Would u be okay with your s/o having sex with you once a week?

[Kat]

smh poor Tar

lol..poor Tar what?

Do you think he cares if I truly feel like sucking dick at 1 in the morning long as he gets his nut?

Nah..poor Tar nothing.

 

[Crude_]

That love and loyalty shit is only going to keep a man at bay for so long.

Or woman.

Put in work, even if you don't feel like it sometimes.

Fake it till you make it.

I actually agree with this pride is a powerful thing.

Sometimes you need to swallow your pride and do something that you don't want to do (at times) to keep your loved one happy.

 

[ms.jones]

When you've got years invested into someone, having sex everyday doesn't become St s important as maintaining the foundation of that relationship. Now granted, sex does play a part in any healthy relationship however, it should not be the focal point.

How selfish is it to say if your wife/SO isn't giving it to you everyday or every other day, you gonna fuck off on her? Was that the only reason why you got with her in the first place? Cause she fucking? Psssh...

If she takes care of home, giving you a place of peace, a place of softness in this hard world, and being the neck to support you as the head, why should it even matter that much if you get your dick wet once or twice a week?

I agree with this for the most part.

If you been with someone for years a strong and healthy relationship isn't built on sex.

I do however believe if the wife or husband has an issue sexually then they should consult the other party about their issue.

To go out in cheat on a spouse due to this is petty, immature, and says a lot about you as a person if you're married or in a serious relationship.

I do think sometimes men and women get comfortable in their situation and start half assing.

Same little freaky shit you did to get that man or woman needs to be the same little freaky shit you continue to do.

Another thing I've learned in relationships is don't start anything you don't intend to keep up.

I agree. Speak up, and voice your issue in that relationship. If it's sex, finances, they way they keep house... If it's an issue, speak on it. A closed mouth does not get fed.

In the case of this thread, it isn't so much the freakiness of the sex than it is the consistency of it. Again, when you got years into it, consistency tends to scale back a bit. Doesn't mean the freakiness isn't there, tho. All the humping done in the prior years more than make up for that twice a week and blow job in between lovin'.

 

[blakfyahking]

When you've got years invested into someone, having sex everyday doesn't become St s important as maintaining the foundation of that relationship. Now granted, sex does play a part in any healthy relationship however, it should not be the focal point.

How selfish is it to say if your wife/SO isn't giving it to you everyday or every other day, you gonna fuck off on her? Was that the only reason why you got with her in the first place? Cause she fucking? Psssh...

If she takes care of home, giving you a place of peace, a place of softness in this hard world, and being the neck to support you as the head, why should it even matter that much if you get your dick wet once or twice a week?

I agree with this for the most part.

If you been with someone for years a strong and healthy relationship isn't built on sex.

I do however believe if the wife or husband has an issue sexually then they should consult the other party about their issue.

To go out in cheat on a spouse due to this is petty, immature, and says a lot about you as a person if you're married or in a serious relationship.

I do think sometimes men and women get comfortable in their situation and start half assing.

Same little freaky shit you did to get that man or woman needs to be the same little freaky shit you continue to do.

Another thing I've learned in relationships is don't start anything you don't intend to keep up.

I agree. Speak up, and voice your issue in that relationship. If it's sex, finances, they way they keep house... If it's an issue, speak on it. A closed mouth does not get fed.

In the case of this thread, it isn't so much the freakiness of the sex than it is the consistency of it. Again, when you got years into it, consistency tends to scale back a bit. Doesn't mean the freakiness isn't there, tho. All the humping done in the prior years more than make up for that twice a week and blow job in between lovin'.

ROFL.......you really think niggaz just sit there sexually frustrated and never say shit?

if he only communicated his feelings she would just snap and work it out? haha

there's no way you are that naive

it's not like a mofo is asking his spouse to do something that she shouldn't already be wanting to do anyways

sometimes as much as people have good intentions, they still come up short

this is real life man

 

[Meta_Conscious]

every Kai post should be accompanied by a Maxwell song...

 

[ms.jones]

When you've got years invested into someone, having sex everyday doesn't become as important as maintaining the foundation of that relationship. Now granted, sex does play a part in any healthy relationship however, it should not be the focal point.

How selfish is it to say if your wife/SO isn't giving it to you everyday or every other day, you gonna fuck off on her? Was that the only reason why you got with her in the first place? Cause she fucking? Psssh...

If she takes care of home, giving you a place of peace, a place of softness in this hard world, and being the neck to support you as the head, why should it even matter that much if you get your dick wet once or twice a week?

sounds that simple don't it? haha

but let's not pretend like women don't use sex as a weapon especially in a marriage when mofos got kids and their livelihood on the line

same way she is expected to provide certain things that only a good woman can provide........doesn't the same logic apply to the man as well?

what if he provides her what she needs and more, but she still don't wanna crack that thang open? nigga putting in constant work just so she can treat the puss like a bank vault at random will.......fuck that

how long is a nigga supposed to simp IC chicks in frustration before he gets tired of jerking off to random nudes?

you damned if you do and damned if you don't IMO

but you still only live once mayne

That's marriage for ya ass. Good, bad or indifferent, that's what you signed up for, and a promise you said you would keep.

