You want to date white people do it.This is why I changed my mind about just dating your own race.

[Undefeatable]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

So let me get this clear. If someone has focused exclusively on black women (black woman-1, black woman-2....black women-n) so far, and then at some point decides to consider white women as well, he would not have increased his chances of finding someone compatible though he has expanded his search of eligible women to now include (black woman-1, black woman-2....black women-n) AND (white woman-1, white woman-2....white women-n)???

 

[Undefeatable]

Can't create non black families and claim to be for black people....it's like smoking cigarettes while saying you trynna get healthy

Say a black man has been looking for a black woman his whole life, is down for the cause in every way, but finally after being single for years (say he's 50) decides to expand his search to include non-black women. Say he then finds a non-black woman and marries her. Does that mean that he was not really pro-black? Should he have lived out the rest of his life alone for you to say that he was really pro-black?

 

[5th Letter]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

I date a black women my brother.I´m contemplating on the issue.

Do women just not find you attractive? Pause just in case. Because I find it hard to believe that most of the black women you come across just don't want to date you based on them simply preferring white or light skin men.

 

[dalyricalbandit]

Fuck/marry who u want fuck whatever the next person thinks or has to say they not paying your bills or making u happy

 

[mrtdb]

date who you want...just make sure the person you date truly understands and respects your proud heritage.

Can't create non black families and claim to be for black people....it's like smoking cigarettes while saying you trynna get healthy

Say a black man has been looking for a black woman his whole life, is down for the cause in every way, but finally after being single for years (say he's 50) decides to expand his search to include non-black women. Say he then finds a non-black woman and marries her. Does that mean that he was not really pro-black? Should he have lived out the rest of his life alone for you to say that he was really pro-black?

this most likely occurs in youthful situations...young women can be stupid af. I've mentioned before, a lot of them have strict qualifications for dating a black man (height, weight, money) and exclude a lot of men. Then blame those men for choosing to date someone else. Understand you're young and there's no need to rush into love, there's more black women out there than the ones you see in your area and event instagram.

I think overall (interracial, within the same race, etc.) people are too pressed to find love. You'll never find it until you enter it, so there's no reason to rush.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

I date a black women my brother.I´m contemplating on the issue.

Do women just not find you attractive? Pause just in case. Because I find it hard to believe that most of the black women you come across just don't want to date you based on them simply preferring white or light skin men.

It´s not about looks homie.Out here black wome usually lean towards white men.In the U.S even non pro-black girls lean towards black men.And yes I pull girls.I´m talking about extreme cases like a black girl that never got love from he race during high school lets say and in college a white dude scooped her.

 

[Kai]

my biggest reason for not dating a white guy is that i don't trust white people to not be racist or at least prejudiced deep down. and i can't get down with that bullshit. even the ones that don't come from a place of latent feelings of white superiority often i feel are just fetishizing blackness. being with a black man, i don't have to worry about any of that bullshit. and i don't have to waste time educating him on what it means to be black. cuz lets be real, most of these whites are not only clueless, they are willfully ignorant.

 

[jetlifebih]

Can't create non black families and claim to be for black people....it's like smoking cigarettes while saying you trynna get healthy

Say a black man has been looking for a black woman his whole life, is down for the cause in every way, but finally after being single for years (say he's 50) decides to expand his search to include non-black women. Say he then finds a non-black woman and marries her. Does that mean that he was not really pro-black? Should he have lived out the rest of his life alone for you to say that he was really pro-black?

Why do you niggas go to the extreme to prove a point.....what are the chances a brother goes his whole life and doesn't get the opportunity to date a sister??

What does this guy look like , what's his personality, occupation? And being a guy doesn't entitle you to a woman....if you a decent dude you done got chances, if you 50 and single you had chances and fucked em up...

 

[blacktux]

^^Dudes just trying to find any excuse to desert the black woman man. Shit sad.

 

[Undefeatable]

^^Dudes just trying to find any excuse to desert the black woman man. Shit sad.

Smh. I am actually against this 'date-who-you-want' thing that some dudes are pushing. Which means that I am more on your side than not. My point is that I am not willing to push my point of view on dudes without regard to their particular situation. Is the example extreme? Yes, and by design. But I don't believe that things have to be so extreme before a dude can start dating out. If, however, y'all were to state that even in that extreme case the dude should have stayed single, then I'd know where you stand and could just let the obvious implausibility of your position be observed by all.

 

[Undefeatable]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

I date a black women my brother.I´m contemplating on the issue.

Do women just not find you attractive? Pause just in case. Because I find it hard to believe that most of the black women you come across just don't want to date you based on them simply preferring white or light skin men.

It´s not about looks homie.Out here black wome usually lean towards white men.In the U.S even non pro-black girls lean towards black men.And yes I pull girls.I´m talking about extreme cases like a black girl that never got love from he race during high school lets say and in college a white dude scooped her.

Never been to Brazil, but I can definitely believe what you're saying. These dudes are ignoring what I said on the first page.

What some AAs need to understand is that black women outside of America are way more open to non-black men than AA women are. Even some AA aren't checking for black men like that. Still, on a whole they are much more so than black women from other parts of the world.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

I date a black women my brother.I´m contemplating on the issue.

Do women just not find you attractive? Pause just in case. Because I find it hard to believe that most of the black women you come across just don't want to date you based on them simply preferring white or light skin men.

