Straight Black Men Are the White People of Black People

[5th Letter]

if a black man cant find a job even with a degree....will the black woman take care of him once she starts caking?

if a black man loses his job and must depend on his woman...will she stand by him thru it all AND build him up?

over the years i have heard so many stories of how sisters shit on black men who stood with them, paid for their education, supported them, nurtured them only for it to not matter once SHE starts making money. and then blame it on the man for not looking hard enough. but when the shoes on the other foot...let a man say that...

i mean i can go some many places in this convo.

Men loosewhen we fall on gard financial times.. women will emasculate him and leave. But she wants a man to help and take care of her when she is on hard times... then the same feminist who want equality will defend it and hide behind gender roles...

you are right....

just with so many families relocating to my area in swiss......

the few black couples we met shit went like this.

two couples following the career of their wife....as i did too.

two black men trying to find jobs in switzerland aint easy.

so one woman sent her man back to the states to find a job. yes, you read right...sent her man back to the states.

the other dude....she told him he cant spend HER money. now this dude been taking care of her since college...he gave up all his shit in the states to move here with her. he couldnt pick up the same type steam and had to lean on his lady. she told him he could not spend her money...so they got divorced. an now she realizes her mistake but is too proud to admit it.

now all the white people here.....who followed their wifes career.....these dudes been unemployed for 10 plus years...wife just paying the bills an these dudes out drinking and "raising" the kids. never understood how you can raise kids when they in a swiss boarding school but whatever.

the asians and indians dont even bring they wives....they huddle up in a apartment. like 10 of them in an apartment....sharing....these dudes making like 150k ch a year. and sharing an apartment and sending all the money back home. they bring the wife to visit get an hotel room...an when she gone they back in the apartment.

so i look at that some type of way.

im thankful i didnt have to go thru it ...but it does make me wonder.

but i feel bad for the black dudes. they gave up careers to follow they wife an they wife abandoned them cause they couldnt find jobs.

and the one chick just got married not even a year an already looking to creep with her higher up.

thats fukked up..

thru thick and thin....or relocation

i tel people all the time.....make syre you understand what going to the motherland means...cause some people cant make it work in one of the riches countries on the planet....how you think its gonna work in a country still coming up.

Their first mistake was following their woman to another continent. Are we forgetting whose supposed to be leading here? Women (for the most part) do not want to take care of no man period. That's off putting to them

i get what you saying...but why apply for a job across seas?

i am sure they had to speak about it at some point before they moved.

shit wasnt some shock.

the problem is when certain women have too much power.

Unless those men had a job lined up waiting for them why move? The women had jobs lined up for them there though I bet. As far as women goes most women even those that are meek and humble will eventually become frustrated and annoyed by a grown man laying up in the house all day while she's out working. They'll take their frustrations out in the form of belittling and pulling rank. Then shit will go from "our" to "mine" real quick. "You using up MY electricity". "You eating up MY food". "You using MY car". Etc etc. Why run the risk just to get emasculated like that?

i get what you saying.....

but here the thing...why must it get to that point?

regardless if someone moved abroad to support the person whos career is ahead and so the sacrifice is made.

what if a nigga who didnt move got laid off tomorrow? and the way shit is now...might not be able to find work?

so does the woman now have the right to pull rank and say what is hers?

what if a nigga got into a car accident, and was knocked out of work for a while...does the rank system still come into play?

its not about where you move...its about what is right no matter where you are.

this is a sticky point when people talk about marriage ....you dont know who you married until one has everything going for them and the other doesnt. will that person stick by you an not make you feel like shit?

i seen many men support their wives but no where near as many women support they man.

an it always comes back to money giving them power..or what they think is power.

I'm not saying if it's right or wrong, that's just how it is. Men are conditioned to provide and lead their household. Women are conditioned to nurture. So naturally a woman will grow resentment if her husband isn't doing what he's conditioned to do. Men will have no issues (for the most part) taking care of his woman. Honestly outside of him getting sick/ill there's no other scenario where a woman would absolutely have zero issues with taking care of a man. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, it's nature. You don't ask how a bird can fly right?

An like I said ...i see it more in this enviroment with black women.

This ain't about nature...this is about being selfish

Come on now. That isn't even exclusive to black women. And EVERYBODY is selfish for their own agendas and needs/wants. Like I said before no woman is gonna want to take care of a man period. If you lose your job, she'll stick around for a bit but let's say you're having trouble finding work and she feels like she's taking on a huge financial burden she'll become resentful. I'm speaking facts, are there outliers? Yes. But that's what it is for the most part.

 

[LordZuko]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

You're right for some, but when a nigga comes in here and says some shit like "Black women are the most spoiled people in the country" they are just saying inflammatory shit for the sake of it. As much as I disagree with feminists, comments like that are just as much bullshit as what the feminists say. We as black people are all under the gun, it doesn't do either side any good to pretend otherwise.

 

[Rasta.]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

That nigga @2stepz_ahead is the ring leader on stupid chatty patty hypothetical self righteous ass posting on this platform.

