Really?Who does This?Choosing your Mate over your Child

[2stepz_ahead]

If the kid was disrespecting an adult you check them on it. Kicking them out is too extreme.

so again....

how do we know how long this went on...

this could have been a breaking point.

is there an age limit to get kicked out?

is there a point when a parent cant challenge a kid trying to act grown?

parents can't attempt scare tactics?

You don't kick out your 13 year old to some random strangers house. If you had to kick them out send her to her dads house or a relative or even a godparent.

how do you know that wasn't attempted?

please tell me.

how do you know?

how do you know, the other family members aint tired of her?

very good question you asked. I think I said the same earlier.

funny but, in the 20 minutes this woman posted since this lil girl came to her....why didn't the lady help her contact family?

all this seems right to y'all?

Bruh ask that lady to ask her mom and then come back and tell us. You're coming up with weird scenarios and you don't know their story. I can only go by what we know.

an you cool with a second hand story?

the lil girl didn't send this.....

I could even stand with her if she did it herself.... but she didn't.

y'all go off second hand shit.

also.....

whenever I present different ways to look at something cause everything aint black and white y'all niggas always cop out....

does thinking outside the box make y'all heads hurt?

how are they weird? tell me.

it's levelz to everything...

so I don't go by assumed facts.

you voted for Trump didn't you

All we know is that her mom kicked her daughter out over disrespecting her mom's boyfriend. Sent her to her friends house and didn't say anything so the friends mom had to go get clothes for the girl. That's all we know and based on those details that is foul on the mom's part.

yep....that's all you know.

see my problem with this is....this aint a smash or pass thread.

these are people's lives.

whatever happened between the mother and child is there problem to work out. as a parent, if I'm placed in a situation like this woman who is also a mother...yes , I would look out for the lil girl...but I would not post some assuming shit online.

while this shit is a joke to y'all....this ladies reputation an life could be fukked up.

I have know alot of people whos lives got fukked up off of surface shit. straight arrow successful people brought down by three words....

he touched me

he hit me

he abused me

he raped me

all shit that should not be taken as fact. but tell my homies that.

I'm not saying this lil girl is right or wrong...not am I saying the mother is right or wrong....

but what I am saying is this lady is wrong.

I am sure people can track down who the girl is...an where does that leave the mother?

the shit might not even be what was said..but guess what. it don't matter now. het shit is not fukked.

 

[Inglewood_B]

@2stepz_ahead

So was it your idea to have her mom kick her out after she told you your feet stank or nah?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

@2stepz_ahead So what happened when you kicked your kid out cause that's obviously all this is about.

don't be stupid.

but I have seen a close friend of mine family destroyed off if someone else's assumption.

that shit ain't cool to watch.

God forbid your cop boyfriend gets some foul shit against him . that is something I don't wish on no one.

 

[5th Letter]

If the kid was disrespecting an adult you check them on it. Kicking them out is too extreme.

so again....

how do we know how long this went on...

this could have been a breaking point.

is there an age limit to get kicked out?

is there a point when a parent cant challenge a kid trying to act grown?

parents can't attempt scare tactics?

You don't kick out your 13 year old to some random strangers house. If you had to kick them out send her to her dads house or a relative or even a godparent.

how do you know that wasn't attempted?

please tell me.

how do you know?

how do you know, the other family members aint tired of her?

very good question you asked. I think I said the same earlier.

funny but, in the 20 minutes this woman posted since this lil girl came to her....why didn't the lady help her contact family?

all this seems right to y'all?

Bruh ask that lady to ask her mom and then come back and tell us. You're coming up with weird scenarios and you don't know their story. I can only go by what we know.

an you cool with a second hand story?

the lil girl didn't send this.....

I could even stand with her if she did it herself.... but she didn't.

y'all go off second hand shit.

also.....

whenever I present different ways to look at something cause everything aint black and white y'all niggas always cop out....

does thinking outside the box make y'all heads hurt?

how are they weird? tell me.

it's levelz to everything...

so I don't go by assumed facts.

you voted for Trump didn't you

All we know is that her mom kicked her daughter out over disrespecting her mom's boyfriend. Sent her to her friends house and didn't say anything so the friends mom had to go get clothes for the girl. That's all we know and based on those details that is foul on the mom's part.

yep....that's all you know.

see my problem with this is....this aint a smash or pass thread.

these are people's lives.

whatever happened between the mother and child is there problem to work out. as a parent, if I'm placed in a situation like this woman who is also a mother...yes , I would look out for the lil girl...but I would not post some assuming shit online.

while this shit is a joke to y'all....this ladies reputation an life could be fukked up.

