Is it easier for men to be "Husband Material" than it is for women in "Wife Material"

[digitalgrl87]

OK...you got it out of the way...now give an actual answer.

i was serious....the majority of men expect that from his wife and more.....well at least the men i've met...

women just want their husbands to be a good provider....everything else is a bonus

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

women easily.....

we are expected to to keep up our hair, nails, figure all the while take care of the children, keep the house clean, cook three meals a day, sex like a porn star on command and work a job....

men have it easy...all we want is a man who has a job ...

And what's so hard about that? If a man is working eight-twelve hour work days, and is handling all of the other business of the family, why can't a woman handle those things effectively? Men don't judge women on the basis that women judge men. A lot of Women want a man that is omniscient, can save the world, has several degrees,has his own corner office, and has "swag", while most men just want a woman that can do the above things that you mentioned, even minus the job part most times.....................................................................

 

[NastyNasty]

i was serious....the majority of men expect that from his wife and more.....well at least the men i've met...

women just want their husbands to be a good provider....everything else is a bonus

cracka please...

You mentioned nails and hair? Women care about that shit more then men. Men just want the face and body to be straight. Men don't expect women to make shit financially either, even though they have equal access to high-paying jobs. Women aren't even expected to cook anymore. It's pretty much a given that the new generation of women can't cook, or are very limited in their cooking abilities.

Men don't have one-tenth the criteria women have.

 

[digitalgrl87]

And what's so hard about that? If a man is working eight-twelve hour work days, and is handling all of the other business of the family, why can't a woman handle those things effectively? Men don't judge women on the basis that women judge men. A lot of Women want a man that is omniscient, can save the world, has several degrees,has his own corner office, and has "swag", while most men just want a woman that can do the above things that you mentioned, even minus the job part most times.....................................................................

if the woman is also working a job.... u don't think that is bit much t expect her to do all this shit own her own for the most part....while you work in front of a computer screen all day

 

[digitalgrl87]

cracka please...

You mentioned nails and hair? Women care about that shit more then men. Men just want the face and body to be straight. Men don't expect women to make shit financially either, even though they have equal access to high-paying jobs. Women aren't even expected to cook anymore. It's pretty much a given that the new generation of women can't cook, or are very limited in their cooking abilities.

Men don't have one-tenth the criteria women have.

when you working and start having kids sometimes you just don't feel like going to get ur hair/nair done....or working out....but once you stop doing it men want to complain oh she's slipping....she's gotten too comfortable....

the men i know want their wives to be able to cook better than their mothers...

what is this criteria you speak of?

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

if the woman is also working a job.... u don't think that is bit much t expect her to do all this shit own her own for the most part....while you work in front of a computer screen all day

I was saying that if she isn't working, she can handle all of those things. Now, if she is working, the couple has to be able to work out what best suits the confines of their schedule/relationship. But, if a woman is going to be housewife, housewife doesn't equal= sitting on your ass all day while your man works, and doing nothing other than talking on the phone with your other non-productive homegirls. If a woman wants to be called a housewife, or a wife for that matter, she's got to act like it. Every person in a household has to earn their place/pull their weight..............................................................

 

[Dupac]

post #5 was genious type material

 

[Soulljah T]

Yeah, but that man has to have a job with a high paying salary. He has to be over 6'0 with a huge penis(n/h). He has to be romantic and all that other bullshit. He has to stay in shape as well. You expect foot rubs and the whole nine. You expect him to notice every little thing you've done. You want loads of attention. Women are always stingy with sex anyway, and then you expect a man not to stray. You expect all types of gifts on the anniversary and valentines day, and he can't forget. He has to put up with nagging and shit. All a women has to do is be in shape with a chill personality, and whip up the occasional meal.

It's give and take in a relationship.

He doesn't have to have a high salary job, the focus for real women is family. Are we gonna be able to afford a family in the future? Can he provide for himself and others? That's all we need to know, aside from those who don't matter in the equation because he's not wifing them anyway. He doesn't have to be tall because height doesn't make or break a relationship, let's be honest. It's preference, nothing more, nothing less. The average penis size is between 5 and 6, we're not trippin', some of these girls' are tight like a well kept weave, they'll be 'ight. Why not be romantic when I surpise him with his favorite dish after he comes home from work sometimes? When he comes home, he can sit down, eat and rest in peace, we understand you men have had a rough day and need y'all need "you" time, but he just better make up for it later tonight. Why not give us gifts for anniversaires when we giving him gifts and particpate in his interests on a daily basis just to get closer to him? If some men were ever to get a lil' chubby some women would suggest y'all both go down to the gym together and work that shit off, no problem so y'all shoudln't talk when we women get the same way, a lil' chubby especially after you got us pregnant with that damn rugrat.

If you guys meet GOOD women halfway, they'll take care of you. 'tis I'm sayin'.

