if you play stepfather to another mans kid(s).......

[NELLY'S BAND-AID]

they dont make men like they used to.. boy. sometimes I really wonder how y'all nowadays dude define manhood. smh

they don't make women like they used to either. now at days women are reckless with they pussy and let the most unworthy men impregnate them. Then when they run in to a responsible childless young man they wounder why they just want to hit and nothing more. They wonder why most childless young free men don't want to deal with them and the baggage. But their bird logic refuses to let them see this. They feel like they shoul control what a man does or the way he thinks. They think that the world revolves around them and men should do what they think a real man should do. They think all men should accept them regardless of how messed up they are. The funny thing about that is most of the time they are in no position to tell anybody anything. You are a young baby mama who made bad decisions with her womb telling childless free men that his thinking is messed up. basically what I'm saying is that your opinion is irrelevant in this discussion.

we dont disagree tho, I hear what your saying but it had nothing to do with what im concerned with.

dirt, at first I thought she was using bird logic but now it's clear to me what's going on. she is defending her bad decisions in the past(having kids when she wasn't prepared with bums) and she can't come to grips with reality. So I'm going to back off and watch(like she should have done in the past) and let you fight your own battles like she told me too now. because i'm clearly hitting a soft spot with her and I aint no bully, i'm a lunatic.

 

[ms.jones]

Really though??? An entire YEAR of dating and you could still not be "with" that dude? That's a waste of time imo

Not really. I'm not one to rush into anything. I want to know that this is what I want, and I'm what he wants. But, hey...not everyone thinks the way I do.

 

[ms.jones]

Sounds very unrealistic unless he has a free pass to fuck other girls as he "waits". Even then he'll prolly just forget about you .

Hence "dating"...figuring out what you want or don't want...

This is why this board of full of bitter ass niggas....

 

[texican11]

You gotta be kidding me, right? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA!!!!!!

Dude, your thought process and logic is completely screwed. Why would I expose my kids to my dating life? Why would I want them to see anything that I do that does not require them directly? Think about it. I'm a single mother, that dates. Every date I go on, my kids see, and that would be ok for you? Or would you perfer that I keep my DATING life separate from my MOTHER life....get a clue you dick. Stop attempting to seem smart, when its the exact opposite.

.

But U know what you are actually right....

You should NOT expose your kids to your Whore/ Slut ways (dating and fucking a bunch of diffrent dudes

Wishing hoping and praying that this might be the one thats gonna take one for the team...

Yea...your kids might grow up all lfucked up by knowing at a young age that Mommy Ms. Jones

Is nothing but a cum bucket...

Bitter Single mom

Who will NEVER...Ever find the right man cuz she fucked up when she was younger by letting a

dude who aint shit raw-dawg her and bust all up insde her

 

[Stiff]

Not really. I'm not one to rush into anything. I want to know that this is what I want, and I'm what he wants. But, hey...not everyone thinks the way I do.

Well if that works for you I can't knock it all...but my question is are y'all having sex during this year long trial-dating period?

EDIT: And then more importantly say you're dating somebody for a whole year and then after that time y'all decide to actually be in a relationship..don't you think him not knowing that you have a kid and then finding out is a game changer? That's a major thing to just not bring up to somebody you've been seeing for such a long time..

Sounds very unrealistic unless he has a free pass to fuck other girls as he "waits". Even then he'll prolly just forget about you .

Right...if a nigga is dating with the intention of to actually have a relationship i doubt many..if any.. are going to wait a year just to have that

 

[ms.jones]

But U know what you are actually right....

You should NOT expose your kids to your Whore/ Slut ways (dating and fucking a bunch of diffrent dudes

Wishing hoping and praying that this might be the one thats gonna take one for the team...

Yea...your kids might grow up all lfucked up by knowing at a young age that Mommy Ms. Jones
Is nothing but a cum bucket...
Bitter Single mom
Who will NEVER...Ever find the right man cuz she fucked up when she was younger by letting a
dude who aint shit raw-dawg her and bust all up insde her

You're right. Good day.

