Do you really care how many partners your s/o have slept with in the past?

[D-Marco]

Funny thing is I had this convo with my sis this weekend. She older and a good girl, Stayed a virgin til she was married. Me on the other hand, total opposite. She asked what numbers would make me look at a chick weird.

Honestly I dont care about numbers like that. i dont expect a chick to tell me she hit 47 dudes before. Its about character, most women feel bad about being ex hoes and they always wind up confessing one way or another. You just have to watch the signs and weed thru the ho-speak.

 

[kAjUn]

so if you're shorty at 36 tells you she's slept with 50 dudes, you'd be like "That's ok babe, all that matters is you're with me now."?

I used to think the same thing like y'all niggas. Until I met a chick I actually liked that was the university hoe. Bitch hit me with the excuse "I was just exploring my sexuality." Wait until you actually meet a broad you feeling and in the back of your mind you gotta think "would my pops slap the shit outta me for wifing up a known slut?"

well technically she was lol..............i mean she was living a promiscuous life.............

like i said in another thread...........whether it's hypocritical or not men and women have a right to pursue what they want..............that's why we have free will...........

if a man to to stick and move but not deal with a chick who was getting it in aswell HE HAS THAT RIGHT...............

delusional, fantasy or what other synonym you want to call it.............until the law prohibits it every ex man whore or woman whore has a right to want somebody with a clean past....................

but she actually told you that fam??................lmao

 

[D-Marco]

Funny thing is none of this opionated thinking matters. As soon as of you niggas catch feelings for a ho, u still gonna be boo'd up wit her.

Ive seen it happen too many times. Most niggas cant think when pussy is involved. I can, which is why i have no kids now. But some dudes use the "it felt too good to pull out" routine. NIgga I pulls out with the rubber on.

 

[BurninBush]

i aint expectin my wife to be a saint or no shit i aint naive...cant have the porno type numbers tho...cant wife up the town's get down.

 

[Gnawledgeable]

Like deadeye said, a female will tell you half of their partners. So if she says she only been with 6 guys, it's actually 12 guys.

 

[kAjUn]

Funny thing is none of this opionated thinking matters. As soon as of you niggas catch feelings for a ho, u still gonna be boo'd up wit her.

Ive seen it happen too many times. Most niggas cant think when pussy is involved. I can, which is why i have no kids now. But some dudes use the "it felt too good to pull out" routine. NIgga I pulls out with the rubber on.

this is so true...........kind of like how people say they can't deal with a cheating partner............

but i don't know how many x's i've seen muggfuckas forgive and go right back to them niggas..............

 

[kAjUn]

Like deadeye said, a female will tell you half of their partners. So if she says she only been with 6 guys, it's actually 12 guys.

what if her count is 15?............

 

[BurninBush]

what if her count is 15?............

she bangin midgets.

 

[kAjUn]

she bangin midgets.

lol........nah real yall say multiply by 2.......if she says her count is in the double digits and she ain't shy talking about her past does the multiplication rule still apply?.................

 

[Razah Cutz]

it depends on how serious we are in the relationship....if I love you, I could care less about anything in your past b/c I know your heart and mind....If I just met you and we just starting to get intimate and whatnot, oh hell yes, I def. need to know; this ain't 1976, there are TOO many diseases out there and I'm not tryin to contract one just b/c of you....

 

[one_manshow]

Not every man will get a low count female so someone gotta be wifing hoes....same niggas saying they wouldn't or can't will be walking down the aisle with the same female who is tossed around like a Peyton Manning spiral in college. If you a nigga who is a male hoe don't expect a virgin cause in most cases it won't happen.

 

[longmeat]

How'd you find out about it the bolded?

shorty told me. like i said, once you learn how to befriend these broads and actually let them be honest with you, they'll tell you all type of fucked up shit.

lol...you went overboard with that example...

no woman not named sinnamon love would ever admit to numbers like that...

and i dont ask questions like that...the only thing im interested in is whether or not her number stops growing with me....

i know it may seem crazy to some people...but thats how i look at it

I didn't go overboard, that shit actually happens. I've had too many females in my lifetime be honest with me about how many dudes they've fucked. Like I said, shorty I was dealing with, I was #26. Another homegirl I had was 19 with 19 dudes. Another chick I smashed back in college was in her 20s and pushing numbers in 30s. SMH it's a dirty dirty dirty fuckin game man

well technically she was lol..............i mean she was living a promiscuous life.............

like i said in another thread...........whether it's hypocritical or not men and women have a right to pursue what they want..............that's why we have free will...........

if a man to to stick and move but not deal with a chick who was getting it in aswell HE HAS THAT RIGHT...............

delusional, fantasy or what other synonym you want to call it.............until the law prohibits it every ex man whore or woman whore has a right to want somebody with a clean past....................

but she actually told you that fam??................lmao

like I said, until you actually meet a broad you feeling a lot, then find out she the town slore, you'll change your opinion on that shit. That shit will have you in the crib singing this can't be life

And yeah shorty told me. Like I said, become friends with these hoes son. Learn how to make em feel comfortable and have you thinking that you're just one of their home girls. They'll tell you all types of fucked up shit about how they really get down. That's why I'll never put it past a woman to cheat, even though these broads act like they saints. Every female I've asked admitted to cheating on their man, and no none of them don't know about it. Having females friends is the reason why I just can't respect women. I just look at them with the smh face and try not to throw up.