 

[blakfyahking]

When you've got years invested into someone, having sex everyday doesn't become as important as maintaining the foundation of that relationship. Now granted, sex does play a part in any healthy relationship however, it should not be the focal point.

How selfish is it to say if your wife/SO isn't giving it to you everyday or every other day, you gonna fuck off on her? Was that the only reason why you got with her in the first place? Cause she fucking? Psssh...

If she takes care of home, giving you a place of peace, a place of softness in this hard world, and being the neck to support you as the head, why should it even matter that much if you get your dick wet once or twice a week?

sounds that simple don't it? haha

but let's not pretend like women don't use sex as a weapon especially in a marriage when mofos got kids and their livelihood on the line

same way she is expected to provide certain things that only a good woman can provide........doesn't the same logic apply to the man as well?

what if he provides her what she needs and more, but she still don't wanna crack that thang open? nigga putting in constant work just so she can treat the puss like a bank vault at random will.......fuck that

how long is a nigga supposed to simp IC chicks in frustration before he gets tired of jerking off to random nudes?

you damned if you do and damned if you don't IMO

but you still only live once mayne

That's marriage for ya ass. Good, bad or indifferent, that's what you signed up for, and a promise you said you would keep.

so it's ok for one person to switch up the rules

but not okay for the other?

is that what you saying?

 

[ms.jones]

When you've got years invested into someone, having sex everyday doesn't become St s important as maintaining the foundation of that relationship. Now granted, sex does play a part in any healthy relationship however, it should not be the focal point.

How selfish is it to say if your wife/SO isn't giving it to you everyday or every other day, you gonna fuck off on her? Was that the only reason why you got with her in the first place? Cause she fucking? Psssh...

If she takes care of home, giving you a place of peace, a place of softness in this hard world, and being the neck to support you as the head, why should it even matter that much if you get your dick wet once or twice a week?

I agree with this for the most part.

If you been with someone for years a strong and healthy relationship isn't built on sex.

I do however believe if the wife or husband has an issue sexually then they should consult the other party about their issue.

To go out in cheat on a spouse due to this is petty, immature, and says a lot about you as a person if you're married or in a serious relationship.

I do think sometimes men and women get comfortable in their situation and start half assing.

Same little freaky shit you did to get that man or woman needs to be the same little freaky shit you continue to do.

Another thing I've learned in relationships is don't start anything you don't intend to keep up.

I agree. Speak up, and voice your issue in that relationship. If it's sex, finances, they way they keep house... If it's an issue, speak on it. A closed mouth does not get fed.

In the case of this thread, it isn't so much the freakiness of the sex than it is the consistency of it. Again, when you got years into it, consistency tends to scale back a bit. Doesn't mean the freakiness isn't there, tho. All the humping done in the prior years more than make up for that twice a week and blow job in between lovin'.

ROFL.......you really think niggaz just sit there sexually frustrated and never say shit?

if he only communicated his feelings she would just snap and work it out? haha

there's no way you are that naive

it's not like a mofo is asking his spouse to do something that she shouldn't already be wanting to do anyways

sometimes as much as people have good intentions, they still come up short

this is real life man

Is that what you got from that post?

No, I'm all for communication. If it's something you want done, speak on it. After attempting to correct the situation and it doesn't get any better, you gotta really evaluate what's most important.

Honestly, I'd rather my husband divorce me than to cheat on me. If I'm not holding up my end of the bargain, by all means, leave me. Don't cheat, and lust for another, only to come back home to me and our bed.

 

[Crude_]

I see where BOTH of yall are coming from and I kinda got mixed thoughts on it.

 

[ms.jones]

When you've got years invested into someone, having sex everyday doesn't become as important as maintaining the foundation of that relationship. Now granted, sex does play a part in any healthy relationship however, it should not be the focal point.

How selfish is it to say if your wife/SO isn't giving it to you everyday or every other day, you gonna fuck off on her? Was that the only reason why you got with her in the first place? Cause she fucking? Psssh...

If she takes care of home, giving you a place of peace, a place of softness in this hard world, and being the neck to support you as the head, why should it even matter that much if you get your dick wet once or twice a week?

sounds that simple don't it? haha

but let's not pretend like women don't use sex as a weapon especially in a marriage when mofos got kids and their livelihood on the line

same way she is expected to provide certain things that only a good woman can provide........doesn't the same logic apply to the man as well?

what if he provides her what she needs and more, but she still don't wanna crack that thang open? nigga putting in constant work just so she can treat the puss like a bank vault at random will.......fuck that

how long is a nigga supposed to simp IC chicks in frustration before he gets tired of jerking off to random nudes?

you damned if you do and damned if you don't IMO

but you still only live once mayne

That's marriage for ya ass. Good, bad or indifferent, that's what you signed up for, and a promise you said you would keep.

so it's ok for one person to switch up the rules

but not okay for the other?

is that what you saying?