 

[CapitalB]

But if he is made to think he truly knows her , but infact is being lied to , you cant fault him. So he might take an L but I wouldnt call him an idiot.

a year seems pretty long.. but thats between her and whoever she fucks with..
but im sure if shit gets serious before that he'll know before that..

niggas and bitches alike be like "im in love" and dont even know the other person's last name..whats the sense in that??
how does this bitch interact with her family?? her friends??

niggas think with they dick and bitches love with they pussy for the most part..
neither is usin they brain..

but from what im getting she's seein someone casually.. so it aint none of his business if she has kids or not..

 

[ms.jones]

a year seems pretty long.. but thats between her and whoever she fucks with..
but im sure if shit gets serious before that he'll know before that..

niggas and bitches alike be like "im in love" and dont even know the other person's last name..whats the sense in that??
how does this bitch interact with her family?? her friends??

niggas think with they dick and bitches love with they pussy for the most part..
neither is usin they brain..

but from what im getting she's seein someone casually.. so it aint none of his business if she has kids or not..

Stop making sense....

But wouldnt u telling him u have kids tell you if you are somebody he would want to build with. Also I assume in the past you have used this method to find a suitable man right? May I ask why dont they work out in the end? And how much time after u told them u had kids?

The man I dated after I left their dad, I was with for 4 years. The first year consisted of us dating casually...I knew he dated other women, and was ok with that....he wasn't my man. When he came to me and let me know he wanted more, that's when I opened up to him more...no, he did not run away. He accepted it, and understood my reasoning. He moved to Chicago, and I stayed in Memphis. So..that ended that.

The second man, I dealt with for 3 years. Same thing...1 year we were casual, things got serious, and I opened up. We are still talking to one another, but right now, we aren't together. Things came up, and either we are going to work on it, or we are going to walk away.

 

[texican11]

Ok...let me get this straight...me dating, and not knowing if this will be anything serious....I should put all my cards on the table? If I am able to get with you, go out on dates, enjoy some alone time, and let things build, why should the addition of adding my kids be any more an issue? Were they an issue beforehand, and everything was good? What makes you think things still won't be good? No such thing as a "balance" huh? Never heard of an single mother with no bullshit ass issues huh? Just ain't normal, is it?

Get it right, you nimrod....after a year of getting to know someone, I can pretty much gauge the reaction I will get. Dating means we are just friends, nothing more, nothing less, until it is discussed. At that moment, that's when things get real, and either you can still love me and stay, or walk away, and enjoy the time we had....but I bet my kids will not be any wiser if you decide to bounce.

This right here is a good statement for all the dudes who date/deal/fuck single moms...

(Lets break it down)

1)"I should put all my cards on the table? "

-NO...

But how about you put the most important card on the table... your kids

(I though all single moms were proud to have kids???)

And you are hidding them like they are some old clothes...

2)So when you guys start talking and he asks...

"Do you have kids?"

You lie or change the subject???

3)"....but I bet my kids will not be any wiser if you decide to bounce"

-This statement shows that no matter what you are always ready for a dude to bounce on you...

Because it has happend way to many times before

4)You also belong to:

"I have been hurt way to many times before thats why is hard for me to trust you"

Single mother category

 

[whatevathehell]

what man or woman is out there dating anyone without asking if they have kids..esp for a year? that sounds bogus....and if they do ask..what do you do?

Another thing, have any of you single moms thought about, have, or are currently dating a single dad.....that would seem like the best solution.

 

[ms.jones]

This right here is a good statement for all the dudes who date/deal/fuck single moms...
(Lets break it down)

1)"I should put all my cards on the table? "
-NO...
But how about you put the most important card on the table... your kids
(I though all single moms were proud to have kids???)
And you are hidding them like they are some old clothes...

2)So when you guys start talking and he asks...
"Do you have kids?"
You lie or change the subject???

