"Things that cause rape"

[ocelot]

Yall doing all this back and forth..

Rape is rape.. If the bitch says no, it doesn't matter what she is wearing or the amount of flirting she is doing, the bitch said no..

There is no grey area, it's either consentual or it isn't..

True sum bitches lie but most don't..

But what if something like this happens?



Bitch was 10% of the reason Randy life was fucked up afterwards...smh

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Smh so the IC ladies think its cool to leave drinks out in the open and what not.......

I've been living life all wrong

 

[DarcSkies]

I saw a story on this on either 60 Minutes or 20/20 once and a reporter interviewed rapists. And he asked them why they did it and how they chose the women or something. Here's what I can remember:

How TO GET RAPED:

1. Getting drunk

2. leading a guy on and making him stop when u got all your clothes off

3. having a ponytail (YES...I KNOW...But listen to this muthafukka's reason) It's easier to control a female with a lot of hair. With a long ponytail it's easier to control her if u want to kidnap her by grabbing her hair to control the head and reduce her movement to get her in the van/door or whatever.

4. Short skirts (rapists dont like to work for the pussy since you probably gonna struggle for a few minutes before u give up anyway.)

Thats all I remember though. It was some weird shit. But the bottom line is this is reality and you can argue all day long and spew all your feminist nonsense. But at the end of the day those euphemisms aint gonna lift his weight off your body & stop those dick thrust or prevent the vaginal tearing.

HOWEVER...Not getting piss drunk, not leading a man on, and not dressing like a slut and drawing attention to youself wont either. BUt it will damn sure reduce your chances. Those facts are non-debatable. If u fail to heed those very simple rules and u get raped. Guess who has no pity for u. Go on bitch...GUESS.

 

[5th Letter]

your argument is that women should go wherever they want and dress how they like without having to worry about being raped...

YES

Is that a problem? That's where I stopped reading btw

Now you're arguing a point that no one else is arguing that is not even the point. Of course in a perfect world women should be able to go anywhere they want and dress how they like without worrying about being raped. But that is not the case.

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

I saw a story on this on either 60 Minutes or 20/20 once and a reporter interviewed rapists. And he asked them why they did it and how they chose the women or something. Here's what I can remember:

How TO GET RAPED:

1. Getting drunk

2. leading a guy on and making him stop when u got all your clothes off

3. having a ponytail (YES...I KNOW...But listen to this muthafukka's reason) It's easier to control a female with a lot of hair. With a long ponytail it's easier to control her if u want to kidnap her by grabbing her hair to control the head and reduce her movement to get her in the van/door or whatever.

4. Short skirts (rapists dont like to work for the pussy since you probably gonna struggle for a few minutes before u give up anyway.)

Thats all I remember though. It was some weird shit. But the bottom line is this is reality and you can argue all day long and spew all your feminist nonsense. But at the end of the day those euphemisms aint gonna lift his weight off your body & stop those dick thrust or prevent the vaginal tearing.

HOWEVER...Not getting piss drunk, not leading a man on, and not dressing like a slut and drawing attention to youself wont either. BUt it will damn sure reduce your chances. Those facts are non-debatable. If u fail to heed those very simple rules and u get raped. Guess who has no pity for u. Go on bitch...GUESS.

Nigga said nothing about wearing white belts?

 

[LUClEN]

what prevents rape rodriguezz? not dressing a certain way? so only women wo dress "skanky" get raped? not go out alone at night? so only women who do so get raped?

what about a woman sleeping in her own bed at night only to have someone break in and rape her? maybe she shouldn't have lived alone? oh let me guess, only then is it "real" rape huh?

y'all trying to twist shit with this "prevention" crap. a woman could do everything you consider to be preventative measures and still be raped.

I concede some. Not all rape is preventable as you have illustrated. But would you say none is? I would not.