Not at all. What I am saying is, marriage puts you in a position where you are at the mercy and will of another, with very limited options.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

I feel sorry for some people in a relationship and only fucking once or twice a week. That shit is terrible. I don't see how you do it.

 

[Ol Jay's]

smh poor Tar

lol..poor Tar what?

Do you think he cares if I truly feel like sucking dick at 1 in the morning long as he gets his nut?

Nah..poor Tar nothing.

"fake it til you make it"- @Kat

"That loyalty and love shit is only going to keep a woman at bay for so long" & - @Kat

 

[Kat]

That's life..get out your feelings.

And it goes both ways.

 

[blakfyahking]

Is that what you got from that post?

No, I'm all for communication. If it's something you want done, speak on it. After attempting to correct the situation and it doesn't get any better, you gotta really evaluate what's most important.

Honestly, I'd rather my husband divorce me than to cheat on me. If I'm not holding up my end of the bargain, by all means, leave me. Don't cheat, and lust for another, only to come back home to me and our bed.

so what's really important? living in misery cause all the other blocks are checked?

Ion care who you are, if you are sexually deprived in a relationship (especially a marriage).........only bad shit is going to happen in the end......I don't care how honorable you aspire to be

it ain't that easy to just get a divorce when it affects more than just the two people who ain't fucking

in the meantime what sense does it make to feel guilty for cheating when the other person doesn't feel guilty for not doing their part?

I would hope a nigga wouldn't be out there cheating and then coming home to lay in the bed like shit is normal LOL

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Kat why in the hell you in a relationship ma? Straight up. It's like you lying to yourself. Is it for your kid or something? Cause you like to fuck and fuck often. The way you talk, I always wonder why you got a man? Why you aren't out living that playa playa life?

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Kat why in the hell you in a relationship ma? Straight up. It's like you lying to yourself. Is it for your kid or something? Cause you like to fuck and fuck often. The way you talk, I always wonder why you got a man? Why you aren't out living that slut life?

fixed

 

[ms.jones]

Is that what you got from that post?

No, I'm all for communication. If it's something you want done, speak on it. After attempting to correct the situation and it doesn't get any better, you gotta really Eva busy ecaluate what's most important.

Honestly tly tlytly, I'd rather my husband divorce me than to cheat on me. If I'm not holding up my end of the bargain, by all means, leave me. Don't cheat, and lust for another, only to come back home to me and our bed.

so what's really important? living in misery cause all the other blocks are checked?

Ion care who you are, if you are sexually deprived in a relationship (especially a marriage).........only bad shit is going to happen in the end......I don't care how honorable you aspire to be

it ain't that easy to just get a divorce when it affects more than just the two people who ain't fucking

in the meantime what sense does it make to feel guilty for cheating when the other person doesn't feel guilty for not doing their part?

I would hope a nigga wouldn't be out there cheating and then coming home to lay in the bed like shit is normal LOL

And again, that's marriage. Good, bad, indifferent, fucked up, wonderful, stank... Whatever you wanna put on it, that's marriage. If not having sex means that much to you, then guess what? That's what means the most to you on top of everything else, and that should be the basis for you to ride it out or coast it alone.

If you can honestly walk away from your marriage because the sex ain't what it use to be, then walk. Find yourself someone that is compatible to your needs and be happy that everything has worked in your favor. No need in feeling guilty about being a fucked up person because when you've done all you could do, said all you could say, and the shit is shit is still broken, you can walk away with a clear conscious. No need for all of that, when you can come out clean, and have the other person wishing they would have done things differently.

And naw, divorce is never easy when it comes to babies, bills, and a life that was built together. That why I said you have to really fucking evaluate what's most important, and find a way to deal. If you can't, then... Bye Baby.

 

[Crude_]

I'm keep my further opinions to myself but I will just say that divorce wouldn't not be an option for me unless my health or safety was threatened.

I took my vows through thickness and thin.

When shit gets real a lot of folks just want to dead the situation and move on, but that would be an absolute last case scenario for me.

 

[Kat]

Kat why in the hell you in a relationship ma? Straight up. It's like you lying to yourself. Is it for your kid or something? Cause you like to fuck and fuck often. The way you talk, I always wonder why you got a man? Why you aren't out living that playa playa life?

I'm in a relationship because I love him. That's my best friend and my partner in crime..we have fun together and we mesh well when it comes to running a home too. A relationship is more than just sex, even my hot ass isn't that naive.

But the wheels are in motion..we're just getting started.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

I'm keep my further opinions to myself but I will just say that divorce wouldn't not be an option for me unless my health or safety was threatened.

I took my vows through thickness and thin.

When shit gets real a lot of folks just want to dead the situation and move on, but that would be an absolute last case scenario for me.

COSIGN THIS BROTHER!!!