Would you disown your gay son ?

[lamontbdc]

yeah i don't agree with but if it happens it happens and why is this just for sons. i feel the same about my daughter. i won't ever disown her

 

[blackrain]

Some do, others don't...People get mad at me when I say this, but I've honestly come look at people who are born homosexual...The same way I look at people who are born with a mental or physical illness.

Just like someone can choose not to pursue the opposite sex if they're heterosexual, someone who is attracted to the same sex can choose that as well...what I don't think they can choose however, is the attraction itself...

 

[MissLeading]

Just like someone can choose not to pursue the opposite sex if they're heterosexual, someone who is attracted to the same sex can choose that as well...what I don't think they can choose however, is the attraction itself...

Right.... I highly doubt if they truly had a choice, they would choose to be gay knowing the disgust so many have for that lifestyle.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

SPIN-OFF QUESTION:

One day you come home from work and find your gay son Lance weeping with his face in his hands and a piece of paper in front of him. By looking at the paper you find out that Lance is infected with the incurable HI Virus, you heard about on the news and how it particularly affects gay men. Lance starts to get worse from day to day, he is losing weight and can't breath right anymore. After 2 years of agony what is left of him is a mess of a man. Soon after the monster finally takes it tribute and wins the fight against your beloved son.

Do you feel bad for supporting a lifestyle that ultimately lead to the death of your own flesh and blood instead of asking him to reconsider his self-destructive ways?

 

[blackrain]

SPIN-OFF QUESTION:

One day you come home from work and find your gay son Lance weeping with his face in his hands and a piece of paper in front of him. By looking at the paper you find out that Lance is infected with the incurable HI Virus, you heard about on the news and how it particularly affects gay men. Lance starts to get worse from day to day, he is losing weight and can't breath right anymore. After 2 years of agony what is left of him is a mess of a man. Soon after the monster finally takes it tribute and wins the fight against your beloved son.

Do you feel bad for supporting a lifestyle that ultimately lead to the death of your own flesh and blood instead of asking him to reconsider his self-destructive ways?

No...Should I feel bad if my son catches HIV from a woman and dies the exact same death because I supported his heterosexual lifestyle? Should I feel bad if I buy my son a car and he gets into an accident that kills himself? Should I feel bad if I let my son play football and he somehow gets paralyzed of killed on the field because I cheered him on from the sidelines?

 

[MissLeading]

SPIN-OFF QUESTION:

One day you come home from work and find your gay son Lance weeping with his face in his hands and a piece of paper in front of him. By looking at the paper you find out that Lance is infected with the incurable HI Virus, you heard about on the news and how it particularly affects gay men. Lance starts to get worse from day to day, he is losing weight and can't breath right anymore. After 2 years of agony what is left of him is a mess of a man. Soon after the monster finally takes it tribute and wins the fight against your beloved son.

Do you feel bad for supporting a lifestyle that ultimately lead to the death of your own flesh and blood instead of asking him to reconsider his self-destructive ways?

I highly doubt if Lance would have stopped being gay just because I wanted him to be.

No, I wouldn't feel bad about supporting him, I would feel bad about not teaching him the importance of safe sex.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

No...Should I feel bad if my son catches HIV from a woman and dies the exact same death because I supported his heterosexual lifestyle? Should I feel bad if I buy my son a car and he gets into an accident that kills himself? Should I feel bad if I let my son play football and he somehow gets paralyzed of killed on the field because I cheered him on from the sidelines?

Looks like someone needs some AIDS education classes:

CDC: Blacks, gays at high risk for HIV infections
Source: http://articles.cnn.com/2008-09-12/...ack-gay-men-hiv-than-white-women?_s=PM:HEALTH

Your son could still be alive if you would have warned him that his lifestyle is a very risky one and encouraged him to reconsider it.

btw I never heard of an increased risk of youth football players to get paralyzed cause their parents were cheering on the sideline (lol @ your wanton imagination)

 

[Miles HIGH]

Just like someone can choose not to pursue the opposite sex if they're heterosexual, someone who is attracted to the same sex can choose that as well...what I don't think they can choose however, is the attraction itself...

Right, I'm just sayin...I believe there's some people who can't, and there's some people who can...There's people who; whether it be cause of some kind of traumatic experience or just out of rebellion or curiosity...Choose to partake in homosexual activity or experiment with dating the same sex, and some even do it so long they fool themselves into believing that's who they really are...But yeah, I couldn't make myself attracted towards a man, and there's gay dudes who because of the way they were born can't make themselves be attracted to a woman.

 

[blackrain]

Looks like someone needs some AIDS education classes:

CDC: Blacks, gays at high risk for HIV infections
Source: http://articles.cnn.com/2008-09-12/...ack-gay-men-hiv-than-white-women?_s=PM:HEALTH

Your son could still be alive if you would have warned him that his lifestyle is a very risky one and encouraged him to reconsider it.

btw I never heard of an increased risk of youth football players to get paralyzed cause their parents were cheering on the sideline (lol @ your wanton imagination)

I know about safe sex education...I know about HIV and AIDS education...I also know that teaching my child about safe sex is a much better tool at keeping them from contracting HIV than trying to scare them into being heterosexual by saying "You'll get AIDS if you're gay"....

