The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands (Article inside)

[VulcanRaven]

So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

That's interesting af to me.

Once that starts to go the foundation of everything else goes. Men and women and the mysteries of each other are a key factor to learning and growing as a society

Yea im on the fence about this right here.

When marriages were traditional ppl were still unhappy af. They just avoided divorce out of shame or guilt or "stay together for the kids" etc.

At the same time if everyone is only shacking up and having kids; no real accountability bc no marriages...cant see that being good for society as a whole the same way a healthy home/family upbringing should be.

That does not equal a happy hope though. Abuse and problems happen when people are couples. Marriage creates more problems and make it hard to leave.

 

[5 Grand]

I don't think traditional marriages ever worked in the first place. You had shows like Leave It To Beaver or The Cosby Show that showed traditional families with a husband, wife and kids. But I'd be willing to bet that real marriages were nothing like what you saw on TV.

I think now alternative lifestyles aren't necessarily more common, but you hear about them more often.

In other words, I don't think homosexuality and transgenderism is a new thing. I think its always been around but its getting more attention in the media.

As far as women cheating on their husbands, the divorce rate is 50% so what do you expect?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

If you don't know how to keep her guessing even after living with her then don't marry her. Not that hard. All women want is spontaneity and someone they can't walk over.

Stop spoiling and make em work after marriage. Give em something to do and think about. They just don't want boredom and monotony. Just like us (men). Live dammit. Especially if married.

i will say the opposite to this.....for the most part i spoil the shit outta my wife. so that aint the problem...the problem is since she knows what i will do for a chick i love...would she be willing to allow another woman to have that.

but living....yes......

 

[2stepz_ahead]

So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

That's interesting af to me.

we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

case an point.

i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Massa done tricked you good.

SMH.

Didnt read but the last sentence caught my eye.

The irony of a religious zealot telling somebody else massa tricked them

 

[2stepz_ahead]

as far as the op

them women is some smuts.

they dont have that chick telling them what marriage is really like...they only sell the fantasy or having a good life.

fellas, keep it 100.

how many times have your homies told you to not get married? an if you still want to think about it...they tried to tell you how hard it was? what goes into it.

do ladies have this same talk? no...they have the checkbox. then them same chicks trynna get ya chick to shake it at the club cause a nigga missed the electric bill.

the problem with all this is entitlement and reality tv, social media...so many things. also the weak minded nature of the person.

hoes are being promoted. how you gonna tell a chick to not be like amber, if amber got her bills paid an get a millie for being married least than 2 years?

how many chicks really think they DONT deserve a life of abundance?

how many chick dont think they pussy can call the shots?

how many chicks place their worth in they pussy or just their company?

all this shit can be fixed with stronger black men taking over the community and directing shit like it should.

it all starts with us men

 

[2stepz_ahead]

now who want these hands?

 

[DoUwant2go2Heaven]

Massa done tricked you good.

SMH.

Didnt read but the last sentence caught my eye.

The irony of a religious zealot telling somebody else massa tricked them

Massa crackin the whip. Laugh the truth away! It's all a game! Just Keep on going down the broad road! Enter in at the wide gate!

SMH

 

[Broddie]

If you don't know how to keep her guessing even after living with her then don't marry her. Not that hard. All women want is spontaneity and someone they can't walk over.

Stop spoiling and make em work after marriage. Give em something to do and think about. They just don't want boredom and monotony. Just like us (men). Live dammit. Especially if married.

i will say the opposite to this.....for the most part i spoil the shit outta my wife. so that aint the problem...the problem is since she knows what i will do for a chick i love...would she be willing to allow another woman to have that.

but living....yes......

Dog that's my point. You have to leave the possibility of that thought even entering their mind. Most people only do what's right when they feel that their position is threatened. Human nature.

 

[Ajackson17]

Massa done tricked you good.

SMH.

Didnt read but the last sentence caught my eye.

