Pros / Cons About Marriage

[Rozetta5tone]

That shit either work or it don't. Period

 

[2stepz_ahead]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

nooo no no

just no

hoes, slut. whores, women ....all different.

bruh you just...

nooooo

your veiw is jaded as hell.

hell yes my wife can do better than me.

she has options...just like I have options.

but she's with me....an I take keeping her seriously as she does me.

two way street

How old is your wife bruh and how many kids between y'all

@2stepz_ahead

she over 35 an had two kids BTW us. my kids.

what's your point ....I'm ready to fight

Point is she almost 40 with two kids. Where she gonna go?

Who would want her for an ltr? Nobody.

A nigga her age that's single with no kids in good financial position can get a 25 yr old.

A nigga younger than her is not gonna want her for an ltr unless he a bum.

Unless she find a nigga that is making twice as much as she is and willing to play daddy to two half grown Niggas, she stuck.

The only other move she could make is if she makes less money than you to wait till the kids are grown get a divorce, ball out on your alimony while catching young dick.

they my kids tho....she has no ties to me other than marraige an her wanting to stay

Damn so she like emotionally damaged and shit.

Or she could just really be a nawalt.

Can't call it but most relationships or marriages don't play out this way

but why think she emotionally damaged.

why cant it be that she saw a man...going all out to be a man. going balls out to fight for his kids while still grinding and finding time to do little things for her?

a man with responsibility and goes after them...takes care of them. a man with a life plan...an executes it or making moves to execute it.

you'd be surprised how many niggas say shit but don't do it. so when someone really actively goes after many things...it stands out.

it's about character. an integrity.

a good dude is a good dude...no matter the look , money or job.

we both got good ones.

 

[Fosheezy]

Damn y'all got a lot to say on this subject.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

Damn y'all got a lot to say on this subject.

Better learn. There are a lot of gems in this thread. Aint nothing worse than somebody who has been warned and make the same mistake.

 

[Fosheezy]

Damn y'all got a lot to say on this subject.

Better learn. There are a lot of gems in this thread. Aint nothing worse than somebody who has been warned and make the same mistake.

I'm aware of most the risks. And I'm not against knowing of the possible worse case scenarios, but also I don't feel the need to over-emphasize those over the more likely cases/risks. For example, i haven't met one real life case of someone getting they accounts completely wiped out and locks changed and all that. But I encountered a lot of people who done had affairs while married and that lie to they spouse.

 

[i ro ny]

the only take away so far from this thread is that you might as well have a long-term s/o rather than get married.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I take away..

alot of niggas think too highly of themselves.

alot of niggas don't think they can out think or out maneuver they chick when things get to the end.

y'all putting money over everything just like these chicks. but y'all mad at the chicks.

I'm not saying my wife wouldn't try. but she know it's gonna be alot work, time m effort when it would be easier to just walk away, God forbid that day comes.

dht. I already told her I would just give her half....because at that point....all want is my sanity. and half of something is better than stress related health issues.

I would have to take it on the chin.

but in the meantime... I got a job to do...

keep my baby happy

keep her feeling sexy

keep her feeling attractive

and keep her feeling safe and secured(financially, emotionally, and mentally)

is that not what you niggas do anyway?

 

[blackgod813]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

nooo no no

just no

hoes, slut. whores, women ....all different.

bruh you just...

nooooo

your veiw is jaded as hell.

hell yes my wife can do better than me.

she has options...just like I have options.

but she's with me....an I take keeping her seriously as she does me.

two way street

How old is your wife bruh and how many kids between y'all

@2stepz_ahead

she over 35 an had two kids BTW us. my kids.

what's your point ....I'm ready to fight

Point is she almost 40 with two kids. Where she gonna go?

Who would want her for an ltr? Nobody.

A nigga her age that's single with no kids in good financial position can get a 25 yr old.

A nigga younger than her is not gonna want her for an ltr unless he a bum.

Unless she find a nigga that is making twice as much as she is and willing to play daddy to two half grown Niggas, she stuck.

The only other move she could make is if she makes less money than you to wait till the kids are grown get a divorce, ball out on your alimony while catching young dick.

they my kids tho....she has no ties to me other than marraige an her wanting to stay

Damn so she like emotionally damaged and shit.

Or she could just really be a nawalt.