 

[LordZuko]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

You're right for some, but when a nigga comes in here and says some shit like "Black women are the most spoiled people in the country" they are just saying inflammatory shit for the sake of it. As much as I disagree with feminists, comments like that are just as much bullshit as what the feminists say. We as black people are all under the gun, it doesn't do either side any good to pretend otherwise.

Yea that's grandiose hyperbole from one person. A post. Besides being published on the internet has almost nothing in common with articles calling black men terrorists or that we are responsible for the oppression black gays, women and children suffer.

Mind you these publications while black in name are actually owned by white corporations' giving these articles the white supremacy bank roll.

So no we are not all under the gun. Heterosexual black men have targets on our back we are being shot at from all sides.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

You're right for some, but when a nigga comes in here and says some shit like "Black women are the most spoiled people in the country" they are just saying inflammatory shit for the sake of it. As much as I disagree with feminists, comments like that are just as much bullshit as what the feminists say. We as black people are all under the gun, it doesn't do either side any good to pretend otherwise.

Yea that's grandiose hyperbole from one person. A post. Besides being published on the internet has almost nothing in common with articles calling black men terrorists or that we are responsible for the oppression black gays, women and children suffer.

Mind you these publications while black in name are actually owned by white corporations' giving these articles the white supremacy bank roll.

So no we are not all under the gun. Heterosexual black men have targets on our back we are being shot at from all sides.

Oh, I agree that in general men black men aren't going at black women the same way they go at us. I was talking specifically about a couple people on here posting stupid shit.

 

[jono]

Y'all nigga still arguing over this fuck shit?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

That nigga @2stepz_ahead is the ring leader on stupid chatty patty hypothetical self righteous ass posting on this platform.

awww you been thinking about me.

is my christmas card in the mail?

 

[aneed123]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

You're right for some, but when a nigga comes in here and says some shit like "Black women are the most spoiled people in the country" they are just saying inflammatory shit for the sake of it. As much as I disagree with feminists, comments like that are just as much bullshit as what the feminists say. We as black people are all under the gun, it doesn't do either side any good to pretend otherwise.

nigga at dont do that when a nigga come in shit address me straight up. I told the truth with no filter. Its the truth they spoiled. Go thru my post and tell me where I lied at?.. Im not gonna be all nice and talkin circles appeasing they feelings so they can finally agree with 1 point like you been doin. women are spoiled my nigga cuz they know a man ie they daddy they nigga any nigga that wanna fuck and uncle sam all will bail them out a jam. Add in the ones who pretty and know they can get by on looks and its even worse. I AINT TOLD NAN LIE IN WHAT I SAID

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

You're right for some, but when a nigga comes in here and says some shit like "Black women are the most spoiled people in the country" they are just saying inflammatory shit for the sake of it. As much as I disagree with feminists, comments like that are just as much bullshit as what the feminists say. We as black people are all under the gun, it doesn't do either side any good to pretend otherwise.

nigga at dont do that when a nigga come in shit address me straight up. I told the truth with no filter. Its the truth they spoiled. Go thru my post and tell me where I lied at?.. Im not gonna be all nice and talkin circles appeasing they feelings so they can finally agree with 1 point like you been doin. women are spoiled my nigga cuz they know a man ie they daddy they nigga any nigga that wanna fuck and uncle sam all will bail them out a jam. Add in the ones who pretty and know they can get by on looks and its even worse. I AINT TOLD NAN LIE IN WHAT I SAID

I wasn't trying to come at you sideways. I just didn't remember who said it and wasn't trying to scroll through pages to find out who it was. And to say black women are the most spoiled people in the country is bullshit dog and no rational person would say anything like that. You really think black women are more spoiled than white men and women? Come on man.

 

[Mister B.]

This hasn't been locked yet?

 

[aneed123]

Some of y'all are starting to do the same shit these feminists are doing. We need to stop using these stupid stereotypes to attack each other.

It's not the same thing. Not even close. Feminists project, manipulate and lie.

All we do is analyze and draw conclusions

You're right for some, but when a nigga comes in here and says some shit like "Black women are the most spoiled people in the country" they are just saying inflammatory shit for the sake of it. As much as I disagree with feminists, comments like that are just as much bullshit as what the feminists say. We as black people are all under the gun, it doesn't do either side any good to pretend otherwise.

nigga at dont do that when a nigga come in shit address me straight up. I told the truth with no filter. Its the truth they spoiled. Go thru my post and tell me where I lied at?.. Im not gonna be all nice and talkin circles appeasing they feelings so they can finally agree with 1 point like you been doin. women are spoiled my nigga cuz they know a man ie they daddy they nigga any nigga that wanna fuck and uncle sam all will bail them out a jam. Add in the ones who pretty and know they can get by on looks and its even worse. I AINT TOLD NAN LIE IN WHAT I SAID

I wasn't trying to come at you sideways. I just didn't remember who said it and wasn't trying to scroll through pages to find out who it was. And to say black women are the most spoiled people in the country is bullshit dog and no rational person would say anything like that. You really think black women are more spoiled than white men and women? Come on man.

U good homie... Read what i wrote and how i broke it down..