Why Are People So Selfish?!?! (the ho thread)

[StillFaggyAF]

I'm still trippin off niggas caping for ho behavior...

Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?

If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.

The problem niggas like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.

I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....

@du du already answered tho

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

I'm still trippin off niggas caping for ho behavior...

Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?

If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.

The problem niggas like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.

I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....

@du du already answered tho

When?

 

[StillFaggyAF]

I'm still trippin off niggas caping for ho behavior...

Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?

If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.

The problem niggas like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.

I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....

@du du already answered tho

When?

when he was talking about how women find male promiscuity attractive

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

I'm still trippin off niggas caping for ho behavior...

Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?

If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.

The problem niggas like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.

I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....

@du du already answered tho

When?

when he was talking about how women find male promiscuity attractive

The kicker is Men do too but a lot (most) don't want everybody to know she's wild, let alone anybody else we know "experience" HER personally. I mean Porno Sluts, Strippers, & Craigslist gurls get wifed everyday - before, during, & after their occupation. Not all but most. It's just that sometimes or (nowadays supposedly) a lot of times things don't work out.

Niggaz will be quick to wife up a Jazmine Cashmere if she has potential and reasonable compatibility with himself. Just like niggaz will be quick to cop that new Jadakiss record with that openly gay MC on there as long as its "Real Hip Hop". Atleast try to like it just becuz it's Jada.

I don't know if y'all know this but people are full of shit. Not just on the internet but in real life too.

I think Kai hit this on the head. What people don't realize is that women who have self respect and may come off as prudes are never that way behind closed doors. They just aren't easy.

 

[taeboo]

Let me just say yes women want a man that other women find attractive, but most women do not want a man who is willing to dip his dick into anything that cocks open her legs.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Let me just say yes women want a man that other women find attractive, but most women do not want a man who is willing to dip his dick into anything that cocks open her legs.

There is nothing wrong with the first point. But promiscuity and attractiveness do not have to go hand in hand. Its about self control.

 

[aneed123]

Naiveness oh I want the nigga every girl wants but oh I hope he ain't fuckin? Retarded logic

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Naiveness oh I want the nigga every girl wants but oh I hope he ain't fuckin? Retarded logic

it sounds like u assumethay a dude that a lot of women want automatically is smashing a lot of women...that's not always the case bruh...

 

[blakfyahking]

I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females

Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...

It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate

This is my point...

there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...

Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?

I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that

Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc

Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed

when was this?

Name a time?

Well back when Christianity first shaped america

Male, female promiscuity was shameful...at least it was publicly shamed

Even back in my grandmas day men and women who got around weren't considered marriage material

oh?

you mean back when it was morally cool to have slaves and kill native americans?

and let's not talk about those ethical slavemasters who cheated on their pure wives with house slaves haha

keep it real "papa was a rolling stone" isn't some recent shit that popped up in the last 100yrs

family men kept sidepieces since the beginning of civilization...we all know this

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females

Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...

It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate

This is my point...

there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...

Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?

I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that

Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc

Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed

when was this?

Name a time?

Well back when Christianity first shaped america

Male, female promiscuity was shameful...at least it was publicly shamed

Even back in my grandmas day men and women who got around weren't considered marriage material

oh?

you mean back when it was morally cool to have slaves and kill native americans?

and let's not talk about those ethical slavemasters who cheated on their pure wives with house slaves haha

keep it real "papa was a rolling stone" isn't some recent shit that popped up in the last 100yrs

family men kept sidepieces since the beginning of civilization...we all know this

The whole argument about slavery being biblical is taken out of context. Attributing the brutality of slavery to Christianity is similar to sating all Muslims are terrorists. Biblical "slavery" wasindentured servitude.

 

[desertrain10]

I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females

Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...

It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate

This is my point...

there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...

Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?

I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that

Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc

Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed

when was this?

Name a time?

Well back when Christianity first shaped america

Male, female promiscuity was shameful...at least it was publicly shamed

Even back in my grandmas day men and women who got around weren't considered marriage material

oh?

you mean back when it was morally cool to have slaves and kill native americans?

and let's not talk about those ethical slavemasters who cheated on their pure wives with house slaves haha

keep it real "papa was a rolling stone" isn't some recent shit that popped up in the last 100yrs

family men kept sidepieces since the beginning of civilization...we all know this

Lol @ you bringing slavery into the discussion... yes the slave masters who practiced christianity were hypocrits, morally corrupt doesn't make anything I've said less true

You asked when was there a time men were shamed for being promiscuous...I gave you one

And just because adultery, promiscuity has always been around doesn't mean it was always accepted pratices, publicly embraced, encouraged like now....even amongst men

Politicians today are still expected to be god fearing, family men...that's the ideal...anyone who deviates from this ideal is heavily scrutinized

So don't act like I just making shit up

What happens behind closed doors is a diff story, but traditionally america has been a very sexually prudent country...really things didnt start changing until the 60s

 

[desertrain10]

Personally I don't care what strange men and women who are of age do with their genitals...just worried about the youth growing up in such a hyper sexualized society

 

[BEAM]

No one's caping foe hoes, just clarifying that men can be and are hoes too.

