When they "miss" you, Do you "miss" them? really?

[i ro ny]

my nigga Irony hard on feelings

not even.

all im saying is that i question the legitimacy of when people say that especially if its only been like an hour since last seeing said person. to me, it seems like a full of shit thing to say...a thing to say JUST to say it.

yall act like the things i've said (and they are VERY specific things) are outrageous.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

we need to merge the pros and cons of marraige thread with this thread and the dating ideas thread.

y'all niggas sound worse than chicks an wonder why y'all get treated like over masculine compensating bitches

 

[aneed123]

I be too busy tryin to kicc it for the arguing shit just say I miss you cant wait to see you then hang up the fuccin phone. Last thing you want is to have a argument on the brain and tryin to party that shit is WOAT.

lol yup tell her u love her so u can can go cheat in peace .....

 

[LordZuko]

Back in the day. I was always lying to a bitch. "Your hair looks fine" "i missed you" "i love you" "can't wait to see you"

But i was lying. Her hair was trash, i didn't think about her once i only storta kinda like you and i could honestly go a whole week maybe two before i need to see your face again.

Why was i lying? Because females are pussy terrorists. They always threatening to cut off pussy if you don't give in to their demands of constant validation. Niggas out here miserable. Niggas are forced to lie to a bitch, to keep her from shooting the pussy in the head. This how miserable females are as a creature. Deep down they know that the majority of them are only tolerable because of pussy. Not because they tell cool stories, are good at games, good drinking buddies, pussy. The possibility of pussy. So a bitch will be in a relationship with her finger on the button. Niggas running around scared. Or they running around doing all this extra shit to get access to the same lackluster pussy and mediocre head.

And the crazy part about it.

The craziest part. She thinks you're a pussy because you lie. She doesn't value truth nor respect what you think. All this extra shit you do to keep her fat, rat hair weave wearing ass happy, she let's a nigga that calls her "bitch" hit for free, raw.

Truth is the power you have as a man. You lie, you live a hoe's existence.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Back in the day. I was always lying to a bitch. "Your hair looks fine" "i missed you" "i love you" "can't wait to see you"

But i was lying. Her hair was trash, i didn't think about her once i only storta kinda like you and i could honestly go a whole week maybe two before i need to see your face again.

Why was i lying? Because females are pussy terrorists. They always threatening to cut off pussy if you don't give in to their demands of constant validation. Niggas out here miserable. Niggas are forced to lie to a bitch, to keep her from shooting the pussy in the head. This how miserable females are as a creature. Deep down they know that the majority of them are only tolerable because of pussy. Not because they tell cool stories, are good at games, good drinking buddies, pussy. The possibility of pussy. So a bitch will be in a relationship with her finger on the button. Niggas running around scared. Or they running around doing all this extra shit to get access to the same lackluster pussy and mediocre head.

And the crazy part about it.

The craziest part. She thinks you're a pussy because you lie. She doesn't value truth nor respect what you think. All this extra shit you do to keep her fat, rat hair weave wearing ass happy, she let's a nigga that calls her "bitch" hit for free, raw.

Truth is the power you have as a man. You lie, you live a hoe's existence.

It's crazy, but kinda true. You have more success with women when you don't give a fuck. I know that's how it worked with me. When I was younger and tried to be respectful like how I was raised to be. I was cool with a lot of females, but I didn't get much play. As soon as I stopped giving a fuck and started acting like I didn't give a fuck, I had females in my face all the time. It's weird. The only bad thing, is it's hard to get out of being that way once you actually meet someone you do give a fuck about.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I'm of the belief people should be able to handle the truth and you're not really responsible to babysit others feelings because if something upsets you, you should ask yourself why and go in your mind and figure it out, not be sheltered from things that provoke an undesired reaction. I know it's easier to say yes to them to save their feelings but what about the person who feels they're being disingenuous? Their feelings mean nothing, why can't they be free in truth?

 

[Shuffington]

I think the key is to be Respectful about "not giving a f*ck".

Also I'm lucky that my sex drive isn't on high intensity, so taking the p*ssy hostage hasn't really

been effective with me. I tend to end up with chicks that are super dedicated too, to the point where they'll

just nag and nag and nag but stay rather than leave the relationship.

Its not easy for most people to leave a relationship unless it involves cheating in most cases.

