Is there a shortage of Black men, or are women just too picky?

[Maalik]

It's some fine ass broads out there too. I watched one day and was tempted to rub one out...

carry on

Tru dat...tru dat lol

 

[blakfyahking]

easily...but valentines day coming up... you bout to see some serious hate...

everybody that's in a happily relationship has just been declared an enemy of the state by single bitter angry people....

everyone wanna believe there's no such thing as a goo person.. but every happy couple they see is about to infuriate them...

"i bet you one of them cheating"
"they both ugly as shit"
"yea but if u knew their past"
"them kids ain't even his"
"didn't she used to fuck with so-n-so"
"nigga only makeing $10 a hour"
"when that bitch gonna get a perm"

watch how the shit start up, lol

damn Du, I told you bout that nice guy shit

you letting mofos get away with saying that shit to yo face now?

 

[The BAPHOMET]

lmao and i could easily post a pic of a what yall consider a dime piece and then post a pic of an average female to make the exact same agument.

wouldn't matter though cuz niggas aint complaing bout no shortage of women

 

[Dupac]

damn Du, I told you bout that nice guy shit

you letting mofos get away with saying that shit to yo face now?

no homo, but i'm a very attractive man who makes much more than $10 an hour.....

 

[blackrain]

Bruh...I could shut this thread down with some of the stupid shit girls on my Facebook say. Especially with Valentine's Day near & all them hoes feeling lonely.

One chick was talkin about her "next" kid gonna be with a husband....LOL

Another chick was talkin about how a dude needs to have a great job, a house, a car, money stacked, over 6 feet, great body, no kids & a degree (yes, she typed all that). Shawty play for the lingerie football league. You would've thought her ass was a Doctor. And she got a real strong face.

Another chick was talkin about moving because all the niggas was lame, had no jobs, no crib, no car. I felt it was ignorant to tell her no nigga with his shit right gonna want a fat, black ass gargoyle looking broad with 2 kids.

These women so delusional at times.....its sad. Like for real.

why even associate with women like this in any way...even on facebook?

 

[The BAPHOMET]

no homo, but i'm a very attractive man who makes much more than $10 an hour.....

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[blakfyahking]

no homo, but i'm a very attractive man who makes much more than $10 an hour.....

champ you know I had to shoot a subliminal since I don't get to post during the daytime as much anymore haha

you and Cap B still beefing?

or has there been a truce on the IC?

 

[JadaRoss]

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[Dupac]

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u woulda thought the nerd woulda been smarter than to chase after a chicken...

 

[Maalik]

why even associate with women like this in any way...even on facebook?

High school/neighborhood friends I never deleted..

 

[Dupac]

champ you know I had to shoot a subliminal since I don't get to post during the daytime as much anymore haha

you and Cap B still beefing?

or has there been a truce on the IC?

lol, we had a quick little back n forth in the fashion thread the other day...

that shit ain't neva gonna die....

 

[blackrain]

u woulda thought the nerd woulda been smarter than to chase after a chicken...

lol i was just about to say that...all those smart/dumb niggas who complain about these type of women yet won't admit that part of the problem is the TYPE of women they chase...any nigga who agrees with that picture is the type that will try to buy a chick and end up getting screwed in divorce court

 

[JadaRoss]

u woulda thought the nerd woulda been smarter than to chase after a chicken...

real talk it takes some women to hit rock bottom to appreciate someone who is right for her

sad but true

 

[blackrain]

High school/neighborhood friends I never deleted..

shit you need to practice de-friend day...i defriend people all the time for saying/endorsing stupid shit..you shouldn't associate with people whose values and goals in life are the exact opposite of yours...does you no good

 

[Maalik]

shit you need to practice de-friend day...i defriend people all the time for saying/endorsing stupid shit..you shouldn't associate with people whose values and goals in life are the exact opposite of yours...does you no good

Yea..yea...I know. Its like 200 people though lol...I'd be better off deleting my shit & starting all over. And I happen to be very lazy.

 

[Dupac]

real talk it takes some women to hit rock bottom to appreciate someone who is right for her

sad but true

but nerdy yo wanted big booty shorty for the EXACT same reaons she wanted the thug...

in all reality at least she realized it eventually.. the way dude holding on to his money, and poking his chest out boasting his title, he's likely to find another sexy ass chick that's jsut going to want him for his money and status.. he learned no lesson..

he just shitted on someone who shitted on him...

