When they "miss" you, Do you "miss" them? really?

[AP21]

i might miss her for a spell, but am quickly reminded why i was glad she was gon within 30 min of her being back

 

[Preach2Teach]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I have just recently learned this and I am 30 years old lol, if you plan on staying with the women and living a peaceful life then you are gonna have to lie sometimes, about 3 weeks back my girl spent the night at her parents due to a wedding and the day after she said she missed me and asked if I missed her I just said yes and kept it moving, always be aware of the words you choose with a women because one wrong word can cause you a lot of problems, they are fucking crazy!

 

[AP21]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I have just recently learned this and I am 30 years old lol, if you plan on staying with the women and living a peaceful life then you are gonna have to lie sometimes, about 3 weeks back my girl spent the night at her parents due to a wedding and the day after she said she missed me and asked if I missed her I just said yes and kept it moving, always be aware of the words you choose with a women because one wrong word can cause you a lot of problems, they are fucking crazy!

does your girl have more than one set of breasts or two vaginas?

why are you referring to her in the plural tense?

 

[MizuryLillith]

Sometimes telling the truth will fuck up your relationship with that being said a lie here and there is necessary

You COULD always just tell the truth without being so GOD-DAMNED mean about it.

 

[i ro ny]

Niggas in here with such low self esteem, they cant even understand why a chick would miss em smh lol.

Nigga I just know when people are full of shit. It don't got shit to do with self worth.

Word.

You still living with that white chick who called you nigger?

Nah and she never called me a nigger.

are your eyes still in the middle of your fuckin forehead

 

[Kat]

Lol!

 

[i ro ny]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I have just recently learned this and I am 30 years old lol, if you plan on staying with the women and living a peaceful life then you are gonna have to lie sometimes, about 3 weeks back my girl spent the night at her parents due to a wedding and the day after she said she missed me and asked if I missed her I just said yes and kept it moving, always be aware of the words you choose with a women because one wrong word can cause you a lot of problems, they are fucking crazy!

Fuck that.

So I gotta hinge my sanity on the words I choose.

Fuck that.

 

[Shuffington]

I think page 2 has finally exposed the meat of this issue.

 

[Kat]

Oh lord..so extra.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Why wife will be on that miss you tip like 10 hours after I leave. Every time she asks I tell her "No."

That said, when I've gone on trips that lasted more than 5 or so days or went on back to back trips, I did miss her and my daughters. When she asked then, I told her "Yes." It took her a lil while, but she told me she appreciates it because she always knows whatever I say is the truth. She doesn't like hearing no, but she knows when she hears the yes, it's real.

 

[Preach2Teach]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I have just recently learned this and I am 30 years old lol, if you plan on staying with the women and living a peaceful life then you are gonna have to lie sometimes, about 3 weeks back my girl spent the night at her parents due to a wedding and the day after she said she missed me and asked if I missed her I just said yes and kept it moving, always be aware of the words you choose with a women because one wrong word can cause you a lot of problems, they are fucking crazy!

Fuck that.

So I gotta hinge my sanity on the words I choose.

Fuck that.

Lol I have been telling the truth for many years to her and all it has gotten me is bullshit after bullshit, now that I am 30 with a wrinkle on my forehead I realize it's time for me to live my life in more peace, if that means telling her what she wants to hear from time to time then so be it.

 

[Preach2Teach]

You might think that being honest and telling her you didn't miss her is no big deal I also thought this, but that will piss her off and although she might not react to it there and then, you better believe you have just loaded up that gun and she will fire when she is ready.

 

[bkkbully]

The IC. Where niggas have had it up to here with their S/O's telling that they miss them.

 

[Shuffington]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I lie a lot anyway so that's what I do. Women don't want honesty.

And men do? HA!

A LOT of fragile male egos are saved by little white lies.

it is what it is, people need validation.

thats true, but the validation that you seek should not be extorted from your partner.

to me thats not sincere... that imo leads to a robotic relationship, where you're just kind of "there".