All that "Males are biologically more prone to rampant promiscuity" bullshyt is a desperate attempt to justify immoral double standards; Women want to engage in sexual activities just as much as men do (FACT), they're just encouraged not to from an early age. In today's modern society, clinging so dearly to such primitive behavior and childish denial, is evidence of nothing more than men wanting to have their cake and eat it too.

 

[FourEfil]

Let me just say yes women want a man that other women find attractive, but most women do not want a man who is willing to dip his dick into anything that cocks open her legs.

A rep with High quality looking girls (means you have standards) -> All the girls (a rep for fucking anything)

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

No one's caping foe hoes, just clarifying that men can be and are hoes too.

All that "Males are biologically more prone to rampant promiscuity" bullshyt is a desperate attempt to justify immoral double standards; Women want to engage in sexual activities just as much as men do (FACT), they're just encouraged not to from an early age. In today's modern society, clinging so dearly to such primitive behavior and childish denial, is evidence of nothing more than men wanting to have their cake and eat it too.

U feel me?

Some of us realize that tho. And now they tryna call me a simp for pointing it out lol. Not once did I excuse hoe antics from either sex. I was just saying there is a time and place for such behavior.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

Bump

 

[xxCivicxx]

No one's caping foe hoes, just clarifying that men can be and are hoes too.

All that "Males are biologically more prone to rampant promiscuity" bullshyt is a desperate attempt to justify immoral double standards; Women want to engage in sexual activities just as much as men do (FACT), they're just encouraged not to from an early age. In today's modern society, clinging so dearly to such primitive behavior and childish denial, is evidence of nothing more than men wanting to have their cake and eat it too.

All of your posts are dripping with estrogen. Men want to invest in a stable loyal woman. The more partners a woman has the more likely she has some dude in her past that she's still bonded to that she will fuck you over for at the drop of a hat. The more partners a woman has the less likely she will be loyal to you in the first place. This is how most cuckhold situations are created. As a man you might not even be supporting your own kids

No matter what you think or how you feel, it does take more effort for a man to amass sexual partners than it does for a woman. Literally for every female in existence there is a man willing to fuck her. That is not at all the case for men. Most women don't wanna fuck around anyway. They do it because they see men do it and they follow because they think it will give them self esteem because they're insecure about themselves. Idk why this is so hard for people to understand

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

I dont think this issue should be whether women like to fuck just as much as man or not....because they do....no doubt about that...

It should be that we as a society are holding dear to the promiscuous men are acceptable and promiscuous women are looks down upon. It should be that promiscuity of all forms should not be promoted as acceptable. Now, that's not to say that sexual acts are bad...but it should be done responsibly the confides of a committed relationship.

 

[BEAM]

All of your posts are dripping with estrogen. Men want to invest in a stable loyal woman. The more partners a woman has the more likely she has some dude in her past that she's still bonded to that she will fuck you over for at the drop of a hat. The more partners a woman has the less likely she will be loyal to you in the first place. This is how most cuckhold situations are created. As a man you might not even be supporting your own kids

No matter what you think or how you feel, it does take more effort for a man to amass sexual partners than it does for a woman. Literally for every female in existence there is a man willing to fuck her. That is not at all the case for men. Most women don't wanna fuck around anyway. They do it because they see men do it and they follow because they think it will give them self esteem because they're insecure about themselves. Idk why this is so hard for people to understand

The same is true for niggas with vibrant sexual histories; And since when did difficulty (or emotional despondency, ftm) pardon recklessness? No doubt this "Fuck til I Find the Right One" mentality is very man-made, quite literally.

No matter what you think or how you feel, it's primitive, childish, and has ZERO factual support. Women have just as strong a libido as men, and they're just as curious. It's simply discouraged, harshly and relentlessly, while ours is fiercely encouraged. So even with as emotionally driven as you've claimed my position to be, men seem to be the ones caught in their feelings the most.

~ "Oh My God, She Fucked Other People?! She's lived a life and had relationships that predate Me? That the Fuck?! How Could This Happen?!"

I mean really, imagine meeting your equal ~ A femme who is gon look you DEAD in your face and be like, "Yeah, I've fvcked a ton of people, but now that I've found you, all that shyt is behind me, detached and distant."

It's no less ridiculous when dudes try to claim the same shyt, but we try to attach some sick social justification to it, so shorty has to just be okay with the shyt; Because hey, "Women can be whores, but Men can't; Because Men said so."

FOH, nigga.

 

[7figz]

Anyone?

Name positive outcomes of promiscuous sex except self gratification?

Sex is all about gratification unless you're tryin' to make babies.