After learning how these hoes get down on the real, I became a card carrying member of the hard on hoes movement.

 

[Jay107]

i havent asked a girl for her "number of partners" in years.

i'm 27. at my age, the chick is almost always gonna lie. plus alot of women dont count one night stands, bad sex, and sex out of state.

my advice: lets these women have fun. just dont marry em.

co-sign....this is the truth...women will NEVER tell you truthfully how many partners she has been with..its pretty much a dont ask dont tell sort of thing..if i dont grow up knowing the chick, i dont believe most of what she is saying about the number of partners she has been with..

 

[kAjUn]

shorty told me. like i said, once you learn how to befriend these broads and actually let them be honest with you, they'll tell you all type of fucked up shit.

I didn't go overboard, that shit actually happens. I've had too many females in my lifetime be honest with me about how many dudes they've fucked. Like I said, shorty I was dealing with, I was #26. Another homegirl I had was 19 with 19 dudes. Another chick I smashed back in college was in her 20s and pushing numbers in 30s. SMH it's a dirty dirty dirty fuckin game man

like I said, until you actually meet a broad you feeling a lot, then find out she the town slore, you'll change your opinion on that shit. That shit will have you in the crib singing this can't be life

And yeah shorty told me. Like I said, become friends with these hoes son. Learn how to make em feel comfortable and have you thinking that you're just one of their home girls. They'll tell you all types of fucked up shit about how they really get down. That's why I'll never put it past a woman to cheat, even though these broads act like they saints. Every female I've asked admitted to cheating on their man, and no none of them don't know about it. Having females friends is the reason why I just can't respect women. I just look at them with the smh face and try not to throw up.

After learning how these hoes get down on the real, I became a card carrying member of the hard on hoes movement.

i'm almost in that situation now.......chick i been fooling around with for a year her body count is 15........but we was friends first before we was even fooling around...........so i knew she wasn't a hoe..............but she had fuck buddies(only messing around with 1 dude)

but yea like what's been said......either don't worry about it or just don't get married.............(option #2)

 

[longmeat]

i'm almost in that situation now.......chick i been fooling around with for a year her body count is 15........but we was friends first before we was even fooling around...........so i knew she wasn't a hoe..............but she had fuck buddies(only messing around with 1 dude)

but yea like what's been said......either don't worry about it or just don't get married.............(option #2)

15? Nigga the shorty I damn near fell for is pushin 30........that make a nigga wanna just drink his life away, crawl in a hole and die b

 

[lord nemesis]

I never hit her, but bitch I'm cool with had like 30+ bodies by the time she was 20. She blamed it on being raped

 

[longmeat]

I never hit her, but bitch I'm cool with had like 30+ bodies by the time she was 20. She blamed it on being raped

being raped don't turn you into being a hoe. if anything it'll close your legs because of the trauma. the bitch prolly deserved it anyway ole trifflin ass hoe

 

[Eternal Bachelor]

so from what i gather from this thread...its the # of men that bother you...and not the amount of sex shes had?

if she just has a few fuck buddies, shes probably not getting smashed as much as a chick thats a serial monogamist...

that fuck-buddy shit has its ups and downs and dry spells...but if shes in a relationship...shes getting hit 3-4 times a week atleast...for years...

my point is...yall need to stop worrying about a womans #'s, and just enjoy the time YOU are spending with her for however long that is...

some of yall really have some deep-seeded sex issues....

im just saying

 

[kAjUn]

15? Nigga the shorty I damn near fell for is pushin 30........that make a nigga wanna just drink his life away, crawl in a hole and die b

how old was she?........

 

[longmeat]

how old was she?........

25 dog....25

so from what i gather from this thread...its the # of men that bother you...and not the amount of sex shes had?

if she just has a few fuck buddies, shes probably not getting smashed as much as a chick thats a serial monogamist...

that fuck-buddy shit has its ups and downs and dry spells...but if shes in a relationship...shes getting hit 3-4 times a week atleast...for years...

my point is...yall need to stop worrying about a womans #'s, and just enjoy the time YOU are spending with her for however long that is...

some of yall really have some deep-seeded sex issues....

im just saying

like i said doggy, i felt the same way until the shit happened to me. it's easy to say that shit when you're girl ain't the one that ran through 30+ niggas her freshman year.