With that said, I do think as human beings we need to be more appreciative of the little things that our partners do

in general that we admire about them and verbally express it. This way our partners won't feel so obsessively thirsty for you to validate them.

The problem is that " SOME PEOPLE " want a very specific kind of validation.

 

[Lurkristocrat]

The IC. Where niggas have had it up to here with their S/O's telling that they miss them.

Lmao gotta love it...

 

[Westie]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I lie a lot anyway so that's what I do. Women don't want honesty.

And men do? HA!

A LOT of fragile male egos are saved by little white lies.

it is what it is, people need validation.

thats true, but the validation that you seek should not be extorted from your partner.

to me thats not sincere... that imo leads to a robotic relationship, where you're just kind of "there".

With that said, I do think as human beings we need to be more appreciative of the little things that our partners do

in general that we admire about them and verbally express it. This way our partners won't feel so obsessively thirsty for you to validate them.

The problem is that " SOME PEOPLE " want a very specific kind of validation.

Lol extortion? Extort what? Reassurance? If you love them, but you don't actually miss them, but a simple yes comes out, so??? How does that create thirstiness? If you have a woman who craves that, that's just her. This isn't pavlov's dog.

"Is this the best dick you ever had?" - "Nah"

Does that work?

 

[Shuffington]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I have just recently learned this and I am 30 years old lol, if you plan on staying with the women and living a peaceful life then you are gonna have to lie sometimes, about 3 weeks back my girl spent the night at her parents due to a wedding and the day after she said she missed me and asked if I missed her I just said yes and kept it moving, always be aware of the words you choose with a women because one wrong word can cause you a lot of problems, they are fucking crazy!

Fuck that.

So I gotta hinge my sanity on the words I choose.

Fuck that.

Lol I have been telling the truth for many years to her and all it has gotten me is bullshit after bullshit, now that I am 30 with a wrinkle on my forehead I realize it's time for me to live my life in more peace, if that means telling her what she wants to hear from time to time then so be it.

lol.

makes since but why is the wife always mad?

You married to Rasputia ?

 

[blacktux]

Gotta learn to tell people what they want to hear and not what you want to tell them.

Take you a long way, business or otherwise.

 

[i ro ny]

personally, im just not for the extra movie magic shit.

i know when people are full of shit and are just saying things because they are supposed to.i hate that shit.

"i miss you". yeah the fuck right. you havent even had a chance to miss anything. i left 20 minutes ago. shut the fuck up and stop lying to yourself and me.

 

[Shuffington]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I lie a lot anyway so that's what I do. Women don't want honesty.

And men do? HA!

A LOT of fragile male egos are saved by little white lies.

it is what it is, people need validation.

thats true, but the validation that you seek should not be extorted from your partner.

to me thats not sincere... that imo leads to a robotic relationship, where you're just kind of "there".

With that said, I do think as human beings we need to be more appreciative of the little things that our partners do

in general that we admire about them and verbally express it. This way our partners won't feel so obsessively thirsty for you to validate them.

The problem is that " SOME PEOPLE " want a very specific kind of validation.

Lol extortion? Extort what? Reassurance? If you love them, but you don't actually miss them, but a simple yes comes out, so??? How does that create thirstiness? If you have a woman who craves that, that's just her. This isn't pavlov's dog.

"Is this the best dick you ever had?" - "Nah"

Does that work?

OK... I see that we have 2 different ideas about what validation means.... lol... and yes it is extortion.

but hey... if you want a dude to lie to you all the time... cool...

for me, I'm against lying, big or small, mainly because I'm terrible at it. but I'm not for disrespect either.... thats what it boils down to.

"Is this the best dick you ever had?" - "Nah"

Does that work?

great quote... in my experience ... you don't have to ask that question .... they blurt that sh*t out... or just stare at you when you aint looking.