2stepz_ahead
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#1hiphopjunki3;c-9679268 said:2stepz_ahead;c-9678288 said:#1hiphopjunki3;c-9678222 said:powerman 5000;c-9676209 said:birth
I agree with this 100%. I feel it's important for a child to enjoy their childhood and have imagination, dreams and be innocent up until a certain point.
What I don't agree or believe in is diminishing my importance and hard work in helping the child grow. I want my kids to know that you have to work for everything that you want and Giving them this false belief that some fairy tail (especially somebody that doesn't look like us) of a being is giving them gifts for doing what they should be doing aka being a good person is setting them up for failure
but why are you not giving yourself enough credit to change how anything and anyone looks if they are fantasy anyway? you can teach hardwirk and reward thru the Santa fantasy...an you can dress up as Santa.
not directed at you, but why are the adults so fukkin serious? as if your day is not hard enough...
santa is not going to set them up for failure....only your parenting will and the type person they become.
it's time for a spin-off thread...cuz y'all just don't like a white man getting credit for your gift giving...but refuse to make him black like black Jesus?
oh but y'all pray to white Jesus? a created image who will bless you or put in a good word for you for being obedient to his father's wishes?
I'm got time to fight today.
1st and foremost I would have an issue with my child believing in another form of systematic racism like Santa Claus. Honestly if you can't see how that shit is a form of brainwashing minority kids into believing in another white savior then I don't know what to tell you.
I also believe that it is a sad thing to use a form of bribing to teach a child to be a decent human being and treat people equally. You shouldn't get rewarded for doing what any decent human is supposed to do.
I would never stunt anybodies will to dream or use their imagination because daring to dream big has helped birth so many real life achievements and inventions but you can't compare something like Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny to actually thinking of flying or traveling to space and making it happen.
Not to mention you can enjoy fictional things without believing it to be real
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