Is it easier for men to be "Husband Material" than it is for women in "Wife Material"

[politicalthug202]

But it doesn't have to stay boring...women don't want a boring relationship....no one does....you need that emotional, mental and physical stimulation as a woman...smart women understand that relationships will get dull long-term, but the solution there is to correct it...not to let it stay that way, if your woman is telling you she's gotten bored with the relationship you both need to put your heads together and figure out a way to spice things to suit the both of your needs....change things up from where y'all have sex, to what y'all do together....it's all an effort worth putting itno when you're with the right one.

yeah u can do things to spice it up here and there like a vacation, going to a new restaraunt . change a few sexual positions

and locations. but overall as u become older ur life will become more duller and boredom especailly if you are in stable career. relationships, freindships. h you cant expect your life to be like a mtv reality show with 20 yr olds or sex and the city with single

woman. if you are a say a person who has been married for 5-20 yrs living and in the same area. but I think because of the medai some people, men and woman alike expect that. and I think woman expect it more on the romanticmside.

 

[Soulljah T]

yeah u can do things to spice it up here and there like a vacation, going to a new restaraunt . change a few sexual positions

and locations. but overall as u become older ur life will become more duller and boredom especailly if you are in stable career. relationships, freindships. h you cant expect your life to be like a mtv reality show with 20 yr olds or sex and the city with single

woman. if you are a say a person who has been married for 5-20 yrs living and in the same area. but I think because of the medai some people, men and woman alike expect that. and I think woman expect it more on the romanticmside.

PPl's morals and standards have changed today since the old days when ppl would actually fall in love and actually stay together opposed to lusting and thinking with their privates that go *buzz*.

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

It's more difficult for men because men are expected to meet the fairytale standards that many women have. Only thing a woman has to do is take care of her body, have a tolerable personality, and not be a chronic club/party fiend.

trill talk my nigga

 

[Soulljah T]

trill talk my nigga

Now you niggas know y'all chase the ghetto, slutty dress wearni' party girls because they're "fun". If you want a good girl stop giving all your attention to the whores.

 

[DarcSkies777]

No. Less is expected of men but that "less" takes hard work and focus. We're expected to have money really. And how much you have pretty much dictates how you'll be treated by her and society as a whole. So yes less is expected but that less is a whole lot in the end.

Meanwhile a woman can be wife material with decent home training and decent genetics. So it takes more qualities for a woman to be wife material but those qualities shouldnt exactly be that difficult. Females are just hard headed and sometimes dont get their shit together until its too late and nobody of quality wants them anymore.

Actually, the number one reason for women filing for divorce is due to irreconcilable differences. The wives felt as if their respective husbands lost touch with the relationship, and who they were as an individual. After that, infidelity followed closely by, with the lack of intimacy:.

I read a study that broke down those so-called "irreconcilable differences" and it's pretty much bout money. Debt brings stress into a relationship and of course it's the female the bolts when there's money problems. Even though that bitch is usually the one that ran the credit into the ground from jump.

Of course most of them arent just going to come out and admit "yeah im leaving his ass cuz he's broke now" just like men wont admit they cheated on their wife because she's a fat ass now after the baby. People dont wanna look like assholes so they claim "irreconcilable differences."

 

[isayas]

Good girls are fun.

 

[damobb2deep]

it depends on the maturity of the person and what they are willing to do..... for some females they can find the "perfect" nigga and it will scare them...... on the other hand a male can find wifey and fuck that up cuz " doin his own thing/ lisening to his niggas/ "missing out" on other pussy.... will get to him.....

 

[Soulljah T]

I doubt any of you have really experienced a good girl...a real woman.

 

[Soulljah T]

it depends on the maturity of the person and what they are willing to do..... for some females they can find the "perfect" nigga and it will scare them...... on the other hand a male can find wifey and fuck that up cuz " doin his own thing/ lisening to his niggas/ "missing out" on other pussy.... will get to him.....