I have know alot of people whos lives got fukked up off of surface shit. straight arrow successful people brought down by three words....

he touched me

he hit me

he abused me

he raped me

all shit that should not be taken as fact. but tell my homies that.

I'm not saying this lil girl is right or wrong...not am I saying the mother is right or wrong....

but what I am saying is this lady is wrong.

I am sure people can track down who the girl is...an where does that leave the mother?

the shit might not even be what was said..but guess what. it don't matter now. het shit is not fukked.

I wouldn't have even posted this myself. And if there is a point where as a parent you're kicking your child out the house then yes there are problems that needs to be worked out. With that said we still need more details and all we can go off of is what we know.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

@2stepz_ahead So what happened when you kicked your kid out cause that's obviously all this is about.

don't be stupid.

but I have seen a close friend of mine family destroyed off if someone else's assumption.

that shit ain't cool to watch.

God forbid your cop boyfriend gets some foul shit against him . that is something I don't wish on no one.

You keep throwing my cop boyfriend out there like...And so what? That nigga aint special and he aint free from anyone's assumptions. He better get over it like you can too. You think I walk up to everybody saying "fuck the police" and say "Well my man isn't like most of them, wait for all the facts about his life." Get over yourself.

You act like we're supposed to tiptoe through the thread and qualify every statement with "In most cases, this would be wrong, with special consideration granted for 2stepz friend who was a very extreme circumstance."

We have all acknowledged that we do not have every detail. In fact, there is no thread or topic we could ever discuss where we would have an all encompassing view of a scenario in its entirety. What people are saying here is that for the most part, kicking your 13 year old out for being disrespectful to your man is wrong. Now if she set the house on fire, if she's violent, if she "insert scenario here", then sure there are exceptions. But there are also exceptions for kicking a 90 year old man down the stairs. We are giving our opinions based on a general set of ideas that we follow.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

@2stepz_ahead So what happened when you kicked your kid out cause that's obviously all this is about.

don't be stupid.

but I have seen a close friend of mine family destroyed off if someone else's assumption.

that shit ain't cool to watch.

God forbid your cop boyfriend gets some foul shit against him . that is something I don't wish on no one.

You keep throwing my cop boyfriend out there like...And so what? That nigga aint special and he aint free from anyone's assumptions. He better get over it like you can too. You think I walk up to everybody saying "fuck the police" and say "Well my man isn't like most of them, wait for all the facts about his life." Get over yourself.

You act like we're supposed to tiptoe through the thread and qualify every statement with "In most cases, this would be wrong, with special consideration granted for 2stepz friend who was a very extreme circumstance."

We have all acknowledged that we do not have every detail. In fact, there is no thread or topic we could ever discuss where we would have an all encompassing view of a scenario in its entirety. What people are saying here is that for the most part, kicking your 13 year old out for being disrespectful to your man is wrong. Now if she set the house on fire, if she's violent, if she "insert scenario here", then sure there are exceptions. But there are also exceptions for kicking a 90 year old man down the stairs. We are giving our opinions based on a general set of ideas that we follow.

did your tits shake when you typed all that?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

anyway...like I said...my anger is towards this lady....

teens gonna be teens...

parents gonna be parents....

if it comes to you...handle it ...not like you want points...an this is what this lady did.

there is no telling if this could have made a bad situation worse.

 

[MasterJayN100]

If I read this right...These the type of broads that set up their daughters to fail.....the type to believe their man over their daughter if said man molests or in other ways abuses the daughter.

some mothers are insecure having her man around the daughter cause he might show more attention to her

 

[Kat]

hmmmm

could be different than what's being implied.

y'all putting this in a context that's not quite that clear.

she said she kicked her out because she disrespected her man.

let's see...

is this lil girl, already a bad ass?

are we assuming she's in the wrong because the girl is 13?

are niggas really trynna over look tough love situations because she said her man?

is this man taking care of the household an daughter just being a teen and smelliemg herself?

why is it implied that the woman is putting her man first vs disciplining a child?

and f you @blackrain because I know you coming to talk shit about me being devil's advocate. in this case...where's the facts? where's does it say this woman put her man first? where is this woman to say, her man comes first?

