So, I Just Found Out I Fathered A 14 Year Old

[Idiopathic Joker]

I always wanted a daughter. I would prefer to know if her existence from birth though, if given the option. I'm just strange like that.

Not really strange at all guy

I think he knows that

 

[mryounggun]

I always wanted a daughter. I would prefer to know if her existence from birth though, if given the option. I'm just strange like that.

Not really strange at all guy

I think he knows that

Don't ruin the fun, B.

 

[Dupac]

^^^^See what I did there?

bruh, i did that when i typed it...lol

#bars

 

[Dupac]

one of my friends had a fling with this chick who was involved with another dude. she got pregnant and moved out of state with the dude she was with. they got married and had another child. so they have two kids then decide they are getting a divorced because she cheated (she was a trifling chick). dude says I need a paternity test and sure enough the lil girl is his but the older son is not. she comes back here and hits my man like this is ur child. my man like damn he do look a lil like me. We like nigga he look just like you. they took the paternity test and sure enough its his son.

he said the beginning was crazy as hell. he said lil dude would just look at him and not say much. his son lives out of state but he has him all summer and goes and gets him on holidays like Christmas and spring break. they pretty close now. dude lights up when the time gets close to go get his son. its all he talks about. he hates his mom lol but loves his son. u will be alright my dude. explain to her that it was never ur intention to not be there. u can make up for the past but let her know u will be there from here on out.

great post

 

[blackamerica]

Bitches need 2 do jail time for shit like this. If you have a baby but wait 10-15 years to tell a nigga about HIS child, you need to be in jail bitch. Why are bitches pulling shit like this

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

As long as she knows it's not your fault for the 14yrs she lost wit you not in her life. Kinda messed up tho.

 

[mryounggun]

Outside of the woman not being able to get in contact with the nigga, there are NO circumstances under which a nigga should have a kid running around the Earth and not be aware of it.

The shit happens too often.

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

Outside of the woman not being able to get in contact with the nigga, there are NO circumstances under which a nigga should have a kid running around the Earth and not be aware of it.

The shit happens too often.

I concur

 

[damnkp]

Man..That's crazy..I remember when I was going to PV I met this girl who had a boyfriend. We started messing around and she ended up pregnant. She told me it was probably her boyfriend's but I had my doubts..so a couple of months go by and she comes to houston to visit her sister and wanted me to meet some of her family..when I get there im super faded off bars and drank..I kept falling asleep on the couch and her sister was pissed..so we go to IHOP and I keep falling asleep at the table..we eventually leave and I remember we had sex in the car..never heard from her again and I don't even remember her real name..I used to always call her Lavita cus she looked like the chick from the Steve Harvey show..I always wonder was that my baby..I need to smoke one now

 

[SolemnSauce]

Her mom approached me a few months ago and I got the DNA test back yesterday. She's my daughter. I've met her once. Nice, sweet girl. But real shy. You could tell she's not comfortable around people she doesn't know. Lol she's a striking resemblance to my mother, it's crazy.

I can't lie, I'm nervous. I mean, I already got a daughter, but she's 7. She's already knows me lol. Her mom invited me and my kids to a BBQ at her house this weekend. Hopefully we can establish a good relationship.

Any of y'all ever been through this?

 

[Lou Cypher]

Congratulations!

 

[dalyricalbandit]

this some shit homie but now that u know be there for that teen

 

[Kat]

And fuck that BBQ shit. I'd want the first few times I spend time with her to be me picking her up and doing our own thing 1-on-1.

That might be a little too much for her. He's essentially a stranger.

 

[mryounggun]

And fuck that BBQ shit. I'd want the first few times I spend time with her to be me picking her up and doing our own thing 1-on-1.

That might be a little too much for her. He's essentially a stranger.

I would agree if she was younger. But 14 is old enough to rationalize 'This is my father. I want to get to know him. He wants to get to know me. I'm not in any danger.'

 

[Trollio]

lies

 

[Copper]

 

[700]

At least she already a teenager

 

[illestni99ainne]

This happened to my older brother. He had a one night stand with a chick 18 years ago. About 5 years ago the chick contacted him thru fb and said her daughter might be his. The dude she thought was the daddy was never around all these years and wouldn't claim her. He finally came out and wanted a dna test. She did it and it wasn't his. She did the math and my bro was the only other nigga she was with. He did the dna test and sure enough Renae is his.

They have an ok relationship. She's more close to me and my parents than anything. She's a sophomore at Howard. I'm real proud of her.

 

[semi-auto-mato]

This happened to my older brother. He had a one night stand with a chick 18 years ago. About 5 years ago the chick contacted him thru fb and said her daughter might be his. The dude she thought was the daddy was never around all these years and wouldn't claim her. He finally came out and wanted a dna test. She did it and it wasn't his. She did the math and my bro was the only other nigga she was with. He did the dna test and sure enough Renae is his.

They have an ok relationship. She's more close to me and my parents than anything. She's a sophomore at Howard. I'm real proud of her.

Good to hear that ur family accepts her. In some cases the child is rejected by elders of the family

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

Just got off the phone with her. We had a nice little convo. I think things will turn out good.