Can't call it but most relationships or marriages don't play out this way

but why think she emotionally damaged.

why cant it be that she saw a man...going all out to be a man. going balls out to fight for his kids while still grinding and finding time to do little things for her?

a man with responsibility and goes after them...takes care of them. a man with a life plan...an executes it or making moves to execute it.

you'd be surprised how many niggas say shit but don't do it. so when someone really actively goes after many things...it stands out.

it's about character. an integrity.

a good dude is a good dude...no matter the look , money or job.

we both got good ones.

As man why you or you all care about your kids when you can make more in the animal world this is rare..

 

[Kwan Dai]

Pros:

I get to chill everyday with my closest friend

Best business partner ever

Extended family is amazing

Our children have been given an opportunity to have Mom and Dad on their journey

Cons:

It's very demanding to live up to the challenge of "Good" husband daily

At some point it ends

 

[Mister B.]

I don't know....I've developed a bit more understanding with it.

10 years ago, I would've told you "fuck marriage, that shit is a no-win situation."

5 years ago, I would've said, "Just be very careful."

Now, I'm like "if it works for it you, do it. Just don't complain if it backfires. It's what you agreed to, so it you're in it, or leave it be."

I'm sure my engagement has everything to do with it. I don't have an issue with marriage, if both parties know:

1) How the situation will play out - kids, mostly here

2) Where they stand financially, and how if situations changed, how they'll work together to adjust.

 

[LordZuko]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

nooo no no

just no

hoes, slut. whores, women ....all different.

bruh you just...

nooooo

your veiw is jaded as hell.

hell yes my wife can do better than me.

she has options...just like I have options.

but she's with me....an I take keeping her seriously as she does me.

two way street

How old is your wife bruh and how many kids between y'all

@2stepz_ahead

she over 35 an had two kids BTW us. my kids.

what's your point ....I'm ready to fight

Point is she almost 40 with two kids. Where she gonna go?

Who would want her for an ltr? Nobody.

A nigga her age that's single with no kids in good financial position can get a 25 yr old.

A nigga younger than her is not gonna want her for an ltr unless he a bum.

Unless she find a nigga that is making twice as much as she is and willing to play daddy to two half grown Niggas, she stuck.

The only other move she could make is if she makes less money than you to wait till the kids are grown get a divorce, ball out on your alimony while catching young dick.

they my kids tho....she has no ties to me other than marraige an her wanting to stay

Damn so she like emotionally damaged and shit.

Or she could just really be a nawalt.

Can't call it but most relationships or marriages don't play out this way

but why think she emotionally damaged.

why cant it be that she saw a man...going all out to be a man. going balls out to fight for his kids while still grinding and finding time to do little things for her?

a man with responsibility and goes after them...takes care of them. a man with a life plan...an executes it or making moves to execute it.

you'd be surprised how many niggas say shit but don't do it. so when someone really actively goes after many things...it stands out.

it's about character. an integrity.

a good dude is a good dude...no matter the look , money or job.

we both got good ones.

Because the only females I've seen willing to play mommy to kids not their own are emotionally damaged. They got some unresolved child hood issues.

Bitches don't give a fuck about integrity or honor or principles in any way that does not directly benefit them.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

nooo no no

just no

hoes, slut. whores, women ....all different.

bruh you just...

nooooo

your veiw is jaded as hell.

hell yes my wife can do better than me.

she has options...just like I have options.

but she's with me....an I take keeping her seriously as she does me.

two way street

How old is your wife bruh and how many kids between y'all

@2stepz_ahead

she over 35 an had two kids BTW us. my kids.

what's your point ....I'm ready to fight

Point is she almost 40 with two kids. Where she gonna go?

Who would want her for an ltr? Nobody.

A nigga her age that's single with no kids in good financial position can get a 25 yr old.

A nigga younger than her is not gonna want her for an ltr unless he a bum.

Unless she find a nigga that is making twice as much as she is and willing to play daddy to two half grown Niggas, she stuck.

The only other move she could make is if she makes less money than you to wait till the kids are grown get a divorce, ball out on your alimony while catching young dick.

they my kids tho....she has no ties to me other than marraige an her wanting to stay

Damn so she like emotionally damaged and shit.

Or she could just really be a nawalt.

