Would you disown your gay son ?

[Lincoln]

You can't choose to be gay. It's something people are born with, so no I wouldn't disown him.

If I ever disowned a child it would be for something they had a choice in.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

So? It's not your ass. If he's practicing safe sex, gets regularly tested then that's all that matters. Being gay isn't nearly as devastating as you're making it out to be. I can't change how he feels and I refuse to disown him or condemn someone for being true to themselves especially if they're not hurting anyone else. People don't how much damage someone with your mindset can do to a child.

they do hurt themselves a lot. his life expectancy would be much lower if he chooses to live gay. suicide rate is much higher among gays. i'm not going into detail about the consequences that lifestyle has to the sphincter muscle. it is safe to say that being gay is a self-destructive lifestyle in so many ways and you are willing to support it because you buy into some bullshit society taught you.

this whole safe sex thing is a hoax, condoms been around for so long, aids is still there. and they do not even protect you from a lot of other stds. and in my opinion the government is fooling people with this safe sex talk, every doctor will confirm that certain lifestyles bear a lot higher risk to get an std than others but instead of warning to live that lifestyle they give out condoms. they fighting symptoms instead of causes.

people are dying from hiv everyday because politicians are unwilling to give up their liberal dogmas and finally tell people the truth that the root of the problem is homosexuality and promiscuity. the most successful hiv prevention program that was ever run was the abc approach in uganda. google it.

if someone still chooses to live that lifestyle it is what it is but please stop sellin people wolf tickets with that safe sex universal remedy bull crap.

 

[Manik Sona]

I aint got kids but man, I can't see "disowning" any child I produce. Sadcase when that happens.

 

[chilly]

lmao @ niggas really thinking this happens.
If that was the case almost half of the AA community would be gay.

Lmao @ niggas trying to disprove one thing and then coming right back with made up statistics.

 

[blackrain]

and why is HIV so prevalent among homosexual men in comparison to other groups?

because anal sex is more high risk than vaginal sex...

 

[blackrain]

Society and other factors. Say for example, I have a son. Im expecting him to like women. Now say im raising him and at age 10p I get locked up. Now im away from my son and he's getting raised solely by a woman. Anything that happens to him after I get locked up is my fault. So say his mother brings him around a bunch of bitter women, or gay males, or gay females and somehow that twist his reality to like men or something. Im not saying gay people don't exist or can't be gay, but as a father its up to me to keep shit real with him and protect him. Therefor I wouldn't disown my son or hate him if he was gay, but I would think I failed as a father. Come on we all came in contact with a kid where since his father ain't around he acts a little feminine because he's raised by a women, he's not gay, but without a strong male model to show him what's what, his whole life can get changed by outside forces. I just don't believe a a male is born attracted to other males naturally. Its like me believing a fish being born and hating water.....

So given that 70% of black american kids are currently born into single parent homes, and the majority of single parents are mothers, how come homosexual black males aren't outnumbering heterosexual black males? Or even coming close? I mean, given your logic all it takes for someone to be gay is to grow up around either a gay male, or a bitter women and there you have it...they'll be gay...your fish/water analogy is off...fish need water to live/breathe...as a man you don't need pussy to live it's just a great bonus feature on the dvd The Life of A Man, but it's not essential in order for somebody to live and breathe...

 

[blackrain]

they do hurt themselves a lot. his life expectancy would be much lower if he chooses to live gay. suicide rate is much higher among gays. i'm not going into detail about the consequences that lifestyle has to the sphincter muscle. it is safe to say that being gay is a self-destructive lifestyle in so many ways and you are willing to support it because you buy into some bullshit society taught you.

this whole safe sex thing is a hoax, condoms been around for so long, aids is still there. and they do not even protect you from a lot of other stds. and in my opinion the government is fooling people with this safe sex talk, every doctor will confirm that certain lifestyles bear a lot higher risk to get an std than others but instead of warning to live that lifestyle they give out condoms. they fighting symptoms instead of causes.

people are dying from hiv everyday because politicians are unwilling to give up their liberal dogmas and finally tell people the truth that the root of the problem is homosexuality and promiscuity. the most successful hiv prevention program that was ever run was the abc approach in uganda. google it.

if someone still chooses to live that lifestyle it is what it is but please stop sellin people wolf tickets with that safe sex universal remedy bull crap.

The bold, promiscuity, is the bigger issue...homosexuality has been around for a while now...it's not a blip or trend in human existence...it's how some people's brains are wired...*smh @ you saying safe sex is a hoax...so people shouldn't use condoms? shouldn't get tested regularly? or is it so long as you're having heterosexual sex safe sex shouldn't be a concern of yours?

