Would u be okay with your s/o having sex with you once a week?

[Crude_]

Man marriage sounds hard as fuck lol...yall folks got the kid scared to say "I do"

Marriage can be as hard or easy as you make it bro.

The key component is making sure you have a spouse that shares a great deal of your lifestyle views, willing to compromise at times, and is willing to stick with you when things get tough.

A lot of men and women have the issues they do because they didn't choose the right person.

Unequal yoke is what they are in other words.

 

[Knock_Twice]

My thing is what happens when "one doesn't want to do for the other" then what...

I watched divorce court and the shit I see on there on why they are getting a divorce is petty things (and granted it's not just one thing) so how's one to live in misery for such time to death...

I just wanna know how married folks go through their day when things, you know someone that you love wont and isn't' willing to compromise on some of the things you ask them to do..

Like the whole 2 x sex a week thing...your husband or wife (like myself) thinks about sex all the time, and now you've cut him or her down to 2 times...is he or she wrong for going out and finding it else where?? even after the talk

 

[blakfyahking]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

Personally I'd call her out on her actions and give her time to straighten up.

If the behavior persisted I'd give her a little soft ultimatum.

I don't care for ultimatums, BUT sometimes they serve as a necessary wake up call to loved ones.

LOL @ the bolded

so what do you do if she ignores your ultimatum and you gave her months/years to get right?

what do you do next?

 

[blakfyahking]

Man marriage sounds hard as fuck lol...yall folks got the kid scared to say "I do"

only do it if she is your best option

don't pay attention to these married niggaz getting nervous every time I post in one of these threads haha

if shorty is worth it then you should make that leap

 

[Kat]

Keep in mind, IC Kat is an exaggerated, sometimes troll-esque, OPEN version of the real Kat.

He knows that.

Actions speak louder than posts.

Posting is an action.

Not an action he gives a shit about though.

 

[Knock_Twice]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

Personally I'd call her out on her actions and give her time to straighten up.

If the behavior persisted I'd give her a little soft ultimatum.

I don't care for ultimatums, BUT sometimes they serve as a necessary wake up call to loved ones.

LOL @ the bolded

so what do you do if she ignores your ultimatum and you gave her months/years to get right?

what do you do next?

Lol how long do you give a person to get it right...dude said years..shid 48hrs is long enough lol...man knowing me..smh

 

[Bussy_Getta]

No

 

[Crude_]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

Personally I'd call her out on her actions and give her time to straighten up.

If the behavior persisted I'd give her a little soft ultimatum.

I don't care for ultimatums, BUT sometimes they serve as a necessary wake up call to loved ones.

LOL @ the bolded

so what do you do if she ignores your ultimatum and you gave her months/years to get right?

what do you do next?

If its that important to me I'd tell her to get her shit together or I'm walking.

I'm the type of guy that if I'm passionate enough behind a cause I will stand behind it until the end.

If she sees its that important to me and loves me like she says she does then I'm sure she will at the very least meet me halfway.

When a woman loves you I mean truly loves you its not much they wouldn't do for you that's within reason.

I think having sex with me more frequently than once a week is something that's very reasonable.

 

[blakfyahking]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

Personally I'd call her out on her actions and give her time to straighten up.

If the behavior persisted I'd give her a little soft ultimatum.

I don't care for ultimatums, BUT sometimes they serve as a necessary wake up call to loved ones.

LOL @ the bolded

so what do you do if she ignores your ultimatum and you gave her months/years to get right?

what do you do next?

If its that important to me I'd tell her to get her shit together or I'm walking.

I'm the type of guy that if I'm passionate enough behind a cause I will stand behind it until the end.

If she sees its that important to me and loves me like she says she does then I'm sure she will at the very least meet me halfway.

When a woman loves you I mean truly loves you its not much they wouldn't do for you that's within reason.

I think having sex with me more frequently than once a week is something that's very reasonable.

champ that's lip service.........if she truly loved you it wouldn't take ultimatums to motivate her in the 1st place

so when you start the process of getting a divorce, you gon wait up towards a year with dry dick in the meantime?

what about the kids? you taking them out of their home, and household with mom/dad just cause moms too lazy to bust it open?

you gon tell your son :

"sorry youngin, you got to move outta your room to live in this shitty apt cause ya moms don't want to twerk no more"

you cats are not being real here

 

[Crude_]

Man marriage sounds hard as fuck lol...yall folks got the kid scared to say "I do"

if shorty is worth it then you should make that leap

Cosign this part.

A lot of women are available but its all about choosing the right woman.

My wife isn't the best I've had in every category but overall as a package she is second to none.

There is no way you going to be with someone years and years and not deal with some shit even with the best of spouses will test your nerves at times.

When you find the right woman slow down and make an honest woman out of her because remember you not going to be no young nigga forever.

Eventually you go from player to that old nigga that females are using for extra benefits (sugar daddy).

Make sure you get all that playa shit out your system first though.

 

[Crude_]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

Personally I'd call her out on her actions and give her time to straighten up.

If the behavior persisted I'd give her a little soft ultimatum.

I don't care for ultimatums, BUT sometimes they serve as a necessary wake up call to loved ones.

LOL @ the bolded

so what do you do if she ignores your ultimatum and you gave her months/years to get right?

what do you do next?

If its that important to me I'd tell her to get her shit together or I'm walking.

I'm the type of guy that if I'm passionate enough behind a cause I will stand behind it until the end.

If she sees its that important to me and loves me like she says she does then I'm sure she will at the very least meet me halfway.