3)"....but I bet my kids will not be any wiser if you decide to bounce"
-This statement shows that no matter what you are always ready for a dude to bounce on you...
Because it has happend way to many times before

4)You also belong to:
"I have been hurt way to many times before thats why is hard for me to trust you"
Single mother category

Right. You got it. You are on the money. You are never wrong. You got me pegged. I love my kids so much, I should expose them to every man that I choose to meet up with, and go out to dinner with, or to the movies. I should even let them know where I live to, huh? Just put everything out there, right?

As I said, good day, sir. You will never understand my logic, so stop trying to break it down. You ain't me, and I'm not you. Now, good day. Stop stressing over me, and my way of living.

 

[ms.jones]

Iigh cool I respect , id imagine the longer the relationships, wouldnt it be harder to move on and start another one? Sounds emotionally draining. To go from 7 year ..to 3 year ..to a 4 year relationship is some deep shit lol.

Draining how? If you enjoyed the times you had with that person, and shared good times, why focus on the negative? Take it for what it is...it just wasn't time. Live, Love, and Laugh, right?

That's why I take my time...I'm still good with both of those men that came in my life. No hard feelings, and still the friendship is in tact.

 

[Stiff]

This right here is a good statement for all the dudes who date/deal/fuck single moms...

(Lets break it down)

1)"I should put all my cards on the table? "

-NO...

But how about you put the most important card on the table... your kids

(I though all single moms were proud to have kids???)

And you are hidding them like they are some old clothes...

2)So when you guys start talking and he asks...

"Do you have kids?"

You lie or change the subject???

3)"....but I bet my kids will not be any wiser if you decide to bounce"

-This statement shows that no matter what you are always ready for a dude to bounce on you...

Because it has happend way to many times before

4)You also belong to:

"I have been hurt way to many times before thats why is hard for me to trust you"

Single mother category

You seem mighty hostile towards women...is your relationship with your mother okay?

 

[ms.jones]

what man or woman is out there dating anyone without asking if they have kids..esp for a year? that sounds bogus....and if they do ask..what do you do?

Another thing, have any of you single moms thought about, have, or are currently dating a single dad.....that would seem like the best solution.

It's other things to talk about, especially if things are casual in the beginning...I don't ask, and neither did they...

 

[MeTaL]

This right here is a good statement for all the dudes who date/deal/fuck single moms...

(Lets break it down)

1)"I should put all my cards on the table? "

-NO...

But how about you put the most important card on the table... your kids

(I though all single moms were proud to have kids???)

And you are hidding them like they are some old clothes...

2)So when you guys start talking and he asks...

"Do you have kids?"

You lie or change the subject???

3)"....but I bet my kids will not be any wiser if you decide to bounce"

-This statement shows that no matter what you are always ready for a dude to bounce on you...

Because it has happend way to many times before

4)You also belong to:

"I have been hurt way to many times before thats why is hard for me to trust you"

Single mother category

awwww.. What the matter nigga? It seems to me your heart been broken into multiple pieces over the long years of your life.. You might want to seek medical attention before It's too late. The mind can take so much at a time before all that negativity.. Turns your brain into swiss cheese..

 

[CapitalB]

You seem mighty hostile towards women...is your relationship with your mother okay?

it does seem that way... :shrug

 

[texican11]

@Ms. Jones lets break down your so called relationship history that you are trying to feed us...

7 years with your babydaddy

+4 years with the dude from Chicago

+3 years with the dude that might be "the one or no"

__________________________________________

14 years of relationships and all you gott is

2 crying BASTARDS

1 big ass C-section scar

1 Wornout pussy

You also belong to:

"The delusional Single mother" category

but is NOT entirely your fault...

Your friends and family (mom aunts, cousins) probably gas u up all the time

"Some day you will find your knight in shiny armor...Just keep looking"

 

[ms.jones]

@Ms. Jones lets break down your so called relationship history that you are trying to feed us...