 

[CapitalC]

Maaaan I would like to say no but it would be tough to be honest...I don't know if they're born gay or not (I can't remember making the conscious decision to love pussy)

As long as he's not on his Richard Simmons shit I think I'd be good

 

[earth two superman]

LMAO @ ICP fans being worse than faggs...........

at least with a good household to raise him, a fag will probably grow up to have a good job in fashion or broadway or something and bring home the $. wtf is an icp fan gonna do with his life?

 

[mryounggun]

Of course not, B.

 

[Disciplined InSight]

Smh @ muthafuckas thinking people are born gay....that shit is a choice.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

You can't choose to be gay. It's something people are born with, so no I wouldn't disown him.
If I ever disowned a child it would be for something they had a choice in.

This is a very reasonable post. I think we are born the way we are but can later choose what to do. It's possible for someone to disown a child for being a stupid, careless piece of shit that causes harm and problems but for sexually, I wouldn't.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

The bold, promiscuity, is the bigger issue...homosexuality has been around for a while now...it's not a blip or trend in human existence...it's how some people's brains are wired...*smh @ you saying safe sex is a hoax...so people shouldn't use condoms? shouldn't get tested regularly? or is it so long as you're having heterosexual sex safe sex shouldn't be a concern of yours?

but homosexuals are much more likely to get infected with HIV. to sell safe sex as the ultimate cure against stds is a hoax. they should start tellin people the full truth, that you shouldn't even enter these risky lifestyles at all.

if you live a monogamous & heterosexual lifestyle PLUS get tested you don't have to worry that much bout stds. you could still get it through blood transfers but chances are a lot lower. that's why i mentioned the abc approach, they teach it that way. and it worked.

 

[NothingButTheTruth]

Smh @ muthafuckas thinking people are born gay....that shit is a choice.

Cosizzle, and I thought this was common knowledge.

 

[mryounggun]

It's pretty common knowledge that you don't choose to be gay...just like you don't choose to be straight.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

To each their own beliefs but if people are born gay then what? Then shouldn't be discriminated against then. If it is a choice, still no discrimination. If they don't try to talk to me or approach, good.

 

[7figz]

It's pretty common knowledge that you don't choose to be gay...just like you don't choose to be straight.

The goal is to get people to believe this but there's just as much opinion to the contrary.

 

[mryounggun]

The goal is to get people to believe this but there's just as much opinion to the contrary.

Opinion to the contrary? Of course there are opinions to the contrary. Unless you meant 'evidence', this is a pretty idiotic statement. Hell, even if you DID mean evidence, that's still not true.

 

[7figz]

Opinion to the contrary? Of course there are opinions to the contrary. Unless you meant 'evidence', this is a pretty idiotic statement. Hell, even if you DID mean evidence, that's still not true.

I haven't been convinced by any so-called "evidence" either. Too much common sense is excluded.

If you raise your son in a confusing way (sexually) and don't curb that shit when you see it, and actually encourage the shit - by painting their nails, and letting them wear girls clothes and play with dolls, what would you expect ?

What about the ton of now "gay" people that were victims of sexual molestation - think that had anything to do with it ?

I listen to reason but niggas can't tell me how to think. There's an agenda behind the theory that people are born gay.

 

[mryounggun]

I haven't been convinced by any so-called "evidence" either. Too much common sense is excluded.

If you raise your son in a confusing way (sexually) and don't curb that shit when you see it, and actually encourage the shit - by painting their nails, and letting them wear girls clothes and play with dolls, what would you expect ?

What about the ton of now "gay" people that were victims of sexual molestation - think that had anything to do with it ?

I listen to reason but niggas can't tell me how to think. There's an agenda behind the theory that people are born gay.

Let's talk about it.

First of all, let me say this: I don't think there is any SOLID, irrefutable scientific evidence to support either opinion. So keep that in mind.

The first piece of evidence (for lack of a better word) is that you didn't choose to be straight. You like women. No one taught you to like women, shit is natural. In that same vein, some niggas just natural like other niggas and pussy, a phat ass, etc, does nothing for them.

I don't believe the molestation can turn a person gay, my nigga. Those people were already gay or just have a different relationship with sexual feelings and don't know how to process them due to whatever traumatic shit that happened to them sexually.

Some niggas are just feminine as a young age grow up to have sexual relationships with men. But I don't think there is a single person on earth to CHOOSES to be gay.