 

[Lurkristocrat]

When I have the house to myself

Lmaooooooooo

 

[Shuffington]

I'm of the belief people should be able to handle the truth and you're not really responsible to babysit others feelings because if something upsets you, you should ask yourself why and go in your mind and figure it out, not be sheltered from things that provoke an undesired reaction. I know it's easier to say yes to them to save their feelings but what about the person who feels they're being disingenuous? Their feelings mean nothing, why can't they be free in truth?

according to pg 1 "its not that deep".

in all seriousness, I've been in relationship therapy with my current relationship and you'd be surprise how things that we might shrug off as menial are actually pretty significant.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I'm of the belief people should be able to handle the truth and you're not really responsible to babysit others feelings because if something upsets you, you should ask yourself why and go in your mind and figure it out, not be sheltered from things that provoke an undesired reaction. I know it's easier to say yes to them to save their feelings but what about the person who feels they're being disingenuous? Their feelings mean nothing, why can't they be free in truth?

according to pg 1 "its not that deep".

in all seriousness, I've been in relationship therapy with my current relationship and you'd be surprise how things that we might shrug off as menial are actually pretty significant.

For someone like me who has a hard time faking a smile to people I don't like it bothers me and makes me distraught to have to lie about "things not that deep". It must be that deep if I got to lie to save their feelings but what about mine? The pressure and annoyance that its going to happen again... and again. Each time wondering if they know and just don't say anything, or they don't know because they jsut want to hear it. It's terrible.

 

[LUClEN]

I lie way to often but it saves a lot of hurt feelings. I'm too callus to be honest

 

[trendsetta1030]

She on a phone sayin she miss you wit a d!ck n her mouth

 

[HafBayked]

Back in the day. I was always lying to a bitch. "Your hair looks fine" "i missed you" "i love you" "can't wait to see you"

But i was lying. Her hair was trash, i didn't think about her once i only storta kinda like you and i could honestly go a whole week maybe two before i need to see your face again.

Why was i lying? Because females are pussy terrorists. They always threatening to cut off pussy if you don't give in to their demands of constant validation. Niggas out here miserable. Niggas are forced to lie to a bitch, to keep her from shooting the pussy in the head. This how miserable females are as a creature. Deep down they know that the majority of them are only tolerable because of pussy. Not because they tell cool stories, are good at games, good drinking buddies, pussy. The possibility of pussy. So a bitch will be in a relationship with her finger on the button. Niggas running around scared. Or they running around doing all this extra shit to get access to the same lackluster pussy and mediocre head.

And the crazy part about it.

The craziest part. She thinks you're a pussy because you lie. She doesn't value truth nor respect what you think. All this extra shit you do to keep her fat, rat hair weave wearing ass happy, she let's a nigga that calls her "bitch" hit for free, raw.

Truth is the power you have as a man. You lie, you live a hoe's existence.

this nigga took the whole mask off

soooo many points I wanna address but dont have time lol

to make it easier, lets just assume the "they" that misses you is a real person.....that you like.....and they like you too...who knows, ya'll might call each other every now and then and sleep together on occasion lol

what about when that person says they miss you when u just left the house 4-5 hours ago?

real shit you should probably try a different type of woman tho....thats really the main thing that stands out in all that shit you just ranted about and I aint being funny....says a lot about you

 

[Preach2Teach]

Sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Just tell the woman you miss her, it's not that deep.

I have just recently learned this and I am 30 years old lol, if you plan on staying with the women and living a peaceful life then you are gonna have to lie sometimes, about 3 weeks back my girl spent the night at her parents due to a wedding and the day after she said she missed me and asked if I missed her I just said yes and kept it moving, always be aware of the words you choose with a women because one wrong word can cause you a lot of problems, they are fucking crazy!

Fuck that.

So I gotta hinge my sanity on the words I choose.

Fuck that.

Lol I have been telling the truth for many years to her and all it has gotten me is bullshit after bullshit, now that I am 30 with a wrinkle on my forehead I realize it's time for me to live my life in more peace, if that means telling her what she wants to hear from time to time then so be it.

so lemme make sure i got you correctly...

so she can be happy, you tell her what she wants to hear from time to time.....to alleviate your own stress...because the truth got you bullshit after bullshit. you've surmised thhat its time for you to live your life in more peace and the key to doing so is to lie.

im 31 and i refuse to live that way.

Yes but only small lies or holding back on certain opinions. like if she says to me "do you like what I am wearing" and I think it looks shitty I will tell her she looks beautiful but in the past I might have said some shit, this is all a new way of thinking to me only time will tell if I can stick to it, the lies will only be small when they are necessary for the most part I will still be my honest self I have always been, women are a different breed their minds work different and if you wanna live with them in peace then you will need to be careful with how you choose your words.

 

[Westie]

She on a phone sayin she miss you wit a d!ck n her mouth

I've never been able to talk whilst a dick was in my mouth. That's talent.

 

[leftcoastkev]

I look at a lot of the "I miss you toos" as spontaneous bullshit toll booths on the relationship road. I don't mean it half the time but it makes for a happy relationship....on that day, at the moment.