 

[blackrain]

Right, I'm just sayin...I believe there's some people who can't, and there's some people who can...There's people who; whether it be cause of some kind of traumatic experience or just out of rebellion or curiosity...Choose to partake in homosexual activity or experiment with dating the same sex, and some even do it so long they fool themselves into believing that's who they really are...But yeah, I couldn't make myself attracted towards a man, and there's gay dudes who because of the way they were born can't make themselves be attracted to a woman.

Yeah, some kids due to childhood abuse do get their sense of sexuality warped...but for those, the majority, of homosexuals who simply were born w/ their same sex attraction, most likely come out at different times due to how comfortable with their own sexuality they may happen to be based on their environment...either way I'm not gay so I don't sit and wonder how or what makes people gay...it's less competition for me out there w/ women so the "why/what" aspect of homosexuality is of no importance to me

 

[-Vincenzo-]

It's important to tell your kids to practice safe sex, get tested, and have they partners tested regardless if they homo or heterro

I highly doubt if Lance would have stopped being gay just because I wanted him to be.

No, I wouldn't feel bad about supporting him, I would feel bad about not teaching him the importance of safe sex.

I know about safe sex education...I know about HIV and AIDS education...I also know that teaching my child about safe sex is a much better tool at keeping them from contracting HIV than trying to scare them into being heterosexual by saying "You'll get AIDS if you're gay"....

So do you think the problem of over proportional HIV infections among gay men is the result of a shortage of condoms, not enough testing and a lack of safe sex education ?

 

[blackrain]

So do you think the problem of over proportional HIV infections among gay men is the result of a shortage of condoms, not enough testing and a lack of safe sex education ?

It's a combination of things...part of it lack of sex education, lack of testing on the part of those sexually active among many other factors that affect both homosexual and heterosexuals...

 

[-Vincenzo-]

It's a combination of things...part of it lack of sex education, lack of testing on the part of those sexually active among many other factors that affect both homosexual and heterosexuals...

and why is HIV so prevalent among homosexual men in comparison to other groups?

 

[Miles HIGH]

and why is HIV so prevalent among homosexual men in comparison to other groups?

Because a large majority of them don't use condoms...Because they fuck eachother in the ass...Come on, nigga.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

Because a large majority of them don't use condoms...Because they fuck eachother in the ass...Come on, nigga.

haha that's my point, their way of sex is an open invitation to HIV. not only that it also fucks up other body functions i don't want to talk in detail bout, shit is just sick and definitely neither healthy nor natural.

 

[chilly]

if you didn't have to choose to like women...what makes you think a gay person just woke up one day and decided they're gay?

Society and other factors. Say for example, I have a son. Im expecting him to like women. Now say im raising him and at age 10p I get locked up. Now im away from my son and he's getting raised solely by a woman. Anything that happens to him after I get locked up is my fault. So say his mother brings him around a bunch of bitter women, or gay males, or gay females and somehow that twist his reality to like men or something. Im not saying gay people don't exist or can't be gay, but as a father its up to me to keep shit real with him and protect him. Therefor I wouldn't disown my son or hate him if he was gay, but I would think I failed as a father. Come on we all came in contact with a kid where since his father ain't around he acts a little feminine because he's raised by a women, he's not gay, but without a strong male model to show him what's what, his whole life can get changed by outside forces. I just don't believe a a male is born attracted to other males naturally. Its like me believing a fish being born and hating water.....

 

[darryl_jenks]

Society and other factors. Say for example, I have a son. Im expecting him to like women. Now say im raising him and at age 10p I get locked up. Now im away from my son and he's getting raised solely by a woman. Anything that happens to him after I get locked up is my fault. So say his mother brings him around a bunch of bitter women, or gay males, or gay females and somehow that twist his reality to like men or something. Im not saying gay people don't exist or can't be gay, but as a father its up to me to keep shit real with him and protect him. Therefor I wouldn't disown my son or hate him if he was gay, but I would think I failed as a father. Come on we all came in contact with a kid where since his father ain't around he acts a little feminine because he's raised by a women, he's not gay, but without a strong male model to show him what's what, his whole life can get changed by outside forces. I just don't believe a a male is born attracted to other males naturally. Its like me believing a fish being born and hating water.....

lmao @ niggas really thinking this happens.
If that was the case almost half of the AA community would be gay.

 

[R.D.]

lmao @ niggas really thinking this happens.
If that was the case almost half of the AA community would be gay.

It definitely does. The way a child is raised shapes a lot of shit in his life. Everybody know them dudes who you can tell grew up w/o a father. I don't think you can be born gay and even if im wrong, I know half of the people out here living that life weren't.

 

[MissLeading]

haha that's my point, their way of sex is an open invitation to HIV. not only that it also fucks up other body functions i don't want to talk in detail bout, shit is just sick and definitely neither healthy nor natural.

So? It's not your ass. If he's practicing safe sex, gets regularly tested then that's all that matters. Being gay isn't nearly as devastating as you're making it out to be. I can't change how he feels and I refuse to disown him or condemn someone for being true to themselves especially if they're not hurting anyone else. People don't how much damage someone with your mindset can do to a child.

 

[MissLeading]

It definitely does. The way a child is raised shapes a lot of shit in his life. Everybody know them dudes who you can tell grew up w/o a father. I don't think you can be born gay and even if im wrong, I know half of the people out here living that life weren't.

Honestly I do believe you can be born gay but I also believe being molested can also affect a Childs sexuality. Some gay people I know have admitted to being molested as a child.