The irony of a religious zealot telling somebody else massa tricked them

I know right lmao. The irony in his comments.

 

[blackgod813]

Bibical atheist didnt even read the article

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

That's interesting af to me.

Wow... joli... well said

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

That's interesting af to me.

we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

case an point.

i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

Excellent bruh

 

[LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY]

as far as the op

them women is some smuts.

they dont have that chick telling them what marriage is really like...they only sell the fantasy or having a good life.

fellas, keep it 100.

how many times have your homies told you to not get married? an if you still want to think about it...they tried to tell you how hard it was? what goes into it.

do ladies have this same talk? no...they have the checkbox. then them same chicks trynna get ya chick to shake it at the club cause a nigga missed the electric bill.

the problem with all this is entitlement and reality tv, social media...so many things. also the weak minded nature of the person.

hoes are being promoted. how you gonna tell a chick to not be like amber, if amber got her bills paid an get a millie for being married least than 2 years?

how many chicks really think they DONT deserve a life of abundance?

how many chick dont think they pussy can call the shots?

how many chicks place their worth in they pussy or just their company?

all this shit can be fixed with stronger black men taking over the community and directing shit like it should.

it all starts with us men

Simps

And

Disney type women

And

Neo Feminism

Kill the game of TRUST, COLLECTIVITY, FAMILLY, REAL HAPPYNESS, WEALTH GATHERING AND TRANSMITTING.

I have said it for years, WE ARE LIVING IN A SOCIETY OF PLEASURE AKA CHILDISH ENVIRONMENT.

Mature men and women cannot thrive together in that environment.

But the counterreaction regarding our sad sad DISNEY WORLD is already happening:

- MGTOW

- RED PILL WOMEN

- HERBIVORES

Another society is slowly rising above the soon to be remnants of the consumerist, culturless, knowledgless and egoistic one we are living in.

Sick and tired about that bullshit. You got mothers like @kat cosigning a parent handing his young daughter to Nelly a rated R artist so that uneducated idiot can act seductive on her.

Im sure that if he wasnt a star he wouldnt let her in that situation. But this one out of millions example of the poison of materialism and human being deification based on the car they drive or the fame they got.

We need to step back to shoot better threes and not stmettle for lay-ups AS A SOCIETY.

 

[Max.]

I think people do anal too early in relationships and after that theres just nothing to look forward to. anal should not be allowed until atleast year 5 of marriage.

Well if ur girl on period u can get head

But sometimes u just wana bust her butthole wide open

 

[Kat]

If you dont get the fuck off me, you sound moronic.

I'd hand my daughter over to Nelly before your sexually deviant ass.

Love how we condemn others without the facts but it's so simple for us to justify our own questionable behavior..foh Frenchie.

 

[playmaker88]

In before niggas take this as the gospel because.. niggas

the fact is no one wants to be held to account.. they have expecations of others that they themselves wont fulfill. the lowering of standards/narrow mindedness so on and so forth has urged this on.. We are in a microwave society

if this article hits facebook its over.. nuke everything

:lol:

 

[2stepz_ahead]

In before niggas take this as the gospel because.. niggas

the fact is no one wants to be held to account.. they have expecations of others that they themselves wont fulfill. the lowering of standards/narrow mindedness so on and so forth has urged this on.. We are in a microwave society



if this article hits facebook its over.. nuke everything

:lol:

the bolded sums it up.

no one wants to work for shit...if its not here now. fukk you.

why should we have to take a step back....shit i can leave an do better...fukk you

but when shit going good.

i been thinking about us moving in together.

smdh

 

[atribecalledgabi]

So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

That's interesting af to me.

we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

case an point.

i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol

Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...

Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.

Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.

There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility.

 

[Broddie]

So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.

I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.

That's interesting af to me.

we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.

case an point.

i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.

now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.

the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.

look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.

how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.

Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol

Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...

Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.

Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.

There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility.

100% especially the bold.