The rising counterculture of being an adult without kids.

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Malcolm Xtra;6124308 said:
Bruh u kno how selfish that sounds??

Bringing kids into the world to fulfill your personal needs and life desires is selfish as fuck.

Huh? Why do you have kids, if not to start a family? I don't see it.

On the grand scheme of things, it's very unselfish. You're spending 20+ years of your life and resources to make sure your kid gets fully situated. You're giving your wife the family she always wanted. You're giving your parents that grand-kid they always wanted. You're expanding the lineage of your family tree etc.
 
Oh I see what's going on here. These dudes slipped up and got some girl pregnant at the wrong time, so now they're in their feelings about having kids.

... SMH Man up niggas. And fucking random bitches is not what's poppin'. It gets old quick and it's risky as fuck.
 
NothingButTheTruth;6124514 said:
Oh I see what's going on here. These dudes slipped up and got some girl pregnant at the wrong time, so now they're in their feelings about having kids.

... SMH Man up niggas. And fucking random bitches is not what's poppin'. It gets old quick and it's risky as fuck.

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When I was a kid growing up I wanted a fine ass wife with beautiful kids...

Now I just want to be single and worry about myself as long as I can without having to share anything....

Yes I'm selfish but I'm selfish in a good way......
 
I still don't get people getting upset at those who don't want kids. Da fuck you trying to push your lives onto other people for?
 
Now that i have a kid i realize just how much easier life would be. Like being able to work any shift and not have to worry about childcare or being able to work like 3 jobs just stacking paper. But on the other hand having a kid made me grow up. I used to get a job and if i didn't like it i would just say fuck this, i dont need this shit.. and quit. I also bullshitted in school. Now im more determined and its all for him really. People without kids should definitely take advantage of their youth and just grind hard.
 
FOH w/ this selfishness talk. Niggas bringing a life into the world that ain't asking to be here, simply because they LONELY, or feeling peer pressure from friends, or they think a baby is a cute toy, or they wanna get all this praise for "being a parent"??? Like damn, I may be selfish for not wanting to spend money on kids, but really, which form of selfishness is worse, you tell me.

tbh my biggest problem isn't even w/ THE KIDS........its with THE MOTHER.....

shit ties you to that chick F-O-R-E-V-E-R and i ain't just talkin' child support either. Certain people can straight-up be a toxic presence in your life. The idea of not being able to escape that terrifies me.

 
+Nothing wrong with having kids if you and the other person on the same page about that and how money is being spent.

-People saying "I want to have another part of me". Yea like we need more pieces of shit like you.

-Misery loves company when they're a single parent so they want to see others in their struggle.
 
I'm 35 and have no kids, and I'm cool on not having any. It's not for me.

What I can't stand is when some women and men say they have no regrets as to having children when the kids weren't planned. It's even worse when they have kids without thinking of the environment the child will be placed in.
 
black caesar;6128539 said:
I'm 35 and have no kids, and I'm cool on not having any. It's not for me.

What I can't stand is when some women and men say they have no regrets as to having children when the kids weren't planned. It's even worse when they have kids without thinking of the environment the child will be placed in.

black caesar;6128539 said:
I'm 35 and have no kids, and I'm cool on not having any. It's not for me.

What I can't stand is when some women and men say they have no regrets as to having children when the kids weren't planned. It's even worse when they have kids without thinking of the environment the child will be placed in.[/quote]

I remember I was on FB one day & this chick put up a picture of her kid & some more lil kids, throwing up 4th avenue signs. The same hood the mother herself grew up in smh. Then I seen another picture of another chick, she posted a picture of her lil girl (look like about 5-6) throwing up a misleading finger then she captions "this what my lil girl think about y'all). All her friends was like "take this down" "you are wrong" etc etc. Then the mother commented back "what? What's wrong with the picture? Y'all act like I got her almost butt naked or something " smmfgdh.

I remember I seen this fool put a picture up of his lil boy wearing a yellow bandana around his mouth then he caption "he just like his father".....like why would you want your kids to have the negative sides of yourself & why tf would you want your kids growing up in the same hood & poverty you grew up in
 

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