "players" as boyfriend material?

Oh because it's tradition lol

Yall must think these females is dumb

 

[blakfyahking]

I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females

Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...

It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate

This is my point...

there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...

Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?

I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that

Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc

Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed

when was this?

 

[Meta_Conscious]

when did patriarchy die?

because as far as i know women been expected to b more selective with their genitals since the dawn of time.

how is it a fantasy?

just because u see sluts in your hood given respect usually reserved for wholesome ladies doesn't mean the rest of the planet has totally succumb to low expectations, faux feminism, and dignified harlotry.

people also don't like to acknowledge that the double standard is really due to biology. you can't undo thousands of years of evolution just cuz you wanna say oh women can/should do everything men do

biologically, sexually promiscuity has a much higher risk than it does reward for women, the opposite is true for men. men are literally biologically driven to mate with as many partners as possible, women aren't and therefore societal expectations bloomed out of these basic biological differences

 

[Dupac]

lol these niggas love hoes...and hate them at the same time

yet they wonder why hoes exist

no one wonders why hoes exist.....hoes are great....

they just not always wifey material... sometimes the shit happens...and it is what it is.... but when it comes to preferences..... most men would prefer wifey to as anti-hoey as possible,

i mean some shit you gotta let slide...... but damn near 10 times outta 10 the most scum bag slut shit you ever did in your life......you not exactly looking to be exclusive with that person

I don't think hoes are wifey material either bruh, I don't know where yall got that idea

At the same time, why should females think men who are considered "players" as boyfriend material?

Oh because it's tradition lol

Yall must think these females is dumb

they ain't dumb, it's just the after effect of dealing with enough women.....

it's natural to get better at something the more you do it, and women want a man to lead.....

they want him to approach her with confidence....something that's built from experience

they want hi to seduce her with aggression...something that's built from experience...

and they want him to fuck their shit loose....something that's built from experience...

if you gonna sit here and tell me you ain't get better at pulling chicks the more experienced you got, you a damn lie....

 

[Dupac]

this shit remind me for some strange reason of a debate/argument we was having at a cookout that got rained in the house one summer....

the chicks won control of the tv for some reason and we were watching one of those hgtv shows where this house had a pink and purple bathroom....and the fellas led by me of course just started clowning on how that was a bitchified bathroom, and no self respecting man would allow that shit....

of course a debate ensued about double standards, homophobia and whole lotta other bullshit.....

then i deaded the shit by saying..

"iight well..if you go to a single nigga house right now and you walk in his bathroom and the shit all pink and purple...u still fucking?"

pin drop silence......

i don't know if this relate to the issue at hand or not, but i basically wanna say alotta this logic, and shit about how yal think things should be don't really play out in practice...

women want a stud that's been around.......men want a pure diamond....

all those other arguments sound good on paper, but in reality, that's not how it works out...

yall want it to be one way......but it's the other way

That's not true though..alot of men SAY they want a 'pure diamond' then they turn her into a CZ cause in all actuality dude is a whore that DOESN'T want a pure diamond nor does he know how to treat one.

BEAM was absolutely correct. If you're the type of dude that's out here fucking recklessly what makes you think you deserve or even truly WANT a virginal woman? For appearances?

I know what type of woman I am and I chose a man accordingly. I wouldn't be with a super conservative dude cause that's not me and I know I'd do him bad.

Dudes lie to themselves and in turn end up fucking up GOOD women that deserve better than anything that whore ass dude can ever offer them.

you meet a guy, you like a guy, you're trying to impress a guy.....

how truthful are you about your sexual past?

people only lie to cover up something they know is wrong. if you really feel like as a woman that you are okay with sleeping with a lot of people then logic would dictate that you would have no problem with him knowing how many people you've slept with. lying indicates that you feel some sort of shame, and if you feel shame deep down you aren't really okay with it yourself. and if you aren't okay with it, then how do you expect anyone else to be?

that's why women who've had under 5 partners are quicker to share that shit than women who've had over.....

 

[mryounggun]

I always find these debates interesting because at the end, it's always clear who operates based on what makes sense to them and works for them vs. those who operate based on what other people say of how other people feel like they 'should' act.

Kinda sad.

 

[Trillaaaaaa]

lol these niggas love hoes...and hate them at the same time

yet they wonder why hoes exist

no one wonders why hoes exist.....hoes are great....

they just not always wifey material... sometimes the shit happens...and it is what it is.... but when it comes to preferences..... most men would prefer wifey to as anti-hoey as possible,

i mean some shit you gotta let slide...... but damn near 10 times outta 10 the most scum bag slut shit you ever did in your life......you not exactly looking to be exclusive with that person

I don't think hoes are wifey material either bruh, I don't know where yall got that idea

At the same time, why should females think men who are considered "players" as boyfriend material?

Oh because it's tradition lol

Yall must think these females is dumb

they ain't dumb, it's just the after effect of dealing with enough women.....

it's natural to get better at something the more you do it, and women want a man to lead.....

they want him to approach her with confidence....something that's built from experience

they want hi to seduce her with aggression...something that's built from experience...

and they want him to fuck their shit loose....something that's built from experience...

if you gonna sit here and tell me you ain't get better at pulling chicks the more experienced you got, you a damn lie....

