Knives Amilli
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MzGrahamBitches;5688810 said:
Yes it's indicative of no self respect. Your basically saying you can't do better or are willing to be embarrassed and dogged out over "time invested".
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IS IT FOOLISH OF YOU TO STAY WITH THE PERSON WHO CHEATED ON YOU?
Yes it's indicative of no self respect. Your basically saying you can't do better or are willing to be embarrassed and dogged out over "time invested".
Pico Roscoe;5688762 said:But norm is a cheater tho
I'm sayin!!!! this nigga acting like he's a good guy but sticks his married dick in anything that walks
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BeardedFreak
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The Prodigalson;5688796 said:Willing to over look shit because of what they've invested in a relationship and is to scared to start over.
C/S
Starting over scares the shit out of women. Especially, if they are older and know they will have to compete with young bitches who have less baggage
Pico Roscoe;5688762 said:But norm is a cheater tho
Double standars exist.
Embrace that the same way i gotta embrace fucked up Alimony, Child support laws, etc.
A dude aint gonna be cool with that.
Its best for all parties involved to end it.
Dont think yall understand how a nigga mind works.
A dude may 5 years later wake up in the middle of the night and beat a bish ass over shit like this.
MzGrahamBitches;5688769 said:Pico Roscoe;5688762 said:But norm is a cheater tho
Right?
This MFer is telling his wife he's getting topped off by random broads and she's okay, but let her dare fix her mouth to admit to an indiscretion as minute as a dinner with another man and he's going to lose his damn mind.
Yes there are differences in men and women, but women are hot-blooded human beings just like men.
I'll say it again, FOREVER is a long ass time.
No one is tripping about dinner.
Cheating as far as a man is concerened,
we aint just worried about the other dude,
we worried about what you have just said about us by doing that.
What it says about ourselves if we stay.
MzGrahamBitches;5688802 said:But the assumption that a woman can't have a sexual experience without being emotionally attached to it is a fallacy.
yea i agree women can have sex without emotion........................until theres an emotional attachment.
MzGrahamBitches;5687957 said:I can invest in a man for years and years and leave him over being a human and fucking up only to start over with the next man and chance him doing the same damn thing.
If for you - the investment in d relationship usually trumps the disloyal act, then so be it. It does come off as just settling tho.
what would it take for you to chuck the dueces then? cuz cheatin isnt the final straw it seem
My wife and I was doing some volunteer work with the Youth Crisis Center here in town.
There is this young girl, who, got niggas all up in her head, havin her doing all types of wild shit.
She think's they like her, cuz im a guy, i know they using her to inflate thier own egos.
She be payin for thier weed/spice, taking trips, all type of foul shit.
Her "man" wants her to give him and his boy head.
My response "you're too memorable for that". "Dont mess up thier impression of you"
I explained that we are often remembered for the extremes.
No matter what, if she does that, those guys will remember her as
"the girl that gave the team head", thats the beginnning and the end.
If she likes dude, she's ending her shot by doing that.
anyway, this is this is the same with a woman cheating.
No matter what, everyday, when i see you, ima see some type of flashack of another nigga
piping you. I dont care if dude is a cripple with a 1/2 incher (n/h), the fact that that happened,
will fuck me up. At that point, it aint even about you.
My thoughts and memories of her would be that she's a cheating whore.
That cant be changed.
Why would you want the person who you get comfort, love and happiness from
be the same person who when you interact with them, this ugliness comes to mind?
Just like the young ass misguided group tho, women aint gonna feel me.
They gonna look at the "double standard" and click buttons.
Have you considered some things have a double standard, because we are not supposed to live the same lives?
A man aint gonna do what a woman will do, and vice versa. This country is fucked up cuz we dont realize that key point.
There is this young girl, who, got niggas all up in her head, havin her doing all types of wild shit.
She think's they like her, cuz im a guy, i know they using her to inflate thier own egos.
She be payin for thier weed/spice, taking trips, all type of foul shit.
Her "man" wants her to give him and his boy head.
My response "you're too memorable for that". "Dont mess up thier impression of you"
I explained that we are often remembered for the extremes.
No matter what, if she does that, those guys will remember her as
"the girl that gave the team head", thats the beginnning and the end.
If she likes dude, she's ending her shot by doing that.
anyway, this is this is the same with a woman cheating.
No matter what, everyday, when i see you, ima see some type of flashack of another nigga
piping you. I dont care if dude is a cripple with a 1/2 incher (n/h), the fact that that happened,
will fuck me up. At that point, it aint even about you.
