Would u be okay with your s/o having sex with you once a week?

[Meta_Conscious]

lying ass mafuckas...

 

[blakfyahking]

Kat why in the hell you in a relationship ma? Straight up. It's like you lying to yourself. Is it for your kid or something? Cause you like to fuck and fuck often. The way you talk, I always wonder why you got a man? Why you aren't out living that playa playa life?

it actually makes sense for Kat to be in a relationship

I think you should be questioning why does her man continue to cuff her haha

and if he good with it, what's the problem

/no cape

Is that what you got from that post?

No, I'm all for communication. If it's something you want done, speak on it. After attempting to correct the situation and it doesn't get any better, you gotta really Eva busy ecaluate what's most important.

Honestly tly tlytly, I'd rather my husband divorce me than to cheat on me. If I'm not holding up my end of the bargain, by all means, leave me. Don't cheat, and lust for another, only to come back home to me and our bed.

so what's really important? living in misery cause all the other blocks are checked?

Ion care who you are, if you are sexually deprived in a relationship (especially a marriage).........only bad shit is going to happen in the end......I don't care how honorable you aspire to be

it ain't that easy to just get a divorce when it affects more than just the two people who ain't fucking

in the meantime what sense does it make to feel guilty for cheating when the other person doesn't feel guilty for not doing their part?

I would hope a nigga wouldn't be out there cheating and then coming home to lay in the bed like shit is normal LOL

And again, that's marriage. Good, bad, indifferent, fucked up, wonderful, stank... Whatever you wanna put on it, that's marriage. If not having sex means that much to you, then guess what? That's what means the most to you on top of everything else, and that should be the basis for you to ride it out or coast it alone.

If you can honestly walk away from your marriage because the sex ain't what it use to be, then walk. Find yourself someone that is compatible to your needs and be happy that everything has worked in your favor. No need in feeling guilty about being a fucked up person because when you've done all you could do, said all you could say, and the shit is shit is still broken, you can walk away with a clear conscious. No need for all of that, when you can come out clean, and have the other person wishing they would have done things differently.

And naw, divorce is never easy when it comes to babies, bills, and a life that was built together. That why I said you have to really fucking evaluate what's most important, and find a way to deal. If you can't, then... Bye Baby.

in my case I did walk away.......and yeah sex alone is enough to kill a relationship (not saying other factors didn't apply)

just know that niggaz dont get married to live like a shaolin monk

I just don't see how a woman could sit on her twat and believe it's so golden that a nigga wouldn't dare think to cheat on her.........unless she been raised on fairytales haha

and realistically a divorce doesn't happen in a day...........you really expect a nigga to wait almost up to a year before he starts to fuck on something else? nah that just ain't realistic shorty

 

[Kat]

Keep in mind, IC Kat is an exaggerated, sometimes troll-esque, OPEN version of the real Kat.

He knows that.

Actions speak louder than posts.

 

[blakfyahking]

I'm keep my further opinions to myself but I will just say that divorce wouldn't not be an option for me unless my health or safety was threatened.

I took my vows through thickness and thin.

When shit gets real a lot of folks just want to dead the situation and move on, but that would be an absolute last case scenario for me.

who gets married and doesn't do this tho?

you think only certain types of people decide to take their marriage vows seriously?

you really think the nigga cheating on his wife right now ain't say the same idealistic shit back in day haha

did your mom raise you to think it was cool to cheat on ya wife?

 

[MeTaL]

Keep in mind, IC Kat is an exaggerated, sometimes troll-esque, OPEN version of the real Kat.

He knows that.

Actions speak louder than posts.

How about I slap your troll-esque exaggerated ass in the head..and force you to buy me some skittles.

 

[Kat]

You aren't gonna do shit.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

I'm keep my further opinions to myself but I will just say that divorce wouldn't not be an option for me unless my health or safety was threatened.

I took my vows through thickness and thin.

When shit gets real a lot of folks just want to dead the situation and move on, but that would be an absolute last case scenario for me.

who gets married and doesn't do this tho?

you think only certain types of people decide to take their marriage vows seriously?

you really think the nigga cheating on his wife right now ain't say the same idealistic shit back in day haha

did your mom raise you to think it was cool to cheat on ya wife?

You know how many people would LOVE to have sex twice a week? You really sitting up here talkin bout divorcing somebody over it? You spoiled brat!

 

[Crude_]

I'm keep my further opinions to myself but I will just say that divorce wouldn't not be an option for me unless my health or safety was threatened.

