Is There Anyway To Avoid Child Support

[7figz]

fam take care of ur child

Worthless cliche response.

Dude said avoid "child support" not avoid taking care of his child. Too many people think it means the same thing.

People can, and do, take care of their children without that fucked up biased ass system.

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

First off we need full story

2nd shes a bird that wants a prison BF

3....get 50/50 custody so u dont have to pay $$$?

Not giving full story cuz it wouldn't fit in o/p and im not abt to let yall roast me into the sunset tellin yall how foul she did me. All imma say is fck dat bitch and stay down for my kids cuz she gonna fall on her face one day but oh well. An i didnt know u didn't have to pay with joint custody good lookin bro

Bruh nobody gon fool you because YOU AINT AND YOU WONT BE THE LAST ONE TO FALL INTO THE IN CHILD - DISGUISED TAX.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

1. Dont give her cash. Check or money order only. If she got a problem with that then save the money. Open an accound just for that and keep record of deposit.

2. If you dont want to pay support the only thing you can do is get physical cusotdy. Thats gone cost and will be an uphill battle. You're going to have to prove shes unfit.

not true

How so? The courts aren't going to change primary custody unless there's a significant change that will be a negative to the best interest in the child. He can prove all day long he has the childs best interest but there also has to be something to warrant a change in custody. Usually its proving the child is much better of with him.

what is unfit?

it can be subjective.

best interest is something that will benefit the child.

he has to be the better parent and present the case as the child will be better off with him...an setting the example of why. if he goes into court saying how bad she is....that will make him slanderous. even if he can prove it. hes focusing on her makes judges look at him like its vengeful.

trust me on this ....i got custody of both my kids from two different mothers, using the system like these chicks use the system.

so the warrant in custody can start with her affecting the relationship he has with the child where as he would allow her to build a relationship. he has toi come at it like visitation is not enough for a man to be a father when there are plenty of fathers who are ok four days out of a month, but we see where society is heading with the father not in the lead.

he can word it in a way she cant defend against.

 

[nex gin]

Full custody is the only option that I think you have unless somebody knows of another loop hole.

I basically have joint custody w/ my ex-wife being the primary custodial + I've been in my son's life since day 1. Still got stuck w/ the c/s. My son doesn't really want to stay w/ his mom at all, and I want full custody of him. I'll probably be fighting that battle soon now that he's at the age where the judge will take the child's wants into account. I know she's going to fight me on it because she's not trying to give up that monthly check. System is fucked man....smh

 

[gorilla]

1. Dont give her cash. Check or money order only. If she got a problem with that then save the money. Open an accound just for that and keep record of deposit.

2. If you dont want to pay support the only thing you can do is get physical cusotdy. Thats gone cost and will be an uphill battle. You're going to have to prove shes unfit.

not true

How so? The courts aren't going to change primary custody unless there's a significant change that will be a negative to the best interest in the child. He can prove all day long he has the childs best interest but there also has to be something to warrant a change in custody. Usually its proving the child is much better of with him.

what is unfit?

it can be subjective.

best interest is something that will benefit the child.

he has to be the better parent and present the case as the child will be better off with him...an setting the example of why. if he goes into court saying how bad she is....that will make him slanderous. even if he can prove it. hes focusing on her makes judges look at him like its vengeful.

trust me on this ....i got custody of both my kids from two different mothers, using the system like these chicks use the system.

so the warrant in custody can start with her affecting the relationship he has with the child where as he would allow her to build a relationship. he has toi come at it like visitation is not enough for a man to be a father when there are plenty of fathers who are ok four days out of a month, but we see where society is heading with the father not in the lead.

he can word it in a way she cant defend against.

True

 

[gorilla]

1. Dont give her cash. Check or money order only. If she got a problem with that then save the money. Open an accound just for that and keep record of deposit.

2. If you dont want to pay support the only thing you can do is get physical cusotdy. Thats gone cost and will be an uphill battle. You're going to have to prove shes unfit.

not true

How so? The courts aren't going to change primary custody unless there's a significant change that will be a negative to the best interest in the child. He can prove all day long he has the childs best interest but there also has to be something to warrant a change in custody. Usually its proving the child is much better of with him.