When a woman loves you I mean truly loves you its not much they wouldn't do for you that's within reason.

I think having sex with me more frequently than once a week is something that's very reasonable.

champ that's lip service.........if she truly loved you it wouldn't take ultimatums to motivate her in the 1st place

so when you start the process of getting a divorce, you gon wait up towards a year with dry dick in the meantime?

what about the kids? you taking them out of their home, and household with mom/dad just cause moms too lazy to bust it open?

you gon tell your son :

"sorry youngin, you got to move outta your room to live in this shitty apt cause ya moms don't want to twerk no more"

you cats are not being real here

No matter how much someone loves you after you been together for some years complacency sets in.

Bring it to her attention and let her choose to act accordingly or you move on depending on the importance you place on it.

I'd get the lotion and take care of myself in the meanwhile. (N/H)

As far as the kids I've always said I would want joint custody in a situation such as this.

I would tell my child mommy and daddy are just having our differences kids don't need to know everything.

Some things are better left between adults.

Going out and cheating might actually give her ground to leave you and have you paying alimony and child support depending on how much you make.

Personally I'd try to stay away from cheating all together.

I've seem plenty of situations were the woman got nearly everything behind some man not being able to keep his urges in check.

I love pussy but I could hold off on it a while before I jeopardized my future for it.

 

[mryounggun]

if the sex is good, i don't understand why at least 4 times a week is asking too much? i do things every day that give me way less pleasure than sex. why is sex everyday made to seem like this undoable thing? it's very doable

I agree with this for the people who WANT sex 4 times a week. No reason not to, if at all possible. For a nigga like me, I got no desire to fuck 4 times a week on a consistent basis.

 

[BrazilianHairMoney]

hmm in relationships I'm pretty consistent.. but have been in 3 years droughts, not fucking anyone not one person at all.... it take me a certain amount of time to move on to another partner.. at least 1 year with out sex at all. I don't even like "new" or lunch niggas (whatever ya'll call it) for-real.. it depend on that female I guess.

 

[Chi Snow]

Do I know the nigga she fucking the other 6 days outta the week?

 

[Kyle_Lurker]

Keep in mind, IC Kat is an exaggerated, sometimes troll-esque, OPEN version of the real Kat.

He knows that.

Actions speak louder than posts.

So what about those personal emails wit chuck or whoever bout wanting to let ur freak flag fly badly but u cant cuz u got a man but make sure to throw it in his face or some shit? I could be making this up cuz i really dont remember but i do remember reading that like u aint shit lol

Thats seemed a bit sus..

Serious question

 

[blakfyahking]

No matter how much someone loves you after you been together for some years complacency sets in.

Bring it to her attention and let her choose to act accordingly or you move on depending on the importance you place on it.

I'd get the lotion and take care of myself in the meanwhile. (N/H)

As far as the kids I've always said I would want joint custody in a situation such as this.

I would tell my child mommy and daddy are just having our differences kids don't need to know everything.

Some things are better left between adults.

Going out and cheating might actually give her ground to leave you and have you paying alimony and child support depending on how much you make.

Personally I'd try to stay away from cheating all together.

I've seem plenty of situations were the woman got nearly everything behind some man not being able to keep his urges in check.

I love pussy but I could hold off on it a while before I jeopardized my future for it.

I don't understand.............how would you be jeopardizing your future for pussy in this situation?

and you seriously saying you a grown ass man married to a selfish female...............your solution is that you gon beat ya dick until the divorce is done

why? out of pride just to seem honorable? that sound like some more idealistic bullshit but I digress

marriage ain't prison haha............nothing would stop you when you free to just take the next female out to entertain yourself

and you not being realistic with the custody thing, getting a divorce changes your families' lifestyle

unless you a millionaire nigga who can just buy his own house tomorrow, ya kids will have to downgrade to some extent because you splitting a household in half

you think that's fair to the kids just cause she being prideful?

 

[Rasta.]

A lot of ladies in here and the crude dude must have low sex drives Smh...30 minutes every other day for sex is too much? We wouldn't even be saying I do if a woman was that stingy during dating

 

[mryounggun]

if the sex is good, i don't understand why at least 4 times a week is asking too much? i do things every day that give me way less pleasure than sex. why is sex everyday made to seem like this undoable thing? it's very doable

I agree with this for the people who WANT sex 4 times a week. No reason not to, if at all possible. For a nigga like me, I got no desire to fuck 4 times a week on a consistent basis.

how many times do yo want it on a consistent basis?

Twice a week works out great for me. If I go a lil stretch with 1 a week, I ain't tripping.

 

[BrazilianHairMoney]

it don't really mean she cheating.. in personal evaluation.. sex have to stop with one person for at least a year, for me to start thinking about "new".. a lot of men jump to conclusion they are being cheated on.. is the relationship long distance? thats another question.

 

[Kyle_Lurker]

if the sex is good, i don't understand why at least 4 times a week is asking too much? i do things every day that give me way less pleasure than sex. why is sex everyday made to seem like this undoable thing? it's very doable

I think it has to do wit the bolded and may be another key to these responses.

Good/pleasurable sex is a drug, sure u like to smoke that bomb but aint nothing wrong when u aint tryin to go all out and smoke some reggie lol did that make sense? Prolly not haha

Maybe some couples just arent sexually compatible enough

to want it that much. Hell OB make it seem like its a chore to have monkey sex for 15 mins a day or everyother day lol

Maybe you arent attracted to her/him as u once were, weight gain and such But i aint bout to sit here and figure yall niggas out cuz all i know is we gets it in.