Her: I miss you

Me: (oh u need hear that, okay well) I miss you too (shrugs)

My girl asked me plenty of times do I mean it everytime and I flat out tell her no. I ain't wired to need to be around nobody everyday. She is. She know I be lying half the time but she wanna hear it and she know I know she just wanna hear it so......."I miss you too" it is (whatever, lol).

On the flip if she was with another guy who constantly was first with the I miss you's after a few hours away, she'd probably look at them like a mark.

Unfortunately, the little lies are conditioning for the guilt free bigger lies down the road. Guys get trained into the habit of lying daily to keep things on the up and up with their woman so later on it's nothing to say anything to manipulate the situations....to keep a happy home, on that day, at that moment.

Just how the world works...

Are yall 17? I thought that "Do you reaaalllly miss me when you say it??" Shit was over in high school.

Also, what's the point of the no? What is this deep dive into bullshit affirmations? Do yall want problems? Its like you look for them. Who does it hurt?

Not 17.

Not for some women.

The point of the "no" after that fact (if she asks If I really meant it, and I didn't) is to let her know the truth is I really wasn't missing her, but we both know that she just wants to hear it (she has admitted such) then I'm telling her that to make her feel good. If she don't ask "if I really meant it" then it "I miss u too" and that's that.

Like the phrase "if u like it I love it". I could tell her no 7 outta 10 times but I don't. Maybe she was having a fucked up day and that yes " I miss u too" make her feel better or something. I don't think that deep into it, or care tbh.

@ bolded. Seriously. What are you talking about?

 

[Westie]

I look at a lot of the "I miss you toos" as spontaneous bullshit toll booths on the relationship road. I don't mean it half the time but it makes for a happy relationship....on that day, at the moment.

Her: I miss you

Me: (oh u need hear that, okay well) I miss you too (shrugs)

My girl asked me plenty of times do I mean it everytime and I flat out tell her no. I ain't wired to need to be around nobody everyday. She is. She know I be lying half the time but she wanna hear it and she know I know she just wanna hear it so......."I miss you too" it is (whatever, lol).

On the flip if she was with another guy who constantly was first with the I miss you's after a few hours away, she'd probably look at them like a mark.

Unfortunately, the little lies are conditioning for the guilt free bigger lies down the road. Guys get trained into the habit of lying daily to keep things on the up and up with their woman so later on it's nothing to say anything to manipulate the situations....to keep a happy home, on that day, at that moment.

Just how the world works...

Are yall 17? I thought that "Do you reaaalllly miss me when you say it??" Shit was over in high school.

Also, what's the point of the no? What is this deep dive into bullshit affirmations? Do yall want problems? Its like you look for them. Who does it hurt?

Not 17.

Not for some women.

The point of the "no" after that fact (if she asks If I really meant it, and I didn't) is to let her know the truth is I really wasn't missing her, but we both know that she just wants to hear it (she has admitted such) then I'm telling her that to make her feel good. If she don't ask "if I really meant it" then it "I miss u too" and that's that.

Like the phrase "if u like it I love it". I could tell her no 7 outta 10 times but I don't. Maybe she was having a fucked up day and that yes " I miss u too" make her feel better or something. I don't think that deep into it, or care tbh.

@ bolded. Seriously. What are you talking about?

I'm saying I don't understand the need to look deeply into these small little issues. I don't think it requires a lot of thought.

 

[KingFreeman]

I can't help but say "not really" even tho I know it might put me in the doghouse.

 

[Shuffington]

I'm of the belief people should be able to handle the truth and you're not really responsible to babysit others feelings because if something upsets you, you should ask yourself why and go in your mind and figure it out, not be sheltered from things that provoke an undesired reaction. I know it's easier to say yes to them to save their feelings but what about the person who feels they're being disingenuous? Their feelings mean nothing, why can't they be free in truth?

according to pg 1 "its not that deep".

in all seriousness, I've been in relationship therapy with my current relationship and you'd be surprise how things that we might shrug off as menial are actually pretty significant.

For someone like me who has a hard time faking a smile to people I don't like it bothers me and makes me distraught to have to lie about "things not that deep". It must be that deep if I got to lie to save their feelings but what about mine? The pressure and annoyance that its going to happen again... and again. Each time wondering if they know and just don't say anything, or they don't know because they jsut want to hear it. It's terrible.

Your feelings, apparently, are not whats important here .... since to some its not a "big deal".

But you have to watch those type of people who try to manipulate you in order to get their needs met.

In some ways its emotional manipulation.

 

[LUClEN]

She on a phone sayin she miss you wit a d!ck n her mouth

I've never been able to talk whilst a dick was in my mouth. That's talent.

I hear BCotton gives lessons