 

[LUClEN]

what prevents rape rodriguezz? not dressing a certain way? so only women wo dress "skanky" get raped? not go out alone at night? so only women who do so get raped?

what about a woman sleeping in her own bed at night only to have someone break in and rape her? maybe she shouldn't have lived alone? oh let me guess, only then is it "real" rape huh?

y'all trying to twist shit with this "prevention" crap. a woman could do everything you consider to be preventative measures and still be raped.

I concede some. Not all rape is preventable as you have illustrated. But would you say none is? I would not.

no rape is preventable. period.

If this were true then why would we do anything to try and curb the pattern of rape and decrease the amount of rape that currently occurs in our society?

Derp.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Females problems, can't relate. Sorry

 

[LUClEN]

drivel

 

[Bussy_Getta]

 

[7figz]

Rape culture ? This some real bullshit.

Arab bitches laughin' at American bitches cryin' about rape.

 

[LUClEN]

it's one thing to take a proactive approach to protecting oneself, this is not what i'm arguing against. my only issue is, lets say a woman doesn't take all the precautions and something unspeakable happens to her, is what happened to her her fault now?

yeah there are things you can do to keep yourself safe, but if someone doesn't do those things because of naivety, unawareness, false sense of security, whatever, doesn't mean they were asking for it or lessen the gravity of the crime perpetrated upon them

Why can't both be to blame?

 

[5th Letter]

it's one thing to take a proactive approach to protecting oneself, this is not what i'm arguing against. my only issue is, lets say a woman doesn't take all the precautions and something unspeakable happens to her, is what happened to her her fault now?

yeah there are things you can do to keep yourself safe, but if someone doesn't do those things because of naivety, unawareness, false sense of security, whatever, doesn't mean they were asking for it or lessen the gravity of the crime perpetrated upon them

y'all been arguing points no one has been arguing all thread long. how many people in here have emphasized that it's not the victims fault.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

it's one thing to take a proactive approach to protecting oneself, this is not what i'm arguing against. my only issue is, lets say a woman doesn't take all the precautions and something unspeakable happens to her, is what happened to her her fault now?

yeah there are things you can do to keep yourself safe, but if someone doesn't do those things because of naivety, unawareness, false sense of security, whatever, doesn't mean they were asking for it or lessen the gravity of the crime perpetrated upon them

No it's not her fault idk why people assume thats whats being said.

 

[a.mann]

we are talking about actual rape right now, not some chick lying about it. why are you trying to divert the topic?

well how else can they possibly make an argument???

 

[LUClEN]

If you put yourself in a situation where you can be raped do you not hold the sole blame for doing so?

As such if you rape someone do you not hold the sole responsibility for doing so?

 

[5th Letter]

If you put yourself in a situation where you can be raped do you not hold the sole blame for doing so?

As such if you rape someone do you not hold the sole responsibility for doing so?

honestly it depends on the situation. it's not as black and white as you're making it seem. i mean no one deserves to be raped.

 

[Trillaaaaaa]

it's one thing to take a proactive approach to protecting oneself, this is not what i'm arguing against. my only issue is, lets say a woman doesn't take all the precautions and something unspeakable happens to her, is what happened to her her fault now?

yeah there are things you can do to keep yourself safe, but if someone doesn't do those things because of naivety, unawareness, false sense of security, whatever, doesn't mean they were asking for it or lessen the gravity of the crime perpetrated upon them

No it's not her fault idk why people assume thats whats being said.

If you put yourself in a situation where you can be raped do you not hold the sole blame for doing so?

I'm high as shit right now

 

[LUClEN]

Of course not. And obviously not every situation is one that is very obviously a bad one to be in. But if someone does put themself in a clearly risky situation and rape happens, they hold the responsibility of putting themselves in that situation. Whether or not stupidity or ignorance or whatever led them there is another story - and i think the key ingredient. If you behave carelessly and end up getting raped you hold the blame for behaving that way. Not the blame for someone raping you, just for making yourself more vulnerable to it by behaving carelessly.

Carelessness is carelessness and if someone acts stupidly or shows no regard for potential threats then they hold the blame for that kind of thinking.