Now this nigga talking to me like I'm a hoe

 

[S2J]

when did patriarchy die?

because as far as i know women been expected to b more selective with their genitals since the dawn of time.

how is it a fantasy?

just because u see sluts in your hood given respect usually reserved for wholesome ladies doesn't mean the rest of the planet has totally succumb to low expectations, faux feminism, and dignified harlotry.

people also don't like to acknowledge that the double standard is really due to biology. you can't undo thousands of years of evolution just cuz you wanna say oh women can/should do everything men do

biologically, sexually promiscuity has a much higher risk than it does reward for women, the opposite is true for men. men are literally biologically driven to mate with as many partners as possible, women aren't and therefore societal expectations bloomed out of these basic biological differences

This is so etherous, but sad at the same time. Sad b/c it always happens like this:

Simpish nggas like @mansamusa think they're doing women a favor, but the women are quite fine with the way roles are. They dont wanna pursue YOU, they dont wanna plan the date, they dont wanna collabrote on every decision,etc. Thats why they will forever want a masculine man.

 

[Star Nine]

I always find these debates interesting because at the end, it's always clear who operates based on what makes sense to them and works for them vs. those who operate based on what other people say of how other people feel like they 'should' act.

Kinda sad.

name names

 

[mryounggun]

I always find these debates interesting because at the end, it's always clear who operates based on what makes sense to them and works for them vs. those who operate based on what other people say of how other people feel like they 'should' act.

Kinda sad.

expound please?

cuz i can see the semblance of a point, but it's not there yet

Sure thing.

Example: A woman who rarely to never has sex outside of a relationship. If she single, she celibate. If she is in a relationship, she's fucking her man and her man only.

A man who fucks mad women. If he single, he's fucking 3 at any given time. If he in a relationship, he still might got one or two around the city.

When you read threads like this, it's easy to tell who is doing these things because that's what they feel is the right/expected thing to do and who do these things because they feel like that's what people/society/etc expect them to do.

Those are just examples, could go for any sexual habits, really. To me, it kinds sucks that people don't just give shit some thought and just do what they think is right. Fuck what someone else thinks about it or thinks about you as a result of it. If that's fucking who you want to fuck when you wanna fuck em, cool. If that's only being sexually active if you are in a relationship, cool. Just do YOU.

 

[Trillaaaaaa]

This nigga Cain addressing every other post in here except...

This nigga @cain reading comprehension is terrible

Nope.........you're just full of shit and saving but that's cool.

Not sure what ur trying to say here but let me pose this question...

You believe every man should be smashing multiple hoes and wifing good girls, right?

What makes you think your chick wasn't one of the multiple women you think men should be out here smashing?

What makes you think every chick has been smutting? If you choose a chick to be your main I hope somewhere in your time getting to know her you can tell if she has or had that ho gene. If not then that's more of an indictment on you then her.

I didn't say all men should be smashing multiple broads nor did I say its a required for a man to do so. I said if a man smash multiple chicks he can and its not frowned on but if a female did it it would be a frowned upon. A female cannot do what a man can do an expect not to get ridiculed. I don't where you new niggas are from but that's how it works. I didn't make the rules I just play the game.

Do you currently have a girl

 

[taeboo]

I thought the women would particpate more in this thread...

@kat

@grumpychuck

@piyonce

@sixsicksins

@taeboo

@mzkb

As soon as I posted I got called a hoe.

Part of the problem is that women are supposed to stay as close to virginal as possible, but in a world where most people aren't getting married until their late 20's/early 30's, living together, and having causal sex being way more acceptable, that shit aint as easy as it used to be. A 30 year old woman is now expected to remain chasten when back in the day the average woman only had to hold out to her early 20's. Marriage kept so called "ho activities" to a minimum and for the most today men don't want to actually date let alone get married.

 

[Stew]

lol these niggas love hoes...and hate them at the same time

yet they wonder why hoes exist

no one wonders why hoes exist.....hoes are great....

they just not always wifey material... sometimes the shit happens...and it is what it is.... but when it comes to preferences..... most men would prefer wifey to as anti-hoey as possible,

i mean some shit you gotta let slide...... but damn near 10 times outta 10 the most scum bag slut shit you ever did in your life......you not exactly looking to be exclusive with that person

I don't think hoes are wifey material either bruh, I don't know where yall got that idea

At the same time, why should females think men who are considered "players" as boyfriend material?

Oh because it's tradition lol

Yall must think these females is dumb

they ain't dumb, it's just the after effect of dealing with enough women.....

it's natural to get better at something the more you do it, and women want a man to lead.....

they want him to approach her with confidence....something that's built from experience

they want hi to seduce her with aggression...something that's built from experience...

and they want him to fuck their shit loose....something that's built from experience...

if you gonna sit here and tell me you ain't get better at pulling chicks the more experienced you got, you a damn lie....

Now this nigga talking to me like I'm a hoe

If u a ho, be proud of it brotha. We need more of us out here keepin it real.

 

[Trillaaaaaa]

when did patriarchy die?

because as far as i know women been expected to b more selective with their genitals since the dawn of time.

how is it a fantasy?

just because u see sluts in your hood given respect usually reserved for wholesome ladies doesn't mean the rest of the planet has totally succumb to low expectations, faux feminism, and dignified harlotry.

people also don't like to acknowledge that the double standard is really due to biology. you can't undo thousands of years of evolution just cuz you wanna say oh women can/should do everything men do

biologically, sexually promiscuity has a much higher risk than it does reward for women, the opposite is true for men. men are literally biologically driven to mate with as many partners as possible, women aren't and therefore societal expectations bloomed out of these basic biological differences

Now I understand why you let your husband fuck strippers...it all makes sense now

Because it's science