if you play stepfather to another mans kid(s).......

[im_lux]

I support a child that ain't mine and raise another child that ain't mine

*shrugs* I could give a fuck how it looks to any one

I know that there are two young girls w/ a father (me) in thier life and I'm content

I'd beat both they asses If they fixed they mouth to call me or introduce me as thier 'stepfather'

I'm daddy, plain and simple (no pedo)

So one is with the chick you wit now and another one is an ex girl's chick or something? Neither of which are yours? Or does your chick have 2? Just curious.

 

[Niggersauce]

Nah i agree with lurk tho...im not messin with a chick with a child till i have one of my own. I was with my big cousin for all three of his kids and can't nothin replace that. If i am going to do it though the baby daddy cant be in the situation at all...i dont need some dude tryin to check me cuz i gave his child a whippin.

Aint nothin wrong with playin stepdaddy tho...its all about bein happy not seeking validation from people outside your circle that honestly dont give a fuck about you.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

homie....if you love shorty an plan on marrying her then you are taking on the responsibility of helping raise the kid.

if not then you should reconsider being with her

if the kid has a father then he has to understand your in the picture and may do some raising..

but if the father is not in the picture then you may have to be the role model...

but whatever you do ...dont be part of the problem by not standing up and being a man about it....you never know how you can affect a child life...

so either step up or step off

an what the fuk is a simp anyway

 

[international]

to each their own, but i ain't fuckin wit it, and i advise ma niggaz or anyone thats goin thru that shyt, if they come to me, the same shyt...

 

[harry knucklez]

the older you get your chances of meeting women without prior children starts at slim

I think that would only be true if you were lookin for women around your age. Most men date women younger than them and most women date men who are older than them

 

[7figz]

to each their own, but i ain't fuckin wit it, and i advise ma niggaz or anyone thats goin thru that shyt, if they come to me, the same shyt...

^ ^ this here ^ ^

fuck that "real man" shit . (notice the quotes)

 

[IamtheVILLE]

uh oh. this shits gettin deep

 

[one_manshow]

Why join a team with an established superstar? The superstar (child) will always come first as the GM (mother) will make decisions based off the needs and best interest of the superstar (child) your just another sidekick that can be traded at anytime and will always be a second option. Build your own team...don't join one!

Its 2011 a lot of people willing to carry luggage they can't arm curl then running to the doc when they biceps/triceps torn....smh

 

[Rey Negro]

smh @ yall tryna make niggas feel ashamed for not wanting to date single mothers. fuck i look like working hard all my life just to get with someone who needs me to clean up theirs? I tried it once when I was younger. Nope. Nah. Never again. I feel for yall but, Nah...

 

[damobb2deep]

you sound mad young.

ideally, i wouldnt want to raise another mans child either

but i'm old enough to understand that the world isnt black or white

and being a step father neither makes you a simp or a real man.

real talk...... and its funny 2 me cuz older heads always talkin bout how recklass young folks is but dawg the niggas thats wit they momma tryna teach them right...... and real talk those kids honestly end up growing up 2 respect that man and have apreciation 4 him.....

 

[damobb2deep]

smh @ yall tryna make niggas feel ashamed for not wanting to date single mothers. fuck i look like working hard all my life just to get with someone who needs me to clean up theirs? I tried it once when I was younger. Nope. Nah. Never again. I feel for yall but, Nah...

honestly to each is own..... but i have no problem with dateing a chick with a kid.... niggas is so confused its funny...

 

[BackInWhite]

i'd be cool with the shit if the child was young

not no like preteen with they own thoughts and personality n shit

nigga get mad as a muhfucka when that lil bastard scream, "YOU AIN'T MY DADDY ANYWAY!"

 

[Daddy_PeaceBuck$]

No, Know and Nah. Most of these kids aint angels either. Had one chick 2 kids by 2 different Babydaddies. While she was shopping her fuckin son took a shopping cart and launched that shit at a hot dog stand. Everybody just stopped like WTF! They spend more time disciplining they rugrats than having a relationship. Peace

 

[damobb2deep]

No, Know and Nah. Most of these kids aint angels either. Had one chick 2 kids by 2 different Babydaddies. While she was shopping her fuckin son took a shopping cart and launched that shit at a hot dog stand. Everybody just stopped like WTF! They spend more time disciplining they rugrats than having a relationship. Peace

of course if u on some smash and leave shyt..... but if u REALLY was feeling her why not stay..... they bad so? im pretty sure she aint look at u like " u aint gonna go over there and whopp em? " she took care of it.... so again why leave?

 

[CapitalB]

Why join a team with an established superstar? The superstar (child) will always come first as the GM (mother) will make decisions based off the needs and best interest of the superstar (child) your just another sidekick that can be traded at anytime and will always be a second option. Build your own team...don't join one!

Its 2011 a lot of people willing to carry luggage they can't arm curl then running to the doc when they biceps/triceps torn....smh

the superstar of any relationship for a woman is a man..
but for the sake of argument lets say it is the child.. if this is a woman we're dealing with she know good and goddamn well the best interest of that child is havin a man in his/her life..

so if she deems u worthy there shouldnt be a problem on that front..

 

[Daddy_PeaceBuck$]

of course if u on some smash and leave shyt..... but if u REALLY was feeling her why not stay..... they bad so? im pretty sure she aint look at u like " u aint gonna go over there and whopp em? " she took care of it.... so again why leave?

Even if I was really feeling her like that I wouldn't stay. Did you read when I said 2 kids by 2 different dudes. Twice the headache. If they act like that in public how do you think they act when they at home. It's asking too much. I don't give a shit. You made the decisions in your life which put you in your spot right now. Deal with it. There are plenty of decent females with no kids and drama.

 

[damobb2deep]

Even if I was really feeling her like that I wouldn't stay. Did you read when I said 2 kids by 2 different dudes. Twice the headache. If they act like that in public how do you think they act when they at home. It's asking too much. I don't give a shit. You made the decisions in your life which put you in your spot right now. Deal with it. There are plenty of decent females with no kids and drama.

true... but everybody has baggage and problems... yea the kids are bad... but thats kids.... the "Good" kids end up growing up bein fucked up in the head or lame as fuck... looks like she is gonna have normal kids....

 

[PURP_L_A_BOL]

If she is great with her child and has an easy going kind warm personality and no bitter black woman issues then why not?
Personally I wouldnt look @ the child as a mistake or stranger. The child is apart of her.
That being said Im a few years from 30 and not looking to be in a commited relationship till about 32...
I wouldnt date a single mother right now tho.
Women don't really know who they are untill 30 or so anyhow.
Single mothers 28 and up are aok in my book!

*Post edit*

And 1 child is my limit

 

[Daddy_PeaceBuck$]

true... but everybody has baggage and problems... yea the kids are littbad... but thats kids.... the "Good" kids end up growing up bein fucked up in the head or lame as fuck... looks like she is gonna have normal kids....

Agreed. Everyone has problems but you aint gonna tell me that running a shopping cart into a hot dog stand is normal family. That lil nigga headed to Shawshank

 

[Ishi]

I wonder how its going ..shrugs

Props my nigga