It´s not about looks homie.Out here black wome usually lean towards white men.In the U.S even non pro-black girls lean towards black men.And yes I pull girls.I´m talking about extreme cases like a black girl that never got love from he race during high school lets say and in college a white dude scooped her.

Never been to Brazil, but I can definitely believe what you're saying. These dudes are ignoring what I said on the first page.

What some AAs need to understand is that black women outside of America are way more open to non-black men than AA women are. Even some AA aren't checking for black men like that. Still, on a whole they are much more so than black women from other parts of the world.

Thank God somebody understood wtf I was saying.It´s kind of hard to understand but it´s true.It was a shock to me.But it´s reality.Where you from lord?

 

[5th Letter]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

I date a black women my brother.I´m contemplating on the issue.

Do women just not find you attractive? Pause just in case. Because I find it hard to believe that most of the black women you come across just don't want to date you based on them simply preferring white or light skin men.

It´s not about looks homie.Out here black wome usually lean towards white men.In the U.S even non pro-black girls lean towards black men.And yes I pull girls.I´m talking about extreme cases like a black girl that never got love from he race during high school lets say and in college a white dude scooped her.

What you mean "get love"? Like black men didn't check for her? Or did they diss her? Because again I find it hard to believe that a decent looking black woman wouldn't draw the attention of at least one black man in high school. If she didn't get attention from black men and she was decent looking then I'd have to question what her personality was like.

 

[Undefeatable]

I think some of you guys undestood me wrong.Some people are not choosen and tried to date in the there race there whole life but was denied.Then what?Wait around?Or just date someone that loves them independently if there the same colour or not?I´m not saying stop dating black women or black man all together.

So your chances will increase by dating out?

I date a black women my brother.I´m contemplating on the issue.

Do women just not find you attractive? Pause just in case. Because I find it hard to believe that most of the black women you come across just don't want to date you based on them simply preferring white or light skin men.

It´s not about looks homie.Out here black wome usually lean towards white men.In the U.S even non pro-black girls lean towards black men.And yes I pull girls.I´m talking about extreme cases like a black girl that never got love from he race during high school lets say and in college a white dude scooped her.

Never been to Brazil, but I can definitely believe what you're saying. These dudes are ignoring what I said on the first page.

What some AAs need to understand is that black women outside of America are way more open to non-black men than AA women are. Even some AA aren't checking for black men like that. Still, on a whole they are much more so than black women from other parts of the world.

Thank God somebody understood wtf I was saying.It´s kind of hard to understand but it´s true.It was a shock to me.But it´s reality.Where you from lord?

Originally? Let's just say the West Indies.

 

[whatevathehell]

Y'all got a big ass ad of an interracial couple on my screen

 

[ineedpussy]

Can't create non black families and claim to be for black people....it's like smoking cigarettes while saying you trynna get healthy

Say a black man has been looking for a black woman his whole life, is down for the cause in every way, but finally after being single for years (say he's 50) decides to expand his search to include non-black women. Say he then finds a non-black woman and marries her. Does that mean that he was not really pro-black? Should he have lived out the rest of his life alone for you to say that he was really pro-black?

Why do you niggas go to the extreme to prove a point.....what are the chances a brother goes his whole life and doesn't get the opportunity to date a sister??

What does this guy look like , what's his personality, occupation? And being a guy doesn't entitle you to a woman....if you a decent dude you done got chances, if you 50 and single you had chances and fucked em up...

i have to disagree homeboi....check the other thread....im 57

 

[Stew]

^^Dudes just trying to find any excuse to desert the black woman man. Shit sad.

Smh. I am actually against this 'date-who-you-want' thing that some dudes are pushing. Which means that I am more on your side than not. My point is that I am not willing to push my point of view on dudes without regard to their particular situation. Is the example extreme? Yes, and by design. But I don't believe that things have to be so extreme before a dude can start dating out. If, however, y'all were to state that even in that extreme case the dude should have stayed single, then I'd know where you stand and could just let the obvious implausibility of your position be observed by all.

Wait, what? Do you go by someone else's opinion on who you should date?

 

[semi-auto-mato]

I'm 1000% against blacks dating whites. No reason for it. It should be banned on every continent including Antarctica

 

[luke1733]

"By the ways I had dreams of having a full black family conscious and having kids but I´m giving that up."

Good luck man. I can relate with a lot of what you've said. There's a higher percentage than not that my wife won't end up being African American (even though I really did want an Af. Am woman). I just hope she'll have some black in her, BUT consciousness and agreeing to what is the truth about blacks is necessary for marriage. Anyway, on the child issue I thought about that too. I think if you teach your children the truth there will be elements they probably will resist bc they won't be or feel completely black, but if you educate them on Black history (since they won't receive a good literary education anywhere else on black history AND they will learn how to hate themselves based on the Euro effect of how it has infected the world with how to perceive blacks) consistently I think that will be enough.

Most important to me is the woman I lay my ideas with and listen to and have her share herself with me and most importantly LIKE. I've had to accept too that color is something I'm willing to let go.........to an extent. Yes, there is a part that does bother me that my wife might not be all black, but there's probably apart of her upset that I'm not 6'0.

 

[b'mer...]

Just take a stroll to the ill pix thread...you'll see how many people play both sides of the fence when it's convenient.