IS IT FOOLISH OF YOU TO STAY WITH THE PERSON WHO CHEATED ON YOU?

[Kat]

So in 77 years she loved two men? It's impossible? Does that mean she never loved him at all?

Be realistic. It's a LIFETIME...ya'll are more than husband and wife, your partners in life.

He could fuck up, but that wouldn't necessarily mean I wouldn't want to continue the journey.

It might be a rocky road back to feeling he's trustworthy, but it's not impossible.

Just admit what it is..ya'll can't handle knowing someone else was handling YOUR pussy. It's territorial shit.

 

[unRealLady1]

There was no cheating going on. it was a separation. Love was still in the air, and we were dating other people, so it seem as if it was cheating. a young womans feelings got hurt because she fell inlove while this was going on. We did split and had our own dating lives..I feel like I used no-one as a rebound..The other parties I dated had nothing to do with this particular relationship. We were completely separated, during this time. I don't see myself as a user or a cheater...& I don't feel used or cheated on. I just felt separated.

 

[Kat]

omg...LMAO!!!

 

[playmaker88]

We need a SMH reaction ASAP

 

[CP203]

at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part

@VIBE why you GOATing that when you've made it clear there are stipulations to this till death do us part shit?

Till death or until you fuck up do us part in your case.

so you saying im not in a real relationship???

 

[Kat]

at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part

@VIBE why you GOATing that when you've made it clear there are stipulations to this till death do us part shit?

Till death or until you fuck up do us part in your case.

so you saying im not in a real relationship???

Where did I say that?

But since you asked, I wouldn't go as far as to say what you and yours have isn't a REAL relationship, but given the liberties you two allow within your relationship may not make you the best advisor or commentator on a traditional relationship.

 

[5th Letter]

then again women are more quickly to forgive cheating than men are. unless she really wanted out and that was her chance to leave. i don't know no man that would stay after his girl cheated.

 

[CP203]

at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part

@VIBE why you GOATing that when you've made it clear there are stipulations to this till death do us part shit?

Till death or until you fuck up do us part in your case.

so you saying im not in a real relationship???

Where did I say that?

But since you asked, I wouldn't go as far as to say what you and yours have isn't a REAL relationship, but given the liberties you two allow within your relationship may not make you the best advisor or commentator on a traditional relationship.

so called traditional relationships are damn near a thing of the past, its so much cheating that goes on and people ignore it or put on a front because they care what society thinks and didn't you say at some point that it wouldn't really bother you if you're man got some pussy when he's outta town, so whats the difference?

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I think it's an ego thing with some guys. That's why it's harder for them to forgive.

 

[Kat]

at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part

@VIBE why you GOATing that when you've made it clear there are stipulations to this till death do us part shit?

Till death or until you fuck up do us part in your case.

so you saying im not in a real relationship???

Where did I say that?

But since you asked, I wouldn't go as far as to say what you and yours have isn't a REAL relationship, but given the liberties you two allow within your relationship may not make you the best advisor or commentator on a traditional relationship.

so called traditional relationships are damn near a thing of the past, its so much cheating that goes on and people ignore it or put on a front because they care what society thinks and didn't you say at some point that it wouldn't really bother you if you're man got some pussy when he's outta town, so whats the difference?

You preaching to the choir honey.

 

[unRealLady1]

I have it in my heart to forgive a person who cheated, but not a consistent cheater. why lie? U don't have to pretend you inlove.. I don't get it...I never seen why people pretend they are inlove...what for?

 

[CP203]

at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part

@VIBE why you GOATing that when you've made it clear there are stipulations to this till death do us part shit?

Till death or until you fuck up do us part in your case.

so you saying im not in a real relationship???

Where did I say that?

But since you asked, I wouldn't go as far as to say what you and yours have isn't a REAL relationship, but given the liberties you two allow within your relationship may not make you the best advisor or commentator on a traditional relationship.

so called traditional relationships are damn near a thing of the past, its so much cheating that goes on and people ignore it or put on a front because they care what society thinks and didn't you say at some point that it wouldn't really bother you if you're man got some pussy when he's outta town, so whats the difference?

You preaching to the choir honey.

so we on the same page, besides the having a kid outside the relationship lol

 

[Roster Player #99]

So in 77 years she loved two men? It's impossible? Does that mean she never loved him at all?

Be realistic. It's a LIFETIME...ya'll are more than husband and wife, your partners in life.

He could fuck up, but that wouldn't necessarily mean I wouldn't want to continue the journey.

It might be a rocky road back to feeling he's trustworthy, but it's not impossible.

Just admit what it is..ya'll can't handle knowing someone else was handling YOUR pussy. It's territorial shit.

Kat aint nobody buyin that shit you sellin......no diss.

 

[Kat]

Nah, not completely.

I get the concept, but I don't know if I'm truly built for that life.

I'm a Scorpio and we can get jealous as fuck.

I'm on my Mario Winans shit.

 

[illedout]

I cheated on my ex..

we been broke up for about a year now,

but she still cool with my aunts and cousins..

we just started talking and coming around each other recently..

I forgot how close me and her was, until we got cool again..

now I feel like I fucked up by cheating on her..

I know I can get her back.. I just dont think she would ever trust me again,

and she'll always accuse me of doing shit, and that will lead to arguments,

and we'll both be miserable..

So no I dont think it would work out..

Me and my ex mucked up during our relationship. It just seem like I was more forgiving than she was. That trust was pretty much like walkin on egg shells after I messed up. I knew she was doin dirt as well, but I never addressed it.

fam you shouldve addressed it..

or else that shit will eat at you..

 

[Kat]

So in 77 years she loved two men? It's impossible? Does that mean she never loved him at all?

Be realistic. It's a LIFETIME...ya'll are more than husband and wife, your partners in life.

He could fuck up, but that wouldn't necessarily mean I wouldn't want to continue the journey.

It might be a rocky road back to feeling he's trustworthy, but it's not impossible.

Just admit what it is..ya'll can't handle knowing someone else was handling YOUR pussy. It's territorial shit.

Kat aint nobody buyin that shit you sellin......no diss.

Anything I type on the IC is my opinion, you are free to take it or leave it.

 

[1of1]

I think it's an ego thing with some guys. That's why it's harder for them to forgive.

The nerve of that man ridding his life of someone who betrayed him.

And even if this was about "ego" who's to say that's a negative thing?

 

[illestni99ainne]

I wish my cousin would read this thread but he dont be online like that. His wife cheats on him constantly has tried with me and has even fucked my brother. And my cousin still stays with her but thats a whole other story. To answer the t/s question tho after seeing what my cuz went thru I couldnt do forgive. I know its two diff circumstances but ive been cheated on before too so hard to trust again.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I cheated on my ex..

we been broke up for about a year now,

but she still cool with my aunts and cousins..

we just started talking and coming around each other recently..

I forgot how close me and her was, until we got cool again..

now I feel like I fucked up by cheating on her..

I know I can get her back.. I just dont think she would ever trust me again,

and she'll always accuse me of doing shit, and that will lead to arguments,

and we'll both be miserable..

So no I dont think it would work out..

Me and my ex mucked up during our relationship. It just seem like I was more forgiving than she was. That trust was pretty much like walkin on egg shells after I messed up. I knew she was doin dirt as well, but I never addressed it.

fam you shouldve addressed it..

or else that shit will eat at you..

Ehh. It doesn't matter now b/c we're no longer together, nor speak. But it was enough drama goin on @ that time anyway. I should've addressed it tho.

 

[Dirty Sanchez]

Its like taking in a pet alligator...