IS IT FOOLISH OF YOU TO STAY WITH THE PERSON WHO CHEATED ON YOU?

[Roster Player #99]

So in 77 years she loved two men? It's impossible? Does that mean she never loved him at all?

Be realistic. It's a LIFETIME...ya'll are more than husband and wife, your partners in life.

He could fuck up, but that wouldn't necessarily mean I wouldn't want to continue the journey.

It might be a rocky road back to feeling he's trustworthy, but it's not impossible.

Just admit what it is..ya'll can't handle knowing someone else was handling YOUR pussy. It's territorial shit.

Kat aint nobody buyin that shit you sellin......no diss.

Anything I type on the IC is my opinion, you are free to take it or leave it.

we skype now?

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

people always stay with the ones who cheated on them

 

[The Prodigalson]

So in 77 years she loved two men? It's impossible? Does that mean she never loved him at all?

Be realistic. It's a LIFETIME...ya'll are more than husband and wife, your partners in life.

He could fuck up, but that wouldn't necessarily mean I wouldn't want to continue the journey.

It might be a rocky road back to feeling he's trustworthy, but it's not impossible.

Just admit what it is..ya'll can't handle knowing someone else was handling YOUR pussy. It's territorial shit.

Last sentence is the reason she would be Single. Why would it be anything else?

 

[Kat]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

 

[Roster Player #99]

its a package deal Kat, you cant take any one of those things out and expect shit to be gravy.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

if she'd give away the pussy, she'd betray in more significant ways...

plus community pussy is not something to be cherished...

 

[VIBE]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

So as long as Tar does all that, he can fuck other women?

 

[The Prodigalson]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

Its more than that but the fact that she.went outside of the relationship is even more insulting. I dont know whats your reasoning for champion for cheati g bitches but i stand firm in my beliefs. If the bitch cheat she can hit the road. You trying to make it seems it only about the pussy but it a trust issue. Once i lose trust youll never get it back.

 

[Kat]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

So as long as Tar does all that, he can fuck other women?

I'm not condoning cheating here, I think if you commit to someone you should really do your damndest to do right by them and keep it honest, what you two agree upon within your relationship is your business.

That said, if he is a GOOD man that fucked up by sexing another woman..for me personally, that ain't enough to call it quits. I get those feelings, I get how it could happen, and I get all that and still understand that you can still love someone despite it happening.

 

[Kat]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

if she'd give away the pussy, she'd betray in more significant ways...

plus community pussy is not something to be cherished...

This is not about whoring and just fucking any and everybody.

This is about an isolated case within a longterm relationship/marriage.

 

[not this again!]

As for whether or not it's foolish, I'll refrain from judging other peoples' relationships. I've witnessed many relationships that have left me scratching my head in disbelief. The heart wants what it wants.

As for myself, someone cheats on me, they're out. Period.

No second chances, no trying to work it out.

It boils down to it being a matter of trust. I have no place in my life for people who betray my trust. Never have. My word is my bond, and I expect the same from people I deal with on a personal level. Anyone who knows me, knows that about me. Someone I'm in a relationship with cheats on me, I can never trust them again, and there's no relationship without trust.

And as for the question of "what if you were the reason they cheated?", I call bullshit. If there are problems, did they bring the problems to other person's attention? Did they sit down with them and talk about it and try to work it out? That's what you're supposed to do when there are problems in a relationship. You don't go fuck someone else.

 

[aka_OG]

its deeper then just pussy/sex. women tie the emotional side into it(whether they know it or not) - THATS what fuccs us men up. men usually cheat with their dicc - women usually cheat with their heart.

IMO cuz of that alone women deal with cheating diff than men do.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

if she'd give away the pussy, she'd betray in more significant ways...

plus community pussy is not something to be cherished...

This is not about whoring and just fucking any and everybody.

This is about an isolated case within a longterm relationship/marriage.

whatever weakness made her stray will manifest in deadlier ways eventually... real talk...

on the other hand, we all deserve forgiveness... not sure if forgiveness includes getting your spot back... u have to accept a demotion...

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

So as long as Tar does all that, he can fuck other women?

I'm not condoning cheating here, I think if you commit to someone you should really do your damndest to do right by them and keep it honest, what you two agree upon within your relationship is your business.

That said, if he is a GOOD man that fucked up by sexing another woman..for me personally, that ain't enough to call it quits. I get those feelings, I get how it could happen, and I get all that and still understand that you can still love someone despite it happening.

Uh sounds good when you type it out. But would you be this understanding if you found out that nigga was dippin in some outta town puss the whole time?

 

[The Prodigalson]

Kat knows trust is a big part of a relationship and without trust it isn't a relationship. Whether you chose to let them back in or not is up to you.

 

[Kat]

Because that's bullshit!

So basically the ONLY reason you love your wife is because it's YOUR pussy?

Her giving the pussy to another person is enough for you to overlook her taking care of your children, your home, feeding you, working along side you, sickness, health, rich, poor...over another dick?

I mean that's insulting in itself.

So as long as Tar does all that, he can fuck other women?

I'm not condoning cheating here, I think if you commit to someone you should really do your damndest to do right by them and keep it honest, what you two agree upon within your relationship is your business.

That said, if he is a GOOD man that fucked up by sexing another woman..for me personally, that ain't enough to call it quits. I get those feelings, I get how it could happen, and I get all that and still understand that you can still love someone despite it happening.

Uh sounds good when you type it out. But would you be this understanding if you found out that nigga was dippin in some outta town puss the whole time?

Him fucking bitches while he's out of town would be a best case scenario tbh.

I won't lie, if the shit is put in my face it's going to be a kneejerk reaction to be hurt, and feel kinda betrayed and angry at first.

Then I think once I checked my bruised ego and thought about it logically, I wouldn't really care.

I could be wrong though...maybe time will tell.

 

[deadeye]

at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part

folk you a swinger lol....

Who already fathered a child outside of his marriage...when they don't even have any children themselves.

Then again, that kinda proves his point because if his wife didn't leave him after something like that...then she really isn't going anywhere.

 

[vince_vince]

I don't know, it's like this...I can invest in a man for years and years and leave him over being a human and fucking up only to start over with the next man and chance him doing the same damn thing.

When you invest in someone long term it's possible that they're going to screw up.

People were married for LIFE back in the day..you think no forgiving was going on?

A lifetime is a long time to be perfect.

your self-respect should be worth more than anything you invested in that other person.

i believe in 'fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me.'

 

[deadeye]

I'm on my Mario Winans shit.

Definitely not your usual white woman.

 

[Kat]

So if a person chooses to forgive infidelity they have no self-respect?