You don't put a 13yo child out in the street..period.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

hmmmm

could be different than what's being implied.

y'all putting this in a context that's not quite that clear.

she said she kicked her out because she disrespected her man.

let's see...

is this lil girl, already a bad ass?

are we assuming she's in the wrong because the girl is 13?

are niggas really trynna over look tough love situations because she said her man?

is this man taking care of the household an daughter just being a teen and smelliemg herself?

why is it implied that the woman is putting her man first vs disciplining a child?

and f you @blackrain because I know you coming to talk shit about me being devil's advocate. in this case...where's the facts? where's does it say this woman put her man first? where is this woman to say, her man comes first?

You don't put a 13yo child out in the street..period.

don't come in here with that shit

you got a kid...an you can't tell me you never been in the heat of a moment an said or did some regrettable shit. this might be her case. I dunno. you never calmed down after about 20 minutes an then tried to talk it out?

you never had a beef with your mom or parent?

you don't even know if what this chick said is true

...unless I see first hand shit that says it...I dint and won't beleive it.

 

[The_Jackal]

Some bitches ain't shit that's unfortunately what it comes to.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

hmmmm

could be different than what's being implied.

y'all putting this in a context that's not quite that clear.

she said she kicked her out because she disrespected her man.

let's see...

is this lil girl, already a bad ass?

are we assuming she's in the wrong because the girl is 13?

are niggas really trynna over look tough love situations because she said her man?

is this man taking care of the household an daughter just being a teen and smelliemg herself?

why is it implied that the woman is putting her man first vs disciplining a child?

and f you @blackrain because I know you coming to talk shit about me being devil's advocate. in this case...where's the facts? where's does it say this woman put her man first? where is this woman to say, her man comes first?

You don't put a 13yo child out in the street..period.

don't come in here with that shit

you got a kid...an you can't tell me you never been in the heat of a moment an said or did some regrettable shit. this might be her case. I dunno. you never calmed down after about 20 minutes an then tried to talk it out?

you never had a beef with your mom or parent?

you don't even know if what this chick said is true

...unless I see first hand shit that says it...I dint and won't beleive it.

Yea Kat, dont come in here with that shit. You aint never been so angry you put your daughter out, and when the homeless shelter called to tell you she left her blanket, told them you'd mail it to her?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

oh...now she went to a shelter

does anyone know what happened after?

nope...all y'all stfu

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

If the kid was disrespecting an adult you check them on it. Kicking them out is too extreme.

I´m against kicking her out but...Like it´s the first time she was checked come on now.She´s probably a little brat but she should not kick her out it was probably to scare her but 13 is too young but kids nowadays aint really kid like

What if she called him a ´´hoe ass nigga´´ or a ´´bitch ass nigga´´ or a ´´fuck nigga´´...And so on.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

Don´t forget this she was 13 ´´The hoes are laughing´´ ´´CATCH ME OUTSIDE HOW ABOUT THAT´´.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

If the kid was disrespecting an adult you check them on it. Kicking them out is too extreme.

I´m against kicking her out but...Like it´s the first time she was checked come on now.She´s probably a little brat but she should not kick her out it was probably to scare her but 13 is too young but kids nowadays aint really kid like

What if she called him a ´´hoe ass nigga´´ or a ´´bitch ass nigga´´ or a ´´fuck nigga´´...And so on.

exactly.... no one is oking shit.

an I think it was to scare her as I said before...even if it wasn't...don't put her out there like that. especially being a parent.

next things it's gonna be...she shouldn't have spanked her

then when she a grown thot....why didnt

the parents do more.

 

[5th Letter]

If the kid was disrespecting an adult you check them on it. Kicking them out is too extreme.

I´m against kicking her out but...Like it´s the first time she was checked come on now.She´s probably a little brat but she should not kick her out it was probably to scare her but 13 is too young but kids nowadays aint really kid like

What if she called him a ´´hoe ass nigga´´ or a ´´bitch ass nigga´´ or a ´´fuck nigga´´...And so on.

We don't know that though.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

If the kid was disrespecting an adult you check them on it. Kicking them out is too extreme.

I´m against kicking her out but...Like it´s the first time she was checked come on now.She´s probably a little brat but she should not kick her out it was probably to scare her but 13 is too young but kids nowadays aint really kid like

What if she called him a ´´hoe ass nigga´´ or a ´´bitch ass nigga´´ or a ´´fuck nigga´´...And so on.

We don't know that though.

Thats the whole thing we don´t know what she did.What if she punched him or told him to go fuck himself nuemorous times.People lose there patience and say shit they didn´t mean to.The mother probably came to her senses after the whole thing.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

so y'all letting the Brazilian dude see a bigger picture than y'all?

smdh....

no dis bruh

 

[2stepz_ahead]

niggas acting like mothers don't toss out pregnant teens everyday