Can't call it but most relationships or marriages don't play out this way

but why think she emotionally damaged.

why cant it be that she saw a man...going all out to be a man. going balls out to fight for his kids while still grinding and finding time to do little things for her?

a man with responsibility and goes after them...takes care of them. a man with a life plan...an executes it or making moves to execute it.

you'd be surprised how many niggas say shit but don't do it. so when someone really actively goes after many things...it stands out.

it's about character. an integrity.

a good dude is a good dude...no matter the look , money or job.

we both got good ones.

Because the only females I've seen willing to play mommy to kids not their own are emotionally damaged. They got some unresolved child hood issues.

Bitches don't give a fuck about integrity or honor or principles in any way that does not directly benefit them.

so you don't know females who will see the character and/or potential in a guy?

it's something wrong with where you looking IMO.

there is a such thing as building with someone.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

an let's also point out.....who says I'm not the damaged one?

who says youre not the damaged one?

don't dudes marry chicks with kids?

your angle not holding weight bruh.

 

[LordZuko]

an let's also point out.....who says I'm not the damaged one?

who says youre not the damaged one?

don't dudes marry chicks with kids?

your angle not holding weight bruh.

Niggas been playing step daddy and it's because we devalue ourselves.

Neither of those possibilities are mutually exclusive. Neither detract from my statement.

 

[LordZuko]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

nooo no no

just no

hoes, slut. whores, women ....all different.

bruh you just...

nooooo

your veiw is jaded as hell.

hell yes my wife can do better than me.

she has options...just like I have options.

but she's with me....an I take keeping her seriously as she does me.

two way street

How old is your wife bruh and how many kids between y'all

@2stepz_ahead

she over 35 an had two kids BTW us. my kids.

what's your point ....I'm ready to fight

Point is she almost 40 with two kids. Where she gonna go?

Who would want her for an ltr? Nobody.

A nigga her age that's single with no kids in good financial position can get a 25 yr old.

A nigga younger than her is not gonna want her for an ltr unless he a bum.

Unless she find a nigga that is making twice as much as she is and willing to play daddy to two half grown Niggas, she stuck.

The only other move she could make is if she makes less money than you to wait till the kids are grown get a divorce, ball out on your alimony while catching young dick.

they my kids tho....she has no ties to me other than marraige an her wanting to stay

Damn so she like emotionally damaged and shit.

Or she could just really be a nawalt.

Can't call it but most relationships or marriages don't play out this way

but why think she emotionally damaged.

why cant it be that she saw a man...going all out to be a man. going balls out to fight for his kids while still grinding and finding time to do little things for her?

a man with responsibility and goes after them...takes care of them. a man with a life plan...an executes it or making moves to execute it.

you'd be surprised how many niggas say shit but don't do it. so when someone really actively goes after many things...it stands out.

it's about character. an integrity.

a good dude is a good dude...no matter the look , money or job.

we both got good ones.

Because the only females I've seen willing to play mommy to kids not their own are emotionally damaged. They got some unresolved child hood issues.

Bitches don't give a fuck about integrity or honor or principles in any way that does not directly benefit them.

so you don't know females who will see the character and/or potential in a guy?

it's something wrong with where you looking IMO.

there is a such thing as building with someone.

Is your wife fat?

 

[blackgod813]

an let's also point out.....who says I'm not the damaged one?

who says youre not the damaged one?

don't dudes marry chicks with kids?

your angle not holding weight bruh.

Men who date women with multiple kids have issues are cucks his shit far more weight than anything said he is what the people believe

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Issues wirh marriage can be summed up in in one concept.

People are selfish.

That is the root cause for most if not all issues in marriage. Unfortunately, you can only control your actions and not those of a spouse. People can change too, so you may marry someone who's ends up being a completely different person. But that's out of your control.

Just make sure you choose right and somone you truley look at as an extension of yourself and vice versa.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

The problem is thinking there is a difference between a hoe and a regular bitch.

Because you contrive this distinction you end up applying the wrong solution to the problem.

A hoe is nothing but a female willing to use her pussy to extract resources from a man.

Name five bitches you know that wouldn't use their pussy to get what they want.

Being a hoe is a basic program of a female. It ain't even an intentional thought it's just the way they move.

So to say that you simply have to choose the right female ignores the fact that hoe is encoded in her. The female you with used pussy to get you, uses pussy to keep you, but you think she's above using it to get something else from another man? Why? Because principles? Hoes don't have principles. They don't operate on an honor system.

If you with a female long term it is because she doesn't feel she can do better than you.