But that doesn't mean the mother is unfit

This is also true

 

[2stepz_ahead]

the thing is he has to present himself as the parent not willing to allow another statistic.

that way the mother has to defend her own actions versus him trying to make her seem unfit.

she will make herself seem unfit but trying to say how shes the better parent when she aint letting him see the child. she has to talk her own way outta that while still trying to prove shes the better option.

man i got stories for days at how the judges used to cuss them hoes out after only about 4-5 sentences from me.

so dont attack her credibility...present yourself, and step back and she will fall into her own filth.

 

[nex gin]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

she shouldnt be getting cash from you if she has you on support.

all monies should go to the child when the child is with you. all the shit you buy...stay with you when the child aint with you. sounds harsh...but this is what she wanted.

she wanted support...ok you got support. dont ask for shit else.

yall gotta play this game to win.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

An another thing whats da point of me signing the birth certificate if i can only get legal rights to him through court? What in gods name type of backwards shit is this

Bruh.........DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING........until you get a dna/paternity test that proves you're the father.

Otherwise, you could end up paying child support for a kid that isn't even yours.

Something seems off about the way your babymama's moving.

I mean, for most chicks like that child support would be the first thing on her mind.

But she doesn't even seem to be stressing over it.........at all.

It's almost as if she knows the dude she's been cheating with is the baby's real father and that the......"we".....she was talking about when she said "we don't need your money" was her and him; not her and the baby.

She's trying to avoid all contact with you because she doesn't want to deal with all the stress and drama of you finding out the kid isn't yours.

more of a reason to get the shit out the way now.

just because a kid looks like you....dont mean its yours. cuz the nigga she cheating with could look like you too.

lol......

 

[gorilla]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

she shouldnt be getting cash from you if she has you on support.

all monies should go to the child when the child is with you. all the shit you buy...stay with you when the child aint with you. sounds harsh...but this is what she wanted.

she wanted support...ok you got support. dont ask for shit else.

yall gotta play this game to win.

Real shit. I learned that shit the hard way too.

Bitch went to foc for an increase. I'm pointing out everything I bought outside of cs. Shoes, coats, food etc because she wasn't doing it and nobody cared when I brought that shit up.

She sat there and stone cold said "well I never asked you to do it". The referee agreed.

I wanted to shoot that whole bitch up.

In the end I still won because she ended up getting a decreased amount. No more cs tho since getting sole custody. Being up out of that system feel like fresh out the pen.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

she shouldnt be getting cash from you if she has you on support.

all monies should go to the child when the child is with you. all the shit you buy...stay with you when the child aint with you. sounds harsh...but this is what she wanted.

she wanted support...ok you got support. dont ask for shit else.

yall gotta play this game to win.

Real shit. I learned that shit the hard way too.

Bitch went to foc for an increase. I'm pointing out everything I bought outside of cs. Shoes, coats, food etc because she wasn't doing it and nobody cared when I brought that shit up.

She sat there and stone cold said "well I never asked you to do it". The referee agreed.

I wanted to shoot that whole bitch up.

In the end I still won because she ended up getting a decreased amount. No more cs tho since getting sole custody. Being up out of that system feel like fresh out the pen.

man...i felt free as well....then oput her ass on support...then i was all types of fukk niggas.

you be surprised at how chicks view a dude that wants sole custody of his kid.

i got more hate than a dead beat dad. real shit

 

[7figz]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

she shouldnt be getting cash from you if she has you on support.

all monies should go to the child when the child is with you. all the shit you buy...stay with you when the child aint with you. sounds harsh...but this is what she wanted.

she wanted support...ok you got support. dont ask for shit else.

yall gotta play this game to win.

Exactly how I handled the shit. And somehow because of all the bumb shit she was doing, she wasn't even getting all of what I was paying. She told me that shit like it was my problem.

 

[skpjr78]

Ask Rae Carruth @"TayGettem "

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

she shouldnt be getting cash from you if she has you on support.

all monies should go to the child when the child is with you. all the shit you buy...stay with you when the child aint with you. sounds harsh...but this is what she wanted.

she wanted support...ok you got support. dont ask for shit else.

yall gotta play this game to win.