 

[Dupac]

real talk it takes some women to hit rock bottom to appreciate someone who is right for her

sad but true

so what does it take for a dude to realize the same thing..

cuz niggaz who get burned by chick after chck put up a defense and never open themselves up to trust a woman....

where as the chicks u mention may realize it late...... but a lotta of them are atleast open to the idea down the road..

 

[texas409]

The myth of the "Black male shortage" is the most insidious weapon of mass distraction since the epidemic of Korean hair weaves stitched to the scalps of legions of women of African descent.

Closer to the truth is that Black women have become witting victims of shady statistics. Many unquestionably believe sensational media reports of increasingly long odds against Black women getting married, or even finding a Black boyfriend.

The lie of the shortage of Black men also lives among endless assertions of anecdotal evidence. One common lament: "My friends and I are educated, Black women. We own our homes, cars and have successful careers. However, not one of us has any marriage prospects, so we socialize at one another's homes."

Their disappointment is palpable; however, they are missing one salient point. When today's Black career woman spends 8 to 10 hours at work and her leisure time with girlfriends, it is impossible for her to meet available Black men.

During a recent FlirtingTime.com workshop titled "Debunk the Myths and Lies You Believe About Black Men," I asked a male friend who, by day, is a successful corporate trainer, to trade his three-piece business suit for a janitor's uniform. His job was to sweep near the entrance of the workshop and to cheerfully greet each woman as she entered. Of the 40 Black women in attendance, fewer than 1 percent returned his greeting. After the women were confronted with results of this experiment, I asked, "How can you ignite your social life with men if you refuse to speak to them? Was it the broom that blinded you and numbed your tongue?"

But must a Black woman lower her standards? No. However, she must not ignore the economic realities that affect Black men and women. But if she is hell-bent on marrying a corporate Brother, she might just be waiting a very long time. The number of Black men hired by corporate America is dismal causing many to become self-employed.

Further, some Black women believe that their professional credentials and material possessions make them ideal candidates for marriage. They are not aware that many Black men do not see career achievements as a woman's attractiveness. Instead, it is a woman's softness that attracts men foremost. If she possesses other material attributes, that is great, but he seeks a woman first, not a job title or a land deed.

The shortage-of-Black-men chorus is usually followed by the often-asked question, "Well where are all of the 'good' single Brothers?" The question reflects a woman's hysteria. (Particularly, as 10 healthy, good Black men probably just walked by, but kept moving when they saw Sister-girl having a meltdown.) We all know more than one female friend who is not manless because of any shortage, but because she has issues.

But honorable Black men are not hanging from trees like grapes, or in the "good Black man" aisle of the local supermarket. Nor are they invisible statistics. They have sequestered themselves into safe havens: the barbershop, two or more jobs, financial workshops, community organizing, night school, political campaigns, sporting events or out on the back porch.

After finding Black men, Black women must monitor how they socialize. When planning to attend a social event, grown women will often recruit a few girlfriends. On the other hand, Black men tend to travel solo, or with only one male friend. Thus, when Black women arrive knee-deep with girlfriends, they are frustrated when there are more women than men, fueling their belief of the alleged shortage of Black men.

Let's review. Men of African descent are not limited to America. Black men can also be found in Canada, South America, Africa, Europe, Asia and the Caribbean.

Let's be warm and gracious to the Black men who cross our paths, thereby attracting more. And if there are no Black men in our environment, then self-inventory needs to occur.

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1077/is_6_62/ai_n27180178/

thats a great article man alot of jewels were dropped here i wonder if the smart folks will notice them

 

[blakfyahking]

lol, we had a quick little back n forth in the fashion thread the other day...

that shit ain't neva gonna die....

LMAO @ ya'll niggaz beefing eternally

ya'll should dead that shit tho................even tho I thoroughly enjoy ya'll engaging in e-fisticuffs

meanwhile, negros need to just learn how to be happy on their own and stop looking for a s/o to fill those gaps

that's majority of the reason why people stay chasin mofos that they not in the same league with

like what sense does it make to be a "nerd" chasing hoodrats, when there are fine "nerd" chicks out there who get passed up all the time

but too many mofos want to reach to the other side of the aisle and then get mad cause they came up short :shrugs

 

[blackrain]

lol, we had a quick little back n forth in the fashion thread the other day...

that shit ain't neva gonna die....

oh yeah Du...16 murders to end the month of January...they got everybody out here now