I took my vows through thickness and thin.

When shit gets real a lot of folks just want to dead the situation and move on, but that would be an absolute last case scenario for me.

who gets married and doesn't do this tho?

you think only certain types of people decide to take their marriage vows seriously?

you really think the nigga cheating on his wife right now ain't say the same idealistic shit back in day haha

did your mom raise you to think it was cool to cheat on ya wife?

Bro trust me I understand exactly where coming from and agree with you to an extent.

I agree with you, but I won't get into my reasons why because I don't feel like trying to defend my point with those in here that I'm sure won't agree.

I think most men and women go into marriages with high expectations of their spouse, BUT it will come a point in any marriage that the two spouses completely disagree on something.

This can do one of two things....

The first of which is cause a disconnect in their marriage or the other or second of which that can help them figure out what the problem is, what each other wants, and come to a reasonable compromise.

Unlike many I don't think cheating is the be all end all in a relationship.

I do not cheat on my wife, never have, and I don't plan to, BUT depending on the circumstances I DO believe people deserve a second chance and sometimes even more than that depending on the situation.

I think infidelity is wrong, BUT I also think sometimes people are pushed into those situations because they have a spouse who isn't meeting their needs.

That isn't always the case though.

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

 

[blakfyahking]

I'm keep my further opinions to myself but I will just say that divorce wouldn't not be an option for me unless my health or safety was threatened.

I took my vows through thickness and thin.

When shit gets real a lot of folks just want to dead the situation and move on, but that would be an absolute last case scenario for me.

who gets married and doesn't do this tho?

you think only certain types of people decide to take their marriage vows seriously?

you really think the nigga cheating on his wife right now ain't say the same idealistic shit back in day haha

did your mom raise you to think it was cool to cheat on ya wife?

You know how many people would LOVE to have sex twice a week? You really sitting up here talkin bout divorcing somebody over it? You spoiled brat!

I feel bad for those people

and shorty you talmbout twice a week without at least some gooseneck in between time.......shiiiittttt

I hope your boy ain't out there competing with me for these loose women LOL

haha @ all these nightclubs and strip clubs full of bored married folk

I see why now after looking at this thread...........lonely housewives and married depressed niggaz with desert dick throwing their mortgage money on some broad dancing on stage

shit is hilarious to me

 

[Kat]

Lonely housewives are throwing money at strippers?

Where the fuck is that happening at?

 

[MeTaL]

You aren't gonna do shit.

Oh really?? Is that so?? I am gone get your ass one day, best believe, and you going give me gotdamn skittles.

 

[Kat]

You want Skittles you gonna have to taste this rainbow.

 

[blakfyahking]

Lonely housewives are throwing money at strippers?

Where the fuck is that happening at?

it's some out there haha..........but I was mostly talking about the married men

married women tend to flock in the nightclubs

 

[Dupac]

kat tryna fuck meTaL

 

[Kat]

lmao..nah, I just like wordgames. He set himself up for that one.

 

[blakfyahking]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

 

[Knock_Twice]

Man marriage sounds hard as fuck lol...yall folks got the kid scared to say "I do"

 

[Crude_]

Some cheating is about selfishness, BUT in some situations some people don't take care of home and invite that type of behavior into their relationship by doing so.

let me be clear, cheating is always about selfishness

but sometimes a little selfishness isn't wrong..........I mean if you ain't going take care of yourself, then who will

especially if you got a spouse who took vows promising to take care of you but even he/she left you hanging

so what do you do?

I presume no man goes into a marriage planning to cheat considering what you already give up to get married in the 1st place

Personally I'd call her out on her actions and give her time to straighten up.

If the behavior persisted I'd give her a little soft ultimatum.

I don't care for ultimatums, BUT sometimes they serve as a necessary wake up call to loved ones.

 

[LUClEN]

Keep in mind, IC Kat is an exaggerated, sometimes troll-esque, OPEN version of the real Kat.

He knows that.

Actions speak louder than posts.

Posting is an action.

 

[Kat]

Man marriage sounds hard as fuck lol...yall folks got the kid scared to say "I do"

I'm not married, but I feel like this is what the shit feels like...I think it's all about your frame of mind when you enter into marriage/long term commitment.

You can't tell me for nothing that these folks married for 50+ ain't been through some shit together, probably forgave some shit a time or two as well.

A spouse to me is someone that navigates through life at your side, good, bad, and ugly.

It's not a fucking fairy tale.