Exactly how I handled the shit. And somehow because of all the bumb shit she was doing, she wasn't even getting all of what I was paying. She told me that shit like it was my problem.

another thing people miss.

admin fees come out of support....you paying $100...she might be getting $85

the system is there to make money...an thats also why they drag it out.

filing for custody or stopping support....takes like 1-2 years to get a date.

but when she files for support.....date by the end of the week.

insert *kickin knowledge gif*

 

[nex gin]

Oh....and like somebody else said if you do end up having to pay....DO NOT GIVE HER CASH. I wouldn't even write a check directly to her either. I'd pay it directly to the c/s office and let them distribute the money to her that way your payments are on file and accounted for. My ex tried to pull the "write me a check" shit. Fuck around and have you in court paying double cause they could consider those checks as "gifts".

she shouldnt be getting cash from you if she has you on support.

all monies should go to the child when the child is with you. all the shit you buy...stay with you when the child aint with you. sounds harsh...but this is what she wanted.

she wanted support...ok you got support. dont ask for shit else.

yall gotta play this game to win.

Real shit. I learned that shit the hard way too.

Bitch went to foc for an increase. I'm pointing out everything I bought outside of cs. Shoes, coats, food etc because she wasn't doing it and nobody cared when I brought that shit up.

She sat there and stone cold said "well I never asked you to do it". The referee agreed.

I wanted to shoot that whole bitch up.

In the end I still won because she ended up getting a decreased amount. No more cs tho since getting sole custody. Being up out of that system feel like fresh out the pen.

My ex sent that shit to me through a text like....." to make things easier, why don't you just write me a check for the child support". I stared at my phone like "bitch you must think I'm stupid". First off that wasn't what was discussed in the MDA. Second, yo ass been lying on me and doing foul shit for a minute. Fuck I look like trusting you w/ anything. I put myself on child support and pay that shit through the system. I told the mfs at the c/s office what she said and they were like "yeah...don't fall for that. I've seen too many instances where fathers pay the mother directly and then the woman will have the man in court talking about he hasn't been paying. And more often than not the judge will side w/ the woman and say that whatever the father paid is a "gift". Imagine paying her directly for years only for a judge to tell you that none of those payments mattered.....you still gotta pay all that back child support....smmfh.

 

[TayGettem]

I already signed his birth certificate. I was there when she pushed him out. He's two now ik he's mine cuz she started messing around in like dec of last yr. My issue is i have no legal claim to him without a dna test but i get one i still get out on CS. Why should i have to pay this bird 300 to 400 just for the privilege to see my son who i helped create when im already taking care of him all cuz she wanna keep him from me df. The system rigged to fck me over

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I already signed his birth certificate. I was there when she pushed him out. He's two now ik he's mine cuz she started messing around in like dec of last yr. My issue is i have no legal claim to him without a dna test but i get one i still get out on CS. Why should i have to pay this bird 300 to 400 just for the privilege to see my son who i helped create when im already taking care of him all cuz she wanna keep him from me df. The system rigged to fck me over

mamas baby papas maybe.

you being there during birth dont make him yours.

you can do paternity tests outside of court.

get ya googles on...an you will see its pretty cheap and takes about two weeks.

young man......whats your end goal? you seem a bit confused.

 

[HafBayked]

Get full custody. Threat neutralized.

close thread

 

[TayGettem]

My end goal is to just see my son. I work 12hrs a day M to F so obviously full custody is a no go. She doesn't work so clearly she has more free time so im the financial provider for my kid besides her grandparents. So Pampers, wipes, clothes...etc is all me. All she gotta do is watch him. We had a verbal agreements i get him every two weeks and can come see him when ever i want. But since she started dating this new guy she been actin funny. She took our child to this man's house for a whole week without consulting me and wouldnt answer her phone so i couldnt even get in contact with her or my child and wouldnt gemme a address. Now she talkin bout her and her new nigga moving to Florida and taking my son......i just want to see my son but its lookin like going to court the only way to do that which means CS and i don't want that. Cuz why pay her 300 to 400 a month to see my child when i already buy him everything he need and want anyway. Thats jst giving her free money to do watever with