You tellin a bad bish to go in her pocket on the first date?

[Iheart~Cali]

You asked her out, you pay.

But if you gotta do all this plotting and planning over it, just cancel the damn thing.

Smh @ all of this rhetoric over a date.

 

[Dupac]

You asked her out, you pay.

But if you gotta do all this plotting and planning over it, just cancel the damn thing.

Smh @ all of this rhetoric over a date.

pretty much... if it's that serious niggaz needa just concern themselves with chicks who are content with the "you coming over?" routine... fuck going out

 

[a.mann]

I pay my own way. Chivalry needs to die. Sure, you can pay for our dinner on my birthday or something. But every date?? And then females wonder why men feel as if they're "owed" or "entitled" to something later on down the road (read: that night). Woman up & let loose these century old ideals.

why exactly do feel chivalry needs to die?

SHE DOESN'T REALLY MEAN THAT

 

[Feelin_Foolay]

Females my age (19) just lookin to smoke and drink with a nigga fuck dates

 

[a.mann]

lol@ thinking Dro has caps lock copyrighted or some shit

(but if ya gotta know,I'm posting from work and that's the default setting)

 

[black caesar]

I pay my own way. Chivalry needs to die. Sure, you can pay for our dinner on my birthday or something. But every date?? And then females wonder why men feel as if they're "owed" or "entitled" to something later on down the road (read: that night). Woman up & let loose these century old ideals.

why exactly do you feel chivalry needs to die?

Because some women claim they are independent, so why would those select women need chivalry? You can't have both.

 

[SixSickSins]

@kai-That's alright. Good deeds for good women, gentlemanly respect, etc is fine.

@amann I DO. lol.

@Cain marko hell naw lol you threatened me today. *throatpunch*

@black caesar-it's more so that I believe dating expenses should be 50/50. Nothing more, nothing less. Why should men always have to pick up the tab because society says it the right, sweet thing to do?

 

[The Prodigalson]

I think niggaz getting an independent women mixed up with selfish bitches.

 

[The Prodigalson]

I pay for everybody.. If we rolling im paying.. I do it for my niggaz.. Female friends.. Chicks I used to date.. I'm paying... Or at least I am going to make an attempt to...

When dating beautiful women.. Always remember you aint the only one tryna holla.. Why let something so miniscule as who pays for the date annoy her and prompt her to give another nigga a chance?...

Most of the dudes in her talkin about they wouldnt pay.. Would pay for a chick they really feelin without hesitation..

Some niggaz are ass backwards or just plain cheap. So the knock the next nigga.

 

[Dupac]

then you got niggaz complaining later like

"man these niggaz who paying for bitches food on dates fucking the game up fro the rest of us"

talkin about they can't take chicks out no more cuz they used to simp nigaz paying for everything....shit's crazy b

 

[black caesar]

I pay my own way. Chivalry needs to die. Sure, you can pay for our dinner on my birthday or something. But every date?? And then females wonder why men feel as if they're "owed" or "entitled" to something later on down the road (read: that night). Woman up & let loose these century old ideals.

why exactly do you feel chivalry needs to die?

Because some women claim they are independent, so why would those select women need chivalry? You can't have both.

okay if you're saying you won't do chivalrous acts for women on that "i'm independent, don't need a man for shit" b/s, but even so, why should all women have to pay for what SOME women say?

(some) men don't wanna court or woo women at all, and then they act surprised when they're not finding great catches.

Not all should have to pay for what some women say. If I ask her out on a date, I don't have a problem paying since I asked, but believe if she brings up going out I expect the same in return or at least going dutch, or is willing to leave the tip.

The woman I'm messing with now, is independent (I mean truly. She's well off) but we just look out for one another.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

one time this chick told me she wanted to pay for her own meal because then I wouldn't expect anything from her...

bitch... my time is not free...

 

[The Prodigalson]

I pay for everybody.. If we rolling im paying.. I do it for my niggaz.. Female friends.. Chicks I used to date.. I'm paying... Or at least I am going to make an attempt to...

When dating beautiful women.. Always remember you aint the only one tryna holla.. Why let something so miniscule as who pays for the date annoy her and prompt her to give another nigga a chance?...

Most of the dudes in her talkin about they wouldnt pay.. Would pay for a chick they really feelin without hesitation..

Some niggaz are ass backwards or just plain cheap. So the knock the next nigga.

Shit is stupid b... I question whether niggaz really dealt with beautiful women before.. No bad bitch that knows her worth would allow the fuckery.. A nigga straight up sayin he aint payin... How u start off a relationship like that?...

Romance without finance is bad business... Or a nuisance..

I ain't knocking a stingy nigga but don't knock a nigga that take a different approach than what they might take.

 

[black caesar]

@kai-That's alright. Good deeds for good women, gentlemanly respect, etc is fine.

@amann I DO. lol.

@Cain marko hell naw lol you threatened me today. *throatpunch*

@black caesar-it's more so that I believe dating expenses should be 50/50. Nothing more, nothing less. Why should men always have to pick up the tab because society says it the right, sweet thing to do?

I agree with 100%. I was trying to explain this to Kai. I never let society dictate my actions and beliefs.

 

[Dupac]

it's not that serious.. i ain't going out with anybody that ain't worth me paying for.....

 

[black caesar]

@kai-That's alright. Good deeds for good women, gentlemanly respect, etc is fine.

@amann I DO. lol.

@Cain marko hell naw lol you threatened me today. *throatpunch*

@black caesar-it's more so that I believe dating expenses should be 50/50. Nothing more, nothing less. Why should men always have to pick up the tab because society says it the right, sweet thing to do?

I agree with 100%. I was trying to explain this to Kai. I never let society dictate my actions and beliefs.

so i should pay for half of a dinner that i never even planned on having until you asked? it's not about the money, it's the principle of the thing. i think if the woman asks, she should pay as well. and it's totally a fallacy if you think society doesn't dictate almost every behaviour and belief we have. we are humans after all all and we wouldn't survive without society and with it comes all the societal norms, duties and expectations

As I said in response to Six's post, I don't have a problem dropping coin if I asked the lady out. If a lady asks me out, I'm assuming she's going to pay. Basically we agree with each other. Society does dictate behavior, that's why I make it a point to go against the grain like marriage.

 

[SixSickSins]

Let's not get too technical lol.

@Black caesar- You understand! I guarantee that doesn't go unnoticed with your lady. Props to you :-bd

 

[unRealLady1]

yeah there is a such thing as a gold digging nigga, he been existed.

 

[unRealLady1]

I wouldnt marry one.

 

[Joey Greco]

In my line of work, there is a 60/40 ratio with men being the majority regarding who pays for the first date..