My thoughts and memories of her would be that she's a cheating whore.
That cant be changed.
Why would you want the person who you get comfort, love and happiness from
be the same person who when you interact with them, this ugliness comes to mind?
Just like the young ass misguided group tho, women aint gonna feel me.
They gonna look at the "double standard" and click buttons.
Have you considered some things have a double standard, because we are not supposed to live the same lives?
A man aint gonna do what a woman will do, and vice versa. This country is fucked up cuz we dont realize that key point.
The final straw boils down to how I feel.
If I'm not bothered by something then why would it be the final straw?
He's out here acting reckless, having bitches calling his phone, calling my home, shit up in my face...that lets me know he has no type of regard for me at all. If he's discreet enough that I never even know even if choose to go looking for it, then that says something imo.
People see things differently I guess. I've never been a traditional person though.
If I'm not bothered by something then why would it be the final straw?
He's out here acting reckless, having bitches calling his phone, calling my home, shit up in my face...that lets me know he has no type of regard for me at all. If he's discreet enough that I never even know even if choose to go looking for it, then that says something imo.
People see things differently I guess. I've never been a traditional person though.
theBlackbeard
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You get cheated on and you stay you will be cheated on again: fact. Besides who wants to try and trust somebody after they been violated, not worth it.
playmaker88
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The thing that stood out to me in that paragraph was the whole "Double standard"
So ill just comment on that..
If you seek to exploit that..."DOUBLE STANDARD" you aint shit anyway.. knowing that there is that perceived ...standard
Thats like some idiot committing immoral/criminal acts.. then going to confess .. and thinking they have a new template because they did 27 our fathers and 52 hail marys..
So ill just comment on that..
If you seek to exploit that..."DOUBLE STANDARD" you aint shit anyway.. knowing that there is that perceived ...standard
Thats like some idiot committing immoral/criminal acts.. then going to confess .. and thinking they have a new template because they did 27 our fathers and 52 hail marys..
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kai_valya;5689028 said:MzGrahamBitches;5688825 said:Buuuut...he could take another wife and that wouldn't be a problem? @kai
So what's really the turn off? Him fucking elsewhere or him being dishonest?
that's different. marrying another woman is done in the light and with everyone's consent. he actually can't do it without my consent in our religion. that has nothing to do with him committing adultery. there's no place for dishonesty in a marriage
So it's the dishonesty..okay.
Ajackson17
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Pico Roscoe;5687923 said:It's not. You can't expect someone to be absolutely perfect. If they're genuinely sorry about the shit then give em a chance.
Agreed! And we miss you on here so much.
bignorm;5688876 said:Pico Roscoe;5688762 said:But norm is a cheater tho
Double standars exist.
Embrace that the same way i gotta embrace fucked up Alimony, Child support laws, etc.
A dude aint gonna be cool with that.
Its best for all parties involved to end it.
Dont think yall understand how a nigga mind works.
A dude may 5 years later wake up in the middle of the night and beat a bish ass over shit like this.
Cosign
Ajackson17;5689082 said:Pico Roscoe;5687923 said:It's not. You can't expect someone to be absolutely perfect. If they're genuinely sorry about the shit then give em a chance.
Agreed! And we miss you on here so much.
Nigga I'm starting to wonder if you actually have a pair. cause you don't seem to have anything but coon tendencys you sure you ain't white?
deadeye;5688693 said:Knock_Twice;5688254 said:representingda203;5688240 said:at this point me and my wife both know we're not going anywhere, we're in this till death do us part
folk you a swinger lol....
Who already fathered a child outside of his marriage...when they don't even have any children themselves.
Then again, that kinda proves his point because if his wife didn't leave him after something like that...then she really isn't going anywhere.
folk my wife is the mother of my 1st born
Used to feel the way @vibe feels now until it ended up happening to me.
Fucked me up for a bit, changed my outlook on a lot of things and im better because of the situation. We ended up separating for like 4 months but eventually i realized i was just being stubborn and she won me back over.
Like someone else said early in the thread, it really depends on the fabric or foundation of your relationship, you not going to just close the door on someone that has been there for you through and through because of one incident.
Fucked me up for a bit, changed my outlook on a lot of things and im better because of the situation. We ended up separating for like 4 months but eventually i realized i was just being stubborn and she won me back over.
Like someone else said early in the thread, it really depends on the fabric or foundation of your relationship, you not going to just close the door on someone that has been there for you through and through because of one incident.