7 years with your babydaddy
+4 years with the dude from Chicago
+3 years with the dude that might be "the one or no"
__________________________________________

14 years of relationships and all you gott is
2 crying BASTARDS
1 big ass C-section scar
1 Wornout pussy

You also belong to:
"The delusional Single mother" category
but is NOT entirely your fault...
Your friends and family (mom aunts, cousins) probably gas u up all the time
"Some day you will find your knight in shiny armor...Just keep looking"

Why are you still talking? Do you think what you're saying is making a difference? You're a dirty foot mexican border jumper. You ain't shit. Stop making yourself seem relevant.

 

[NELLY'S BAND-AID]

a year seems pretty long.. but thats between her and whoever she fucks with..
but im sure if shit gets serious before that he'll know before that..

niggas and bitches alike be like "im in love" and dont even know the other person's last name..whats the sense in that??
how does this bitch interact with her family?? her friends??

niggas think with they dick and bitches love with they pussy for the most part..
neither is usin they brain..

but from what im getting she's seein someone casually.. so it aint none of his business if she has kids or not..

[video=youtube;70o_F6Yo7ck]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70o_F6Yo7ck&ob=av2e[/video]
I SEE YOU DIRTY I SEE YOU!! YOU A COLD PIECE OF WORK DIRTY. LET ME STEP OUT OF YOUR WAY BEFORE I FUCK UP YO PIMP JUICE DIRTY. I COULD LEARN SOMETHING FROM YOU. THEY DON'T EVEN REALIZE WHAT YOU DOING.

@Ms. Jones lets break down your so called relationship history that you are trying to feed us...

7 years with your babydaddy
+4 years with the dude from Chicago
+3 years with the dude that might be "the one or no"
__________________________________________

14 years of relationships and all you gott is
2 crying BASTARDS
1 big ass C-section scar
1 Wornout pussy

You also belong to:
"The delusional Single mother" category
but is NOT entirely your fault...
Your friends and family (mom aunts, cousins) probably gas u up all the time
"Some day you will find your knight in shiny armor...Just keep looking"

NOW THIS WAS A BIT OVERBOARD DIRTY BUT IT'S REALITY!! FOR MOST BABY MAMAS. HER STORIES REALLY AINT ADDING UP. AINT NOTHING STABLE ABOUT HER "RELATIONSHIPS" I was gonna ask her about her 2 time baby daddy of 7 yurrs but I think we all know where that's going. 14 yurrs, 2 kids(don't even want to know they ages) and still a baby mama "dating" and holding out on men about something as important as kids.......I'm wondering how old she is? (goes to sit back down and watch like i was told).

 

[ms.jones]

[video=youtube;70o_F6Yo7ck]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70o_F6Yo7ck&ob=av2e[/video]
I SEE YOU DIRTY I SEE YOU!! YOU A COLD PIECE OF WORK DIRTY. LET ME STEP OUT OF YOUR WAY BEFORE I FUCK UP YO PIMP JUICE DIRTY. I COULD LEARN SOMETHING FROM YOU. THEY DON'T EVEN REALIZE WHAT YOU DOING.

NOW THIS WAS A BIT OVERBOARD DIRTY BUT IT'S REALITY!! FOR MOST BABY MAMAS. HER STORIES REALLY AINT ADDING UP. AINT NOTHING STABLE ABOUT HER "RELATIONSHIPS" I was gonna ask her about her 2 time baby daddy of 7 yurrs but I think we all know where that's going. 14 yurrs, 2 kids(don't even want to know they ages) and still a baby mama "dating" and holding out on men about something as important as kids.......I'm wondering how old she is? (goes to sit back down and watch like i was told).

I'm 31...met their dad at 14, got with their father when I was 17. I married him when I turned 18, divorced him because the marriage went sour.. I was asked by the 4 year, and I declined. He wanted to move to the Chi, and I didn't.. I'm not holding out for anything...I enjoy the way I live my life. I'm happy with my situation. If I get married, or not, it makes no difference to me. I've been there before, so I know what it is. Anything else?