Except this dude....he's a smart cat with his head on straight, I bet he has a good relationship.

 

[NastyNasty]

I doubt any of you have really experienced a good girl...a real woman.

The pool to choose from is pretty thin.

 

[damobb2deep]

Except this dude....he's a smart cat with his head on straight, I bet he has a good relationship.

the female part in my statement is what im dealing with now.......

 

[brandon-j]

to women marriage is their #1 lifetime goal accomplished....to men marriage is marriage.

 

[politicalthug202]

PPl's morals and standards have changed today since the old days when ppl would actually fall in love and actually stay together opposed to lusting and thinking with their privates that go *buzz*.

have to disagree people did not fall in love back in the day. the only reason the divorce rate is hgiher now is bcuz woman can work

and support themselves. so if the passion goes out of the relationship. they have the option of leaving bcuz there no longer depended on men.

and since there were more ppl married ppl at a young age. this means there was not alot of single ppl around for ppl to have affairs with.

which is why alot more men visited prostitute in the 1950's

 

[damobb2deep]

to women marriage is their #1 lifetime goal accomplished....to men marriage is marriage.

thats not true..... some niggas get married "for the wrong reasons" like " shyt aint shyt else to do....( for military) " hold up we get THAT much more a check" or i love her for now.... now marrage has become like a bussiness move and the "love" that its supposta be based on has been compramised over the pass like 5 decades......

 

[BEAM]

This is a more complex question than what people here have been able to discuss.

Far too many things to consider.

Largely, I'd say that it's more difficult for men because a lot of the practices that go into being the ideal husband are discouraged and unacknowledged during the stages where it's most vital to familiarize and experiment with those practices. Not to mention how much discipline and dedication those practices require to perform anyway...

Things are changing, so women's "preferred qualities" are becoming more trying.

But right now, males generally have a more difficult task to tackle in terms of truly being considerable for marriage.

IMO.

 

[Soulljah T]

have to disagree people did not fall in love back in the day. the only reason the divorce rate is hgiher now is bcuz woman can work

and support themselves. so if the passion goes out of the relationship. they have the option of leaving bcuz there no longer depended on men.

and since there were more ppl married ppl at a young age. this means there was not alot of single ppl around for ppl to have affairs with.

which is why alot more men visited prostitute in the 1950's

I knew it, I kknew you were gonna go this route. o you have any illogic proof that marriage is failing now because women wanna go outside of their homes and better themselves? You don't think men have anything to do with it? Maybe they are the ones who don't provide the support and backbone their women need to keep the fire and passion there because the men are too busy competing with their wives' careers and complaining every damn hour.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Being my husband would take a lot of work... I'm sure not many will qualify

Exactly what we mean.....

 

[digitalgrl87]

women easily.....

we are expected to to keep up our hair, nails, figure all the while take care of the children, keep the house clean, cook three meals a day, sex like a porn star on command and work a job....

men have it easy...all we want is a man who has a job ...

 

[1of1]

women easily.....

we are expected to to keep up our hair, nails, figure all the while take care of the children, keep the house clean, cook three meals a day, sex like a porn star on command and work a job....

men have it easy...all we want is a man who has a job ...

OK...you got it out of the way...now give an actual answer.

 

[Fooley]

women easily.....

we are expected to to keep up our hair, nails, figure all the while take care of the children, keep the house clean, cook three meals a day, sex like a porn star on command and work a job....

men have it easy...all we want is a man who has a job ...

Yeah, but that man has to have a job with a high paying salary. He has to be over 6'0 with a huge penis(n/h). He has to be romantic and all that other bullshit. He has to stay in shape as well. You expect foot rubs and the whole nine. You expect him to notice every little thing you've done. You want loads of attention. Women are always stingy with sex anyway, and then you expect a man not to stray. You expect all types of gifts on the anniversary and valentines day, and he can't forget. He has to put up with nagging and shit. All a women has to do is be in shape with a chill personality, and whip up the occasional meal.