 

[digitalgrl87]

I was saying that if she isn't working, she can handle all of those things. Now, if she is working, the couple has to be able to work out what best suits the confines of their schedule/relationship. But, if a woman is going to be housewife, housewife doesn't equal= sitting on your ass all day while your man works, and doing nothing other than talking on the phone with your other non-productive homegirls. If a woman wants to be called a housewife, or a wife for that matter, she's got to act like it. Every person in a household has to earn their place/pull their weight..............................................................

right....but i'm talking about if the wive enjoys her career...she's still often expected to still be this submissive perfect home maker porn star at all times....

 

[NastyNasty]

when you working and start having kids sometimes you just don't feel like going to get ur hair/nair done....or working out....but once you stop doing it men want to complain oh she's slipping....she's gotten too comfortable....

the men i know want their wives to be able to cook better than their mothers...

what us this criteria you speak of?

I think they've been mentioned (finances, height, dicksize, handsome, do all the work in the bedroom, not boring, etc)

I don't want to get into all the criteria, lest this post be mistaken for a short, broke, little dick post.

But really, I don't know many (younger) dudes who expect a woman to be a good cook. We know most of yall can't cook much at all.

 

[1of1]

post #5 was genious type material

Whatever that means...

 

[Soulljah T]

I think they've been mentioned (finances, height, dicksize, handsome, do all the work in the bedroom, not boring, etc)

I don't want to get into all the criteria, lest this post be mistaken for a short, broke, little dick post.

But really, I don't know many (younger) dudes who expect a woman to be a good cook. We know most of yall can't cook much at all.

PFT hell I can cook. There's no excuses for them not knowing how to cook...I'm sure there are plenty who can cook, I mean how the hell are they eating or providing for their children/siblings/self/bf's, etc if they don't know how to do simple things even, like wash & cook a damn chicken, peel a potatoe or sear a cottdamn steak....

 

[digitalgrl87]

I think they've been mentioned (finances, height, dicksize, handsome, do all the work in the bedroom, not boring, etc)

I don't want to get into all the criteria, lest this post be mistaken for a short, broke, little dick post.

But really, I don't know many (younger) dudes who expect a woman to be a good cook. We know most of yall can't cook much at all.

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really?....these are ideals/preferences not marital expectations such a wife should cook and a man should work.....there's a difference....

 

[Dupac]

Whatever that means...

real real smart

 

[NastyNasty]

PFT hell I can cook. There's no excuses for them not knowing how to cook...I'm sure there are plenty who can cook, I mean how the hell are they eating or providing for their children/siblings/self/bf's, etc if they don't know how to do simple things even, like wash & cook a damn chicken, peel a potatoe or sear a cottdamn steak....

Honestly, I'm not that worried about a woman's cooking abilities. I generally prefer to cook my own food anyway, so its no biggie. I enjoy it. I don't think its fair to put all the cooking on a woman. But I knew you had good wife qualities.

 

[Soulljah T]

Nah I'm saying there are plenty of good women who can cook out there, there are single mothers who need to cook, people who take care of their sinlings, who live with their bfs, etc, there's a lot of women out there being overlooked is what i'm syain', that boy be generalizing like a maniac and I'm steady defendin' em' and i don't know half these sistas names...a lot of women's reps are tarnished by the lazy whores. but idk. I blame Sdrawk anyway.

& yo you be embarassing me in every thread I be up in haha damn.

 

[NastyNasty]

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really?....these are ideals/preferences not marital expectations such a wife should cook and a man should work.....there's a difference....

There may be a difference for you, but most women? Not so sure. Women have this fantasy husband in their head most of their life until reality hits them and they have to settle. Romance books and movies have really done a number on the female mind.

 

[isayas]

There may be a difference for you, but most women? Not so sure. Women want have this fantasy husband in their head most of their life until reality hits them and they have settle. Romance books and movies have really done a number on the female mind.

Nasty, you just kilt this thread.

 

[cuttadc13]

There may be a difference for you, but most women? Not so sure. Women want have this fantasy husband in their head most of their life until reality hits them and they have settle. Romance books and movies have really done a number on the female mind.

LOL I agree

 

[NastyNasty]

Nah I'm saying there are plenty of good women who can cook out there, there are single mothers who need to cook, people who take care of their sinlings, who live with their bfs, etc, there's a lot of women out there being overlooked is what i'm syain', that boy be generalizing like a maniac and I'm steady defendin' em' and i don't know half these sistas names...a lot of women's reps are tarnished by the lazy whores. but idk. I blame Sdrawk anyway.

& yo you be embarassing me in every thread I be up in haha damn.

Who gets embarrassed on the internet?? Crackaz gettin embarrassed on the internet in 2010?!?

Oh wait, embarrassment is another great wifey quality. It's a sign of female modesty.