Do you really care how many partners your s/o have slept with in the past?

[Coby Vibes]

lol...live a little while longer bruh...your perspective will change

all you gonna want is somebody to chill with, and doesnt bring you drama...thats where im at now

pretty much.

 

[D-Marco]

Threads like these remind me of how delusional niggas are. Knowin half of you are with a known smut now. Grow up.

There is a difference between a chick who is sexually active and choosy with a somewhat high number vs a chick who is gettin trains run on her facials and all kinds of deviant shit done to her.

This is paranoia fam'ly. Some of you actually think the girl who had sex wit 4 dudes is less of a ho or less likely to cheat? Well u go head an buy that dream shit

 

[kAjUn]

Threads like these remind me of how delusional niggas are. Knowin half of you are with a known smut now. Grow up.

There is a difference between a chick who is sexually active and choosy with a somewhat high number vs a chick who is gettin trains run on her facials and all kinds of deviant shit done to her.

This is paranoia fam'ly. Some of you actually think the girl who had sex wit 4 dudes is less of a ho or less likely to cheat? Well u go head an buy that dream shit

another one of my strong brothers...............

 

[D-Marco]

another one of my strong brothers...............

Nah nigga.. the only chicks Ive ever wifed had one partner before me. I just understand the logic. Dont try to dismiss my post with a joke when you know exactly what im saying. I know every dude in here probably has a friend or a close relative that met a fine chick and someone told him not to mess with her cuz of her past, and the nigga still did it.

So people talking about what their standards are but most dont live by it. I do

 

[LPast]

Why don't y'all want to know? Past predicts the future. If a chick is used to sleeping with ten dudes a year and you try to start a relationship it will become a problem. Lifestyle is a big factor when starting a relationship.

 

[KplusK]

is that the way most white men feel regarding this topic?

do white guys even care how many men their gf's have slept with..

i never heard white have this convo

Ask that dude bill maher....

 

[D-Marco]

just to be clear: are you niggas saying if you KNOW she's a slut...it dont matter

or are yall saying if you dont know, you'll just leave it at that.

The latter. Cuz unless u heard about her....u wont know unless she tells you. What woman admits to being a slut

 

[kAjUn]

Nah nigga.. the only chicks Ive ever wifed had one partner before me. I just understand the logic. Dont try to dismiss my post with a joke when you know exactly what im saying. I know every dude in here probably has a friend or a close relative that met a fine chick and someone told him not to mess with her cuz of her past, and the nigga still did it.

So people talking about what their standards are but most dont live by it. I do

whereyoufrom?..........

cause i surely like to find a woman like that these days............

 

[kat2180]

man all these hoes was hoes at one point.

i can assure you of that.

Basically...not straight out hoes, but engaged in some hoe-like behavior at some point.

But I don't ask cause really I don't care to know.

 

[kAjUn]

Basically...not straight out hoes, but engaged in some hoe-like behavior at some point.

But I don't ask cause really I don't care to know.

curious.....what's your definition of hoe-like behavior?

 

[D-Marco]

whereyoufrom?..........

cause i surely like to find a woman like that these days............

Tampa. But it doesnt matter where u from. Only what you will accept. Most dudes I know will wife a "bad chick" and justify it. I only wife chicks that show strong character, if u looking for a dime ur chances are lowered that she wont have a past.

 

[kAjUn]

Tampa. But it doesnt matter where u from. Only what you will accept. Most dudes I know will wife a "bad chick" and justify it. I only wife chicks that show strong character, if u looking for a dime ur chances are lowered that she wont have a past.

i'm wit ya..........and nah i don't base my wife just off of looks.........she don't have to be a dime..........but she can't be no lower than a 7 eitha lol.........

 

[Eternal Bachelor]

curious.....what's your definition of hoe-like behavior?

