if you play stepfather to another mans kid(s).......

[Will Munny]

A guy a work babysits for his ex wives kid who left him for a guy who lives in a trailer park. And he is giving her his car.

 

[L.I.P.]

As far as my 2 cents is concerned, if being a father to those kids brings joy and happiness in your life, then do you. Fuck what anyone else thinks. If you're a "real man" or grown you shouldn't be seeking validation from anyone anyway.

Personally, I couldn't do it. Playing dad to some children that aren't my own? Nahh..............came up too hard for that I can't raise someone elses kid

 

[Ishi]

A guy a work babysits for his ex wives kid who left him for a guy who lives in a trailer park. And he is giving her his car.

Word do your part as a citizen and remind that nigga of how much of a simp he is every time you see him.

 

[ICame4Pussy]

Read through half this thread and its fucking disgusting how these hoodrats hos try to justify they fuckups by make it seem as if the man would be wrong. Them the type of females to avoid

 

[ICame4Pussy]

@Ms. Jones lets break down your so called relationship history that you are trying to feed us...

7 years with your babydaddy

+4 years with the dude from Chicago

+3 years with the dude that might be "the one or no"

__________________________________________

14 years of relationships and all you gott is

2 crying BASTARDS

1 big ass C-section scar

1 Wornout pussy

You also belong to:

"The delusional Single mother" category

but is NOT entirely your fault...

Your friends and family (mom aunts, cousins) probably gas u up all the time

"Some day you will find your knight in shiny armor...Just keep looking"

*Deceased*

 

[taeboo]

I wouldn't say raising another man's child makes more or less of a man. Your just a man who fell in love with a woman who has kids and is willing accept her child(ren) as your own. If you don't feel you handle being in that child's life, then that's OK too, as long you are up front about it...

 

[damobb2deep]

Agreed. Everyone has problems but you aint gonna tell me that running a shopping cart into a hot dog stand is normal family. That lil nigga headed to Shawshank

lol nigga i burned down a house..... at five tried fightin a nigga that broke in our house...... at seven was in down town st.louis by my self/ a hour and a half away from st. louis by my self....thought about killin my 4th grade teacher..... an i turned out normal.... those kids gonna be straight..... and if u think they not thats more of a incentive to try and look after them.... guide them the rite way....

 

[willhustle]

I just got done reading this thread throughly post by post. One of the most interesting threads I read in G&S in long time imo.

I'll be pushing 30 soon enough I never been in a serious relationship and not looking for one at the moment. Although, if I were in one or pursing it, I wouldn't involve myself with a single mother especially if I'm going places in life b/c like some dudes said in here most females w/kids got multiple baby daddies and that ain't nothing but one big ass receipe for drama. Even though some say the older you get the more slim the pickings are in finding women without children. But in 2011 why should I or anybody just settle on a woman w/kids? This why men & women remain in bad situations b/c their too quick to settle for anything which is on the edge of desperation.

To each it's own.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

I know it's hard to take care of a loser's child but I won't do it. Doing so doesn't not make you a simp unless you feel that that chick is all you can get.

Women put themselves into that situation when they knew the babydaddy wasn't suitable so that's what the fuck they get.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

He's not the first to bust a nut in her, he isn't first to break her hyman, hell he isn't the first for anything that is "special" in a relationship.

Why you speaking in absolutes like it's impossible for a chick to never have had a nigga bust in her, etc? Just because you've let nigga(s) bust in you, don't be salty cuz it's some females out there who were smart enough to make the dude wrap up.

Real easy. First off, don't make a man your "man" after only a year of dating.

And this makes zero sense.

Dating means we are just friends, nothing more, nothing less, until it is discussed.

You're living in a fantasy world. LMAO @ this.

If I make to the age of 25 without kids it will be because of one thing.............CONDOMS! If i was smart enough to use a contraception why couldn't these women with all these kids do the same or atleast choose a dude to sleep with whom had respect for himself and her to not go in the twat unprotected. It seems as if the only ones praising men taking care of out wedlock children are the single mothers themselves. Could that be the case here?

c/s...

 

[black caesar]

Real easy. First off, don't make a man your "man" after only a year of dating. And second, I don't make kids, or if he has any my first line of questioning. If after dating for a year, and my kids are a deal breaker for him, then goodbye. When you care about me, you will care about them

Yo, just to be sure sure, you're saying you don't even tell the dude your dating that you have kids? What do you say to him if he asks at the beginning?

 

[HafBayked]

i commend those who do...but im just not going that route if i can help it...cant predict the future tho

 

[Niggersauce]

Aint no such thing as pickings getting slimmer as you get older...there will always be a huge up and coming crowd of sexy young adult women looking for that mature man...and they wont have kids!

Being older is no excuse for settling for a chick that has kids is all im sayin.

 

[Suck Me Beautiful]

if the baby is mad young........and the nlgga left relationship due to some extreme circumstance not of his own will (i.e. Jail).....maybe

 

[BP OIL SPILL FACE]

To each its own, but I couldn't take care of kids that aren't mine, especially since I don't want any kids, whatsoever.

 

[nex gin]

It makes you a man to the highest degree. It takes a man with a heart of gold to raise and treat a child not from him, like it is from his loins. Sure it is not ideal, but a real man doesn't give a fuck about what anybody thinks. He just does what is right. There is nothing simp about being a responsible stand up dude.

Weak niggas seek validation from other weak niggas.

Super c/s this shit. ^^^

I don't know about the IC and some of these questions sometimes. Just another example of why african american families/households are so fucked up. I understand preferences or not wanting to deal w/ baby daddy drama and whatnot...but because you don't want to be looked at as a "simp"? Really?

*walks out of thread disgusted*

 

[lamontbdc]

you sound mad young.

ideally, i wouldnt want to raise another mans child either

but i'm old enough to understand that the world isnt black or white

and being a step father neither makes you a simp or a real man.

exactly..........

 

[ipodman]

i aint with that baby daddy shit, that baby momma shit or taking care of other ppl kids. it just aint for this young nigga. family oriented,my fam us. i want my kids raise in the same house hold. i aint with another nigga seeing my kids just as much as me or more than me. than more than likely u gotta factor in drama but even worser than that what if a child molester like gary... shit cant put it past a nigga

on that teen mom show. that dude kyle really cares about that dude son Bentley. thats cool aint nothing wrong with that. but fuck that shit on my side i aint with it. he be doing fatherly stuff with the kid. like i said that cool for some ppl but not for me though.

 

[blakfyahking]

Aint no such thing as pickings getting slimmer as you get older...there will always be a huge up and coming crowd of sexy young adult women looking for that mature man...and they wont have kids!

Being older is no excuse for settling for a chick that has kids is all im sayin.

damn champ

why does it have to be "settling" tho if you get with a chick with kids?

 

[ipodman]

I support a child that ain't mine and raise another child that ain't mine

*shrugs* I could give a fuck how it looks to any one

I know that there are two young girls w/ a father (me) in thier life and I'm content

I'd beat both they asses If they fixed they mouth to call me or introduce me as thier 'stepfather'

I'm daddy, plain and simple (no pedo)

salute sir that real i respect that. different perspective from different folks