If she does find someone she thinks is better she'll do something called monkey branching. Shell pull back affection from her current, withdraw from sex become emotionally distant pick petty arguments, basically tank the relationship until he breaks up with her. She will swear there is nobody else, but look on her fb two weeks to a month later you gonna see her boo'd up with the nigga she was cheating on you with.

Now if she wants a man who she isn't sure is available she will cheat but won't leave right away. Maybe the dude is married or has a gf but she will fuck him in order to mate poach.

Some females will play a game where they hook up with a beta for the resources, cheat with an alpha, get pregnant by him and pass the baby off as the beta's.

Lot of niggas outchea thinking they chose the right one. Holding Ls.

Paying child support on kids not even theirs.

I already went over the other Ls.

Understand the nature of the thing you dealing with

nooo no no

just no

hoes, slut. whores, women ....all different.

bruh you just...

nooooo

your veiw is jaded as hell.

hell yes my wife can do better than me.

she has options...just like I have options.

but she's with me....an I take keeping her seriously as she does me.

two way street

How old is your wife bruh and how many kids between y'all

@2stepz_ahead

she over 35 an had two kids BTW us. my kids.

what's your point ....I'm ready to fight

Point is she almost 40 with two kids. Where she gonna go?

Who would want her for an ltr? Nobody.

A nigga her age that's single with no kids in good financial position can get a 25 yr old.

A nigga younger than her is not gonna want her for an ltr unless he a bum.

Unless she find a nigga that is making twice as much as she is and willing to play daddy to two half grown Niggas, she stuck.

The only other move she could make is if she makes less money than you to wait till the kids are grown get a divorce, ball out on your alimony while catching young dick.

they my kids tho....she has no ties to me other than marraige an her wanting to stay

Damn so she like emotionally damaged and shit.

Or she could just really be a nawalt.

Can't call it but most relationships or marriages don't play out this way

but why think she emotionally damaged.

why cant it be that she saw a man...going all out to be a man. going balls out to fight for his kids while still grinding and finding time to do little things for her?

a man with responsibility and goes after them...takes care of them. a man with a life plan...an executes it or making moves to execute it.

you'd be surprised how many niggas say shit but don't do it. so when someone really actively goes after many things...it stands out.

it's about character. an integrity.

a good dude is a good dude...no matter the look , money or job.

we both got good ones.

Because the only females I've seen willing to play mommy to kids not their own are emotionally damaged. They got some unresolved child hood issues.

Bitches don't give a fuck about integrity or honor or principles in any way that does not directly benefit them.

so you don't know females who will see the character and/or potential in a guy?

it's something wrong with where you looking IMO.

there is a such thing as building with someone.

Is your wife fat?

lol

so you gonna keep try to find an angle where someone has an issue so they gotta take what they can get?

bruh...just admit YOUR veiw is jaded.

you been hurt bad or living off someone else's hurt or a millenial

 

[2stepz_ahead]

an let's also point out.....who says I'm not the damaged one?

who says youre not the damaged one?

don't dudes marry chicks with kids?

your angle not holding weight bruh.

Men who date women with multiple kids have issues are cucks his shit far more weight than anything said he is what the people believe

people believe because people are selfish...an he validated their reason to be selfish.

people can't just say

I'm selfish

I'm not ready

I don't know who I am, so how can I live with another person

or

I live other peoples issues.

all that can be respected...

all this money shit. women are hoes ..

y'all full of shit.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

The society we are living in doesent revolve around familly values or religion. ITS ABOUT ACQUIRING GOODS. ITS ABOUT PLEASURE. ITS ABOUT PAIN, SWEAT AVOIDANCE. ITS ABOUT OURSELVES.

Marriage is not the centerpeice of the materialistic, egomaniac, self centered society. IT HAS BECOME TO MANY A MEAN, A TOOL OF SOCIAL COMPETION,STATUS, IMAGE.

The city of New York doent need no god dam child to keep on functioning. A population gap will result to IMMIGRATION naturally.

Its another story in agriculture dominated states. There mariage and familly have there true meaning in there purest forms.

Shit is hitting the fan because we dont want to adapt, we stay blind to these facts.

I still dont get why people who are not into God seek marriage. Why the Tinder generation wants to get married. ITS NOT FOR THEM!! ITS NOT THERE REALITY!!

Hence that 7 divorces out of 10 marriages rate.

Who is gambling with these odds?