^^^this is what i want to know too

you cant be talking about a woman thats just sexually active...shit all of them are...

you talking about trains and shit like that? meeting random cats at the club?

but dont most of yall do that? dont some of you participate in this type of shit, becuz this shit doesnt exist in a vacuum...these women are doing this shit with somebody, and in some cases its with the dudes in here talking shit

 

[D-Marco]

^^^this is what i want to know too

you cant be talking about a woman thats just sexually active...shit all of them are...

you talking about trains and shit like that? meeting random cats at the club?

but dont most of yall do that? dont some of you participate in this type of shit, becuz this shit doesnt exist in a vacuum...these women are doing this shit with somebody, and in some cases its with the dudes in here talking shit

Most men dont want to wife a chick thats like them. Lets be honest.

 

[Eternal Bachelor]

Most men dont want to wife a chick thats like them. Lets be honest.

maybe youre right...BUT

where are all these men gonna find these pseudo-virgins at? the guys spend all of there 20s sticking and moving, do they actually think theres a bunch of women sitting in church somewhere putting there lives on hold waiting for men to stop whoring and come marry them?

thats a little delusional fam (not saying you are...just that line of thinking is)

 

[D-Marco]

maybe youre right...BUT

where are all these men gonna find these pseudo-virgins at? the guys spend all of there 20s sticking and moving, do they actually think theres a bunch of women sitting in church somewhere putting there lives on hold waiting for men to stop whoring and come marry them?

thats a little delusional fam (not saying you are...just that line of thinking is)

I agree with you 100. Thats why im stayin single fam. Liek today I saw this beautiful darkskinned chick, slim pretty ass face wit a phat ass. But i recognized her and my nigga used to run thru that in High school. I dont trust these females, they can be deceiving.

 

[longmeat]

^^^this...

im 36...in my age bracket most of the women have had 4-5 serious relationships...and who knows how many side niggas...yall worry about the wrong shit...i look at it like this...if she in a relationship, you know how much fucking and suckin is gonna go on? niggas hittin 3-4 times a week for 5 years? lol...and yall worried about the cats who hit once? shit...maybe thats just how i think lol

i dont worry about it, becuz i have a past too.

so if you're shorty at 36 tells you she's slept with 50 dudes, you'd be like "That's ok babe, all that matters is you're with me now."?

I used to think the same thing like y'all niggas. Until I met a chick I actually liked that was the university hoe. Bitch hit me with the excuse "I was just exploring my sexuality." Wait until you actually meet a broad you feeling and in the back of your mind you gotta think "would my pops slap the shit outta me for wifing up a known slut?"

 

[Eternal Bachelor]

so if you're shorty at 36 tells you she's slept with 50 dudes, you'd be like "That's ok babe, all that matters is you're with me now."?

I used to think the same thing like y'all niggas. Until I met a chick I actually liked that was the university hoe. Bitch hit me with the excuse "I was just exploring my sexuality." Wait until you actually meet a broad you feeling and in the back of your mind you gotta think "would my pops slap the shit outta me for wifing up a known slut?"

lol...you went overboard with that example...

no woman not named sinnamon love would ever admit to numbers like that...

and i dont ask questions like that...the only thing im interested in is whether or not her number stops growing with me....

i know it may seem crazy to some people...but thats how i look at it

 

[Reina B]

@t/s yes and no

 

[Coby Vibes]

Most men dont want to wife a chick thats like them. Lets be honest.

niggas aint trying to wife chicks period.. lets be honest

maybe youre right...BUT

where are all these men gonna find these pseudo-virgins at? the guys spend all of there 20s sticking and moving, do they actually think theres a bunch of women sitting in church somewhere putting there lives on hold waiting for men to stop whoring and come marry them?

thats a little delusional fam (not saying you are...just that line of thinking is)

exactly! if ya'll wanna talk real then let's talk real. the shit y'all talk is contradictory at best. there is no benefit to a woman suppressing what she wanna do sexually because she still gonna wind up with the same dude as the hoes

you think them church chicks aint being cheated on and done dirty like the hoe... they lead the same life, singing the same song "where the good men at" , getting treated the same way. all these men with their Madonna-whore complexes cannot call any shots in my world